posted May 30, 2022 12:26 PM            

The instant gratification thing is getting so bad that most relationships have a turn-around time of what...a month, 2, 3, lol!?

Cancer is my absolute favorite boy sign. I lived with one for 4 years, dated one for 2 years, and my first real boyfriend ever was a Cancer. It is like pulling teeth to get a Cancer to tell you how they feel, but they do eventually. What's his moon and Venus sign?

I can very much relate to the shutting down and inability to communicate thing. I think that's most guys, but Cancers definitely crawl into their little turtle shell and hide and then are butthurt when they peek their head out and you're mad that they disappeared.

I think after what the globe just experienced, it's difficult for anyone to deal with anything and everyone is terrified with being left alone with their thoughts again or something.

I can also relate to the clarity thing. If I were you, though, since he's had some time to think, I'd probably reach out and just ask him if he's ok, but that's just me. Lol, those grumpy little Cancers...

I think he will eventually contact you, though, if you don't contact him.

Shoshannazeze, you're quite welcome! Maybe we all need this thread right now! I can relate to much of your situation, too. It really has been a tough year and boys drive me crazy even when they're middle-aged men, lol! I started out this year by being brutally dumped like 3 days after the new year. I spent almost a year cultivating a relationship with this guy and we finally start hanging out. He was chicken to meet me in person, but we talked online daily. So, it was a real shocker when we met in person and were super attracted to each other for him to only dump me like not even a month later and tell me I was stressing him out, because I would ask when I was gonna see him again and he got weirdly mad at me and freaked out. So, I was super upset and then I was feeling good finally and I was like I'm gonna start looking again and just go out on some dates and see what I find. I find this thing...the one I'm referring to in the beginning of this thread and never did I think I would actually even be able to feel anything so quickly for another person after the last...ughhhhh...

The instant gratification thing is getting so bad that most relationships have a turn-around time of what...a month, 2, 3, lol!?

Cancer is my absolute favorite boy sign. I lived with one for 4 years, dated one for 2 years, and my first real boyfriend ever was a Cancer. It is like pulling teeth to get a Cancer to tell you how they feel, but they do eventually. What's his moon and Venus sign?

I can very much relate to the shutting down and inability to communicate thing. I think that's most guys, but Cancers definitely crawl into their little turtle shell and hide and then are butthurt when they peek their head out and you're mad that they disappeared.

I think after what the globe just experienced, it's difficult for anyone to deal with anything and everyone is terrified with being left alone with their thoughts again or something.

I can also relate to the clarity thing. If I were you, though, since he's had some time to think, I'd probably reach out and just ask him if he's ok, but that's just me. Lol, those grumpy little Cancers...

I think he will eventually contact you, though, if you don't contact him. I definitely think he misses you and hope all the things going on in his life calm down so you can continue in a better place with him.

I think they all want lots of cake and I wish they'd just be happy with a single delicious cake that's not all dry and crusty, but they gotta sample all the cakes, lol!

Shoshannazeze, you're quite welcome! Maybe we all need this thread right now! I can relate to much of your situation, too. It really has been a tough year and boys drive me crazy even when they're middle-aged men, lol! I started out this year by being brutally dumped like 3 days after the new year. I spent almost a year cultivating a relationship with this guy and we finally start hanging out. He was chicken to meet me in person, but we talked online daily. So, it was a real shocker when we met in person and were super attracted to each other for him to only dump me like not even a month later and tell me I was stressing him out, because I would ask when I was gonna see him again and he got weirdly mad at me and freaked out. So, I was super upset and then I was feeling good finally and I was like I'm gonna start looking again and just go out on some dates and see what I find. I find this thing...the one I'm referring to in the beginning of this thread and never did I think I would actually even be able to feel anything so quickly for another person after the last...ughhhhh...

The instant gratification thing is getting so bad that most relationships have a turn-around time of what...a month, 2, 3, lol!?

Cancer is my absolute favorite boy sign. I lived with one for 4 years, dated one for 2 years, and my first real boyfriend ever was a Cancer. It is like pulling teeth to get a Cancer to tell you how they feel, but they do eventually. What's his moon and Venus sign?

I can very much relate to the shutting down and inability to communicate thing. I think that's most guys, but Cancers definitely crawl into their little turtle shell and hide and then are butthurt when they peek their head out and you're mad that they disappeared.

I think after what the globe just experienced, it's difficult for anyone to deal with anything and everyone is terrified with being left alone with their thoughts again or something.

