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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 01, 2004 02:43 AM
 
Ra~
I can't sleep, so I will post some more, *and pay for it tomorrow when the kiddies wake*  So, going by Leo as the ascendent, that would put a stellium (lotsa planets) in your third house.. which is Libra..
Libra is exALTED IN THIS PLACEMENT.. IT IS NATURALLY HOME TO gEMINI, WHICH IS AN AIR SIGN (LIKE lIBRA) AND (OOPS CAPSLOCK!!)Mercury in Libra has a natural placement in the third house.. it is it's air sign cousin, gemini's ruler. These denote a very acurate personality.. not much clashes in personality, you are probably quite a bit like the traditional image of the signs you embody. Not alot of 'negative' aspects in your chart, which can be a blessing....but may also not give you alot of stimulus.. but then, with a stellium in Libra, you are already 'in the clouds' with incredible, mind-altering insights, so who needs more excitement than that? Where you are airy, you are also down to earth, so to speak. Two very strong placements in earth signs make it so.. So whie you are devoted to service, you are also grounded and ambitious. Both for yourself and others. Saturn in the tenth house gives hard work and ambition in your public/working self, as well as Mars placed in the sixth house of Cappy. Mars does square all your planets in the third house ( all that Libra) So that will give some excitement....Mars squaring sun/venus/ mercury, you may find yourself fighting the urge to be brash, impulsive and aggressive in expressing your views.... but learning diplomacy is something inherent in Librans, so overcoming it is simply a matter of patience, and not lettng yourself be pushed too far.... but without allowing yourself to be a pushover.... THAT is a biggy!!! You might find yourslelf giving and giving and giving, and building up resentment at all who do nothing in return.. It could reach a boiling point.. but only at times....Though you truly love 'service', and feel it is truly a part of you, and you don't necessarily expect anything in return, it is nice to be renumerated anyway!!! Okay, sleepy time!!!  IP: Logged |
Everlong
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Southeast Florida
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 01, 2004 08:38 PM
Pixel, trust me, I don't mind the advice at all- I really welcome it. I need an outside force to egg me on =).So, well, I really don't want to impose on you, but I'm not that good at compatibility charts, so I was wondering if you are- if you could maybe just take a quick peak at mine and his? My birthdate's 2/25/89, his is 4/7/89. Don't worry if you aren't though, I'm just as bad ^_^. I'm better at just reading individual charts. ------------------
"Out of your depth or not, it's up to you whether you sink or swim." IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 02, 2004 12:54 AM
k, sweets, I am really learning about synastry and composite now too, but I can give it my best shot with the tools I have. But....
I need your birth times and locations...K?
Thanks.. I am working tomorrow morning, ( I know it's late, but I also worked tonight!!) and I will get to it when I have some more time..
No imposition, the best way to learn is to practice, right? So I'd love to help you, while you help me, as long as you remember to take it ( as anything) with a grain of salt....
Have a great day!!!Ra~ I was soooo looking forward to speaking with you, you must be as busy as I am ...... Take care!!! IP: Logged |
Everlong
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Southeast Florida
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 02, 2004 01:25 AM
Ah... see, I don't have the birthtime for either of us. I was born in Madrid, Spain, he was born in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.Honestly though, it's no big deal, you don't have to do it if you're busy =). ------------------
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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 02, 2004 01:57 AM
Don't be silly, darlin', put a little PASSION into your convictions.. you want it, I got it..... It'll just take me a while.. I will have to improvise... but it will be challenging and fun.Don't you dare back pedal on something if you want it! ( You can take that advice and apply it to the other situation  .)
I simply won't have it..lol. i appreciate someone who stands up for themselves and others... I know you have it in you... I see that backbone strengthening.....
Confidence is the most elusive thing, but once you grasp it, even for the second it takes to get it done, that is true faith and power and shaking the divine within!!!
*shake it, baby!* IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 2791
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Registered: Apr 2001
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posted March 02, 2004 03:02 PM
Pixelpixie, you are a trip! And you develop an easy crush ... I am just an average guy who knows some stuff (or at least thinks so), but your quick synopsis of my placements is pretty accurate. I am impressed! Thank you for giving me your thoughts. What did you want to speak to me about? You are a little intimidating to this meek little Libra.  
