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Everlong
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From: Southeast Florida
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posted February 17, 2004 08:01 PM
 
Er. So- I know this guy, we've known each other for awhile- we've shared lots of classes in the past four years. He's a nice and funny guy, but he can be sort of egotistical and full of himself (did I mention he's an Aries?). So, Sunday night I had a dream where we were in a theatre and he kept getting intimate with me- holding my arm in his, holding my hand, putting his arm around me. It was odd, but I just remember feeling really, really peaceful and happy. Then, today, after lunch, he comes up to me before class and starts badgering me to hug me. He was just teasing me, and he kept chasing me and holding my arm. Finally I gave in and we hugged for about a minute. It was- well, just really, really nice. Then when we separated he tried to hug me again, but I ran away yelling "Sexual harrasment!". I don't think he did it because he's attracted to me- I doubt that- I think it was just because he was acting like a dork. It just sort of striked me, how that episode resembled the dream. Any thoughts? ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 17, 2004 11:10 PM
Dude, what makes you think he isn't attracted to you? My friends don't badger and goof me into hugging FOR A WHOLE MINUTE ( and then want to do it again!!!) just to 'be a dork'. He is into you. I'll bet your subconscious mind picked up on that from previous occasions, even if you don't want to admit it to yourself, and in the dream you were 'trying it out' without truly admitting it. It felt nice and peaceful, as you said. Keep being the babe you are, give ego-man the benefit of the doubt, because I have a feeling he is gonna rock your world. Aries like a chase, so good for you...that sexual harassment thing....very cute. Keep us updated!!! I predict this month, he takes it to a new level. March.IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 18, 2004 01:58 PM
I cannot speak for pixlepixie's prediction, but the interpretation is  ... my thoughts exactly.Good luck Everlong! 
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pixelpixie
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posted February 18, 2004 03:11 PM
Well, it wasn't a 'prediction' prediction, just thought it'd get the ball rolling.....  IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 19, 2004 05:01 AM
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Everlong
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posted February 19, 2004 06:37 AM
Well- see, he hugs everyone. The only thing that might indicate that he's attracted to me is that he was really persistent. But... I dunno. quote:
I'll bet your subconscious mind picked up on that from previous occasions, even if you don't want to admit it to yourself, and in the dream you were 'trying it out' without truly admitting it.
I think you're right there though. Lately he's been more nice and physical towards me than usual- so I think that's why I had that dream. I can't really read him though- I just get the feeling he's just being silly and friendly. I dunno, it's a Piscean thing. ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 19, 2004 09:44 AM
Maybe you could do something playful and sultry, but out of character for you, see how he reacts... and feel it out. Maybe the next time he hugs you...say, "~be careful, I might just grab your butt" ( or you could actually do it... reach down and give him a gentle pat or squeeze) I don't know... something playful and unexpected, a surefire indicator. Are there any other reasons you can think of that would indicate that he has more than a passing interest in you?
He hugs everyone? What, is he Richard Simmons? No way, hon.... the pestering, although silly, tells me it's more than a "hey pally-pal-pal, oh buddy and chum, my friend and neighbor blah blah blah."
Naw, He likes you.......
How 'bout you, does your stomach do some flip-flops? Do you notice how good he smells when he hugs you? ( For a whole minute!!)
OOOH! A great way to show him, and feel it out for reactions... just subtly, almost imperceptively, as you draw back from the hug, let your lips brush his neck.... or let your breath fall hotly against it as you draw back from the hug. He won't be sure if it was an accident, or purposeful... If nothing comes immediately, you will be in his mind all day... as a woman, not a friend.
