posted November 20, 2018 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by thequeen:
I asked how will next three months be for these areas-

Love - 3 of Pents, 4 of Swords
So you seem to be resting in the area of love. Not much activity can be anticipated here. Although, you might go out and socialize, but it will be strictly professional which may end up tiring you. Though it is love reading, I feel career might occupy most of your mind and right now you are quite focused on building a stable ground to stand on than look for love.

Career - 4 of Wands, 9 of Pents, World

Wow! So you will really flourish during next three months in regards to your career. Something is coming to a successful closure which means you might bag a new job and start a new healthy cycle in your career.

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posted November 20, 2018 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Alright Dream, for your question:
can you get a read on if he really feels this connection with me as strongly as I feel it with him?

Tower + Chariot + Sun + 9 of Swords + 10 of Wands

Clarifier: Lovers

Yeah, he really does. I don't know if you feel this at all... but there's a sense that you've "saved him" from what he considered to be a very unpleasant time in his life. The Tower paired with the Chariot tell me that he felt like he was imploding, and then he met you... and he felt like Alexander the Great, like he could conquer the World and beyond. His knee-jerk feeling for you is the Sun, and when that's paired with the Lovers... forget about it. This is a big deal, and he knows it, and he feels it.

The back half of the spread is the 9 of Swords and 10 of Wands, which tell me he is a little scared he's going to mess it up because he isn't able to move as fast as he wants (that 10 is hard... he feels like he is so close to being able to approach you, but it's just not right, right yet). However, you definitely represent to him an end to the chaos that has been his life for the last few years, and while he's scared it might mess up (still waiting for that shoe to drop), he feels at a gut/soul level that the two of you are fated... and he's going to push towards that just as soon as he can.

Dude, this homeboy really feels love for you. It's awesome. It just absolutely lifts the room up, to be honest. I'm really excited for you <3 <3 <3

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posted November 20, 2018 05:48 PM            

"That is wild. I love it. Any chance you think he might change after he gets this project sold? He might take time for himself? Of course... then it would just be a matter of time until production on that started, and the whole thing started up again, right? I just don't understand why the Universe would yoke us together (seriously, it was bizarrely perfect kismet) and then... this. Anyway, I guess that's faith for you, right? Just trusting the Universe has something planned and/or good reasons.

I do feel that this is meant to be a catylst for both of you, but more so for him. I get the sense that he's never really been in love before, and with you he sees the stars. sun and the moon. He is well aware of your presence and energy on a tremendously different level than he has ever experienced, and he wants to drown in that feeling, truly.

He is TERRIFIED that he will let his guard down and truly open up and let you in, and that you will leave him. This guy has DEEP abandonment wounds from childhood, by the way. So, overall , I see a whole lotta push/pull happening, with spurts of action and then frustration and non-activity. Sorry

BUT on the positive side: I do see other men for you, as I believe I mentioned in an earlier read. Just know that this dude FEELS for you, he digs you. He's just terrified to let himself go....

posted November 20, 2018 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
OK and for your question

"That is wild. I love it. Any chance you think he might change after he gets this project sold? He might take time for himself? Of course... then it would just be a matter of time until production on that started, and the whole thing started up again, right? I just don't understand why the Universe would yoke us together (seriously, it was bizarrely perfect kismet) and then... this. Anyway, I guess that's faith for you, right? Just trusting the Universe has something planned and/or good reasons.

I do feel that this is meant to be a catylst for both of you, but more so for him. I get the sense that he's never really been in love before, and with you he sees the stars. sun and the moon. He is well aware of your presence and energy on a tremendously different level than he has ever experienced, and he wants to drown in that feeling, truly.

He is TERRIFIED that he will let his guard down and truly open up and let you in, and that you will leave him. This guy has DEEP abandonment wounds from childhood, by the way. So, overall , I see a whole lotta push/pull happening, with spurts of action and then frustration and non-activity. Sorry

BUT on the positive side: I do see other men for you, as I believe I mentioned in an earlier read. Just know that this dude FEELS for you, he digs you. He's just terrified to let himself go....

