posted June 27, 2005 05:40 PM         

EDITED.
I will discuss lexigramming at some future time.

posted June 27, 2005 06:32 PM         

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/001435.html

There is a little something called owning your mistakes....accountability.
Admitting the part you play in behaviour and issues. And moving on.

Do you really think all these people responded to absolutely nothing?

I don't attack, EVER. I defend. 'Tis my nature.
Should be yours too. I hope when you clear your feelings on this, you come back and we can chat.

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Since I have now offended Pixel pixie also..Because I wanted to say bye...and give my reasons..since just leaving I thought was rude...well apparently that was too much...
So just goodbye.

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I didn't want to bump this, but did want to edit to say I saw your new secret message.
I read this one you left, originally, after going to virtually every forum and seeing all these messages, with the same thing copy + pasted all over!!!
You made a mess, and I had to moderate it.

Next time you want to say goodbye, try it tactfully and honestly.
It would hold more merit than just drawing attention to the fact that you felt wounded.
I can appreciate that you don't feel you were wrong.
But you can see how others have perceived that based upon things you have written, can't you?
Like I said, own it.
It breeds respect and forgiveness.

posted July 23, 2005 02:59 AM         

Fayte may not be in the mood to bother defending her seld,,, but I will be.

I think you know as well as I that this site doesnt need any more drama then it already has had. Especialy last weak or so.

Im more then willing to see if we can be freinds,,, but if you stir this back up, even just for a freindly debate,,,, Im gona have a hard time feeling freindly,, or thinking freindly...

posted July 23, 2005 03:03 PM         

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pixelpixie- Please dont. Ive been starting to not mind you, and enjoy your posts.
Fayte may not be in the mood to bother defending her seld,,, but I will be.

I think you know as well as I that this site doesnt need any more drama then it already has had. Especialy last weak or so.

Im more then willing to see if we can be freinds,,, but if you stir this back up, even just for a freindly debate,,,, Im gona have a hard time feeling freindly,, or thinking freindly...

I implore you,, please ?

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I was reading old posts (did you notice I posted this on the 12th?????? You posted yours on the 23rd.)
I bumped this because when I was reading old posts, I saw she changed hers.. you can't be changing history and putting things out of context without recourse. Surely you understand this.
I was not angry or rude. She did not 'simply' want to say goodbye, and by indicating that I was offended 'simply' because she wanted to say goodbye really undermines the matter.
She posted on every forum, the same copy/pasted thing, out of context.. she did want to say goodbye, of course... but really.....In that way????
I had to go to every forum and qualify things, because people who were initially not involved, didn't understand what was happening, were stirring up all this stuff and it was a major drama fest.

Magus... I don't think I have to explain myself. I have no animosity toward Fayte, I invited her to come talk instead of leaving subversive messages and editing posts. She and I have communicated here.. in a friendly manner....
I appreciate the idea that you like to defend people, I do too....
But really. Don't 'threaten' me with the possibiliy that you 'won't like me'.
Much as I like being 'liked', I don't need someone who doesn't understand my part in the matter forcing his opinion on me. if you don't like me, I will not cry.

This matter is done. But as she wanted to be heard, so did I.
She still follows things here, so I'm sure she will be honoured that you are 'defending' her.
Don't worry about defending her against me.
I did drop it. You just caught up a few weeks later.

Speaking of old posts. do you remember that I helped you here? http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/001296.html

