posted April 08, 2023 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Clementine:
Hi Spring,

Thank you, my dear, you are so kind! I do have friends, but they are always busy with their stuff, and I am with mines, but the Universe always finds ways to put amazing people on my way and for that, I am so grateful! Besides, thanks to technology, I can always chat with my family and try to visit them once a year.

Yes, I do! Deception I cannot deal with another one, and having my Venus in the 12th house, I am always concerned that might happen as it happened so many times before. I want companionship, a partner to have a family and settle down with. I am scared I'll be alone for the rest of my life. Two astrologers said I would not have children, and it frightens me because I am 35 and don't even have a relationship.

I like your insight about my partners. Yes, I think I've learned the lessons these planets represent through them. My first one, which embodied Saturn, taught me discipline, hard work and responsibility. Unsurprisingly, he came into my life when I was in my teens. He did what my father didn't do, as he divorced my mum when I was 11 years old and was always absent. The second helped me relax and not be too hard on myself, which I always do. He also taught me to channel my creativity and introduced me to all kinds of arts as he is an artist. The third God knows, but I think can be the idealistic side. I think Neptune can also be helping others without expecting anything in return, like a Pisce type of person sacrificing for others.

My sister is a moon in Gemini too. Yes, it is pretty interesting the similarities your niece and I share. Looking into her chart, could you have predicted that would happen to her?

Thank you for the meditation tip, I will try the grounding technic maybe start meditating in the garden as the weather is getting warmer now.

Thank you so much for your kind words and great insights.

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posted April 08, 2023 01:17 PM            

I know you are a busy person and have many things going on in your life at the moment, but I would like to ask you one last favour, if I may. I met someone very interesting back in February when volunteering for an organization in France. He asked for my number, and we chatted a couple of times after. Most of the time, he started the conversation. However, after I sent him a message and we had a chat, I noticed he blocked me on Whatsapp. I know he is not into me because he wouldn't have done that if he was. If you have a little time to look at the transits I was having on the day we met, just out of curiosity, it was 05/02/2023. I have not noticed anything significant besides Venus's conjunction with my Asc, but I would love to hear your opinion.

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Clementine!

Sending hugs to you. Hopefully you have made some good friends where you live now.

I'm guessing that you are worried that a possible partner that has Neptunian qualities may be like your father.

What's interesting about your Libra (balance, harmony, assertiveness, relating in partnerships) ex's is also how it might relate to your Moon opposite that Cap Stellium. I learned from another astrologer or read in a publication that the oppositions in our charts show where we need balance in our lives. You mentioned staying busy to overcome the sadness, illusions and all from those aspects in your chart, but what those oppositions mean to me is that working too much or being at home too much can put us off balance..so balance there is about giving some attention to both..work to live versus living to work, etc. and you may have seen some of that through them. As you know Uranus rules spontaneity, Saturn responsibility and Neptune rules idealism and maybe these were also things that popped up in your relationships.

My niece had her moon in Gemini conjunct Chiron opposite Saturn and Uranus. Her natal Mercury was making a square to her Saturn and Uranus. Her father also had his Sun and Mercury in Pisces. His moon was in Aries, but what's interesting is that his brother has his moon in sagittarius and when they were younger, they would fill up a large trash can with beer bottles/cans between them on a good weekend. Her dad quit drinking a few years ago and rarely has any alcohol to drink. The synchronicities here are interesting. Her mother has her sun and moon in Libra, with Cap rising and aquarius intercepted. Her father had pisces rising with aries intercepted. Her mother had pisces on her 2nd house with aries intercepted. What's interesting is that her father learned about sorrow with this new beginning (1st house)--her passing and the mother about her values/money by enabling her and seeing the outcome.

My niece didn't believe in astrology or other metaphysical stuff, so that was a big help for you..learning about yourself..she was orthodox in her religion. I tried to encourage her in trying to do some things with talents she had--she did a wonderful job making a memorial pic book for one of their pets that passed away. She also made a poster board display once that I thought was really good..but her father could be a dream squasher for doing things that deviated from regular work. I think he got that gene from our mom. Our other brother is the same way. I think she really needed someone to closely mentor her, get her treatment when needed and be her biggest fan.. instead of taking care of everything and not giving her things to do around the house during her formative years.

Good on you for meeting the challenge of those aspects in your chart. You didn't let them get the best of you.

My nieces boyfriends were people of other races, which makes sense with Sagittarius placements in her 7th house.

The positive about your moon placements is that will make you work towards balance, which may people often lack. It can rub off on you. When meditating, have you tried to do grounding techniques?

I tend to pick up other people's emotions, so I've felt quite of few new ones over the last few years. Some seem frightening.

I'm glad I could help in some way. It's hard when there is so much going on around us.

