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Topic: Could use a little guidance please
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FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2207
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted July 31, 2015 07:49 AM
  
Just to update he never did text me back not have I texted him since. I feel pretty bad this morning. I'm not sure if I should text first or what to say. He's stubborn and I'm sure he won't text me if I don't text him. Anyway that's where I'm at now. IP: Logged |
SoaringLeaves
Knowflake Posts: 106
From: Pluto's heart
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 09:05 AM
Hi FairyDust,I just saw your posts and I really *really* think the best thing for you right now is to be with other people. Forget about him for a week not just a day, spend time your friends, go pamper yourself, even if that means only getting a special coffee/latte in the morning or a fancy drink in the evening. It's almost weekend so if it's nice where you live, go out and enjoy the sun. Don't encourage him in this texting game because it won't lead to anything good--I say this from personal experience, not from cards. Also remember that it's full moon, so any intense discussion risks to degenerate into a brawl. I wouldn't text him anyways because of that tiny detail. Please, love yourself first!
SL ♡♡♡ IP: Logged |
Vivi327
Knowflake Posts: 1028
From:
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 31, 2015 09:14 AM
Hi fairy
If I may chime in and I mean this with the best intentions because it truly bothers me to see a sweet kind lady like yourself beat yourself up over this. I believe I sent u a book through email a few months back, my suggestion is that you read it if you haven't already because in all honesty it has valuable information. If u know a man won't text u first because he is "stubborn", that should tell you that he does not value you enough. If he really cares enough, he will text you regardless, if he does not do so, this may sound difficult but u should let it go. You are a valuable woman and you deserve a man to give undivided attention and care. If this is how he acts than he is not that man and u should find some one that does do that for you. Let the man be the man, he is supposed to do the work and find you, when they find u and they are worth it, than that's when and only when you give him everything. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2207
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted July 31, 2015 11:14 AM
Thanks Vivi, I do have the book and I will go back and look at it again.I just want to thank everyone for listening to me and their support and guidance. I'm not good with this sort of stuff and Im glad I can come here and share. Im happy to say I didn't have a paid reading on this, which is a big thing for me. That would be the first thing I would do. I'm glad I didn't. Well I did decide to text first and I'm glad I did. We immediately started to talk about what happened the day before and it was a good talk. We have certainly laid out our feelings about it and have resolved things. I feel better as does he. If anything, I want to say that maybe we are a little closer now in our development because we talked about the issue and found a way to resolve it. Now we know when something comes up we need to discuss it in order to fix things. So I think we are going to continue in a more healthy way at least. Thank you everyone! IP: Logged | |
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