I can also relate to the clarity thing. If I were you, though, since he's had some time to think, I'd probably reach out and just ask him if he's ok, but that's just me. Lol, those grumpy little Cancers...

I think he will eventually contact you, though, if you don't contact him.
Shoshannazeze, you're quite welcome! Maybe we all need this thread right now! I can relate to much of your situation, too. It really has been a tough year and boys drive me crazy even when they're middle-aged men, lol! I started out this year by being brutally dumped like 3 days after the new year. I spent almost a year cultivating a relationship with this guy and we finally start hanging out. He was chicken to meet me in person, but we talked online daily. So, it was a real shocker when we met in person and were super attracted to each other for him to only dump me like not even a month later and tell me I was stressing him out, because I would ask when I was gonna see him again and he got weirdly mad at me and freaked out. So, I was super upset and then I was feeling good finally and I was like I'm gonna start looking again and just go out on some dates and see what I find. I find this thing...the one I'm referring to in the beginning of this thread and never did I think I would actually even be able to feel anything so quickly for another person after the last...ughhhhh...

The instant gratification thing is getting so bad that most relationships have a turn-around time of what...a month, 2, 3, lol!?

Cancer is my absolute favorite boy sign. I lived with one for 4 years, dated one for 2 years, and my first real boyfriend ever was a Cancer. It is like pulling teeth to get a Cancer to tell you how they feel, but they do eventually. What's his moon and Venus sign?

I can very much relate to the shutting down and inability to communicate thing. I think that's most guys, but Cancers definitely crawl into their little turtle shell and hide and then are butthurt when they peek their head out and you're mad that they disappeared.

I think after what the globe just experienced, it's difficult for anyone to deal with anything and everyone is terrified with being left alone with their thoughts again or something.

I can also relate to the clarity thing. If I were you, though, since he's had some time to think, I'd probably reach out and just ask him if he's ok, but that's just me. Lol, those grumpy little Cancers...

I think he will eventually contact you, though, if you don't contact him.

I hope when everything calms down in his life you can start fresh and there won't be so many obstacles initially. I think that's how alot of relationships end early when there is too much piling up and some people (Cancers, lol) just shut down and they'd just rather not do it than to lose it down the line or something.

I can relate to that, too.

posted May 30, 2022 02:16 PM            

Your doing some awesome readings for everyone! Keep up the good works.

posted May 30, 2022 11:20 PM            

I hate that feeling. I am so sorry! I hope it resolves sooner than later. It feels like a gut punch when someone blocks you and you can't even see what they're up to, but I guess that's what he felt like he had to do to get through it.

posted May 30, 2022 11:47 PM            

Gemini Venus and Mars, huh? I have a male friend who has all of those placements, but his Moon is in Scorpio and he is the most sensitive, sweet guy I've ever met. I could talk to him about absolutely anything except my crush on him, lol. I used to have kind of a crush on him, but he lives realllllly far away. And, I think at one point it was reciprocated, but I didn't find that out until a good 5 years later, because that's how expressive he was about it, lol.

I love looking at overlays. I don't think people look at them enough to dig deeper when they need to. I don't think the 11th house is a bad place to have love placements. It's good to have a friendship in place before and after you fall in love. You want to like each other as humans.

I've done the charts of all the guys in question, lol. I'm that lady in the meme who's like what time were you born, where, and when's your birthday? Lol!!! I don't have times for all of them. Do you mean the one I met while I was on the date with the other guy or the current one and the guy before that that freaked out and dumped me this year?

The one I was on a date with when I met that other guy was a Leo with a Virgo Moon and a Cancer Venus. The one that I met while I was on that date was an Aquarius with a Libra Moon and Venus in Pisces.

The one from the beginning of the year was an Aquarius/Capricorn cusp born on the first day of Aquarius with a Pisces Moon and Venus in Pisces.

The current one is a Pisces with a Pisces Moon and Venus in Capricorn.

posted May 31, 2022 01:44 AM            

With regard to a Cancer with an Aries moon, omg! They're so emotional and sensitive! Is yours really hyper? My son's father talked alot and he was hyper and barely ever slept. I had a good friendship with him, but eventually, that relationship became really toxic. It's weird, though, because when we weren't romantically involved, we were the best of friends. He had way more game than a typical Cancer, but he had a Leo Venus, flirt...lol..and the Aries Moon gave him more confidence and assertiveness, I think. He came on strong, but underneath the tough guy was a sensitive guy.

