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Topic: Needing guidance
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jenny415
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From: Denver
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 04:19 PM
  
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CatMote
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From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 05:07 PM
first off. youre a beautiful person and i can sense you have a beautiful soul.
its kind of messed up, but sometimes you have to hold in some love for yourself. not everybody will give it back and i too had to learn that the hard way. im right there with you, another year gone by and still the same story. same failures, same attempts at getting out but i keep finding ways to thwart myself. maybe youre doing it subconsciously or maybe not.
sometimes i feel some people are put in this earth to give until it hurts. and im still trying to figure out why that is.
id like your picture if i followed you! lol
if you feel like it, you can follow my instagram @ctracer ------------------
"Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: Denver
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 05:29 PM
Oh thank yu catmote. I am not going to use it anymorebut if so I add yu. Am sorry yu r going through the same struggle. I agree some people must have to live like this but it is too much. Thanks for such kind words.IP: Logged |
Astro keen
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From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 06:27 PM
Hi Jenny,Could I say that you are trying too hard. Ironically, people sense that and it puts them off. So, what's the answer to this conundrum? Well, it can only be to love yourself first. This means getting involved in activities and interests that you enjoy and which develop your talents and skills. This could include volunteering for charities. Enjoy discovering how good you are at various things, and once that begins to happen, your need for others will become less urgent, even distant. It is then that you'll find people will seek your attention and be attracted to you. To help you along this path, take good care of yourself. Adorn yourself with nice clothes and hairstyling, exercise etc. So believe that you are fantastic, discover that you are and treat yourself accordingly  . IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 28, 2014 07:19 PM
This is going to sound really sad, but... How many people follow you on instagram?I have 107 followers.
The max number of likes I received on a pic of myself? 41 (less than 50% of my followers). The least? 15. My graduation cake got 2 more likes than my face did - the bloody cheek! My point is, try not to link the likes to your worth as a person. Forget other people liking you for the minute, you need to like you first and foremost. When you do, a lack of Instagram likes will not phase you. Start working on your confidence in ways that make you happy and as previously said, the love that you find will translate. Here's a quote for you: 'if you live off a man’s compliments you'll die from his criticism' Start with you, the rest will follow.
[I realise that I need to also practice what I preach, so don't worry, you are not alone in the journey to self love] IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 481
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 07:58 PM
It was (and still is) a big lesson for me not to give away all my love and myself. I used to be dependent on others and live with so much expectations.It's such a cliché, but true - others will treat you exactly the way you treat yourself. The outside world is a great mirror. Don't blame and beat up, but be kind to yourself. Rather treat yourself how you'd like to be treated - this can only come from self-love first. Sending love to you :3  IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: Denver
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 08:50 PM
Thank you all for your support... I actually am not a needy or dependent person though really. But, after a while being alone does take its toll even though I am happily independent. Like holidays, etc. I am not one of those selfie takers who puts tons up I only put that one. But I understand what you all are saying.i get talked about often by people who don't know me- this always since I was little. Most recently a girl posted picture online that compared me to Charles Manson.she said explain why she's still single n he's not. But to me that just says more about her dependency on men to feel ok. I just don't get why people have it out for me. I haven chiron on the first. I hope I didn't sound baby like I always regret posting stuff on here. Sorry if I was innoying! But thanks again for the love.IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 2871
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 09:07 PM
Jenny,Chiron in the 1st people could be ones who have a transformative or healing effect on others. Do you sense this in any way? IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: Denver
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 12:50 AM
Hey, AstroKeen, yes I think I have this ability. But,it is as if my pain (from them)transforms them and then I am still left with it. But I think I heal strangers sometimes just by speaking with them or seeing people on the inside if that makes sense- seeing ther pain and expressing a face of understanding to them. IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 2871
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 29, 2014 01:47 AM
Jenny, Your should ask for a astrological reading in IA, to see how other placements might assist you. There was someone else discussing how Chiron in 1st expresses itself. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/001734.html I pulled an angel card for you and, Lo and Behold, got this:  "I am with you because I am the Archangel of Healing. I am helping you heal your own body, as well as the physical bodies of othes. I surround physical ailments with my healing energy of emerald green light, and this energy is absorbed where it is needed. I speak to healers through their thoughts and feelings. I help discern, in this way, if your life's purpose is to be a healer. I can help you to know which areas of healing to study, and then assist with all aspects of your healing career. Call upon me whenever you need such help, and know that I will be with you in an instant." I thought this was uncanny!! I pulled another card and got CRYSTAL, which says have faith and hope. There is something positive and new on the horizon that you can't yet see. IP: Logged |
jenny415
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: Denver
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 05:25 AM
Wow AstroKeen, thanks for those cards... and u went to that link you provided and that's very interesting correlation about 1st house chiron. I thank you a lot for ur thoughts and good wishes.IP: Logged |
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