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posted July 28, 2015 03:07 AM            

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I was on this app called Whisper. I have insomnia so I sometimes randomly chat with people. I chatted with this random guy & my gut feeling was telling me that I knew this person. I then asked his name & age & lo & behold it was my ex. I revealed who I was and then he blocked me.

Can anyone do a reading: Why is he avoiding me? I don't understand why he has such negative feelings towards me. Will he contact me back?

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posted July 28, 2015 04:45 AM            

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Without doing a reading, just ask yourself how it ended...?

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posted July 28, 2015 04:54 AM            

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At first it ended peacefully...We agreed to stay friends. I decided to walk away from the relationship (I left because I felt like I deserved better) But then I messed it up...I started getting jealous & obsessive towards him. And he was hurt that I left him...I begged him to take me back. He said no. We kissed said goodbye & that was it.

I still care about him, my love for him is unconditional. I loved him when he was in his darkest days. But yeah...he's probably still hurt that I left him, while I'm ready to be friends with him.

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posted July 28, 2015 04:59 AM            

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So then I would say him blocking you is a sign that he is not ready to move forward with you in the way that you would like. That's not to say that you guys will never get back together, but it might be that you have to "make up" outside of a dating app.

I would also advise you to perhaps do it AFTER Venus goes retrograde. I've heard that sometimes people go back during this time, only to have it unravel when Venus goes direct again.

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posted July 28, 2015 05:08 AM            

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I don't want to get back with him romantically. I just want to be friends with him & I wish that in his heart, he will forgive me.

I understand that he isnt ready & I am willing to wait years even to be friends with him. Whenever he's ready. I just find it funny that we found each other online again...Thats how we first met actually. Its history repeating itself

Btw whisper is not a dating app. Its an app where you post your secrets...He had bad spelling so I had to correct him & I later found out that it was him.

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posted July 28, 2015 05:52 AM            

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yeahhhhhh an ex is trying to flirt with me and holy hell hes putting his back into it!

and i'm sitting here like.... no. please no. no.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:10 AM            

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Yes, people in the past keeps coming back. A common friend of an ex just contacted me... I didn't want to be reminded of my past hurt done to me. I cut off all ties with that ex n anyone related to him... Just unsettling to have him contact me on my birthday. Kinda spoil my day.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:33 AM            

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No exes have returned

But guys who have said they liked me in the past, suddenly have the confidence to come back full force again.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:44 AM            

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No ex came back.

I didn't mean that much to anyone I guess ha.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:55 AM            

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Yes it's such a strange time indeed, an ex I thought I wouldn't hear from came back a few days ago.

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posted July 29, 2015 11:05 AM            

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Now that you mentioned it, goddessofthemoon... That guy used to like me but had no confidence to pursue me..

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posted July 29, 2015 12:06 PM            

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I'm just curious with this Venus RX can it make you think about an ex a lot?

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posted July 29, 2015 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
I'm just curious with this Venus RX can it make you think about an ex a lot?

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It could definitely cause one to think of an ex a lot. Basically when a planet goes retrograde it signifies a time of reflection and Venus is representative of relationships.

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posted July 29, 2015 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
I'm just curious with this Venus RX can it make you think about an ex a lot?

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Yes. I know that for some odd reason, I've been thinking about two people I "dated" a lot.

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posted July 29, 2015 12:44 PM            

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OK then that explains why I keep thinking about my first love a lot -_- its like I have the urge to contact him but then again I'm like no but I swear temptation is a B lol

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posted July 29, 2015 12:57 PM            

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My ex recently popped up. We're getting along for now but I'm sure he'll be gone again soon.

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posted July 29, 2015 12:59 PM            

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Venus Rx isn't over yet ladies.
There are still 5ish weeks left of this nonsense period. I say nonsense because I too am thinking of my past and having mini breakdowns.

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posted July 29, 2015 01:00 PM            

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Btw Milly, I acknowledge that Whisper isn't a dating app. Sorry about that. Just take his reaction in your stride... That's probably unfinished business.

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posted July 29, 2015 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Venus Rx isn't over yet ladies.
There are still 5ish weeks left of this nonsense period. I say nonsense because I too am thinking of my past and having mini breakdowns.

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Right this is only the beginning & venus hasn't made major aspects yet. Already there are people popping up. A guy I dated (horary guy) contacted me. I'm trying my best to stay calm & not let him provoke me. I dreamt about him last night & when I woke up I got a nasty text from him

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posted July 29, 2015 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Yes, people in the past keeps coming back. A common friend of an ex just contacted me... I didn't want to be reminded of my past hurt done to me. I cut off all ties with that ex n anyone related to him... Just unsettling to have him contact me on my birthday. Kinda spoil my day.

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Happy birthday!

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posted July 29, 2015 02:00 PM            

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I want to contact my ex on his birthday to wish him a happy birthday but I think it would probably make him mad I mean I feel as if it doesn't hurt to say happy birthday

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posted July 29, 2015 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Venus Rx isn't over yet ladies.
There are still 5ish weeks left of this nonsense period. I say nonsense because I too am thinking of my past and having mini breakdowns.

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Me too

I spent the past three nights crying over some past rejection! I thought I was past it!

I also started feeling really bad for rejecting a guy who worked with me. He was a catch.

I hate these retrogrades. They stir up past hurts and drama. Yuck.

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posted July 29, 2015 04:30 PM            

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I'm feeling way more emotional too. And kinda obsessing over my ex's fb page, checking it every 10 minutes lol

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posted July 29, 2015 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Me too

I spent the past three nights crying over some past rejection! I thought I was past it!

I also started feeling really bad for rejecting a guy who worked with me. He was a catch.

I hate these retrogrades. They stir up past hurts and drama. Yuck.

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DOUBLE YUCK!

A guy that I had a crush on is getting married on Friday. Funnily enough (even though it's not funny), most of the guys that I have had a crush on are now happily married or in long term relationships; and I'm single. My ego is on 100 😒... Three jumps for joy lol - NOT!!!!! I'm laughing via Lindaland, but I'm not in real life!

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posted July 29, 2015 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
DOUBLE YUCK!

A guy that I had a crush on is getting married on Friday. Funnily enough (even though it's not funny), most of the guys that I have had a crush on are now happily married or in long term relationships; and I'm single. My ego is on 100 😒... Three jumps for joy lol - NOT!!!!! I'm laughing via Lindaland, but I'm not in real life!

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Aw. I'm sorry to hear that ijka!

I'm sure it is for the best and you will eventually meet a great match. Sometimes God knows best. Maybe these crushes weren't your ultimate match. They could have made you utterly miserable in the long run.

It is very cliché but everything happens for a reason. You sound like a lovely person and you deserve to meet that special person. You'll meet the right guy at the right time, I'm sure

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