posted May 16, 2015 07:16 PM
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Originally posted by Chiemi:
I recently posted this in SPITR: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/002282.html And I was wondering if it was possible to get a reading of some sort on him? I don't know his name but I can give a description if needed.
Idk, it all just feels weird, and I'm not sure if I'm just overthinking or if he's just harmless.
Hi Chiemi,
I'm not sure if you're interested in an intuitive reading, but this resonated with me when I read it.
I think this guy doesn't mean any harm. He's a little slow-witted - not being mean or judgmental at all, it's just what I'm getting. He tends to toward a slightly obsessive nature, particularly with girls (I think that's how he thinks of them: as "girls", not women which has far less to do with any sort of misogyny than to clarify his state of development), but not in a sinister way. More lonely.
I do think it's important that you draw clear boundaries with him, but you can do it gently enough to maintain both his dignity and your sense of safety.
I really hope this helps and gives you a sense of empowerment in handling the situation.