posted May 19, 2015 09:40 PM            

We do get along well for the most part and yes I am a little frustrated by it..and also some indecision because I keep going back and forth about pros and cons of our whole "friends w benefits" relationship.

We spoke around 30 mins ago. He sent me a msg earlier this afternoon because he was excited that he got his car running (finally). So I told him I was happy for him and we small talked. Then I took a nap and woke up to another msg of his where he asked to come over. I told him no & why not..I said I didn't want the friends w benefits/or whatever it is that we have. He tried to joke around it and he tried doing like last few times where he tells me he'll still come over. I stuck to my guns this time and told him I wouldn't be opening the door for him if he did. So he just ended the conversation telling me he won't "bother me any longer".

So yes, that was that. I didn't bring up that I wanted a serious relationship with him, but at least I keep making myself clear that I no longer want to "just have sex" with him. I didn't tell him I have feelings for him, or anything of the likes..

Unfortunately no relationship was brought up and the setting was the Internet. Not sure why all the hearts and positive cards :/. Lol..I knew this would happen! Oh well. I will further update you when we talk again (he always bothers me still, haha..)

Thanks again for the read!

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Tarot Readings by Me

posted May 20, 2015 04:24 AM            

sorry to hear what happened. 8H can sometimes denote emotional unavailability but 10H as outcome there is no negative there for me. So perhaps it saying it will lead to a new positive beginning in your love life? as we also had confusion and crossroads as clarifiers, then followed by 10c(new beginnings). So i think it still might lead to somewhere, but there are new beginnings.I can be wrong though.

Either way I personally think you did right, if we dont let the other person know what we want, they will never know, and things will stay the same.

Let me know if anything happens

posted May 20, 2015 01:30 PM            

I asked about him missing you

QH 9C 6C
clarity: JH AC

I think he has feelings for you and cares about you very much. I think you are represented here by the QH. Is this a past relationship? 9C tells me his ways of thinking/communicating are changing, 6C as outcome shows improvements in relationships. There will improvements in your communication with each other.

JH tells me he cares about you very much and AC tells me you will be communicating with each other.

Let me know if it resonates, it helps with card interpretation.

posted May 20, 2015 02:29 PM            

JC 2C 2S

clarity: 3C 10C

I dont think in the near future you will meet. 2S as outcome suggests a descision will be made and you will be thinking hard about what you want and what is best for you.
Clarification cards 3C shows worry and 10C can be a card of travelling. Perhaps the distance between you is also an issue. JC is the loyal friend, it suggests to me he does care about you and has your best intentions. I dont know how far into the future my readings go, so perhaps you will meet him after this.

Let me know if it resonates.

posted May 20, 2015 04:45 PM            

My q: What stands out for the next 5 days for me?
Can give you feedback on monday

posted May 20, 2015 04:49 PM            

I can exchange if you like .
My Q: I iconsulted a garden designer about my back garden and she went along with my idea of having circles. The designer would have preferred straight lines, which she does very interesting things with. So, should I go with circles or should I have straight lines?

posted May 20, 2015 04:57 PM            

Kind of felt shaky with the reading but I make sense.. I'm getting that something very important is going to come out in the open you'll be receiving information/clarification on something that has been worrying you. Is someone moving away from you? Or are you worried about losing something or someone? I'm getting that this worrying will end soon, this cycle of anxiety of losing something will come to an end for the better. With every ending there's a beginning. Change is usually unavoidable and this information you will find will help you end the cycle of worrying.

Please let me know if it resonates i'm trying to get better and better! lol

posted May 20, 2015 05:05 PM            

I never answered this of q, might need your help

I asked how you should proceed

9S 7D QD 5S JD

9S can be disapointment or loss, 7D is stress over money or investing in your property. I take this as being perhaps having been a little disapointed with your garden and wanted a change, then investing in it. i think you are represented by the QD. She is decisive and has good judgement. This tells me you will decide to go with what you want. 5S tells me you might feel a bit stressed and want to break free from it, otherwise it can also mean interference from someone, perhaps interference from someone who has characteristics of the JD. Otherwise JD can represent anxiety.

For clarification i pulled 7H and 8D
Maybe you are bit doubtful because of the costs?

I know I've not really answered your question but i think you will go with what you want, but you will continue feeling anxious about it.

Let me know if it resonates. Feedback helps with card interpretation.

My Q: how will the next two weeks go for me? I'm abit anxious about it..

posted May 20, 2015 05:08 PM            

Hi scorpiolove, it resonates, there is someone important to me moving away, but he keeps his emotions to himself. it's been making me anxious, because i will miss him alot. He does this hot/cold behaviour. If anything happens over the weekend, i will update you

thanks alot!
brb with yours

posted May 20, 2015 05:21 PM            

I asked does this person have feelings for you

I got
6H 6D 8C 10H AS 3 red, 2 black = yes i think so.

6H tells me when you guys hung out together, it was quite harmonious. I think you get along quite well. At present there seems to be confusion around him, looks to be more related to work/money. However 10H tells me his feelings will still be there, perhaps even deeper than before. AS is a card of transformation, it is a card of death(not literally) but an ending, like your relationship will be transformed.

For clarity i pulled KH 7D KS.
I think here he is the KH, again there is stress about money/work. KS can represent authority but can also be a card of justice.

So i dont think it is anything to do with you personally, he just seems to have other things going on. i dont see any negative emotional cards, i think you guys will hang out again. Do you know if there would be stressed out about work related things at the moment? i think once they get over this stress things will get better again, i dont know who will initiate the contact though.

let me know if it resonates. if im completley off let me know, i appreciate the feedback, helps with the card interpretation
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posted May 21, 2015 03:02 AM            

I will go with what I want, but still not sure if straight lines or circles will work best . Could I please ask you to pull a yes or no card for straight lines?

Will be back with your reading.

posted May 21, 2015 03:22 AM            

Also can you unquote me please? Thanks

posted May 21, 2015 03:27 AM            

Have you recently decided on a new approach to be more independent or make or own decisions. Well, that should go well and bring greater equality and balance in your life.. But this is causing you much stress. The good news is that the agonising will end in the coming two weeks. Your concerns will vanish and you will feel renewed with a definite sense of purpose.

posted May 21, 2015 03:40 PM            

I asked would you be happy with circles

5D AC 5H = 2 red, 1 black, probably yes.
5D is changes in money, AC is a card that can show talent/ideas, and 5H is a card of doubt. This tells me overall you would be happy, but you will have doubts on your own/the designer ideas.

let me know how you decide

posted May 21, 2015 05:34 PM            

Thank you! and sorry for not saying, it seems i left my manners at work today

Hope you're happy with your choice in the end

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