posted October 23, 2016 02:04 PM            

Did he break up with the mother of his child?? Because the cards seem to indicate this!

I got in his past a woman followed by the Scythe. Also in his past were Heart, Cross and Stars. That would indicate their relationship and the problems they had.

In his future, for you, I got

Birds - Child - Clover - Anchor

posted October 23, 2016 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
waittttt....he kissed her??

HHMMM...me is not liking that. But thats me

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posted October 23, 2016 02:15 PM            

"Did he break up with the mother of his child??Hu?
No, not that I know of. I donīt think so.
I also don`t think he will. But sometimes there seems to be a lack of balance or something. But I am not in a position to judge.

What I can say however is that in the last weeks and months, when we met as well as online, our interaction changed quite much, and not even I could deny anylonger that he seems to, well at least like me a little.
Paying a little too much attention to me and so on.
To the point I am really actually like HU? What is going on?

Cause seriously, I cannot imagine his wife being too pleased or amused by that. Well of course she`s already loathed me when we first crossed paths, and that definitely did not change.

Just to be clear noone did cross any lines!
But I think it`s has become abundantly clear to the both of you that we indeed are a little more interested in each other than we maybe should be.
Feels strange to say that, but yes, I do believe, this is true for his side, too.

After all he pretty much told me he loves me.

(of course just casually, just as part of a larger group I think, but it surely felt.... interesting, to hear him say it pretty much right after having personally addressed me, so it sounded as if he was still talking to only me, which he was not, I assure you. He meant a larger group. lol)

Nevertheless, I am aware of the boundaries (is he, too?) and he is a family man first and foremost, and that is totally alright.

so no I do not think they broke up, but who really knows?
Sometimes strange things happen.

"Birds - Child - Clover - Anchor"
I like that. Nice, communicative, stable.

"Well, I definitely see good things for the two of you! I don't think he is fully decided yet, but he definitely wants to stay in contact with you and initiate something more stable! "

posted October 23, 2016 02:19 PM            

it sounds like he is very interested in you, but not sure about a real commitment as of yet. Maybe he just needs time, could be.
HOwever, maybe he also needs to be aware of YOUR needs and boundaries, and if you are hurt by him kissing his ex (as I would), he should respect that and NOT do it.
But of course he needs to know that.

Also maybe better make YOU your priority? How about that?
What DM needs, gets priority!
And as long as he is not committed, I`d say keep your options open. Not saying you should go around and pick up strangers, but just don`t turn a blind eye to other men.

posted October 23, 2016 02:22 PM            

In my past there was a man and Scythe as well (he is very good friends with my ex the Leo) and that was that, but in my future I pulled

Birds - Mice - Dog - Anchor - Heart

posted October 23, 2016 02:26 PM            

What is your synastry like? Your Saturn was on his Venus, right? I know how the other side feels.
Aries man has his Saturn conjunct my Venus tightly, and when we started, there was a long list of rules he slapped me with. Some of the rules were like - no touching in any way other males, no low cut, revealing clothing, no giggling around the office, Etc, etc. Thats Saturn's way of bringing structure into the life of Venus. And because i loved him, i followed the rules, it didnt take much of me, i didnt mind any of this.

posted October 23, 2016 02:40 PM            

We talked about this. He is appalled by jealousy. He knows I was insecure about the two of them and I told him it's because he and I are not so serious yet. But as long as things are good between he and I, I am ok with them spending time together. I would never interfere in their friendship. But I don't think kissing on the mouth is a sign of friendship. I intend to tell him that, but not right now. It's not the right moment and we've argued so much about this that it makes me sick just thinking of opening this can of worms again. I don't see what good it would do now, except drive us further away.

My Saturn squares his Venus. I would never impose such rules on him! Nor would I follow them if someone would impose them on me! I could not do that, man. And it would never work on him. He has Aqua Dc, Uranus in Sag; Sag Moon conj Jup-Uranus; Aqua Venus sextile Jup-Uranus. It's safe to say he isn't into clingy women!

He has natally Saturn-Pluto square Mercury-Venus in early Aqua. Since we're the same age, my Saturn and Pluto do the same to his planets.
I have the mirroring aspects, natal Mercury-Mars opposite Saturn-Pluto, which of course are opposite his Saturn-Pluto too.
We push each other's buttons a lot. He finds me too aggressive and demanding, it drives him nuts. I call him my princess because he can be so prissy sometimes. We get on each other's nerves. The make up sex is totally worth it, though.

I suppose it's both our chances to work on our issues in relationships, especially because we reenact our main problems with the opposite sex.

posted October 23, 2016 03:16 PM            

Come on, you know i didnt mean that???

posted October 23, 2016 03:35 PM            

sheeesh, i have a dosen of clothing to fit in the dressing now.... better get down to business

posted October 23, 2016 03:36 PM            

I remember how our first meeting was, and well maybe you remember, I shared it on the group back then.