Leave me more if you have, I left another above at your leisure

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Thank you!! I’ll read as soon as I’m home from work. Do you think he’ll ever grow out of this habit? Even in a few months or years? Because, as stupid as this sounds... I just don’t want to give up on this. I want to be with him. Idk why, but just... damn it. I’m a triple Leo and want what I want, hahahaha. I want us to date for those 3 months you mentioned, even if it’s just that. Worse still, I think I know who this other air sign is... and I feel absolutely nothing for him. I knew him from college, and he is trying to date me now, but just won’t take the hint.

posted November 20, 2018 08:10 PM            

For your love life in the next 2 months:

So I see a currant expansion, development, you feel happy about it, there is some budding communication with a fire sign ( Page of wands on Empress), it feels exciting and fulfilling, exactly what you craved. I have to give you a little awarning, though, that this development might be hindered for awhle in the next month, I see you getting disappointed , really, like- too much hopes up and then it doesn't measure up to your expectations, you will be strong about it, however, you will not budge, it is not the first time you feel disappoint5ed by this person, after all, you expected it in advance. I think the re-connection with this person will def fail for the time being and turn you into a stone. The period is until the end of this year.

posted November 20, 2018 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Thank you!! I’ll read as soon as I’m home from work. Do you think he’ll ever grow out of this habit? Even in a few months or years? Because, as stupid as this sounds... I just don’t want to give up on this. I want to be with him. Idk why, but just... damn it. I’m a triple Leo and want what I want, hahahaha. I want us to date for those 3 months you mentioned, even if it’s just that. Worse still, I think I know who this other air sign is... and I feel absolutely nothing for him. I knew him from college, and he is trying to date me now, but just won’t take the hint.

Okay. Sorry. I faked a potty break to write this, hahah. I’m off at 10pm CST. I’ll read for you about R!

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Hi Becca-ok so I do feel it will change and he will want to spend more time with you ,I see him making more of an effort and I see the two of you having a glass of champagne..I actually hear the clinking of the glasses- I feel he is going to ask you to go somewhere as his date, and this will be a turning point for you. Now, however, I would tell you to 'actively wait' meaning: keep your options open!!

And as far as outgrowing, he will grow through it with you by his side, as a silent force...he knows you are worth it, truly it's his own stuff getting in the way. He will feel it when another expresses interest in you, which is right around the corner....I see you getting an influx of male attention over the coming months.

posted November 20, 2018 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi Becca-ok so I do feel it will change and he will want to spend more time with you ,I see him making more of an effort and I see the two of you having a glass of champagne..I actually hear the clinking of the glasses- I feel he is going to ask you to go somewhere as his date, and this will be a turning point for you. Now, however, I would tell you to 'actively wait' meaning: keep your options open!!

And as far as outgrowing, he will grow through it with you by his side, as a silent force...he knows you are worth it, truly it's his own stuff getting in the way. He will feel it when another expresses interest in you, which is right around the corner....I see you getting an influx of male attention over the coming months.

His desire is for you and you only, when he allows himself to go there!

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First off, let me apologize for being such a petulant ass about that earlier post. I was having a bad day personally, and the way I cope is by letting my imagination get the better of me (Leo Sun/Sag Moon). Your readings have been nothing but insightful and helpful, and I know you are 100% correct on the fact that this is, and will, probably not work out right now. And I know for sure that I need to be open, because the Universe always provides... so to that end, I really am sorry that I was like "AAAAHHHH TELL ME WHAT I WANT TO HEAR," because you've been nothing but gracious so far, and I truly appreciate the time you've put into me and my silly little desires. You're an awesome person, and you wouldn't happen to be named Denise would you? One of my guides referred to you that way earlier, and I just thought I'd ask.

Alright, now, the good stuff! Your question about your mutual friends and their perspective on all this:
Fool + Ace of Pents + 9 of Pents + Queen of Pents + 10 of Wands

Clarifier: Page of Swords

I think some of your friends are actually surprised that you've chosen him. Before you met him, were you sort of talking about being a fine, single lady who didn't need a man? That you were going to enjoy your freedom and just like... go on vacations and kiss tall, handsome strangers and finally get yours? Regardless, I don't feel like the notion has really dawned on a lot of your mutual friends yet. They can see the potential (Ace with QoP), and there does seem to be some agreement that you two would be well-suited, but there's also a sense of... there's almost like an expectation that both of you are starting on new "single" journeys, and there's some general surprise/hesitation that you would both be jumping into something again (Fool/Ten). Not in a bad way. Again, I think people would be very supportive of you two as a pair if and when you decided to step forward together, but I think that the group of people you both have surrounded yourself with are very protective and practical; they want to make sure you are both "safe" emotionally and mentally.