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posted April 08, 2023 10:34 PM            

Thanks for the hugs. I'll need to look at your questions, etc. tomorrow. Trying to get to bed earlier. In the Placidus chart that I pulled up for you, I think your natal Venus was in the 11th house, but will check that tomorrow, too.

posted April 09, 2023 10:21 AM            

Also, one thing I have read about depression is that people who suffer from it focus too much on themselves to the exclusion of others. I know you are busy, too, but the above transit could bring some new beginnings for you. Maybe find ways to reduce the time you spend doing different things, so you can free up some extra time.

You wrote this: The third God knows, but I think can be the idealistic side. I think Neptune can also be helping others without expecting anything in return, like a Pisce type of person sacrificing for others. Look up North Node in Pisces in the 10th house online..there's some interesting things that will help to shed light on what you have been asking about relationship wise in those blogs/posts. Just google or bing online.

Always believe that there is free will. I don't think I could have predicted that my niece would pass when she did, but when I used to read a lot of different astrological books years ago, I remember one saying that certain placements I had showed me learning from my nieces and nephew. It also said that one of them wouldn't live very long. My 5th house ruler, Mercury, sits near the 9th house of in-laws. I have it squared by Saturn and Jupiter..and sextile to Uranus. There were three of them, too, and the one that passed has her natal Mercury square Saturn. Her father takes after her grandfather in that regard. I'm guessing that my other niece is the mercury square Jupiter aspect I have..according to her brother, my nephew, she can't hang on to a penny..and he is most likely represented by the mercury sextile uranus aspect in my chart and I also have regulus there...he has done extremely well with his business..he is also a year older than the niece that passed.

You have sun square neptune natally..deceiving yourself, deceiving others..it's important for you to be clear with others.

With all your Mercury in pisces in the 9th and venus in the 12th..being connected to charitable organizations or good causes related to your talents will bring you a lot of fulfillment and pull you away from those aspects in your chart that are square to your natal moon..

I don't have kids nor have I ever been married..dated lots, though...two scorpio suns, two gemini suns, two Aries suns, but none of them worked out..from the Aries sun I learned about keeping things clean..guys aren't usually cleanie genies and these two were piggly wigglies..most like represented by my pluto in virgo..the gemini suns..one most likely represented by the uranus in leo I have..he was very smart, but also very ego oriented..moon in aqua he had..the other gemini was a moon in pisces, but when he moved for work reasons, I didn't want to live there..his moon was opposite my natal pluto..I had a reader tell me years ago that there was one person for me, but that if I got married in my early years, that I wouldn't stay married..and another intuitive told me in 2011 that I would have a guy after my mom passes..

Your natal moon trine pluto should always help you to transform your emotions positively..

It's better to be with the right person rather than someone you can't live with. Many people hook up just so they aren't alone. Whether you realize it or not..just being on your own has made you stronger. Even since I stopped relying on my siblings/family for help, I have felt stronger as a person. I think that is similar to what your north node in the 10th represents for you. Think about it like a tree. If you plant two of them fairly close together, they won't get as tall and strong as just one planted in that same spot.

Every time you feel down, look at the blessings in your chart..the good things you came into the world with you.

I don't see anything in your chart showing that you won't have kids, but creating something is very similar to that and also, the person you marry may bring some that you might just love as your own.

Your Chiron in Mercury in the first house could reflect being ostracized in a passed life for speaking your mind or in this lifetime others weren't as fond or happy about the changes you made, which created new beginnings for you.

You had some challenging aspects in your chart that helped you to grow...she had trines there, which made her rely more on others..your sun square saturn for instance..she had sun trine saturn...her father doted on her for years and right before she passed they argued, and he pulled the plug on it..I'm thinking she felt like she couldn't do anything right in his eyes. I think she could have also found some benefits in being in a public speaking club like Toastmasters..it is international/everywhere..I've seen it transform people in how they communicate with other people and bring themselves out of their shells. Maybe check into that. If you find a good chapter, the members will be accepting, encouraging and not critical of your efforts. You have your natal Mercury near your 10th house, which is similar to having an opposition and square...also a good area for growth..one couple that I know also met through Toastmasters..he's American and she's from Thailand.

With the Moon ruling your natal 2nd house, take care with those planets in your 7th as grandiose thoughts may make you spend more or expect more coming from others than may even happen..especially partners, but you have a wonderful trine between your natal mercury, moon and pluto..it almost looks like you may end up working with children and families in some capacity..helping them with communication/counseling?

I have some energy around me that has been hard to dissipate...the only clues I have as to what it might be is that one reader said that them being a Virgo Sun and they also have their moon in Virgo it's most likely something to do with The Magi (not magic per see), which is ruled by Virgo, but they are represented by the moon, so I'm thinking Cancer rising, which would put their natal neptune in the 6th house. I listened and watched as a relative of theirs said (and referring to me)..why don't you show her what you can do and then she held her hands up and rubbed them together in kind of a slicing motion. Does all this mean anything to you given your interests?

Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend!

posted April 09, 2023 02:45 PM            

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your help and pieces of advice. You're genuinely helping me. You are so kind. God bless your heart.

Well, it was a funny thing. I had a dream back in January where many refugees were being forced into a bus to be deported. It's incredible that I saw perfectly the refugee camp where I volunteered that day. That dream got me thinking, because I, too, had immigration issues, and although I had more luck than they did, I know how it felts to be in a similar position. When I woke up, I checked my Facebook, and the first thing I saw on my feeds was this organization's advert asking for volunteers. I immediately felt I needed to contact them, which I did, and they got back to me within a day. I remembered that something within me was saying that I need to go there to meet someone. Once I was there, I completely forgot about my dream and was knowing the people and enjoying volunteering until this man approached me. We started chatting, and I instantly felt a strong connection as if I knew him my whole life. I felt so comfortable with him, and this is so rare. I am very reserved, especially near men. Even with those I know already, I can be a bit standoffish. We were talking about books and philosophy as he has a degree in Philosophy. We were making jokes and enjoying each other's company. He would always be next to me, and I would be next to him. He immediately asked for my phone number and texted me as soon as we left the place. He then messaged me again, asking me a random question which I knew he made up as an excuse to contact me again, but I felt that it went a bit colder online and then I messaged him after a couple of days he messaged me and we had a quick chat after that, about 3 days prior to our last chat I noticed his profile photo was not showing on Whatsapp, then I tried to message him and the message was not sent, which means he blocked or deleted me from his contacts. I was very upset I thought that the Universe had made a bad joke. It could just be. I was very, very sad and still. I am not sure if I said something he did not like or if he felt no connection there and moved on. I had so many disappointments with English men. They are very unconsidered of others' feelings. They can come across as very cruel. it puts me off dating here.

Yes, depression can be that bit. I am not feeling depressed right now. Although it is like I said, it can feel very low at times; it is manageable. I studied Psychology for one year but then gave up and changed to Media and communication, and I think it suits me better, although I do like Psychology.

You are so right about volunteering. I've never felt so good in my life as when volunteering. I am planning to go back this summer. And yes, I love volunteering with kids. I even started a project in my home town, but unfortunately could not continue because of work. I want to work for charitable organizations after or before graduating, which is my plan. Working with philanthropy is my dream.

Thank you again for pointing out the importance of the North node in my 10th house. I think it is something of a past life as I started a relationship when I was 14 and was almost married to him, hahaha I wanted to go back to family safety, and I think the main reason I am crazy chasing a partner is that I feel very scared to be in the world on my own. It is so true! I won't be able to find a relationship until I fulfil my 10th House North Node. Once I reach that, then heaven's doors will be opened. Thank you, amazing advice ❤️

I did not know that about Quiron in the first house. Yes, even these days, people cancel me because they don't like it when I speak my mind, especially when I talk about my beliefs. That's why I try to keep it just for those who believe. But I ended up saying it as I am a Gemini rising, and can't hold my tongue for too long 😂 But I don't remember saying that to the guy. I might have scared him off with sarcasm instead 😅.

Working with children in need would be the most rewarding job I could find. Anything relating to that for me will be significant. You're right. And... I had a feeling that I might have stepchildren too, or adopted.

I never had anything easy, and I had to work hard for everything I wanted. I never had any help, very the opposite I had to help others too on the way, especially my mum. I hope your niece finds peace wherever she is, and, next time has a more fulfilling long life. It is not easy, but God knows what he does. The future of humankind is of a great splendour we cannot even imagine with the low capabilities we have at this stage of evolution, but it is coming.

You are not mum, but you are a great daughter, and I am sure you'll find a companion who will be with you until the end. He will come at the right time, as God will honour all your efforts in looking after your mum and family. God bless you with a wonderful partner that will bring a lot of joy into your life.

I did not understand the last paragraph, but when you said Cancer rising, what do you mean by that?

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Okay. On the 5/2/2023 or Feb 5 day, I noticed that you had some nice transits with mercury and venus, but with transiting Pluto in your 8th house and close to your natal mars and transiting Mercury also there, I'm wondering if you talked about your astrology/occult interests and that may have put him off. Also, he may not have been single as I had an old friend (we never dated, but I had been interested in him) send me a message on FB asking how I was doing. As soon as I told him I had bumped into his step father and was told that he had gotten married and had kids, I never heard back from him. I'm thinking he was looking for sex and his cover was blown. Don't beat yourself up on it. Transiting Jupiter will also be conjunct your natal venus and trine your natal Mars starting in mid-July 2023, but you'll need to be actively looking..are there any charities that you are involved with?