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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 02, 2004 06:10 PM
(meek Libra my a$$...  . )
Oh, actually, just wanted your opinion on my synopsis... and also that whole mommy horses dream. Which you touched on, and I thank you....
I am mostly just playing, I don't mean to come on so strong. I am actually somewhat reserved sometimes..... sometimes......
And the crush thing? Well, crushes , to me are ways of showing gratitude and a connection of sorts, they weave through my day and make everything more pleasant to look at and react too.. They are a playful, fun and happy way for me to take stock of situations. I have a few (hundred) active crushes going on right now... I don't know how much you know of astrology, but my Neptune and Venus are conjunct in the fifth house, trining my ascendent (Leo)..... Which , now that I understand astrology more, explains why I have always shown affection easily and look up to people whom I respect and adore. I have 'rose coloured glasses on'. I like them there, too. It infuses things very prettily. So, be flattered that your planetary placements are pleasant to me (that was kind of poetic) and that you are such a great help to people, and so insightful, that I *crush* you..... Don't worry, I'm not a psycho, just a friendly face with friendly words. One of my best friends is a Libra, and I just love him so!!!! My Mercury also falls in Libra, in the third house (communictions) so I understand that vibration really well, and can communicate similarily. Also?! I don't know why, but I find it hard to NOT flirt!!! If you have ever seen my posts, you will probably see that I flirt throughout them all.. it is my style. Women, men, children, animals.... I always get a kind response, and I am fun, so no harm done!!!
Well, now that I have explained myself (hee hee) I happily await your analysis. (maybe of my behaviour? No, my dream...... .)IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 2791
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Registered: Apr 2001
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posted March 03, 2004 04:48 AM
I never took you the wrong way.  -- but if I had, it would certainly be all cleared up now. I am actually a little more than impressed with your astrological know-how. I never made it past the absolute basics. All that stuff you said about trines or something is Greek to me. Almost everything you said is true, in varying degrees.  Pleasing planetary placements ... gotta love that!  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 05, 2004 03:18 PM
Oh, I love this thread!!!
Everlong~ Please tell me how things are going... details, please.. So It is friday, which means you had class, and now the weekend. Anything special happen today between you? Anthing special this weekend?
I think crushes are important to maintain at school /work, as it keeps things lighthearted and fun, and truly gives you that spark, and it keeps you motivated to get there daily. Makes the daily grind... happier. Even if there is no seriousness behind the crush, a crush alone is reason. I am not implying that there is not potential for anything real here.. that is up to the both of you.. but the sparks are there.. it is up to you how you ignite them... and what the flames turn into. (Please, no gas jokes.. .)Ra~ Keep it real.... what are YOUR dreams like?! IP: Logged |
Everlong
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Southeast Florida
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 05, 2004 10:17 PM
Well... alright, the following is going to seem kind of- sad, but it really hasn't dampened my spirits, and I'm still very determined. I just have to get him to notice me.Alright, off with the update. I was sitting next to him in class while we were watching a boring video on industry in Singapore. It basically revealed that he has a crush on my friend. Really- it didn't bother me that much, because I realized that if she liked him back, there wasn't much I could do. So I preteneded I was happy for him and thought it was adorable. Later on at lunch, I told my friend the news. She looked at him, scrunching up her nose. "Him? His nose is too big." So, in a nutshell, she doesn't return the feelings, and I'm starting to wonder why I'm friends with someone that shallow. I told him she didn't like him, he was fine with it. So I've been talking to him more lately, joined his online project group with the excuse that my two partners never did any work (only partially true =D). So, like I said, I'm really not upset at all, it's just a matter of patience. ------------------
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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 05, 2004 11:41 PM
How was their past interaction.. you are obviously closer to him than she, as he was sitting next to you in class.
