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posted August 24, 2018 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Well so we talked....I was an idiot and threw out the l word because I do feel that towards him. He told me he isn't 100% sure he feels that for me. Ouch

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Oh sorry about that but you dont have to feel like an idiot, its for the best to express our feelings!!
Do you want me to pull for a different q now before getting to bed?
Good thing that he didnt lie though, I really believe that, although this doesnt help much in this case

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posted August 24, 2018 05:41 PM            

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hey, dusti

wanna swap readings?

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posted August 24, 2018 05:49 PM            

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Mar I don't even know what to ask. I'm heartbroken and know I have to end it now for sure. Men fall in love quicker and if he isn't feeling it now, he won't later either. I'm just wasting my time.

Jaz, I will gladly pull for you in a little bit. I just need to get my emotions under control

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posted August 24, 2018 05:51 PM            

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ohh, I just read the latest

take your time to heal, hun. This isn't easy

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posted August 26, 2018 04:19 AM            

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Ok dustib
Some additional things about the charts.
Ypu got venus opp venus, merc opp Mercury, sun opp. Sun, Moon opp.Moon and Mars in the same sign (cancer)..I admit I havent seen almost ALL of the personal planets opposing each other in a synastry. Opposition isnt bad per se, cause in opposition th3re is complementarity as well, but maybe it need work. He is too aries btw lol, you said that right and he maybe needs a lot of validation and is too insecure deep inside, also he could be really impulsive and first act, think later. This could cause you problems I guess, if this resonates of course. His aries stellium falls in your 1st house and like I said this boosts up your ego and makes you feel good/express your self more. Also his mars on your jupiter could give you a good amount of laughs and good time, you could expand your philosophical views or travel or turn into spirituality/religion more..mars falls in your 4th house, this could bring a sense of familiarity, but a lot of quarrels and fights too. 4th house is the house of home/family, so there is potential for family still. We cant see completely what kind of potential there is exactly between you without his TOb and his houses, we only see what kind of energy he brings in your life (his planets in your houses).
Another thing I noticed is that his NN falls on your Ceres (we got the same Ceres btw)..do you think he brings you a desperate, like huge sense of loss/grief from time to time, even without doing sth in particular? I had this connection with the South Node of one person and I ask to see if there is a common theme.
Anyway I believe there is definite potential there and there are a lot of karmic ties too, but we cant have a clear picture without his tob as well.
As for the draconic synastry (which is based on the NOdes)
In the draconic you are an Aries sun, mayne thats why (apart from your aries SN) ypu are attracted so much to this energy. He is a leo sun. Your synastry there shows there are most definitely karmic ties, since he puts a stellium of 4 planets in your 12th house and his Saturn right on your IC (soul/soulfamily/home)..you should watch out for lies etc, i dont know if you are gonna be able to put up with it or if he deserves that anyway, but yes, unfortunately thwre are indicators for that..
Also his Chiron is right on your Asc, so he has the potential to heal you from some wounds of the past, having to do with your appearance/first impressions you give out/some impulsive dynamic actions you instinctively feel like taking. He is exposing his sensitive spot at the same time if he does that..they say chiron can funtion as a glue in a relationship. Saturn is good for longevity too, although right on your IC could make you feel a bit suffocative/too restricted, depending on how much Saturn you can handle.
Waiting for the news anyway, hope you hang in there and everything turns out for the best!

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posted August 26, 2018 04:56 AM            

