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posted March 03, 2017 03:48 PM            

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this all makes 100% perfect sense! I feel like he's keeping silent because feelings came into play with us being together Monday and Wednesday this week and us just getting along. I feel like the text war comment was a way to try to **** me off to almost justify how he's being right now and of course it didn't work as I just said I wouldn't initiate contact and told him good night. Of course, now he's silent to try to prove a point. Maybe it's all wishful thinking.....all I know is he is SUPER frustrating and if he does have sex with anyone else then I'm done and he knows that. I'm too old to play that game.

Thank you! You have been so accurate in the past and while it's not what I want to hear, I do know you're right and it's the truth. Now it's up to him to contact me....

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posted March 03, 2017 03:54 PM            

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Yes, I feel what you say about this all trying to prove a point it is true. He will contact if you "leave" him alone. (Not that you are bothering, but he woks this way).
For now, no not other woman, in the future possibly. I kinda get this guy is older, maybe over 35-40 or so, but feels so immature like he deliberately tries to avoid this serious stuff, almost like he is fed up with what he has been trough in the past. Its not connected to you, but there is not much you can do. He needs to sort out things in his head.

Thanks, hope this helps as well.

If I might ask one more today.
Does M feel I've moved on when he sees my pics, how happy I look and that I still keeps him blocked and stuff...I generally wonder if affects him in any way or he is completely moved on?

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posted March 03, 2017 04:09 PM            

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Does M feel I've moved on when he sees my pics, how happy I look and that I still keeps him blocked and stuff...I generally wonder if affects him in any way or he is completely moved on?

does he feel you moved on?
feet, bread and flowers. Yes he does feel you have moved on and that you're happy.

does the thought of you moving on affect him?
anchor, knife, ladder, flowers, feather and clarifying card comet
Yes it does affect him and he is VERY aware of it. In a way it causes him some comfort because he wants you to be happy but the bigger picture is, he is very confused and hurt that you let go...I get the sense of being broken. He didn't expect it though but deep down he knows he's got restrictions he needs to deal with. I feel though that he will try to approach/contact you as well because this is all getting to him.

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posted March 03, 2017 04:16 PM            

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well....I just got the thing you were thinking I would in regards to J. He has contacted a friend of a friend on the dating site that he contacted before and she stood him up after finding out about me. BUT she told him she only wanted sex. She's going to see what happens....he knows that her and I know each other so I don't know what he's doing but I feel this is it for him and I.

And yes he's 36 so you're spot on there.

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posted March 04, 2017 08:13 AM            

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Do you want me to ask something about that?

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posted March 04, 2017 08:36 AM            

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Why is he contacting her? I still haven't heard from him

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posted March 04, 2017 09:01 AM            

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Ok brb in 10 mins

I would like to ask a bit silly question
Did A noticed I stop liking his pics?

Last time he didnt replyed nice so I just threw seen and stop liking. Does he notices the difderence in m behaviour, or if not yet, will he soon? I am not planing to do anything

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posted March 04, 2017 09:17 AM            

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Hammer, fire and angel.

Yes he's noticed it. And the cards are saying that his reply was an over reaction to something and he was being quite forceful in a way. It also looks like that might be explained to you in the near future. Pulled 2 more cards to help clarify and got giraffe and mask so he has definitely noticed it but won't say anything about it or act like it bothers him....he's going to hide that truth from you because he feels it would make him look weak but I still feel he is going to say something about his reply to you to explain it. I'm just not good at timing so can't tell you when.

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posted March 04, 2017 09:25 AM            

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Well this is kinda hard to explain...he wants to get some kind of reaction. It is like I see him being torn about contacting her or not but then deciding to. Probably because he is aware of you knowing her. The vibe I get her coming from him is: I'll do what I want. I do not feel strong interest coming from him or something like that but I cant even really see why he did it. It has to do with the physical aspect, but I am not sure he is into her.
Hmmm very weird vibe I get her, there is an attraction of some kind but I do not feel it being sexual.
Sorry Im a bit unclear, maybe if you have some kind of suspicion question for me, the cards would show clearer. This is all pretty unclear.

Thank you for your reading, yes it makes sense, and him contacting fisrt becuase I wont. lol

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posted March 04, 2017 09:30 AM            

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Hmmm what would be a good suspicion question? I honestly felt like something changed for the good between us this week so this just shocked me. And I have yet to hear from him since Thursday night. I wondered if he contacted her because he knew it would get back to me but why would he want that argument between us or when I told him if he meets her that we are done. Is he wanting me to be done and leave him alone?