posted July 25, 2005 11:14 PM         

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RE-Edited:7-25-05
Just came across all this....and am not deleting a thing...just adding....
The former post here was my complete good bye that I posted at only the forums I most visited. I engaged in no name calling. I am not interested in fighting. Anyone with any questions is free to e-mail me. I have nothing to hide. And as I tried to explain before....my husband's company does NOT do lexigramming. I do. And I have yet to charge for any. I have corrosponded with many people that have never been to LL...or were once or only a few times.
I was just trying to help those folks who were being told that their name could not or didn't want to be lexigrammed. That is a terrible thing to say to a person! Many multilingual persons of whom English is not their native tongue..... are upset with the Americacentrism of the popular rules of lexigramming and the reference to English being THE PAN LANGUAGE. This is not a very tactful or diplomatic way to reach out to the multilingual/cultural peoples of the world!
I also deleted my answers on many posts as they were deemed offensive....my answers to folks who wanted to know about names within names...two names of two people together...and other questions that were not being answered at LM.
I feel that it is wrong to keep answers from people and to tell people their name is unlexigrammable for various reasons...that while popular..do not apply in truth.
I also erased posts concerning soulmates..as that seemed to breed hostility and sadly it appears jealousy. I do not know why this is at Astral Realms....but I will not post it elsewhere. Another thing...out of the many lexigrams I have done...most not here at LL...as I have been doing them for years...not one single person has yet of those folks who got a free lexigram from me...ever bought or been made to buy anything from my husband's company...ever! Yet e-mails have been answered freely without advertisimg or cost to the querant.
I am a minister. I have my honor. And I believe that one should walk as peacefully away from a fight as possible. I also have extended my hand as a minister to even those who have been unkind...to let them cry on my shoulder...so to speak. Some, but not all from LL either.
I also do not stop in to LL as I have been accused...to lurk....
I usually avoid coming in...unless asked to go see something by someone(s). This time was a fluke. I was coming here to read my old dream post...hoping for some more insight on it...and discovered Ms.Pix's disturbing remarks. The following are not true:
Pix:quote:
"She posted on every forum, the same copy/pasted thing, out of context.. she did want to say goodbye, of course... but really.....In that way????"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I only posted in some forums..the ones I went to the most...not all. I felt it was impolite to just go away. I had explained myself before...so out of context is unfair. I removed only those parts about my husband's company and my trying to tell about how any name is lexigrammable...and all the fun you can have!
But that offended. So why should I leave it? This edited post here has touched lightly on those issues. I will not speak further on such as it offends some people. There is more I am not going to comment on...Just let it drop. Enough is enough already. And this is not a "secret message"..I see no reason to start a new round of replies...this is adequate. There is enough fighting going on here at LL......
I am saddened that she feels this way.
Most sincerely,
Fayte.m

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posted July 26, 2005 11:05 AM         

EDITED.
I will discuss lexigramming at some future time.
One does not have to remove any vowels or letters.
ANY NAME CAN be lexigrammed!
And not just in English!