This should be so easy for you, being a dreamy Pisces.IP: Logged |
Everlong
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posted February 19, 2004 06:03 PM
Eh, I could never be that bold- I'm way too timid. I might try to the breath-on-neck thing, if I get really brave.Are you kidding me? My stomach turns into a circus when he hugs me. It's a great feeling ^_^. People don't appreciate how nice it is just to hug someone now a days. Well... today after lunch he started talking to me- he asked me a couple of questions about my friends since he saw us acting like idiots during lunch on the court yard- and then he said he knew one of them because she went out with one of his baseball buddies. Then he tries to hug me again- "Come on, give me a hug..." he said teasingly, and I said "Nooooo..." so it was a bit awkward, since I was sitting and he was standing next to me- he bent down and the side of his face was brushing my forehead. Afterwards, the girl that sits in front of me was handing out gum and he gave her a long hug (see?) and then said "Can I have some gum?" She gave him half- I asked her if I could have one, but it was her last piece. He told me he would have given me half of his half if he'd known I'd wanted some. So now I'm starting to think you might have a point, pixel. But I still sincerely doubt his feelings aren't platonic for me. ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 20, 2004 09:40 PM
Well, one thing is for certain.. he is a horny young Aries and likes lots of contact. But that doesn't negate the whole liking you thing.. I know about the hugs.. I love the circus in the belly stage.. I always want to prolong it as much as possible.. and sometimes even now I can feel it again. Of course, I am married to a horny young Aries. Nevertheless...
I like that you refused his hug.. simply because he probably hated the refusal and it intrigued him all the same.. Does he play sports? Baseball? Can you go to a game and cheer for him? He wants a fan, but not out of context... cuz he has to chase. He is aggressive and forward where you are uncertain and shy... I think it is perfect. Please, I don't mean to give you all this advice and I do mean for my tone to be lighthearted and fun.. I just soooooo love the 'game', and am quite good at it, although it is a sincere form of playing.. But I have been off the market for six years, so now I must live vicariously through others. Thanks for letting me have fun. I do so hope you keep me informed, and I could talk forever about this!!!!!
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Everlong
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posted February 21, 2004 03:24 AM
Are you kidding me Pixel? I love your advice! Just- like my grandma says- I'm the spirit of contradiction, ergo, I have Libran moon, and I tend to argue a lot- in a lighthearted way as well. But I've really appreciated your advice so far.Oh, he's definitly a young horny Aries. Emphasis on the horniness =D. But he's an Aries of course- I know for a fact that he'd never just use a girl for sex. Yep, he plays baseball, and the trumpet. I might go to one of their home games one day, I wouldn't mind. That would actually be a good idea =). I really like him, but I'm going to let him keep guessing. See, one of my friends liked him, and they were really good friends. However, she really made it obvious that she liked him, told him, and practically threw herself on him. He didn't return her affections, and I think that was why. So you're right, about the chase thing. I'll definitly keep you updated, you're practically the only person I have to talk about this! And plus, you have experience, having an Aries hubby yourself =). ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 21, 2004 01:57 PM
*rubs hands together*Excellent!!!!! IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 22, 2004 11:38 AM
Pixelpixie, have I told you how much I enjoy your presence here? You rock! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 22, 2004 03:14 PM
Ra!!!!
Thank you! I enjoy being here.
I know I am a big pain in the a$$ too, but every once and a while I come out with something good.... 
Thank you for saying that.. it truly means a lot. ( but you must not see my postings in other forums much...hee hee)IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 24, 2004 04:24 AM
ummm, no. I have not seen your postings in other forums (or at least I do not specifically recall) ... would they change my opinion?  I doubt it.  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 25, 2004 05:06 PM
Oh, Ra...
I am just quite silly and in your face, is all. And prone to defending everyone, including myself.. even if noone needs it.
( I think I am a little naughty too, at times... )
But I sincerely thank you.. if you ever need to be defended, I've got your back!!!
~ I am laughing because I can't see any situation where that would be necessary......
I just love this Astral Realms section!!! I didn't visit it much before, but wow!!! Dreams are incredible, no wonder you moderate here... quite the job!
You are incredible at it too... gleaning meanings that I overlook, but make perfect sense when related to the context of the dream/dreamer.