Also, one thing I have read about depression is that people who suffer from it focus too much on themselves to the exclusion of others. I know you are busy, too, but the above transit could bring some new beginnings for you. Maybe find ways to reduce the time you spend doing different things, so you can free up some extra time.

You wrote this: The third God knows, but I think can be the idealistic side. I think Neptune can also be helping others without expecting anything in return, like a Pisce type of person sacrificing for others. Look up North Node in Pisces in the 10th house online..there's some interesting things that will help to shed light on what you have been asking about relationship wise in those blogs/posts. Just google or bing online.

Always believe that there is free will. I don't think I could have predicted that my niece would pass when she did, but when I used to read a lot of different astrological books years ago, I remember one saying that certain placements I had showed me learning from my nieces and nephew. It also said that one of them wouldn't live very long. My 5th house ruler, Mercury, sits near the 9th house of in-laws. I have it squared by Saturn and Jupiter..and sextile to Uranus. There were three of them, too, and the one that passed has her natal Mercury square Saturn. Her father takes after her grandfather in that regard. I'm guessing that my other niece is the mercury square Jupiter aspect I have..according to her brother, my nephew, she can't hang on to a penny..and he is most likely represented by the mercury sextile uranus aspect in my chart and I also have regulus there...he has done extremely well with his business..he is also a year older than the niece that passed.

You have sun square neptune natally..deceiving yourself, deceiving others..it's important for you to be clear with others.

With all your Mercury in pisces in the 9th and venus in the 12th..being connected to charitable organizations or good causes related to your talents will bring you a lot of fulfillment and pull you away from those aspects in your chart that are square to your natal moon..

I don't have kids nor have I ever been married..dated lots, though...two scorpio suns, two gemini suns, two Aries suns, but none of them worked out..from the Aries sun I learned about keeping things clean..guys aren't usually cleanie genies and these two were piggly wigglies..most like represented by my pluto in virgo..the gemini suns..one most likely represented by the uranus in leo I have..he was very smart, but also very ego oriented..moon in aqua he had..the other gemini was a moon in pisces, but when he moved for work reasons, I didn't want to live there..his moon was opposite my natal pluto..I had a reader tell me years ago that there was one person for me, but that if I got married in my early years, that I wouldn't stay married..and another intuitive told me in 2011 that I would have a guy after my mom passes..

Your natal moon trine pluto should always help you to transform your emotions positively..

It's better to be with the right person rather than someone you can't live with. Many people hook up just so they aren't alone. Whether you realize it or not..just being on your own has made you stronger. Even since I stopped relying on my siblings/family for help, I have felt stronger as a person. I think that is similar to what your north node in the 10th represents for you. Think about it like a tree. If you plant two of them fairly close together, they won't get as tall and strong as just one planted in that same spot.

Every time you feel down, look at the blessings in your chart..the good things you came into the world with you.

I don't see anything in your chart showing that you won't have kids, but creating something is very similar to that and also, the person you marry may bring some that you might just love as your own.

Your Chiron in Mercury in the first house could reflect being ostracized in a passed life for speaking your mind or in this lifetime others weren't as fond or happy about the changes you made, which created new beginnings for you.

You had some challenging aspects in your chart that helped you to grow...she had trines there, which made her rely more on others..your sun square saturn for instance..she had sun trine saturn...her father doted on her for years and right before she passed they argued, and he pulled the plug on it..I'm thinking she felt like she couldn't do anything right in his eyes. I think she could have also found some benefits in being in a public speaking club like Toastmasters..it is international/everywhere..I've seen it transform people in how they communicate with other people and bring themselves out of their shells. Maybe check into that. If you find a good chapter, the members will be accepting, encouraging and not critical of your efforts. You have your natal Mercury near your 10th house, which is similar to having an opposition and square...also a good area for growth..one couple that I know also met through Toastmasters..he's American and she's from Thailand.

With the Moon ruling your natal 2nd house, take care with those planets in your 7th as grandiose thoughts may make you spend more or expect more coming from others than may even happen..especially partners, but you have a wonderful trine between your natal mercury, moon and pluto..it almost looks like you may end up working with children and families in some capacity..helping them with communication/counseling?

I have some energy around me that has been hard to dissipate...the only clues I have as to what it might be is that one reader said that them being a Virgo Sun and they also have their moon in Virgo it's most likely something to do with The Magi (not magic per see), which is ruled by Virgo, but they are represented by the moon, so I'm thinking Cancer rising, which would put their natal neptune in the 6th house. I listened and watched as a relative of theirs said (and referring to me)..why don't you show her what you can do and then she held her hands up and rubbed them together in kind of a slicing motion. Does all this mean anything to you given your interests?

Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Spring

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posted April 09, 2023 06:17 PM            

Glad I could help! Keep the faith..