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mee_chryssa
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posted April 24, 2023 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Hi Randall,

Thank you for bumping this.

A little update:
I am moving on from all the drama I have been experiencing to a more mature guy, and I am hoping that he will be good for me.


I was thinking about you recently.

I am glad I blocked the guy. And I just had a fight with my ex boyfriend and as always, he says things that he later he would normally say that he didn't mean it. But I cried 2 days after I talked with him and I can't believe that it got this far, instead of being friends, he chose to take it to the stage that I can't be friends with him anymore. It's really sad because we were so close, or it appeared that way.

I just draw a conclusion that if it doesn't lead to marriage or having a family, it will always get to this point. And that I should not let it get that far. Even if I don't take it there, the other person might do it, and it's such a sad thing to destroy a relationship just because it ended and having resentments just because it didn't work out.

I'm glad you are updating, you're like my twin in the world. I don't know anyone else with placements as close as mines so it's really helpful.

Soon, Jupiter will be conjunct my Venus, so I feel some hopeful energy around me. I guess that's why I've cut any contact with my ex, even though it wasn't something big, like talking everyday, but since he told me he's never going to call me again, I felt something changing, like I'm moving on for real this time. )

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted April 25, 2023 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Getting closure is always a wonderful feeling.

I believe it is important that you also needed those connections to your exes just like they needed to be connected to you at some point during their life. Not all human relationships are meant to last.

I find it sad that you guys could not remain friends, but it is definitely for the best, and you may realize it in the future.


Try giving chances to and being open and honest with new people who come your way. I find that Aquarius DC is easy to brush off people or take human contacts for granted. With Saturn finally being out of our 7th, it is a good idea to become aware of this tendency.

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mee_chryssa
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posted April 26, 2023 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

Try giving chances to and being open and honest with new people who come your way. I find that Aquarius DC is easy to brush off people or take human contacts for granted. With Saturn finally being out of our 7th, it is a good idea to become aware of this tendency.


I used to have this feeling, but since I went to therapy to deal with my anxiety after I separated from him years ago, I no longer have it. I started to see these tendencies during that time and I moved past them. Now I'm more caring, understanding, but having boundaries. before, I was using a defensive mechanism to deal with it.

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Randall
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posted May 12, 2023 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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