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posted March 04, 2017 09:42 AM            

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Ugh, so I get him doing this of a selfish reasons. So, no not because you will find out and he will know it is done.
Again I got the card where this being related to some piece of information you will hear from him. I keep getting this card that will shock you, 3 times! Out of some many cards.
I really cant say, like I cant feel what this is all about, but you will find out either from this friend or him, you wont be guessing for too long.

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posted March 04, 2017 09:53 AM            

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So if I find out from the person, it will be that they met. Because she said a few nasty things about me to see it he'd respond and he didn't. It just sounds like he wants it to get back to me so I am the one to end things. I don't know what other shock their could be.... I feel so stupid thinking something changed for the good between us this week

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posted March 04, 2017 10:05 AM            

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I wish I could tell what is exactly happening but for some reason cards wont tell me. Usually this is when the person needs to find out something on their own. He does have a motive but I just cant see what.

Do you have any other questions?

I would like to ask if you get did M saw my pics by now?
I got some strong feeling yesterday evening

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posted March 04, 2017 10:21 AM            

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I got feet, turtle, elephant, curtain and apple.

I at first felt no with 2 patience cards but then I have 2 wisdom cards as well and the elephant is the focus card so yes I do feel he has and they have brought up some memories for him and I see him kind of withdrawing as well. It looks like you need to be patient for M to admit to seeing them or making a move....I feel it's more making a move. I feel he's going to move towards you and tell you something because of the pictures.

Can I ask, does J want things to be over between us? Is that why he was pretty much silent Thursday and all day yesterday and contacted her on top of it?

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posted March 04, 2017 10:24 AM            

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Thank you, let me ask another.
If I unblock him (it passed 3 months)
would he notice it and would this encourage him to make a move?
I dont want anything I wouldn't reply but just wonder

BRB

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posted March 04, 2017 10:35 AM            

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Not over, but he does not want things to go any faster than they go now. Again I get all this dating pages and stuff are here to distract him. This woman and the other he contacts as well. So, no the main idea is not for thing to be over between you two. But could be he does want to kinda show he is not into serious stuff right now. Maybe like him giving a small hint by this. He also need other women to build his confidence. So it is a mix of those things but no, he does not wish to end things between you two.

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posted March 04, 2017 10:37 AM            

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If I unblock him (it passed 3 months)
would he notice it
road, clown, curtain, flower, apple
Hmmm I keep getting curtain and apple. Curtain is about a secret or something, he has something to tell you for sure. Apple is about knowledge so yes he would notice it for sure. I do see where you are thinking about it(road) and he would notice it. I do feel he has something he would say to you but I want to ask on just that question alone

and would this encourage him to make a move?
wow! cherries, heart, mask, tree, devil and clarifying card bridge

oh yes this man would definitely make a move if unblocked. It's like that would give him some courage to reach out to you as he would see it as you opening the door. There would be some truths come to light from him as well ...almost like him apologizing for some not so pleasant things that happened. He feels bad about things and wants to make them right and you unblocking him would be that push he needs. I do think by him doing this, something might change in your thinking as well and you would be faced with some decisions. I just really get that he feels guilty about something and wants to right it and you unblocking him will make that happen. Does that make sense?

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posted March 04, 2017 10:40 AM            

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well he knows I will find out about this other person and that is the quickest way to end things between us. I honestly feel like it's time to move on anyways, just knowing what I know about her and what I've told him and him still contacting her! Puts me at risk for things I don't want and he told me he's not sleeping with anyone but me but she straight up told him, that's all she wants and he's cool with it. So the trust is broken in my opinion. You called it yesterday as did Orange! You guys are both awesome!! Thank you so much and always feel free to ask me anything, I'm always here for you!

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posted March 04, 2017 10:54 AM            

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I still keep getting you will find out something from him.
Let me know when it happens!
Thank you so much, it does make tons of sense, Im here for you when you need it as well

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posted March 04, 2017 10:56 AM            

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any idea when I might be finding this out?

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posted March 04, 2017 11:03 AM            

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I get soon, it will not pass more than 10 days but I expect even sooner. Maybe 3-5 days.

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posted March 06, 2017 11:37 AM            

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well, he texted me just now. Nothing in particular other than morning and hope you had a good weekend. Now I wonder what this big secret is and when I will find that out!

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posted March 06, 2017 11:48 AM            

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Great! We'll see...I get 9 on this. Maybe days, I guess. Probably in 9 days. He will now act as usual, nothing out of the ordinary behavior, but I still feel like he hides something.

Can I ask about
Are there any feeling left on his side?
I am aware he is egotistical douche but just wondering...or he is completely moved on?

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posted March 06, 2017 11:52 AM            

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sorry want to clarify who you are asking on since there's no initial there.

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posted March 06, 2017 12:08 PM            

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His inital is M sry

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