posted July 26, 2005 06:24 PM         

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I did not intend to post a reply...but this must come to an end! I have done nothing wrong! In trying to help...I did the best I knew how....that is explained above. No one should be told their name is unable to be lexigrammed...or unsuitable unless altered first. That is rude and telling them a lie!
UNTRUE:Pix putting words I never implied or said into:
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if you want to come to THIS website, I'll show you how its really done ( with a nominal charge)."
I never said that!
No one was or is ever charged for asking questions! No one from LL has bought a thing!
Yet ALL e-mailed questions were fully answered and for FREE! FREE! FREE!
Quote:from pix:
"I also noticed that you were flooding the lexi forum with 'help' but it had a price."
Huh?
Price? No price or charge...no one paid for anything! And compared to the posts I have done...the times I mentioned the website...were a very small percentage of the whole. Very Very small indeed.
Also...I had forgotten about that particular soulmate post. The one I was refering to was not that one. HHHmmm..so there were two.
I remember the one you speak of now...but that I thought was resolved. I let it finally go...why can't you?
CONFESSION:
My only mistake was in telling people about the website....but I still hold fast to my way. But I explained why I was telling them about it....for those who were told their names were not able or wanting to be lexigrammed...but I knew better! So rather than keep on telling them here at LL how their names were fine...no problem for me........I told them to go to the website...and ask questions/e-mail them. I thought it was polite to give answers..for FREE...and I did not want to give out my personal e-mail for them to ask how their names could be lexigrammed after they were told otherwise etc. here at LL.
So to wrap things up here....I regret ever mentioning his website...he was innocent of this....I was routing questions through it from people....rather than posting my own e-mail....or telling them how here at LL....which I was told to stop doing..and did. But people were still asking questions that were not being answered without me being allowed to give them the information proving they had other options...that did not require them to alter their names just to be able to lexigram them. Options not being told here at LL.
I wonder if it would have offended if I had been ONLY directing people to E-Mail ME..directly! Rather than routing e-mails through his website.
MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE!
BUT>>>>>No...that would have offended also.
AGAIN>>>NO ONE WAS EVER CHARGED A FEE>>>NO ONE HAS EVER PAID FOR A LEXIGRAM from me! His site does NOT lexigram! NO one from LL has bought an LNAR from them. EVERYONE WHO HAS E_MAILED HAS RECIEVED A LONG REPLY>>>WITHOUT PAYING FOR ANYTHING!
SO STOP ATTACKING A SITE THAT HAS DONE NOTHING WRONG>>>AND THAT IT SEEMS ANYONE WHO HAS NOT ASKED>>>really does NOT understand what they do!
I am damned if I do and damned if I do not here it seems!
My only crimes were mentioning his website at all. Not because I did mention it here...but because they do not and did not deserve this kind of attacks...because I talked about them at LM. And directing questions through that e-mail to me...rather than posting my personal one. But honestly..we all know that would have been frowned on too....
Linda had her way...but if she knew later on that anyones name can be lexigrammed...that it is not just for certain names..etc....I think she would have been thrilled and embraced the logic and fairness a new way imparts to ALL persons no matter how long a name or how many vowels!
She believed in ongoing growth and explorations of possibilities.....and fairness to ALL...not just a select few.
I believe she would approve.
Ok...I am done here.
Just let it drop. My husband's site will never be mentioned by me ever again here at LL. If anyone wants to know anything about
the new way....they can ask Randall for my e-mail..my personal one..at hotmail. Do not e-mail the website any longer...just me. As it should have been.
That is the last I will speak of this matter.
Let it drop.
I have been as tactful and diplomatic as possible. I have not been involved in any vile exchange of words as I have seen in other forums. Sorry to disappoint you...but I will not fight, or discuss this on an open forum again. And I do not lurk...as I said...only when anyone tells me to go see something do I come back to LL. As was with the heads up to your post I have replied to not in "secret message mode" as you wish.. But this topic was bumped up...so I felt I must end it. Drop it...end it...enough is enough! PLEASE!

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When I said it had a price, I meant you'd come on in and say ' I found a bunch of words', and then mention your husbands' site.
Ah, I don't have to clarify. You know what I mean. Even if you are doig them all for free, you are advertising with every post. Like I said.. A bit is okay! Absolutely okay. I am NOT attacking anyone's site. Nor am I attacking you. Have you read any of my response, other than the words you took offense from?(and you know what I meant by them, to clarify would be insulting to both of our intelligence) I didn't call you a 'lurker', which you seem to cling onto, I said you were lurking, because, does that not mean, reading and not posting? That is what you were doing. People who post for the first time here, will say "I have been lurking a long time, and decided it was time to post." That's where I got that term. It is used a lot. Hence what I meant by saying that. I already explained that editing without bumping the thread makes things confusing, and is tandamount to having your say but not allowing anyone else to counter it.
That isn't an insult, it is social behaviour. I won't insult you by explaining it further. You know what I mean.
I was reading old posts a while ago, and came up with one where proxieme, who has been here a long time, asked advice about what to do, she felt wierd about travelling... and your response to her was "go to this site, for a nominal charge, you can enter the date, lexi it and find out why."( I am trying to search for the link) I responded right after you, and felt it was um... uncalled for I suppose, to say that. It was right before this whole thing exploded beyond where it should. It got my radar up, as I said. This could be completely one sided...
It seems you feel I am trying to fight with you. I am not. Not at all! I am explaining my side, I am being honest, and rather than ending the dialogue and saying you'll not post here again, I think perhaps when the air is cleared , and we've reachd maybe an understanding, we can talk again.. You can go ahead and post, rather than ending it.I am not not not rehashing things and picking a fight, I am telling you how I feel, and listening to how you feel. You can't see inflection here, so maybe I am taken more harshly than I mean to be.
I didn't say you were charging for the lexis. You weren't, you were helping people by doing them. I respect that. I said that at the end of your posts was a signature of the website that does charge. Of a personal nature to you.
I don't have to explain that, as I have... but I did want to reiterate that I never said you charged.