I definitely get a strong female vibe -- she's the protector -- and I think she'll tell you that she'll support it, but that she would be cautious? I almost feel like she wears big earrings and throws down, never minces her words, because she values honesty and you very much. She might take some coming around, but overall, this would be seen very positively by your friends, once they realize it's the real McCoy.

posted November 20, 2018 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
Thank you for my reading, of course it resonates!

For your love life in the next 2 months:

So I see a currant expansion, development, you feel happy about it, there is some budding communication with a fire sign ( Page of wands on Empress), it feels exciting and fulfilling, exactly what you craved. I have to give you a little awarning, though, that this development might be hindered for awhle in the next month, I see you getting disappointed , really, like- too much hopes up and then it doesn't measure up to your expectations, you will be strong about it, however, you will not budge, it is not the first time you feel disappoint5ed by this person, after all, you expected it in advance. I think the re-connection with this person will def fail for the time being and turn you into a stone. The period is until the end of this year.

The Empress- 8 of Cups- Strength- 6 of Cups Rex- 5 of Swords

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posted November 21, 2018 01:08 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
That makes sense, if I'm being honest. So thank you for this reading. It's definitely not pleasant, but it's good to know what to expect. Thank you so much!

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posted November 21, 2018 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
This is very similar to what I got as well for you Becca. pretty much I got a fire sign too lol.
Caprika is a great reader, one of the most accurate and more importantly, honest. 👍

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posted November 21, 2018 08:35 AM            

If you feel like exchanging again, I'm game
I would love to know if you see other men around me sson, and also, how would that make Mr MT feel to know/hear that I was dating someone else? (hypothetical just curious)

posted November 21, 2018 06:05 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
would you be interested in exchanging again?

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posted November 21, 2018 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Thanks Becca! It makes sense, as usual...By the way, NEVER apologize- you are not being a petulant ass at all!! In fact, I fnid you to be so kind and gracious- you can ask me however many quesstions you would like!! I'm sorry to keep asking about the same thing LOL!!! THANK YOU

If you feel like exchanging again, I'm game
I would love to know if you see other men around me sson, and also, how would that make Mr MT feel to know/hear that I was dating someone else? (hypothetical just curious)

Please leave me more questions! I'm the pain in the neck here, NOT YOU HA!

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We are both basically amazing, rofl. Let’s just embrace our glory

I will definitely read for you about other me (ooh la la), and I guess I’m mostly curious if you can pick up on what issues M has (re: abandonment). Like what happened or what caused them, etc.

I work until very late tonight, so I probably won’t be able to read for you until tomorrow morning. I apologize! No rush on mine either 💕

posted November 21, 2018 10:28 PM            

Ok so I looked into these abandonment issues with M...I picked up on a lot concerning his mother. Like, she was emotionally distant and aloof with him. although he was spoiled at the same time. He got mixed messages from her...on one hand, she showered him with attention and affection , but if he ;'misbehaved' or did something she did not like, she pulled back emotionally and he would feel abandoned. This is why he is such a hard worker, an over achiever if you will as he feels in control of his emotions this way....it's like he has this deep seated need to unconsciously prove himself to her (his mother)...almost like saying . 'Screw you Mom, I'm fine on my own, I don't need you'. When in reality, he's a big mush that does crave love and affection...this is why you feel so much for him, it's like you see his soul.

Aw, I kind of feel sorry for him..seems like therapy would help him, but I don't know that he would ever go?

posted November 22, 2018 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
And just to clarify, my above question was on the same guy we've been reading on . Take your time with it!

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
I would love to know if you see other men around me soon, and also, how would that make Mr MT feel to know/hear that I was dating someone else? (hypothetical just curious)
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You are so far from a pain in the neck, it's laughable. Truly.

