posted August 01, 2014 02:26 AM            

First card I pulled. The Star (reserved) - at that time, he couldn't make up his mind which of you he genuinely wanted to be with. Perhaps his relationship with her seemed hopeless. Like I said before, he sees you as a foundation for healing and spiritual enlightenment. With that in mind he still has a lot more dedication to her, and will hold on to the relationship as long as possible.

posted August 01, 2014 02:41 AM            

he was cheating on her with me not knowing, I had no idea about her.... does he feel any type of way more for what he did to me? ..... I don't see where the whole Scorpio card comes in to how much we learned together, it just seems that he used me. I mean he got married and kept trying to have an affair with me.... thus i feel like an idiot, so I see where I learned my lesson from him!

posted August 01, 2014 02:46 AM            

and she seems like a ***** to because I told her her husband was having an affair I let her know things of her that I found that she would know that I'm not lying and yet she f***** tried to say that I was a horrible person

posted August 01, 2014 02:51 AM            

first off I believe he was telling you the truth because he does seem attracted by you. the discomfort of possibly being around your parents everyday walking in the halls or whatever and you and him not work out...that was too much distress for him... so that was kind of the conclusion.

really he meant no harm and definitely don't take it as rejection because he was quite interested and there was attraction to you.

and of course he's a guy so when I say this think of it from a guys perspective... He didn't really know you... like getting inside your brain and seeing how you work, so he doesn't really sit and ponder or think about you.... so definitely move on but again I stress the importance of u not feeling bad at all about this, or yourself.

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm trying to get over a guy myself, never felt such intense emotions for someone. Long story short, me and [b]D use to work in the same building, and before I knew it I fell hard for him. One day, I finally got the guts to ask him to the movies. At first he seemed interested, and then he became distant. When I finally confronted him, he admitted that after knowing my parents for so long (both my parents use to work in the same building too.) that it would be weird for him to date there daughter. I was heartbroken. I never wanted to commit myself to anyone so bad.
How does Dfeel about me? Should I move on from him?[/B]

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posted August 01, 2014 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
what does he think I feel or think about him ( and this whole thing) now?

he was cheating on her with me not knowing, I had no idea about her.... does he feel any type of way more for what he did to me? ..... I don't see where the whole Scorpio card comes in to how much we learned together, it just seems that he used me. I mean he got married and kept trying to have an affair with me.... thus i feel like an idiot, so I see where I learned my lesson from him!

I'm angry because he seemed to walk away without any repercussions.... yet I'm the one that's still hurting

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posted August 01, 2014 03:01 AM            

and why I love her why doesn't he want to seriously just like run away with me?? I know that is such not a good question to ask

I get that they are old family friends and I get she got wealth and connections and now she has a child with him so I can see why he's more dedicated to her..... but why stay with her if he's looking elsewhere??

and why after everything me n him have been through is he still making his presence in his life and known to me... he knows I sent his wife an email about his behavior.
Aghhhhhh!!!! honestly I have no idea why it kills me that he's with her but it does.

I'm sorry to say this but its like I do want to cheat with him just so he can f*** them up even more.

I saw him a month ago. I never told anybody and I never asked anyone about it. inside CVS and he saw me and I felt someone staring at me and I turn around and look at it him and we just stared at each other for a good 15 seconds until I walked away.

I have gotten a couple of phone calls that I would answer but no one would say anything on the other line but one of them specifically said block call.... I just know that it was either him or her.

posted August 01, 2014 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I asked what relationship it might have if guys kept seeing each other. Nine of Pents (reserved) - instability, lack of trust, and insecurity. Now that you know of his cheating ways you will never feel comfortable with the fact the he will sleep around on you like he's done to his wife. Definitely not worth the heartache.

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posted August 01, 2014 03:09 AM            

right now where is he head, where is his life direction headed, how will he be in life

.... and then can I answer same questions for me as well??

posted August 01, 2014 03:27 AM            

how is that going to go and what direction is that going to go Exedra

posted August 01, 2014 03:33 AM            

I think he would have liked you a lot but he would have stopped himself from really going deep and I just think that's because he's a guy and he is not in that territory as being of male dating Pro.... these would be newer feelings to him . Again cause he's doesnt got a lot of experience with long or strong relationship.

I almost get a better sense that this was more of a good thing that it didn't happen because for you to have good positive experiences with relationship you need someone that had some good strong relationship!

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
To be honest, I'm still trying to get over [b]D, though I completely understand the situation and accept moving on from him with no hard feelings.

However, I'm curious, what would it have been like if we ended up having a relationship? [/B]

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posted August 01, 2014 03:38 AM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
Be careful, it's says that having anger from this whole relationship may cause you to unintentionally slash out on the undeserving. Maybe someone you intend to have a relationship with in the future will become a scapegoat from what you've went through with this man and his wife.[/QUOTE]

posted August 01, 2014 03:46 AM            

the anger stems from him not seeming to get any repercussions... of course I never really got answers so I never got closure.g. Thus I am always left hurting

in my perfect world I would hope that he becomes so unhappy with his life his marriage and very unhappy disappointed with his wife especially in the looks department because this is quite shocking to me that he chose the one that looks like that and yet to me who made fun of obese people.... just don't f****** get it. he lived two different worlds... I feel like I'm the Barbie that he was playing with a guy with his toy... getting his kicks getting his enjoyment lovin the whole look of it all

QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
It says that his wife is conflicted within herself. Only a woman with low standards will accept the behavior of a man that cheats on her. For one reason another she is burdened by her past, and feels like the world is against her.

Edit: no worries, I'm glad to help
Right now he's trying to make some sacrifices in his life for the better, however, that won't fully be accomplished until he experiences some karma for his past choices, at that point in time he will finally be humbled and capable of making better decisions in his life. [/QUOTE]

posted August 01, 2014 04:08 AM            

but what's more important is you and you have to allow yourself to give open signals to men that are interested in you because I see that being blocked by you.... there really is no reason why you're not with someone right now...ur not 400 pound your not ugly or anything like that I see a lot of interest for you. so you to have to get comfortable with yourself!

displaying too much masculine energy is not the same thing as being a free spirit......

QUOTE]Originally posted by Moonfish:
Oh wow, so for the most part D would have "loved" me I'm glad to hear that. So despite his lonely lifestyle, will he ever find someone?... A guy like him deserves to be loved

The only thing I'm picking up right now is that the relationship may get so bad with his wife, she will constantly threat to leave him in order to get him to obey her demands. After a while she might come to her senses of how much of a cheater he is. But despite that I still think there going to try to make it work.
I don't blame you one bit, no one should be treated like that especially when it involves love. Believe me karma is coming his way.
Your welcome! I want to thank you as well, you've helped me in more ways than ever[/QUOTE]