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UNTRUE:Pix putting words I never implied or said into:
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if you want to come to THIS website, I'll show you how its really done ( with a nominal charge)."
I never said that!

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If you'd like to respond, great. If not great.
My bottom line here, is I won't stand in your way. I have nothing against you. I wanted to hear your story, as I am sure others do. I wanted you to hear mine as well... maybe during a mercury retrograde, it isn't the best time.. but I AM NOT FIGHTING!!!! I know it sounds like it, with the capslock, but I was stressing that point, as it is the most important one in this long winded thread. I am not fighting with you. I am happy you had the opportunity to say things. I bet it feels good to get it off your chest.
Geez, us Scorpios sure don't stop having the last 'clarifying' word, do we?
Peace.

posted July 26, 2005 06:31 PM         

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proxieme
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posted April 19, 2005 11:02 PM
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I have no idea what to do.
I'm having major, Pisces "Bad Feelings" about going out to Kansas at the end of May to be the Matron of Honor for the wedding of a friend that I've had since the first grade.
I don't know why I'm having these bad feelings, I just am - and they're centering around Meg.
AND I don't know if this is just Mommy-Worry or legit.

(My husband, being an Aquarius Sun and no help at all has said, "I don't know *why* you're having this 'bad feeling'! There's no *reason* for this 'bad feeling'!"
"Yes, honey, I know - there is no "Why"- it's just a bad feeling.")

Anyone have some insight?

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pixelpixie
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posted April 19, 2005 11:23 PM
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Are you bringing her or leaving her behind, with daddy?

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fayte.m
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posted April 19, 2005 11:55 PM
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You could go to www.inneryou.info and buy a Lexagram Report. They can take a date and find hundreds of words in it. That might give you some insight, especially if you run it with your name. People have used them to determine the omens for a date of a wedding, business deal, etc. And you don't have to buy, just check out the "Hidden Words" articles and check out the site. You can also e-mail them any questions you have.

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pixelpixie
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posted April 20, 2005 01:13 AM
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.................

So.....
anyway.
Give it some more thought Prox, and get back here to chat.

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posted July 26, 2005 09:49 PM         

I will have to look into the past life thread you were talking about.. thanks.

I know, now..
Possibly you can understand the way I was feeling, which is why I posted that thread to refer to...
I wanted to show you that I too, am jaded.. I assume perhaps the worst in people, and even go so far as to look for negatives.. to bolster the sense of special when I see it.
I hold no animosity toward you. In fact, I would be honoured if you'd come on back, and now that the air has been cleared, I will not assume things, with wrong motivations.
That's what I hope for, anyway.
I don't want to drive good people away because I assume things. I am in this world for growth.
Thank you for seeing the olive branch extended instead of a stick to poke you with. I tried to explain, but ended up over explaining, and reasserting things.....

posted July 26, 2005 10:46 PM         

**Throws his arms around Faye**

... and everyone else too

posted July 27, 2005 01:14 PM         

Fayte ... I hope you know that everything going on here concerning you has nothing to do with your honesty or motivations towards others ... this is about you, about being honest with yourself. After reading much of what has transpired here lately, I am doubly assured that my perceptions of the dream you posted (back in May) are correct.

These types of conversations will not end until you stop manifesting them. The conflict that surrounds you is a projection of the conflict within you ... it can be no other way.

I hope we can heal together.

posted July 27, 2005 03:03 PM         

THE POINT IS ALOT OF FOLKS DO ADVERTISE AT LL, BUT NO ONE BASHES ANY OF THEM!

BTW.....
THANKS FOR THE GREAT BANNER OFFER RANDALL.
I WILL WAIT FOR NOW BECAUSE FOLKS HERE WOULD RATHER BASH ME THAN FIND OUT WHAT THINGS ARE REALLY ABOUT.

posted July 27, 2005 04:07 PM         

Pixie