Are you a Libra? Aquarius?IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 26, 2004 04:51 AM
Also in Libra ... mercury, venus, jupiter, uranus.Pisces moon. I don't know what all that means, but there you go! Thanks for the compliment ... all I really do is present possibilities. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted February 26, 2004 08:24 PM
*AND HUMBLE*
You don't know what it means? From what I can tell, you are the perfect embodiment to all these placements!  So, it means someone like you... Humanitarian, with a deep concern for the brother/sisterhood of humanity, and peace in all things. You love loving,and can glean meanings from things (see?) that others would overlook because your mind works at a different level. Having so much cardinal/mutable in your chart allows you to open up your flexible muscles and 'get' concepts otherwise hard to see. You can also back up ideas with action. You truly love beauty and like balance and aesthetically pleasing environments. Justice is a major theme in your life, and you always root for the underdog, even if you see the truth in the oppressor. You might have a hard time asserting yourself, and prefer comfort to argument, so may alter your outward opinion, (while keeping your real opinion buttoned up) in order to avoid uncomfortable circumstances. So much air in your chart, and a stellium to boot, means you think think think. You go places others fail to, or simply can't. The good thing about having a pisces moon is that sometimes air signs can make one... not less compassionate, per say, but less emotional in a general way.. they see things intellectually... a different plane. But with this moon, the sensitivities necessary to do the things you do here are present and allow you to connect more compassion to your insights.
I'll bet you love relationships and human dynamics, and feel truly at your best in an active loving relationship.
See? There is something to astrology.. I just knew you were a Libra! With a sensitive Pisces moon? I am now in love with you!!!
No, but true respect and appreciation, that's for sure! Where's your Mars at? IP: Logged |
Everlong
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From: Southeast Florida
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posted February 26, 2004 09:39 PM
A little update (sorry for interrupting!):Er, I think I've developed a crush on him. Which sucks. Because I have no idea what he feels about me in the least. Sometimes I think he's just being friendly to me like he is with all of the other girls, and sometimes I don't, and I think I'm really over-analyzing it. It's all I think about in my third block class that he's in, which is driving me bonkers because I hate it when I act like this- when I get stupid over a guy. Do you think I am? Because on one side, I've seen him hug many other girls and start conversations with them too. On the other hand... well, the other hand doesn't have much stable evidence, but it's a bit hopeful. ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 27, 2004 12:14 AM
Hi Sweetstuff! Interupting? ppppssshhhhhtttt! Whateva!
You think you are developing a crush? Mr. Obvious agrees. ( Humour is grabbing me by the a$$ tonight and pushing me.. sorry.)The great unknown. The ultimate ledge we push ourselves onto. The one where freefalling feels so amazing and yet is the scariest ride known to humankind. The reason country songs are made.... love, it makes the world go around!!!!  Okay, so I am waxing poetic.
How many times has your gut led you wrong? Simple question... but I'll bet the answer is never. I know, you know in your gut (*remember, the right place?*) that he has feelings for you... you are second guessing it in light of logic and circumstance. Which is so normal and natural. But love is all about taking chances and embracing possibilities. Feel it out.. you never know where it will lead you.
He is a young horny guy.. it can't be said enough! An Aries, I tell you, an Aries!!! All that Mars energy in the confines of that body. ( and what a body, right? right? .) Of course he flirts and hugs and talks to other girls, and if he were at a party, he'd probably make a move on one... maybe, you never know... but, what I think, is that if you were at that party, his eyes would be drawn to you, despite who else was in the room.. if there were clowns frenchkissing snakes in the background.... he'd be looking at you. No matter who he talks to, aside from you.. he is courting, and you are receptive. You sense it, he senses it , although, you may have to knock his head with obviousness, subtlety is not Aries strong point.. and speaking of head... do that breath thing.. I am telling you!!! Aries rules the head.. so an intimate gesture in that area will keep you firmly planted in the foreground of his mind.
Oh, don't be rude! You know what I meant!
