posted September 07, 2017 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
I would love a spirit guide reading if you want to do me!!! I'm so spiritually out of the loop lately I think this would help.

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Hey love, so your spirit guide presents herself as a beautiful woman with flowing blonde hair, she embodies the divine feminine to a T and is extremely beautiful... She is with you now encouraging you and supporting you to step into your beauty. She is there to help you feel beautiful and sensual, in a divine way. The highest essence of femininity is that vibration she holds, which steps away from any old patterns that involve ego games, or putting on a show to attract a mate.

If you want to mediate and connect in with her, she appears to me just like lady Nada and will show herself to you in the color pink. If you notice pink lights or anything PINK that jumps out and grabs your eye, such as a flower, know it is her.

posted September 07, 2017 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
hey, MissB

Id like to participate in the exchange offer, if you can count me.
I like your phrase for a relationship and Id like to ask - what is my highest soul contract with M.R

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posted September 08, 2017 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Thank you, MissB

you are very correct, we are extremely competitive in just about anything, we are learning to apply more respect in the process because sometimes we get carried away and can be slightly ruthless. We do strive to perform better and better. Thank you!

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posted September 08, 2017 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
Oh wow . That's a beautiful reading . ❤️ Thank you so much. Was also curious which chakra i should focua on so you read my mind 🤗 I've been feeling unattractive because I worked with good looking ambitious extroverted girls and I admire them a lot. So everything makes sense.i never heard of lady nada but look forward to doing some research about her.

if you like me to read for you , leave ur q . Thanks again💕

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posted September 09, 2017 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Magikaal:
Hi Ms B, if and when you are able, I’d be interested in a spirit guide reading. But only if and when you can do one, of course.

I note you haven’t had an answer here for your question about the ex, so I asked my cards and meditated on it briefly. I drew 2 of cups, the Chariot (twice), ace of swords, ace of wands and the Aeon. The 5 of wands jumped. Interestingly, three of these cards – the 2 aces and the Aeon show a new beginning. Now I wouldn’t say that this is to implicitly trust him when he says he wants to reconnect and give him all the chances in the world expecting things to be fine and dandy. Rather it is acknowledging that this person is wayward and has trouble maintaining discipline and control of his life/actions. I’m not sure how hectic his life is and so on (I’m sure he has plenty of excuses) however the 2 of cups to me signifies genuine feeling. Is he proud of her in some way? (I feel like he is somehow tender/protective/proud of her but he may not always show it.) I also felt like she feels happy around him. Anyway, I think that you might have to acknowledge that he is unreliable and maybe make it very clear to him that he is setting the tone for the future of this relationship. That him being absent now means he is essentially showing her that she is not important to him.
I think he is sincere but he may not realise the level of commitment that it takes, like he tends to bite off more than he can chew. I don’t think the answer is to leave him out entirely, rather to hold him to his schedule, give him the opportunity to make right. I’m a little concerned about your daughter and that she will be disappointed by false promises and being let down by this man. So hold him to his promises and make him realize that actions speak louder than words (I’m sure you’ve done this already but don’t let him off the hook, be very clear and reinforce the message.) Dropping out now will not bode well for the relationship in the future. I think there is a chance here for the new beginning but it may not necessarily be all smooth. It also depends on expectations, like will your daughter be sad if he is away for long periods? Would she be all right if he showed up only a few times with long absences in between, just being there for a few fun moments? I think both sides need to clarify their expectations going forward. And I hope your daughter’s voice is being heard in all this (I’m assuming she’s old enough).
Hold him to his promises, I got the feeling that this is very important. With the ace of swords, I feel like this means to clarify schedules/ visits/calls/cards/gifts, that kind of thing. Like making it very clear what is expected and what dropping out means. Actions, consequences, etc etc. He can’t just drop out and expect a relationship in the future, that sort of thing. He’s deluding himself if he thinks that. If he wants the relationship he has to work for it etc. I suppose it is easy to write him off as a lost cause but I feel like there’s something here to give him a chance (but protect your daughter from empty promises).
Good luck with all this, I hope you take it easy for the rest of the pregnancy.

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thanks again for this wonderful reading,

so, things are extremely complicated as far as my ex and my daughter... he has been MOSTLY uninvolved since I left him when she was 9 months. she has never been alone with him and there have been multiple times where he has gone 6, 9, 10 months without contacting her once (which is a LOT when she's not even 4 yet)....

I do believe he loves her and has pride in her, but he really don't even know her. He has only seen her on video chat 2x in the past 15 months. I have the most STRINGENT guidelines via the courts in place that I could possibly have. He can't even have supervised visits with her yet. If he misses anything, or doesn't follow through with anything then he will get nothing.

I'm not sure how she feels about him, she does like him deep down i believe but she's scared of him. She calls him "my mean dad".

posted September 09, 2017 07:43 PM            

I'm glad to hear about all the rules and guidelines you have in place. And I'm rather sorry he hasn't made much effort to know her but that's on him, isn't it?

I think the cards were amenable to giving him a chance, but only if protective measures were in place. And that it would require some bravery on your part in the sense of being open to a new phase. I would hope that whatever happens, it would be something new and better than what has been going on up to this point.

posted September 09, 2017 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Magikaal:
Hi MsB, thank you for your reading and feedback. The energy sounds like what I do need right now. I certainly don't feel like a bundle of power but that is something I have to work on. Re the name, I don't know anyone with this name and years ago had a guide reading with another name but was wondering if that guide was still around or got bored and left, lol. The thing about the ideas, very interesting as that came through very strongly in a reading I did for myself a few days ago. The energy you're picking up is exactly what I need to hear so many thanks for that

I'm glad to hear about all the rules and guidelines you have in place. And I'm rather sorry he hasn't made much effort to know her but that's on him, isn't it?

I think the cards were amenable to giving him a chance, but only if protective measures were in place. And that it would require some bravery on your part in the sense of being open to a new phase. I would hope that whatever happens, it would be something new and better than what has been going on up to this point.

And I like what your daughter said, lol "my mean dad". Glad she can speak her truth like that (I wouldn't have dared to say that about my dad, who was also very mean).

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posted September 10, 2017 11:05 AM            

I do think it's a temporary situation. he had right intentions when he wanted to reconnect with your daughter but he won't be able to keep the promises. Just feel like he's not in the right state of mind to follow a routine even if initially he really wanted to make it work.
He'll be in and out of your life but I just see him eventually fading out into the background with little to no contact once a year. so yes his intentions were there when he wanted to stay connected with his daughter and he planned to follow through but it won't be long when you start noticing his unpredictability and his undependability.

he has a lot of inner struggle. what he says/ does doesn't really align with what he really wants. he is aware of that but he seems to have trouble changing that habit and I don't see him changing any time soon.