4 of Pents + 8 of Wands + Emperor + 10 of Pents + Judgment

Clarifier: 8 of Cups

Alright, so I focused on if any other men were coming around you, with the side note of how MT would feel... and he wouldn't stand for it, basically. That 8 of Cups as clarifier is pretty resounding, and I do think in this spread MT shows up as the Emperor -- he is a woman man, by God, you will be that woman.

I don't think any other men will be around you soon, if only because MT is getting ready to make his move and jump start your future (8 + 10 of Pents). Again, I'd say it will be before the end of this month that he puts the wheels in motion, but it might not be until Mid-December that you actually see any full progress on the situation (the wands are fast, but the pentacles grind slowly, so we split the difference). The 4 with Judgment suggests to me that security in love (no other suitors, nobody else coming up) is just what's required here, and there are some karmic forces at work keeping other people at bay so you can have this opportunity. Again, MT represents the Emperor to me here, and he just knows what he wants and he knows he is going to at least try to get it (still think he is worried about messing things up)... but no. This is the path you're supposed to walk right now, haha. It's not a bad one at all. There are things WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY worse than that Ten of Pentacles, which is all about lasting legacy, joy, and ultimate success rofl. I'm super excited for you.

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Sad to hear that about M, but I definitely got the vibe that he wasn't comfortable with compliments not predicated on success. He cuts himself down a lot, and when I tell him to stop, he'll say things like, "Yeah, who doesn't want to hear things like that?" Or "You're right. That is something good to hear."

If you are up for one more (but omg it is Thanksgiving, don't even worry). I guess what I'd like to know is that... I guess just anything your guides can think of that I need to know about the situation with M that hasn't already been discussed, no blinders or dream influences (again, we have a composite in our charts that makes us hard to see each other realistically sometimes). He's gone dark again (his mother is in town), and I'm going to keep being myself. Reaching out into silence and just knowing that I'm doing it because it's what I would do with anyone I cared for. I don't know, you know?

Also, Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you so much for being so open and kind and flexible. It's been great fun to just practice with you and test drive my new guide in the process he definitely does not like it when I read for myself or putz around with questions about M hahahahhaa.

posted November 22, 2018 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Sure! What question do you have?

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posted November 23, 2018 09:28 PM            

I hope you can fit another one in. Leave your question(s)

How will the next three months go for me in general? Still waiting to hear back on a book project and finishing other home projects for both my mom and me.

Thank you,
Spring

posted November 23, 2018 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Does T really believe his kids will fall apart and not adjust if he were to get back in a relationship or is that an excuse? If he really believes it, will he ever take a chance?

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Temperance + Moon + Death + King of Swords + Hermit

Clarifier: Knight of Swords

I definitely think he's concerned about destroying the balance that's been created for his children (Temperance/Moon). Whether this is justified or not... it's hard to say. There also a great deal of self-protection and self-realization going on in him. Death with the Knight of Swords makes me think that he is tired of taking risks in general, and that he'd rather settle into a period of non-activity so he can figure out what this new chapter of his life represents. I also think he is scared of taking risks in general -- is he a Capricorn or has major Cap influences in his chart? Juxtaposed to that Moon, I get the sense that he is wary of things that could hurt him in general right now, and I think he is hyper-aware of how vulnerable his is at the moment. He's definitely trying to figure out who he is and what he wants and what he will accept into his life. So while, yes, he is worried about his children sincerely, he is also worried about himself (so it's a like... 95% truth and 5% excuse to give him time to go to a cave and become the Hermit).

posted November 23, 2018 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:

How will the next three months go for me in general? Still waiting to hear back on a book project and finishing other home projects for both my mom and me.

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Hi Spring! The next three months look like this:

Fool + Page of Swords + Justice + King of Cups + 6 of Pentacles

Clarifier: Strength

I don't think too much is going to change for you, honestly, but I do think that's because this phase of your life is karmically important (Justice/Strength). Something about all this waiting and stop/starts are being designed to grow you and your bravery muscles -- you ability to trust in the Universe.

