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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 04:27 AM
  
Thank you for the words of encouragement 
To be honest when it comes to physical appearances I'm a bit too picky. I always vision how I want my man to look, and if expectations aren't met I can't seem to bring myself to date that person.I must say that D was the IDEAL looking man in my eyes. It's funny because it sounds so shallow, but I also genuinely like him a lot. Quick question, what astrological sign will my husband possibly be? IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 04:31 AM
I really don't know but I hope he's got Virgo with a lot of libra In him.I understand where you're coming from I too am in the same exact way. so if you get someone with that combination you know they would take really good care of themselves but also have a lot of attractive features 
QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
Thank you for the words of encouragement
To be honest when it comes to physical appearances I'm a bit too picky. I always vision how I want my man to look, and if expectations aren't met I can't seem to bring myself to date that person.
I must say that D was the IDEAL looking man in my eyes. It's funny because it sounds so shallow, but I also genuinely like him a lot. Quick question, what astrological sign will my husband possibly be?[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 04:43 AM
I'm glad that I met someone who relates
Again, for you I'm getting someone who has Fiery features, light hair, light eyes, possibly a bit show iffy and a jokester.
Thanks again for the readings hopefully we can continue helping each other out in the future. For now goodnight IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 04:48 AM
Totally!!
Goodnight! quote:
Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm glad that I met someone who relates
Again, for you I'm getting someone who has Fiery features, light hair, light eyes, possibly a bit show iffy and a jokester.
Thanks again for the readings hopefully we can continue helping each other out in the future. For now goodnight
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 07:17 PM
Hello Cherful, how are you?
have any questions today?I just have one more question about D, knowing that if we dated he would of carried some anger.
Did you mean that I would have upset during our relationship? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 07:27 PM
Actually I do even though I said I was done.in the other thread you said he sometimes fantasizes about me as a soulmate. even when the times get tough for them why isn't he making this fantasy happen. it makes me feel better knowing that i wasn't used at all so I was like what did I not do to make him want to make this fantasy a reality. what I meant by that ...abd what I meant by it wouldn't have been fun is that, is he has a bit of hostile energy. you could have done things to trigger it , but really he gets upset easily. also I find that you have a lot of masculine energy into him I could be read wrong more of a combative energy... so adventually with him kind of having a little lower all over happiness in life it would have caused some friction. that's why it was really a blessing in disguise because it wouldn't have been the relationship to give all your other relationships something positive you compare to. QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
Hello Cherful, have any questions today? I just have one more question about [b]D, knowing that if we dated he would of carried some anger.
Did you mean that I would have upset during our relationship? [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 07:50 PM
This guy has a pretty good intuition that you would not put up with his ill behavior as much as his wife does. Therefore, between the two of you she seemed like the safer choice. Personally, I don't think he understands what love truly is...again, maybe it reverts back to his childhood. Relationships are more like a desperation not to be alone. Let's admit, if he genuinely loved either of you he would not cheat. When you love someone they are the only person you see. That isn't to say he doesn't have strong feelings for you, he just hasn't evolved within himself to know what true love really is. Oh, with D that makes sense.. I did feel a bit sexually aggressively towards him lol.
Idk, if it could be possible, but the guy you described as my husband somewhat reminds me of someone I already know. So my question is, do I already know my future husband? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:10 PM
it could be because I thought that you met him either from your home town or that someone you know already who will make the connection between you two and he is from their hometownIP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 08:13 PM
to be honest at this point I would prefer to be married and if that means the connection is an all the way there so what..... because having someone is better than not having anyone. but I always play my cards right and I don't do stuff like that and he is married another ex is. Everybody's going to get married even though it might not be twith the actual chosen person..... they all just sucked it up and married them anyways because they don't choose to be alone So, I just don't understand why some guy that I'm 90 percent compatible with doesn't come along and marries me like why the f*** do I have to wait and wait and wait. I just feel like why the f*** am i suffering IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 08:46 PM
Would it be worth getting married if that someone was abusive to you? To me Love is more powerful than marriage, Just because a man is your husband doesn't mean they're going to stick around. With True love, you never feel alone because that person Wants to be with you marriage doesn't make a person less lonelyIf it is truly meant to be with this guy, it will be. Yeah every great relationship doesn't start with as a Fairytales, but I don't have to read the cards to tell you that you deserve way better IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 09:09 PM
TotallyI' dont wait 3 more years to be with someone who wants to be with me that gets me sad IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 09:32 PM
I know how you feel..
Do you have libra venus 7H? If so I do too! The placement that makes us fall in love with love :3
I asked how you can move on from this guy. It's time to retreat to meditation and mental growth. Devote your time to gaining knowledge on practical matters that will help you to evolve in the person you want to be. Continuing this affair will mostly lead to dishonor.I'm feeling so embarrassed now  I found out that a mutual friend of me and D has apparently been gossiping about me. Can you give me any inkling of what they might of been saying about me? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 09:58 PM
Yep I have that too!!... do you not have a lot of friends that are girls? first Off If someone is gossiping about you I feel that it's more of a guy.... like one of his friends. ... I get more of a sense that it was laughter. so it's not necessarily talking about you or bad about you behind your back. ... it was more the laughter of uncomfortableness that has to do with your approach being strong and straightforward. a lot of people are used to the traditional approaches of women and men and again because you've got that fierce strong attitude it rubbed people off in an uncomfortable way.... so I don't really see this being a case of my gosh that was gossiping about you , there are people talking about you Exedra.... it was more of something that happened in passing and after that it was nothing else IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 10:14 PM
Yes our mutual friend is a guy
Ah, so humiliated right now...but it is pretty funny I must admit lol Esp. since he's like 6'1 and I'm 5'3 XD
Oh well, can't blame a girl for trying. anything else I can answer for you? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 01, 2014 11:00 PM
don't be embarrassed because again it's not like there wasn't an interest. even though we live in different times while women are supposed to be more assertive... it's really a double standard and a catch 22. and the guy who was laughing doesn't have any issue with you it so its not like you should be embarrassed because you think you're being made fun of it was just a moment that he might have said something because again for him its out of the norm of what a girl would do.... but really it's not something to where he brought up over n over.I don't know If I already asked you about this but so I have an interview on Monday in Chicago I just left Chicago and moved in with my brother in st. Louis. so If i don't get the job in Chicago obviously I'm still going to be applying for places in st. Louis and Chicago but staying with my brother what does it say anything about which direction I will end up in... Saint Louis or Chicago... and I know you did one for me about getting a job you have a better time frame of when or In industry QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
Yes our mutual friend is a guy
Ah, so humiliated right now...but it is pretty funny I must admit lol Esp. since he's like 6'1 and I'm 5'3 XD
Oh well, can't blame a girl for trying. anything else I can answer for you? [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 01, 2014 11:34 PM
Thank you, that makes me feel a lot better. Just knowing that he was attracted to me is more than I can ask for :3 It seems like there could be some tension if you stay in St. Louis. I'm assuming if you get a job there you will gain some bad associates or something.
Chicago looks more promising. However, you could experience at change in emotions from one extreme to the other. Like everything can be going great one moment and bad the next. Focus yourself on one task at a time, and things should turn out well. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 2821
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 02, 2014 12:02 AM
...hmm...I really don't know.... its several years away and I don't really see farther than a year when picking up other people's energy, sorry IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4520
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 02, 2014 12:08 AM
It's okay I'm just being too noisy now that I know I actually might get married, just never thought it would happen to be honest lol
I'm grateful for all your readings :]IP: Logged |
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