posted May 28, 2022 01:41 AM            

I then pulled out the king of wands, a fiery, masculine energy, which, I'm going to assume is his current energy.

I then pulled the Emperor. He embodies what you want in a husband. That's the Aries card, too. Does he have alot of Aries or Mars energy in his chart?

That was a good read and tells me yes or you're going to end up in a really solid committment if you aren't already.

For the oracle cards, two fell out so I'll tell you what they both signify.

The House - Home, sanctuary, domestic life. This is pretty self-explanatory. Do you live together or are you planning on comhabitating soon?

posted May 28, 2022 11:12 PM            

Thank you!

posted May 29, 2022 12:39 AM            

Is this a new relationship or interest? The Ace of Wands and Ace of Swords fell out together as I was shuffling. Then I turned the deck over, and the Strength card was on the bottom. Is Leo energy involved?

I shuffled some more, and the Wheel of Fortune turned over, and the Ace of Cups was on the bottom!

posted May 29, 2022 09:41 AM            

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Thank you. I've been doing that. They're a double Pisces. I have a Leo Moon in the 8th and my Jupiter is in the 8th so you're definitely picking up on my energy there. I can get prideful and pushy if things aren't going my way. I have a Scorpio Venus and theirs is in Capricorn, sloooooooooooooooow moving, lol! We don't talk alot of see each other alot sometimes. When we do it's amazing, but I get mad when I don't get attention. That's very much the whole Leo Moon thing. But, I'm very Scorpio, too. It's weird. I definitely feel an abense and I'm not sure why right now.

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Oh. My. Gosh. Me, too on ALL of that. He is a Pisces sun and mercury (possibly ascendant). I am a Leo rising and Leo Jupiter and Venus in Scorpio. And he is a Cap Venus. That is SO WEIRD! The chances of all that being the same is miniscule! And what you describe is exactly what I have been going through! I'm trying to just trust the process and be patient, but yes I love the attention. And the attention is lacking sometimes! Even though we live so close, he is often reclusive. He said he is falling for me but still needs his time. He was alone for so long, that he got used to it. Hearing him explain it that way gave me the peace I needed. But YES, when that first started happening I felt like he didn't care anymore lol. Sounds like you and I connected for a reason, to encourage each other. You saying that Cap Venus is slow helped me, because I hadn't even thought of that. He was soooo passionate from the very beginning and crystal clear about what he wanted, but I guess he really needs to keep it at a slow pace. We just have to be good with that. Venus in Scorpio ALSO knows what she wants, so it's a good thing. Just takes patience. Another positive is that Cap Venus will not give up on you. 💞

posted May 29, 2022 12:34 PM            

I exchanged readings with someone else one time and we had to make sure we weren't dating the same person, becaused we lived in the same city and our respective people had the same name and similar placements, lol!

He talks about feels, but not that much and the way he comes out with it is often weird like he will say certain things, but not spit out the whole thought. It's like, I can't hear what's going on in your head, lol.

I don't know if he's reclusive or if he's ignoring me or has 500 other girlfriends sometimes, because I'm a Scorpio, and of course, we most definitely roll like that, lol. And, I will say these things and get all Leo on him, but I feel like he brushes me off if I get like that and just won't say anything at all.

This is so cool! The passion thing, OMG, this guy...lol...OMG!!! I think I push people away alot with so much fixed in there, because I'll be super quiet and hardly let someone know I like them until I reallllly start to like them and feel like they're not totally obsessed with me. But, on the inside, lowkey, I am.

I don't have a time of birth for this person at all so I can't do a whole chart even and I'm not yet in a spot where I can ask without feeling weird. He has Jupiter in Scorpio and I'd looooooove to know where it falls in his chart. My IC is in Pisces in the 4th and my Sun is actually in the 12th, which is interesting so I hate that I can't see overlays on the other end.

How long have you been together?

posted May 29, 2022 01:12 PM            

We started dating in February, so still pretty new. It's a crazy story how we met. Let me know if you want to hear!

That's crazy about that other reading! I think people are energetically drawn together for a reason, even on forums like this.

As far as the birth time, I totally asked right away. He actually jokingly made fun of me for it later, and we laughed about it. I have certain "hippy" ways that he just can't relate to, but he thinks they're kind of cute at the same time. We are sooooo different actually, but the core values are in alignment.

posted May 29, 2022 01:49 PM            

As far as you and your person, Pisces and Sag and both mutable signs so that is relatable, but I think Pisces live in their own universe sometimes and it can be really off-putting to most people.

