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OzMeg222
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posted December 12, 2006 06:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
Had a dream the father of the guy I've kinda been seeing for almost a year apologised to me for being so anti-us when we first got together.

It wasn't him in the physical sense, looked more like an older version of the guy I'm kinda seeing. I actually don't know him only know who he is, not sure if he even knows who I am or what my relationship to his son is (gee I don't even know that!). In my dream I think we were getting engaged or married or something, there was no great emphasis on that other than we were 'official'. I was sitting in a roof space with him and his son and they were doing some kind of electrical work or painting, which is no surprise as he's some kind of electrian apparently.

I remember mostly feeling comforted and relieved that we'd received his blessing, so to speak. Its the feeling I recall clearest. I remember the guy I'm kinda seeing was happy and confident about it in the dream too. The large roof space thing was definately strange.

Unusual? Yes. Not as straightforward to analyse as most of dreams which is why I'm back here- yet again!

Any thoughts???

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Ra
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posted December 14, 2006 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
Hello OzMeg

Have you and the-guy-you've-kinda-been-seeing decided to become more serious recently? Or has there been some talk of it, or a leaning in that direction?

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OzMeg222
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posted December 15, 2006 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
I feel we're headed that way but I'm not sure. I can't admit to him I like him and want to be with him and he's kinda the same, although he's been pursuing me a lot lately. He wants to hang out and we do, but he says he still wants to be my 'friend with benefits' although we don't actually sleep together anymore and he knows I don't want to do casual with ANYONE anymore. He's promised to leave me alone now but we'll see. Somethings definately changing there, not sure what though.

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OzMeg222
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posted December 18, 2006 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
Had another weird dream a day after I posted my last reply that really got to me and I just don't know what to make of it.

I mean I really really don't know what to make of it and need HELP!!!

I dreamt I was at my friends house (Pisces-boy's close friend too actually, she grew up with him) and we were drinking tea and talking. I was asking her about the girl he'd told me about whom he'd said had knocked him back (real life situation) and she told me the girl had moved in with him for a week, he expected her to tidy up after him, then dumped her. Apparently I was the one he wanted and everyone knew that but me. I was disturbed in my dream that he'd lied to me about the situation and thought he was trying to win me back with sympathy because 'nobody wants him but me' type thing. And also disturbed he could treat someone he was supposed to like that way.

I woke up feeling very strange.

In reality the night I'd had that dream I was at the same party as the guy pisces-boy knew I kinda liked. Didn't really talk to him cos I've realised I like him just as a friend, but I'm pretty sure he still likes me. Pisces-boy thinks he knocked me back but he didn't really we just haven't seen one another.

Hmmm, in writing this now and actually correlating real life with dreamland I'm wondering if maybe I was having a dream on behalf of pisces-boy, that disturbing feeling may be my own guilt that I haven't been honest and opened my heart to him. Explained to him that HE is the one I want and he isn't second prize.

I don't know!!!!

I'm used to having nice little dreams about horses and water. Life isn't as muddled as my dreams- guess thats my muddled subconscious though!

Any thoughts guys? Ra?

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Ra
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posted December 29, 2006 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
Hi OzMeg

I didn't see this dream ... sorry about that. But I think you are just right about it. The dream is a reflection of the situation, your subconscious mind working through it.

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OzMeg222
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posted December 29, 2006 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Ra! Hope you're having a great time at the moment! Its the silly season!

Yeah I think you're right and I am working things out subconsciously and focusing not so much on MY feelings of past rejection and hurt from him, but HIS past feelings of hurt and rejection from me.

Things are going well at the moment, I'm very happy and more confident than ever before. Guess those old cooking dreams I had a while ago may be coming to fruition??? Lol

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