posted March 28, 2015 07:26 PM            

I am really sorry to hear about the exploisons, I had no idea, I dont really watch TV so I am not intune to whats going on around the world. I am sick of watching news so I like to shut it out of my life.

posted March 28, 2015 07:47 PM            

Nothing lol ( again )
he hasnt been on wapp since thursday! since he asked to see, that was last he went on to that app
I did ask yesterday when he would like to, but like I said nothing yet.
Maybe going through what you are with the moon. I dont know.

posted March 28, 2015 08:09 PM            

I kept thinking he had no feelings, it was only sex so I dont know now what to think if she means so much to him ?

All I know from things I have heard is that her parents dont (obviously) aprove.
Maybe she sleeps over there too much I dont know honestly, obviously its the age thing.
But, he has a bad rap for some things, so this could be it?

Did you mean that her parents want them to stay together? that would be weird if they did ?
wouldnt they be glad if they arent togeter? or did I understand wrong?

ughh now I am sad I asked anything I feel worse

anyway

What I felt before I still do, its not comletley over with you two, this story did not end for good, the pause button is on.
I feel as though there had to come to pause, things got out of hand and there needs to come to a balance, of things said and how they are expressed and of emotions escalating too fast in both directions. It went from 0 to 50 too fast, and I feel the steps were not meant to go that fast and this is what caused friction.

I do feel there will be kind words at some point and trying to have a peace. There wont be a love reconciliation YET but there will be some coming of peace, peace offering and just letting go of negative energy.

I do feel like I have before that he has strong feelings for you which is also what gets him so antsy and crazy. He doesnt want to have these feelings he wished he didnt but only because it would have been easier, but he will come to terms with his feelings and finallya accept them.

posted March 28, 2015 08:27 PM            

I am going to pull advice from my love oracle deck.

The card is: Release
Right now, I feel like you are being advised to let go for at least the time being. Your guides want you to know that a renewal in matters of the heart is possible, but we must first let go of the things we hold too tightly of. Here is what the card says "A renewal will begin with a release. It's in letting go do we see what remains... what is truly yours. Sometimes in relationships, we may feel the need to hold on tightly to those we love whether the love is returned or not. This will lead to tension and unhappiness. Even in a good relationship, holding on too tightly doesn't allow the relationship to breathe, mature, and grow. Are you restricting someone or trying to attract someone through your will? Discard any need for control, and see how the relationship transforms. Watch how releasing the overwhelming need for a relationship allows the perfect one to appear. Shed any beliefs and behaviors that do not serve your highest good. Throughout life, we receive many mixed and often incorrect messages about how a relationship should work. Let go of any notions or expectations about you relationships or lack of them. By doing so, your current relationships can grow and flourish in a way that is best for everyone. This is also a card of possible endings. Are there relationships that you cling to that you are better off leaving? In letting go of a stagnant or difficult situation, you empower yourself, opening the way for new and rewarding relationships."

I feel like you are asking to just let it go for now. Don't try to control things and let things happen as they are meant. Let the relationship flow and try not to put too much effort if you do not see the same effort being put in.

posted March 28, 2015 08:32 PM            

No way a 19 year old girl would admit to her parents noooo way. She smokes and gets drunk with him, no way she would jeopradize this for her parents.
she wouldnt care enough to tell her parents.
if she confides in anyone its friends.

posted March 28, 2015 08:49 PM            

But her manipulating I can see this.
I know him, he would probably say ok fine yah whatever if her parents made any comment but I cannot see them making him depressed. He hates when someone tries to tell him what to do.

this is why I cannot see it. yes ofcourse anything is possible but I cannot see that her parents would have any influence over him.

posted March 28, 2015 08:54 PM            

But you know, "someone parents" telling him something, that would be a laughing matter to him. I could see him sitting with friends laughing about such thing, he would find it amusing.
like some highschool couple and someones dad saying they will hurt you and you find it funny.

a friend of his ( female) already had talks with him on this matter, him being too kind and good and staying with someone out of not wanting to hurt them.

posted March 28, 2015 09:26 PM            

this was a time I saw him last, they broke up for 353226 time that time. I think they even didnt talk for some time.

thank you for helping I know you are not the best yourself :/

I had this dream last night, me and him were running around holding hands!
and I saw in my dream him read my message to him and him repying to me, saying why he was busy, he said like he had to show people around or something like this, I am not sure.
and then I saw him write " Well, I am ( or I did ) breaking up with he"
but in the dream I didnt see the whole sentance, like it faded a bit but I saw "typing..." so he was in my dream still writing it out.

posted March 28, 2015 09:48 PM            

I guess I am allowed to have a break down here and there.

posted March 29, 2015 01:35 PM            

I know it might seem silly to some, but seeing he has not gone to whatsapp since thursday is strange to me. He is usually stuck to his phone and very social.
I am just curious, how has he spent his days?
is he again isolated from everyone?

posted March 29, 2015 01:56 PM            

I feel so stupid for all the enrgy I put into this, since his obvious choice is to take the easy way and stay in something he doesnt like.

Makes sense he has been sleeping alot too.

I dont think I want any of this any more, if his choice is to be with her, then he can enjoy his misery I've been stupid to think he would want to be happy.

thank you

posted March 29, 2015 02:04 PM            

I don't know why he's doing this. It makes no sense to me. I feel even worse that you are getting hurt in the process

posted March 29, 2015 02:12 PM            

You know, sometimes I think, maybe things are not as bad as they seem in my head. Maybe you pick up on my worries and then things seem even worse to you as I project my fears and worries.
I have seen this happen before with me.

Like you said before, they are not a real couple so a real ending like that wont really happen.
so I gotta stick with reality, just because something seems bad in y head doesnt mean he doesnt call her for sex and then tells her to go away.
She coudl also very much just end up at his door, I havent seen a man turn down sex before. And thats the manipulation she uses on him, the sex they have.