I'd love to hear your story!

Strange and random always ends up being significant to me...all the major ones...

Thanks for the affirmations recommend. I'll have to check him out, because I meditate almost every night especially when I feel like this. I meditate on different things. Alot of the time it ends up being letting go of ego and that sort of thing, but maybe affirmations will help at this point, because I'm ill at ease and that stinks.

The not answering texts or infrequently texting and not being a phone human I can definitely can relate! I am a phone person and I'm pretty good at communicating with people in my life so it confuses and kinda upsets me when someone you think is into you doesn't reciprocate. I've literally decided to fall back and it's been like a week and I'm starting to get mad so I'm just gonna leave it in the universe's hands. I've thought these same thoughts before and we end up right back where we were. It just feels like the rug is being pulled out from under me sometimes.

We've also discussed this and they made an effort for a short time and that's gone by the wayside. I try to accept people's quirks, but my ego tells me I'm accepting less than I deserve sometimes, but people just are like they are and I need to let go of that.

posted May 29, 2022 03:25 PM            

Yes Pisces can be off-putting, even to me! What's interesting is that our suns square one another. My ex-husband was a Virgo sun, which also squared mine. We were also very very different but stayed together 14 years and had 3 beautiful kids.

I feel the same way - that he has completely lost interest sometimes. But then we get together and he is alive again! Lol. I think Pisces live in their mind more than most people, so your connection could be alive and well in his mind and you don't even know haha. That's why OUR thoughts are so important. That is communicated to them unconsciously and definitely affects them. I would think this is especially true with Pisces!

My story: I had been dating around with a few guys for about 5 months. I didn't really want to settle down, because I had a year-long relationship that ended badly less than a year ago. I just wanted to have fun and try to build my confidence back first. (Started doing the night time affirmations around then) I had matched up with the Pisces on a dating site for at least a month and we never messaged each other. Not an uncommon thing! Well, one Friday night, I went on a first date with another guy, and it went really well! We had a lot in common, attracted to each other, the whole nine. The next night, I took my kids to a Valentine's spaghetti dinner at their school. The 8th graders were hosts, so a nice 8th grade boy waited on us. I remember thinking "what a sweet kid!" I even told him he was doing a good job at serving. The next morning, I checked my dating app and saw that the Pisces had sent me a message Saturday morning (before the spaghetti thing). He said that he had seen me on my date and hoped that my date went well. He was also on a date that night, but his didn't go so well. The girl had said she wanted to date a bunch of guys, and he didn't like that. He wanted to focus on one girl and either go for it or not, without distraction. I told him that my date went well, that I also wanted to date around because that's who you eventually find your person. Right? Well, the more we chatted, I started opening up to him about my real fears and discovered maybe my fears were keeping me from focusing on one guy. I was afraid of getting hurt again. I think Pisces bring those things out of us. We just kept talking and discovering that we had a lot in common and related together well. Then we discovered that our kids go to the same school! That was a little weird because its a tiny school on the outskirts of a larger town with big schools. His son is in 8th grade. He sent me a picture. The boy in the pic was none other than the 8th grade boy I had JUST MET THE NIGHT BEFORE. What? That got my attention! I wasn't super attracted to him, but that was my sign from the universe that I needed to give him a chance. And mannnnn, I am so attracted to him now! He's just what I needed, but NOT what I was consciously seeking.

Then it turned out that we needed to move from our small community (landlord issues) and when I finally found a house, we ended up going on our 2nd date. I was telling him about my new place and he pulled up a map and showed me his house. Right down the street! With a nice park and pond in between our two neighborhoods! The reason his kid goes to the small town school is because his ex-wife lives there. I had no clue he lived in the other town! Things like that don't line up on accident. And with my last relationship, the main issue was that we lived so far apart. So here the universe gave me someone so close there's no way I could ignore it!

Ours is very physical too, but not constant touch. The constant touch thing happened with my last relationship (Venus exactly conjunct Mars) and it was very enjoyable honestly. So I get that!

Yeah I think a big theme here, along with communication, is allowing yourself to receive what they have to give and not try to control it! In fact, on our 3rd date we were dancing and there was a moment when I tried to do my own thing and he said to me, "you've gotta let me lead!" And that really stuck with me. He's a great leader, I just need to get out of his way and let him. Let him love me, let him show me what I am manifesting! And keep on affirming for what I want and stop thinking about what I don't want! It's really that simple, but become difficult because we are creatures of habit with deeply ingrained belief systems.

posted May 29, 2022 09:07 PM            

We don't have a Venus and Mars connection, but I've experienced that aspect before in Scorpio and that was intense! That's another reason why I wish I had a time of birth so I could look at overlays. It feels very 8th house...maybe because my Pluto in Libra conjuncts his Mars???

