posted April 19, 2016 08:54 PM            

Mine: what outcome do you see for the N project for H (these are institutions, not people, if that helps )

posted April 19, 2016 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
was wondering if you'd be interested in exchanging. I have a couple of questions, I'm currently looking for a part time job to help add to my income...any idea when I might find a good fit for me?

Also, what does R think of me and will he reach out to me anytime to try to reconnect?

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You have such a sweet energy that whatever it is, you should work around people. When I originally read this question the other night (I am so, so sorry!!!), I thought taking up a couple of extra shifts at a restaurant. But that didn't and doesn't really resonate with me. Somehow, something to do with beauty and nature pulls at me.

Are you 'into' parks? Like, maybe a National Park tour guide sort of thing? Or environmentally-conscious beauty products? I'm being shown sunshine, flowers, grass...nature. And serenity.

As to R... when I look at what I'm being shown about him, my heart flutters. This isn't you, it's him. It feels like he's put you in a place in his heart that's safe - both for him and for you. I don't feel like he'll reach out especially soon, though I do feel like he thinks about you more often than you probably expect and considers it. But I don't think he's ready.

This feels like something that may have started as something casual but it became more...would that be accurate assessment?

Let me know your thoughts here. Hope this helps.

posted April 19, 2016 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Sweet, patient dustib, I am here to serve . Getting on your question right now.

Mine: what outcome do you see for the N project for H (these are institutions, not people, if that helps )

Right back with yours!

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posted April 19, 2016 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
You have such a sweet energy that whatever it is, you should work around people. When I originally read this question the other night (I am so, so sorry!!!), I thought taking up a couple of extra shifts at a restaurant. But that didn't and doesn't really resonate with me. Somehow, something to do with beauty and nature pulls at me.

Are you 'into' parks? Like, maybe a National Park tour guide sort of thing? Or environmentally-conscious beauty products? I'm being shown sunshine, flowers, grass...nature. And serenity.

As to R... when I look at what I'm being shown about him, my heart flutters. This isn't you, it's him. It feels like he's put you in a place in his heart that's safe - both for him and for you. I don't feel like he'll reach out especially soon, though I do feel like he thinks about you more often than you probably expect and considers it. But I don't think he's ready.

This feels like something that may have started as something casual but it became more...would that be accurate assessment?

Let me know your thoughts here. Hope this helps.

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Funny how you picked up the restaurant, I had a part time job waitressing and called them last week to tell them it wasn't working out. I do work with people with my full time job, I'm in human resources, and applied for a job with Menards here and was actually hoping to work in the garden area....no call yet but am hopeful.

posted April 19, 2016 11:12 PM            

I'm glad you get a good feel on energy from him. I am very sad and frustrated that he disappeared like that and isn't talking to me. He became a bright spot to my days. Any idea when he will reach out to me?

posted April 19, 2016 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I think the mice meant a lot of red tape that's going to cause you stress and anxiety....take it in stride because the outcome is positive! will just take awhile.

I'm glad you get a good feel on energy from him. I am very sad and frustrated that he disappeared like that and isn't talking to me. He became a bright spot to my days. Any idea when he will reach out to me?

Any other questions?

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I couldn't say right now because he seems to have determined to keep you and his thoughts on you in that 'safe box' I keep seeing. I feel like he probably will at some point, but I don't think it'll be soon :/

posted April 20, 2016 09:00 AM            

S's thoughts on you right now

I got ship, lilies, key, mountain and snake.

Is there a distance between you and S? Maybe not in terms of towns but could also be an emotional distance? I think the mountains here are S's inability to tell you how they really feel....there is an attraction here, a feeling of sexiness. The key for S is figuring out how to tell you these things.

posted April 20, 2016 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Anytime!

Can I ask, I recently started talking to M who I have a past with but I'm curious what he wants from me. Sort of torn but I'm not putting my life on hold for R.

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posted April 20, 2016 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
A way to pass the time so to speak....so nothing has changed with him. Well at least I know R will be back and M is only fun

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That's the vibe I get from him, yes.

posted April 22, 2016 02:17 PM            

I understand the mentality behind "getting back out there" as a part of getting over it; but the feelings of loneliness are likely to only be compounded by escape dating (remember: you attract what you project into the Universe, so if you're escape dating or boredom dating, you're going to ultimately attract those same kinds of people, thus perpetuating a rather vicious cycle <3)