My thought immediately was.. hmmm... what if he is feeling it out? Seeing how you would react? There are many levels here. I am not involved directly, so you would know, I would think.... He didn't react very much at all when told she didn't return the affection.... is he macho, or just not really concerned? Are you close enough, do you think, that he would be comfortable being vulnerable around you? I get the feeling though.. and this is a tad harsh toward him.. but I get the feeling that if she had responded positively, he'd be like.. good, and probably date her or whatever. But also that he knows the two of you are more compatable. So he was feeling it out. I think though, if I had a crush on someone, I would probably react the same way you did.. be happy for them... be their pal. Knowing the more they are around me, the better.... Maybe that sounds manipulative, but really, all's fair in love and war, right? If that brings you closer, so be it. I believe he feels genuine affection for you... But of course, I am far removed from the situation. Be a challenge, but be a ready challenge. Banter with him at every opportunity. Be physical. Play, Have fun. Aries like that. I also find Aries can be quite the players in the game.. they know what they want, but they play along the way to getting it.. it makes it more challenging to them. Go along fopr the ride, if you feel he is worth it, or there is something there. Be like water and go with the flow.. withholding your heart enough that you can pull it out if it doesn't seem worthwhile.
I still think this feels right though... can you join his friends and him at a place outside school, so he can associate you with that scene as well? Food for thought. Put yourself in his sight. Don't work too hard, this is fun ~ Relax and enjoy it!!!!IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 2334
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 19, 2004 10:42 PM
Heya Everlong, sweets...
I haven't heard from you in a while... check back in and tell me how you are doing.. Not necessarily about this thread subject, but you know.... check in......
Thanks!!!IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 1508
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted March 22, 2004 05:26 PM
pixelpixie, I am impressed by your romantic outlook on life. I hope Everlong gets her Aries too. I had no idea you were married to one, my first hubby was an Aries and i have Mars/1st house and Venus in Aries.But I am not in a romantic mood today, would you like to give me the 411 on this situation? I can't see the romance in things sometimes and it's frustrating just the opposite of your gift. I am
Taurus Sun/6th house
Cancer Moon/8th house
Venus Aries/4th intercepted in 5th house
Mercury in Gemini/7th
Scorpio Ascendant/12th
Neptune Scorpio conjunct ascendant
Mars Sag/1st house
NN Pisces/4th
Vesta conjunct Mercury/Gemini
Juno Capricorn 2/3rd house
Midheaven Virgo/10th conjunct Uranus Libra
Pluto Virgo and Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Taurus/5th house major aspects are
Neptune opposite Sun
Ascendant opposite Sun
Mercury trine Uranus
Moon trine Neptune
Uranus is not opposite Venus
Venus is trine Mars
Moon square Venus I have challenges with giving affection (hugs) in a relationship, in other words I get bored easily and have a hard time maintaining romance. I get smothered easily at the same time need affection? It's weird. I have met an unusual man who at this time is trying disentangle himself he says from a Cancer Sun/Capricorn Moon/Venus in Cancer woman.
His
Sun Gemini singleton/4th house
Mercury Cancer/5th house
Moon Taurus/2nd house
Venus Cancer/5th house
Ascendant Pisces
conjunct Saturn in Pisces
Taurus Mars/3rd house
Uranus Pluto and Jupiter in Virgo
Neptune/7th house
Our composite shows our moon, mercury, sun and venus in the 5th, but I am wary or suspicious of his long term motives and I do not want to live with someone anyway. Am I being too hasty? The reason I was drawn to this thread is because I met him by hugging him, he looked like he needed one. And it was unusual for me since I rarely hug people, even ones I know. He just looked so lost and as if he'd never had one. I couldn't believe he had a girlfriend, I told him, since he looked so lost and alone. of course that got to him and now he is eager to see if I am attracted to him. But I am worried about giving off the wrong signals and jeopardizing their relationship. His girl is pretty into herself right now, so I understand, but am I relating to well? What do you think Queen of Romance? My oldest friend has a Leo ascendant too btw. Would I be better off with an Aqua with Venus in Pisces? I am drawn to those again and again. And Capricorns with Libra moons who want nothing to do with me. Thanks, Natasha
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