I feel like I'm the one reaching out mostly so it's making me feel a certain way. I'm not going to be the one to initiate and I've gone about a week without doing so and I'll leave it up to them.

It kinda happened in the same way it did for you. I wasn't really looking or checking my messages and they popped up on my an app I was using and I was like oh...yes...lol...

He has a strong resemblance to somebody I dated in an long-distance thing for years so that was weird. I kinda chuckled and was like no way...and then they reached out and we started talking and met pretty quickly after.

I feel like it's been a long time, but this wouldn't be the first time. I was almost shocked when they did this before in the beginning and they contacted me again. I was realllllllly mad, actually and absolutely conveyed that in a way that there was no way they misunderstood and he deffffinitey understood and was pretty apologetic, but after that...not so much...so I'm leaving it to the universe. It's out there, lol.

posted May 29, 2022 10:53 PM            

Do you still need more practice and have another question?

If so, my question is: Now that I've relocated to another area will my old neighborhood focus their attention on to C, another homeowner soon? C was planning on asking about work that needs to be done in the neighborhood. I'll provide more feedback..curious as to what your cards would see for this.

posted May 29, 2022 11:36 PM            

Interestingly enough, I pulled three pentacles cards after very throughly shuffling. I haven't pulled a successive suit like that since I first got this deck a few years ago, lol!

The first was the 10 of pentacles, which represents the best possible outcome in family satisfaction and prosperity.

I then pulled the 2 of pentacles followed by the 3 of pentacles. I feel like these might be showing us a date or an amount or an address or something that will probably make more sense to you than me.

I also pulled three oracle cards.

I got the gentleman, which represents home involved with a masculine influence. This deck has more than one gentleman card and this one represents a peasant that becomes a prince. So, I'm gonna gather, that's another indicator of prosperity through a male influence. Also, I feel like this card represents a man with dark features.

I also pulled the key. They key points out what you need most to succeed with this endeavor.

I pulled another gentleman card in the oracle deck, strangely enough to clarify that cryptic key and expand on it a little bit. This is a younger man, the one who has more connections and the such. He represents the prince in the deck. This is sort of a refined guy who speaks eloquenty. I think that's the key to getting things done, these two guys pairing up.

posted May 29, 2022 11:39 PM            

If you are willing to practice on my Q, I would greatly appreciate it

My question- is D thinking about me? If yes, what kind of thoughts is he having?

posted May 30, 2022 12:23 AM            

Of course, I've got days where I identify more with being a water sign, lol.

Ooh, I got the Queen of Wands...

That's a given, fire sign feminine energy...which is likely you since you're a Sag.

Then I got the 6 of cups...nostalgia, but I don't feel like this is the far past. I think it's current sort of...recent past like weeks or months past.

Then I got the Preist. I really think this is a time of deep reflection for D. I do think they have thoughts of you and they're really contemplating the higher reasons behind the scenes so even if it looks like not much is happening....a whoooolllle bunch is happening in their mind. D is definitely in the feels and really reflecting hard about it.

So, either this connection has been going on for a long time or it reminds you of another connection you had that was similar.

I pulled 3 oracle cards to elaborate and get a more specific idea of what's going on. I gather D has been quiet lately.

I got the dog first, which is a loyalty and dependability card. This is a huge theme going on in their head right now or yours or likely both.

I got the anchor, which is settling down, stability and security so this is a relationhip card and this is a thought that's concerning both of you.

I also go the Coffin. It's #8 in this oracle deck. Both the cards itself and the number 8 represent transformation. Something needs to change between the two of you for the better. I really feel like D's thoughts are consumed with a bunch of stuff they've got going on and they're working on changing things, but it's not happening as fast as they'd like. They're really in a reflective, transformative place.

I hope this helps.

posted May 30, 2022 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by astrogal:
Hi, Springtime! Nice to see you again!

Interestingly enough, I pulled three pentacles cards after very throughly shuffling. I haven't pulled a successive suit like that since I first got this deck a few years ago, lol!

The first was the 10 of pentacles, which represents the best possible outcome in family satisfaction and prosperity.

I then pulled the 2 of pentacles followed by the 3 of pentacles. I feel like these might be showing us a date or an amount or an address or something that will probably make more sense to you than me.