I think certain transits bring in certain energies even as far as signs go. My midheaven sits right between my 3rd (Aquarius house) and 4th house in Pisces.

posted May 31, 2022 11:20 AM            

Astro, I'm not too familiar with transits! It's sort of hard for me to still grasp how it all works lol, I've never really looked into them personally bc I just haven't really learned it, but I THINK you have something warm and great waiting for you on the horizon :-D That's super interesting!
That's sooooo much aquarian energy! And all throughout your life too...
haha, It pains me to think of him atm but yes, sorta hyper :')

Saggy I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY!!! Really, I hope you take some time for self care.
And I'll keep that in mind, it's been a few months but I really appreciate hearing your input from someone on the other side. I would give it time, write out what you're feeling and what you want to say, sit on it, and rewrite and repeat until you have something very truthful and tempered from yourself <3

posted June 01, 2022 05:16 AM            

The first card I pulled is judgement so LC is definitely trying to figure you out and make up their mind about how exactly they SHOULD feel about you.

I then pulled the Queen of Wands. Do you have alot of fire in your chart? LC views you as a confident, passionate feminine influence, who goes after their desires. You aren't afraid to say how you feel and what you are looking for in their eyes.

I then pulled the nine of pentacles. LC feels comfortable, secure, and safe when they're with you. You are a stabilizing influence for them.

I pulled 3 oracle cards to support the tarot and further elaborate on how LC feels about you.

The first card is stars and this card fate and feeling at home with a person.

The second oracle card I pulled is the ring and this card indicates that LC feels duty-bound to you out of respect and tradition. This card also warns you to be careful concerning signing or agreeing to any legally binding matters without really thinking it through. It could also be contemplating engagement, depending where you are in your relationship. It might simply mean they consider you to be "marriage material", a person they could see themself having as a spouse.

And I'm happy to have pulled this oracle card, because I haven't yet pulled it! It's a pretty new deck. I pull the heart, which is obvious, lol! It's love, passion, and attraction. This supports that Queen of Wands, who they view you as. There is alooooot of passionate feelings right now.

Congratulations! Good things are coming!

posted June 01, 2022 05:45 AM            

Sometimes I don't send what I wrote to the person in question at all if I decide it's not helpful after I've come out of my feels. I think I've definitely made that mistake more than once and then later when I'm not as upset, I'm like oh, why did I say that.

Think about what you want to keep to yourself and what you really want him to understand.

posted June 01, 2022 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by astrogal:
Hi, Kekerina! Nice to meet you! I'm sorry it took me so long to get back on this thread. I've been working and dealing with some difficult stuff.

The first card I pulled is judgement so LC is definitely trying to figure you out and make up their mind about how exactly they SHOULD feel about you.

I then pulled the Queen of Wands. Do you have alot of fire in your chart? LC views you as a confident, passionate feminine influence, who goes after their desires. You aren't afraid to say how you feel and what you are looking for in their eyes.

I then pulled the nine of pentacles. LC feels comfortable, secure, and safe when they're with you. You are a stabilizing influence for them.

I pulled 3 oracle cards to support the tarot and further elaborate on how LC feels about you.

The first card is stars and this card fate and feeling at home with a person.

The second oracle card I pulled is the ring and this card indicates that LC feels duty-bound to you out of respect and tradition. This card also warns you to be careful concerning signing or agreeing to any legally binding matters without really thinking it through. It could also be contemplating engagement, depending where you are in your relationship. It might simply mean they consider you to be "marriage material", a person they could see themself having as a spouse.

And I'm happy to have pulled this oracle card, because I haven't yet pulled it! It's a pretty new deck. I pull the heart, which is obvious, lol! It's love, passion, and attraction. This supports that Queen of Wands, who they view you as. There is alooooot of passionate feelings right now.

Congratulations! Good things are coming!

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posted June 02, 2022 10:54 PM            

Also, very interesting that you should say that, Sho. I don't know if that's what happened, but I find that guys, sometimes, in lieu of being honest avoid confrontation even if the decent thing to do is to give you some type of closure. I'm not sure if that's the situation, but I sure hope not.

posted June 02, 2022 11:12 PM            

It looks like to me that that he felt alot of pressure in his life from all angles so he was just looking for a reprieve from mental exhaustion and he just stayed away and never came back. I think he just still feels the negtivity and doesn't know how to apologize or to talk about it.