Still the way things developed/ develop goes over my head. lol
Not that it is that extraordinary,b ut still, I wouldn`t have REALLY believed that back then. lol

But yes, I think we`re on a good way.
Though he seems to be occasionally a little ****** / pouty when I interact too much with his best friend (cause apparently his best friend and me are sharing some intellectual things, espe. when it comes to the more classical literature/theatre/ education/ political things and views) .

Well he can be quite a Primadonna about it (vaguely of course, but I am not stupid and have quite good antennas), but that actually only incites me to verbally poke my tongue out at him and my Mercury in Sag runs away with me.
He can play Drama queen at home, but I am definitely the wrong person for that. Drama is fun to me.

It`s mostly fun to him, too. Mostly. I guess we did step onto each other`s toes occasionally, cause he is a performer AND a man, so a doubly fragile Ego I guess.
And I often tend to take things a bit personal as well, even if they are not meant that way.

But all in all I think it`s really just fun and playful, and well, can`t deny he`s singling me out quite a bit.
And I`m slowly growing into that "centre-role".

Well I`ve always sort of avoided too many interaspects to my Sun in friendships and other connections, maybe a trine or sextile here and ther, and the usual SAturn-square (yes I like those. lol).

But he`s just bombarding my Sun, of course that means that for him, his most vulnerable and possibly painful constellation is being triggered as well (his Sun-Moon-MC conjunction which falls onto my Sun, squares his Saturn-DESC-Vertex, so I guess sometimes it`s a bit much for him.).

Oh I am babbling a little, but well, our interacting certainly is a little unusual, considering the category we SHOULD fall in to each other.

posted October 23, 2016 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:

I suppose it's both our chances to work on our issues in relationships, especially because we reenact our main problems with the opposite sex.

I just hope we live to tell the story. Lol

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posted October 23, 2016 04:21 PM            

I remember, of course I remember! Even though it's been a long time since then! How much has it been? 6-7 years, maybe?

posted October 23, 2016 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
He is having issues with his partner, that much I can say, maybe he hasn't broken up with her yet, but they're on the rocks, I believe.

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Well that would explain why after I once commented on a picture of him, at his working location but being out in the sun and wearing sunglasses, and I commented: is that still work or already holidays?

he replied with

"Love is work, work, work!" (no clue about the connection to my comment, but he directly responded to that. lol)

plus then sending me a video about a comedian going on about marriages on the rocks and on the verge of divorce.

I politely cut off that talk and took a few dozen steps back. I am sure he was just joking, but still

She does worship the ground he is walking on though. Saw her face, when they were talking (on that "Get-together" he had planned for his "fanfriends", which he apparently started planning the moment my aquaintance and me were talking to him a few weeks prior to this and mentioning we met on the fanmeeting of his the year before. He seemed very interested, but honstly? he seemed even interested in why I prefer to take the train and not get into my aquaintance`s car and some other really deeply important things.

Nevertheless he had then scheduled this, after double checking if the timeframe would be good for us. It wasn`t good for one other aquaitance, but perfect for me, and also good for the other one, so it was scheduled that time.

It was somehow cute as it almost seemed like he was asking us about that. lol

Anyway, this was scheduled before a solo concert of his, limited guests, and he was actually baking and making coffee. I mean seriously. selfmade cakes, no matter if he or his wife or his mother did them, the cheesecake was to die for.

Well turns out he actually did some of the baking. He likes to cook and bake.

Anyway sorry getting distracted, but of course his wife and youngest son were there as well, and I coincidentally saw them talking about something. And no I did not stuck around to be curious, but I caught the way she was looking at him, and she is still his biggest fan.

Which is actually how she started out, it always baffles me, and well, seriously, I could never be like that. This kind of hero-worship is just not my thing. He`s still a man, a human being, hence equal.

I mean I need to find qualities to admire in people and I do, but this is always on an eye to eye level never this, anyway just completely baffles me.

I can admire him for certain efforts or things he does, I can appreciate him a lot for qualities, but to adore him just because he knows how to breathe?
Erm, sorry, can`t deliver THAT.

But maybe it`s what he wants or needs.)

sorry babbling again.

And 8 years? Not putting my bets on that. By then I will be pushing 50. lol

Maybe I`ll never get married. But if I will, definitely sooner than in 8 years.
Maybe not to him though.
Not standing still and circlin just round him, even though it must look like it on here.

posted October 24, 2016 10:35 AM            

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Wonderful sign!

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I could point out what I dislike about the situation but I'm just gonna say: this show called your love life is getting sad to watch.