I also pulled three oracle cards.

I got the gentleman, which represents home involved with a masculine influence. This deck has more than one gentleman card and this one represents a peasant that becomes a prince. So, I'm gonna gather, that's another indicator of prosperity through a male influence. Also, I feel like this card represents a man with dark features.

I also pulled the key. They key points out what you need most to succeed with this endeavor.

I pulled another gentleman card in the oracle deck, strangely enough to clarify that cryptic key and expand on it a little bit. This is a younger man, the one who has more connections and the such. He represents the prince in the deck. This is sort of a refined guy who speaks eloquenty. I think that's the key to getting things done, these two guys pairing up.

Does this make sense?

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Likewise Astrogal! I very much enjoyed exchanging/conversing with you before.

What you wrote makes sense. I'm thinking they will have a meeting on 6-2 and then then S and D will pair up on 6-3 (they are off every other Friday).. S is younger with dark hair/features and D is older and more cultured/refined--both are males.. interesting because Mercury goes direct on 6-3...when I left the paperwork with S, he mentioned D as an option to work with him..C is a woman..now she can pester them..I'm thinking all the pentacles popping up are the people paying what's still owed--dues..but the older guy could be C, though..

It sounds like things will go well.. interesting as I had a few readings where the readers said something would happen to pay them all back for what I went through after they moved into the community..I guess that could come in others ways that wouldn't be obvious to them...when I passed the paperwork to S, I took a look at his birthdate and saw that transiting Saturn was exactly conjunct his natal Saturn on the day I gave it to him.. Saturn return in Aquarius..rules and responsibility..I re-read what you wrote and now think there will be a third male involved..one that will be appointed..

The peasant turned prince is S succeeding me and not sure whether the other older one..C has more dark features and is in his 60's..more refined than the other two.
S will be 29 later this year and has black hair and lighter in skin tone, D is in his 30's and light complected..

posted May 30, 2022 02:07 AM            

I'm trying to keep my mind on something positive and would much rather focus on everyone else's stuff and not think about my own for a little while, lol.

I think we're all going through it, lol! I've gotten alot better at expressing my feelings, but haven't had much of an opportunity to do so with the person in question as of late. Thanks for the well wishes. I wish everyone the best of everything, too. I want everyone to be sublimely happy!!!

I'd be glad to read for you. I don't often use the oracle deck. I did a reading for a friend of mine the other night with the oracle reading and it fit pretty well. I like that the oracle cards are so straight-forward. They kinda confirm what the cards are saying and though I like to intuitively read, this oracle deck has a more concrete meaning so we're getting the best of both worlds here, lol.

I don't know why I was drawn to pull 4 card in a 3-card spread, but I really had to pull that last one. I pulled 3 oracle cards as well.

The first card I pulled was Temperence. Shout out to all the Sag energy in here, I guess, lol. So, this to me is restraint until balance can be attained again. Be patient and let the rift pass. Is S angry or hurt by a disagreement with harsh words exchanged? I got the King of Cups. I don't know that this is necessarily a Scorpio male or even a water sign, but they are IN THEIR FEEEEEELS about it!

I got the fool after that, a happy new beginning. I feel like that might begin with a tryst, because I feel a fun and light energy once this yucky fog has lifted.

Also, I got the Empress card after that. I think that S will change their perception of you once they're not so angry and emotional about things.

Though the Empress isn't traditionally a "Mars" card, it's representative of Taurus, it's paired with the Fool so I feel like S is in this less mature, not quite an Emperor yet energy and sees you as an Empress, a more cultured, mature, or as just more confident and serious than they are.

Ok, so on to the oracle cards. I pulled 3 of them. I got the Moon first. That's another 8 card dealing with 8th house stuff, transformation and the such, but the moon is a more cloudy 8th house energy and feels more Piscean to me so Piscean, hidden, unexpressed, pure emotion that can't quiet yet be conveyed until this transformation has taken place. This is a cycle card so once this cycle, all this negativity that lingers clears and emotions are in better balance, I think S will pop up in their own time.

The crossroads is next, which is interesting, because it follows being patient and waiting for a cycle to pass to get into this fun, light energy. Then a decision can and will be made and it will be positive for both of you.

The Rider is the next card I drew. It's almost like a knight card. It's good news, wishes fulfilled, dreams realized so the outcome will be good. It's just going to take time. The oracle cards have numbers on them. I wonder if the 8 and 9 are to do with timing like August and September maybe?

I hope this is helpful. Be patient. Clarity will come.