Trust the dream that spiralled this whole thing to YOUR mind's foreground. The comfort and peace... and in real life, the flip-flops his presence makes in your tummy. Think of all the special gestures you two have shared, and realize no matter how much you rationalize that he does this with 'everyone', he doesn't.... it is for you. Be bold enough that he gets the hint..... but let him think it was all his idea!!! Ah, these feminine ways.. they should be natural to your romantic Piscean heart. Show him a surprising aggressive side, then relent and be a purring kitten again.... Just a suggestion..... I am telling you... grab his ass!!! Even if you have to pretend there's a loose thread on it!!! Touch his neck, brush an eyelash from his cheek.. let him do the rest. Oh! Body language is so subtle.. does he stand facing you, almost unconsciously moving his body toward you? Does he touch alot? Does he hook hs fingers in his waistband? Does he smile sincerely with his eyes? I read this somewhere.... I thought it was very wise and quite appropriate.. maybe you could read it again and apply it to this situation? "Out of your depth or not, it is up to you whether you sink or swim"
Go get him, baby!!!! You can swim like a fish!!!
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Everlong
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posted February 28, 2004 09:24 PM
You know, about the body language thing- it's a bit strange, but if I think about it, when I'm standing near him he usually is standing in my direction. Hmm. Also, he always sits directly behind me in band class when there's the whole auditorium to sit in.You know, I'm gonna try to go for it. I'll start trying to be a bit less shy around him. You're right pixelpixie... I need to try to be a bit more bold =D. And I'm gonna get my friend to go with me to one of his games. It's odd, the baseball team has to dress up to school everytime they have a game... but jeez, he's so gorgeous when he's dressed formal! I hate being such a teenager, but it's the truth =D. ------------------
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pixelpixie
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posted February 28, 2004 10:02 PM
Good for you!!!!IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 29, 2004 04:49 PM
Wow, pixie! Everlong, I could never give such sure advice ... good thing pixie is here. Let us know if you follow through with any of her suggestions.
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Ra
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posted February 29, 2004 05:02 PM
Alright pixie, so far you have been accurate with your astrological synopsis, and I am interested in what you think.Mars in Capricorn ... and here are the rest, just in case they are important ... Leo rising
Saturn in Taurus
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
North Node in Pisces/7th house Whatcha think?  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted March 01, 2004 02:00 AM
Ra~
What do I think?
I think, based upon your astro info, I definately have a crush... gee, I hope you are a man!!!( you are, right? Sexual Identity crisis...I am kidding, sorry....)Anyway....
You already got the firt part.. and Leo rising would also fit within the humanitarian bent.. looking out for the 'little people' and those who can't defend themselves.. you present yourself regally, but also humbly.. as in, you come across as someone who knows what they want, and is confident, and you inspire people to believe what you say, because you say it with such assurance and conviction.
Mars in Capricorn makes you an organized, devoted and hard worker. I'll bet in your working life, you are seen as the person to turn to to get the job done.And done well. Work is very important to you.. coupled with the leo rising, and the fact that capricorn is in your sixth house, I would say you work providing service to others... you devote a large portion of yourself to your persona at work. You are a slow burn, sexually.. you don't present yourself as over-sexed, but when the gettings good, it is on fire! You present things to your lover matter of factly, and when secure, you are a firecracker.. you may be attracted to an age difference.. either way... You may get(or have been) emotionally involved with someone from the workplace.
You have a fire sign singleton, and it is your rising sign.. I don't know all about singletons, but I do know that when you have only one of a certain sign, it could manifest itself quite prominently in your actions.. and because it is your rising sign, or who you present yourself as, initially, then it would be quite a shock to people, when meeting them for the first time, that behind closed doors, you present yourself so differently.
*sorry about the run-on sentances, but the grammar fairy went to sleep a long time ago*
I also have Leo rising, so our charts are laid out in the same houses.
Thank you for the vote of confidence, I don't like to let people down....
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pixelpixie
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posted March 01, 2004 02:04 AM
Everlong...
I know I am quite forceful in my manner, I don't mean to come across as "Do this, don't do that!!" But it comes from a place of love, and I just get so darn excited!!!
I am just such a natural born romantic!!!! 
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