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Oh I just checked this thread out dusti I’m sorry but I hate to say I told you so.
This is what i’ve been trying to tell you for a few months now.... anytime I would pull I would never get any love cards or even much positive ones. This was very worrying to me, and then when you told me other things he’s done it really confirmed my readings for me, there were just red flags galore.
I’m happy you’ve finally seen the light now❤️😊😊
This is a good thing! Even tho it’s hard right now, you have to sometimes sacrifice your temporary unhappiness when you go thru the breakup so you can find something much better in the future 👍
This isn’t a loss girly, this is you knowing you deserve better 😘
I went thru a similar experience with M, him showing so many red flags in the beginning and me being naive and in love for the first time I ignored my intuition and what I knew deep down was the truth. I wish I would have cut things off sooner and not put myself through so much unnecessary pain for the next 3 years. So Learn from me! Pls! Everyone! Lol if you have to wonder if someone loves you, or if you’re ever in a relationship where you’re questioning your self-worth, RUN! That’s not the person or relationship for you. Period. Don’t ever rationalize bad behaviour or your own feelings when you know something isn’t right or bothers you. Don’t make excuse or be in denial because it’s easier that way, you’re only avoiding the inevitable.
Not everyone is meant for you! I get messages from my spirit guides sometimes, I meditated on this idea of unrequited love for quite some time and this is what they told me; You’re probably on totally different vibrations, I like to think of it as like you’re way up here, and he’s still down here. In terms of spiritual develpment and maturity and soul growth. We all reincarnate many times, some are newer and some are older souls, and the older the soul, the more spiritual the lifetime. So you can feel him, you can love him cuz you’re able to squat down, to go to his level and connect because you can relate, you’ve been there already, you have the capacity, the extra height aka spiritual development to do so. It’s like being in grade 12 and going back to grade 8, it’s easy. But imagine him being in grade 8 and having to go to your level in grade 12! He can’t do it! So for him, even on his tiptoes he can’t reach you, because he doesn’t have the capacity, so he can’t connect to you even if he tried, it’s like trying to grab something from the highest shelf, can’t do it. You’re on different levels/vibrations.
This doesn’t make you any less or unworthy of love even though at first it does feel like a huge blow to the ego (I would know lol) when you give and give and try to make someone love you back the way you loved them, it seems unfair, but this is God and the universes way of protecting you, you’re someone else’s soulmate and he’s out there waiting for you!
Think of this as a learning experience tho ❤️ Now you know what to avoid and watch out for in the future, you’re aware of the red flags and you will never have to go through this unrequited love experience EVER again. Sometimes we need to learn things the hard way, but its for our own good. And your soul already decided it wanted to experience and learn these lessons in this lifetime, with him. He was a karmic soulmate for you. They’re not meant to last, they’re painful, but ultimately a blessing in the end 😇

I’m sending you healing energy 😘😘😘😘 you will be fine, promise if I can do it, anyone can do it! Just trust.

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posted August 26, 2018 11:35 AM            

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Hi Luna
I just read over your letter to Dustib. Words of wisdom from such a young woman as yourself! I am going through a similar situation as her and yourself it sounds like as John told me he has a girlfriend and has for the last two years!! I guess that’s what the seven of swords was all about every time I asked about him. I know some harsh words came between us which I deeply regret because I felt we had a nice connection. I could see all along that with Michael it would eventually come to an end and you would be hurt. Now all three of us are cursing men UGH! haha. Gotta laugh. Tired of crying. I hope there can be forgiveness because you did help me
and I hope in a small way I helped too.
Poochy💕

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posted August 26, 2018 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Luna
I just read over your letter to Dustib. Words of wisdom from such a young woman as yourself! I am going through a similar situation as her and yourself it sounds like as John told me he has a girlfriend and has for the last two years!! I guess that’s what the seven of swords was all about every time I asked about him. I know some harsh words came between us which I deeply regret because I felt we had a nice connection. I could see all along that with Michael it would eventually come to an end and you would be hurt. Now all three of us are cursing men UGH! haha. Gotta laugh. Tired of crying. I hope there can be forgiveness because you did help me
and I hope in a small way I helped too.
Poochy💕

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Thank you poochy! I appreciate it, and yes no hard feelings lol. Life is too short ❤️
I’m sorry, but as you can see this is a very common experience! Happens to the best of us!
If Beyoncé can get cheated on by jay z! None of us are immune to lies or selfish behavior! Lol sometimes people are just very immature. I’ve learned that when people treat you badly or unfairly, it’s never a reflection on you, but on them!

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posted August 26, 2018 12:10 PM            

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So true! I’m just wondering how to handle it now as I don’t want to stop volunteering or to change my days. I love the group I work with. Glad we’re friends again. 🙂

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posted September 04, 2018 09:47 AM            

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mar, we ended up making up after a lot of talking about things. I do get where he's coming from but yet it still sucks that I know how I feel and he's still unsure. Or does he know but doesn't want to tell me?

Can you pull and see how he feels about me? He's sending some mixed signals but I'm taking a step back which I told him and he doesn't like but I told him I have to protect myself.

Thanks!

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