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posted March 06, 2017 12:17 PM            

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does M have any romantic feelings for you?

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Yes he does but it also shows how he is a control freak. The tower is showing he's feeling the separation between the 2 of you and it's on his mind and he's also been thinking of contacting you. He's got some deep feelings for you based on the anchor + fish but he's never going to stop being this controlling/over reacting person either. I feel like he's got a lot of trust issues so while he misses you and has feelings for you, you are right about him being a douche.

Can I ask when J will ask to see me?

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posted March 06, 2017 12:37 PM            

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Yes yes, you are completely right about this, everything is correct what you said.

Hmm this is interesting, I get 1 and 2.
I would say 1 or two days.
But it can be within one week, but I would say this week. I do not get days about this, but seems like you will have to initiate it somehow, or he will come to you. Dont know but seems like you play a big part in this decision.

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posted March 06, 2017 12:40 PM            

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I am always the one to ask to see him....he doesn't initiate that for some reason so you're right. But I'm not sure I want to ask this time....I want HIM to do it!

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posted March 06, 2017 02:31 PM            

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So J and this person are messaging back and forth....she asked him how many he was sleeping with and if he had anyone interested in a 3 some. He replied only sleeping with me so she asked him WHY he would risk losing me then since our mutual friend said I'd be done if he did anything with her. She has something I don't want and won't risk! So I'm wondering if this secret has something to do with her since I'm not telling him I know anything about her.

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posted March 06, 2017 04:15 PM            

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can I ask if he will answer her? She also asked him if he really wants to risk messing things up and lose me but if he does, she's game to meet.

Any other questions?

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posted March 06, 2017 04:21 PM            

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Oh I just saw it.
He will not answer it.at least I get him thinking about it but eventually deciding no to. Seems like he will really think of this and kinda be afraid of your possible reaction so I kinda get him withdrawing from it. So I would say no, he wont answer.

Can i ask...do you get if anything will happen between me and A that is more than friendly?

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posted March 06, 2017 04:31 PM            

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Hmmm looks right now A is unsure about this because of the upheaval in his life. Yes he wants to but he needs to be at home and more comfortable. Is he across the ocean? I see contact and the 2 of you talking about things but I see depression on his end right now so I'm going to say in the near future...no only because of everything going on in his life.

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posted March 06, 2017 04:33 PM            

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Yeah, he is probably not even interested, that is why everyone is getting that. I think he is not really into me to be honest but that is ok. But yes, he is not here although he is not across the ocean for now. Then I guess it wont ever happen.
Thank you, makes total sense.

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posted March 07, 2017 08:27 AM            

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I don't feel that it's a lack of interest but more of dealing what is going on right now in his life and knowing he can't really start anything if he's not here.

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posted March 07, 2017 08:31 AM            

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Yeah, I get what you are saying but really I get no hint from him he is interested in a long time so I doubt that because he could at least contact me. But I get what you say and it makes sense. Thanks girl!

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posted March 07, 2017 11:06 AM            

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I wanted to ask you since everyone kinda gets A is not really interested and this will not change in the future...I sort of want to remove interest on my part ( I feel it too).

What your cards advise me...would it be helpful for me to remove him from Instagram?
this way I know we will not communicate anymore and I will not know a lot about him.
EDIT: I did remove him so will this help me walk away from this?

leave yours

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posted March 07, 2017 12:51 PM            

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Should you remove him from instagram?
Turtle, angel and arrow.
It would be a first step in that direction of your goal. Patience is key too.

I asked what you should do to move on and forget about him and got
tree, man, clover, chair, road and clarifying card mirror.
Take charge of your life and relax about meeting someone because it's going to happen when you least expect it. Cards are saying with focusing on A, you aren't giving anyone else the change to come into your life. Ask yourself why you are so interested in A and then do some self reflection on if he's meeting any of your needs. The chair I'd basically telling you to dismiss him from your life once you answer those questions. Happiness is coming your way with a man but you have to make the choice to hang on to what isn't helping you or let go by being strong. Does that make sense?

J is being distant.... he claims I'm not just a booty call but he sure makes me feel like one will this distance and not contacting me on the weekends. What is causing him to be distant and will it change? I almost feel like it's time to let go just like you saw

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posted March 07, 2017 12:56 PM            

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Hmm, I am not that keen on A. It is easy to let go as I didnt even have anything with him you know. Its not that I will suffer or anything, just if I see a guy is not interested I will not push over but I will forget it.
I was thinking more if this will make me forget but ok.

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posted March 07, 2017 01:04 PM            

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I said multiple times and I still get the change will not happen quickly. The change might happen on some point but I see him having his regular cycles with you where he will not really give you any more credit than for sex. Not saying it is a bad thing, of course, just I see this behavior repeating time after time until at on point he makes up his mind. But I dont see a point in the future when that might happen.
I dont want to seem pessimistic, but for what it is holding him, I still see a connection to some other woman, either the friend of your or someone else, there is an empress right in the centre of the spread and temperance suggest you will need to wait more.

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posted March 07, 2017 01:56 PM            

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He answered her.... he is setting up a time to meet her. And I'll be done

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posted March 07, 2017 02:08 PM            

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Seriously?
Then this is that empress in the center I saw. It looked to me like that.
Aghh

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posted March 07, 2017 02:18 PM            

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Yep she is trying to find out why he wants to do it knowing he loses me in the process but he won't answer. I'm done....I can't be with someone like that. The trust is gone in a second....

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posted March 07, 2017 02:24 PM            

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Yeah I get it, even if he wants to get your attention, still not nice.
Let me know what happens and if you have any questions I am here <3

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posted March 07, 2017 02:26 PM            

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What reason does he have to get my attention when he's already got it and had it? He's a fool

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posted March 07, 2017 02:35 PM            

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To see how much you care, but this is just a possibility. I personally dont believe in this.
From my perspective and from the cards, he just does not care as much, like action shows everything. That is my perspective of course.
My cards said that the reason he is distant is because he is arranging things with other women. So, I cant say a lot more.
I believe then the temperance means the decision you will make as I got it again.

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posted March 07, 2017 02:38 PM            

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Yes I agree about actions! And he's being shady and hiding this....he has the power to hurt me and he is and doesn't seem to care.

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posted March 07, 2017 05:00 PM            

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He knows that I know.... so is it like a set up or something?

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posted March 07, 2017 05:11 PM            

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No, I do not feel it is a set up, more like he is a fool. But it is possible he wont act on it but still, I do not get him really thinking about you, like I keep getting this empress here and his mind is not too keen on one person. I dont like what I see here you see, but it is possible that he wont meet up with her in the end. He is being selfish.

Can I ask do you see communication being over between me and A after this?

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posted March 07, 2017 05:38 PM            

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No communication isn't over between the 2 of you with birds as the focus card. I do think if/when you go silent, he's going to reach out to you. Pulled 2 more cards and got arrow and fox. He's going to be hurt when you stop talking to him but won't tell you that. But I do see him reaching out to you.

Do you think this is what I was supposed to find out about J? What the cards weren't showing?

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posted March 08, 2017 03:40 AM            

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Yes, actually that may be it. Not sure why I got the impression he will tell you. But feels like yes.

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