The Fool leads the way in this spread, and he is paired with the 6 of Pentacles, which tells me you will still get the help you need to chase your own projects and dreams (both financial and emotional help). I also see a lot of mental activity with the King of Cups, who I am reading as a manager or potential editor. He'll play a role in helping by offering advice (6 of Pentacles). I get the feeling he likes what he sees, and you'll need the strength to see his ideas and edits through (if it is indeed a manager/editor). If he isn't, I almost get the feel that he is a doctor or someone related to the medical field who might lend you money and/or services that you will use to help continue on this new journey.

All of this is for a good reason, though. Justice says all this happening because it is what you deserve: you are good person who is growing, and you will get all the resources you need to continue succeeding in the next three months.

Hope any of this resonates! If not, I can try again.

posted November 23, 2018 10:40 PM            

Ok so the message here is to be kind, be still and be present. The answers will come. In other words, keep doing what you are doing, but remain open to other possibiliteis when they come. It's interesting his mother is in town, as I picked up on her previously. Im telling you, that woman puts him on high alert! She gets to his nerves alright, unlike any other. I do feel in time, the two of you will discuss her. Do not push for answers though, as he won't open up that way...

I do feel that it is good to keep the lines of communication open, without leading him to believe you are waiting..I;m hoping this can turn intoa more serious thing for you BEcca, but I dunno, his head is a little messy . . It's like he does not want to let anyone in too far, but if he did, it would be you hands down! He's magnetically drawn to you, in a way like no other, and he fears it will be hi s ruination if he gives in too much (ridiculous, I know but here is this fear of abandonment again!)

let me know if this resonates or if you would like me to read again.

I guess I am wondering what MT thinks of me physically? LOL like what does he find attractive about me ? (just curious as vain as this sounds)

posted November 23, 2018 10:59 PM            

The Tower: It can mean either a complete and sudden change in your life or unexpected events. I've gotten this, too, at times and know that the Pluto transit to my ascendant would be a good example of a complete and sudden change. I did some draws and it did come up beyond six months for you.

Thank you. On your reading for me, someone else pulled the king of cups. I also had a dream over the last year of a shopping cart and placing some groceries in it and then it be left outside the store. It was odd. When I got an intuitive reading on it, they picked up that someone (a man) would be buying my groceries in the future. I did see a pic of the staff at the publisher where I submitted my manuscript to and there is a man in the photo, so that may be the manager/partner as the executive editor/owner is a woman.

Spring

posted November 23, 2018 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Ok so the message here is to be kind, be still and be present. The answers will come. In other words, keep doing what you are doing, but remain open to other possibilities when they come.

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That's the best advice I've heard, because it's exactly what I've started to feel. I asked my cards earlier if I should give up, and it was a resounding no, but they also were quick to tell me that things aren't ready or right yet. I usually pull him as the Emperor/King of Swords, but when I asked when things would be right... he was the King of Pentacles. I guess he just needs to feel stable and grounded, first, and I'm just going to do my own thing until then. Still be his friend. Still acknowledge that I am pretty much crazy in love with him... but yeah. Move forward. Also, I love that that advice is in 3's, because that's how my guide always talked to me when she was being brutally honest. It feels very much familiar and good.

Alright, your question, what does he think of you physically (and it is so not vain at all):

10 of Cups + Queen of Pentacles + Tower + 8 of Wands + Judgment
Clarifier; 9 of Cups

Simply put, I think you really, really get to him in terms of desire and physicality. The Tower is the core here, and while it doesn't represent a physical look or state, it does read to me as a major sexual attraction that disrupts one's thoughts or plans. I also read this as a positive card here, because it's surrounded by the Queen and 8 of Wands. Are you dark-haired? He sees you as someone who is supple and womanly; you are the embodiment of "woman" to him, and he likes it all (10 of Cups w/ Queen). He also sees you as someone he would want to have children with (in a way that he thinks you are beautiful and your children would be beautiful, inferring that from the fact that the woman being held by the man in the 10's image is dark-haired, as is their children). The 9 of Cups makes me think you are also a body type that he fantasized about as a young man -- the 9 being all about wishes and dreams coming true. I also do not think it is a surprise at all that the 8 of Wands (fairly phallic rods flying through the air) are all pointing at Judgment, which is literally card covered with naked people, haha. You represent something deeply attractive and sexually appealing to him... and he likes what he sees quite a bit. I think it would also do you good to wear a dress or two when you finally go out, as I think that will play into his desire overall.