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Topic: Dreamt of ex lover
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 24, 2014 05:07 AM
Dear AllSo I had a dream with my ex in it (again!), we were back together in his house in his home country. We were with his brother and cuddling on the sofa. We were discussing how happy we were then he told me he was with another man and another woman! I was bit upset. The house was dark, lots of wooden furniture. Although it felt good with him. I then woke up. I wondered if the "other" man and woman represented his parents. They were a key in us not being able to be togther as they have a powerful effect on him. Or just a wishful thinking dream? I think I am frustrated. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2296 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2014 12:08 PM
....Dream Symbolism....  To dream that your spouse/ significant other is cheating indicates your fears of being abandoned. You are concerned about the future and whether your significant other will be there for you. When you feel unworthy, inadequate or that you do no measure up to the expectation of others, you may dream that your lover is cheating on you. Dreaming of a sibling represents a quality or characteristic of that sibling that you need to incorporate and acknowledge within yourself. It may also be your subcnocious recollecting positive memories of you and your partner and a sibling made you feel warm and comfortable.  Hope that helps!!  ------------------ " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers
Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 24, 2014 12:12 PM
Ahhh interesting! Makes sense, I am technically on my own as he is in another country, and effectively I have been abandoned.Sparkling IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 24, 2014 04:21 PM
Plus with all mercury and jupiter activity, I can't wait for this week to be done Perhaps my subconcious will be less anxious!Sparkling IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2296 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2014 11:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear that... & Hopefully, good luck!------------------ " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 25, 2014 05:03 PM
Well well, my ex contacted me tonight! Maybe he was dreaming of me tooo.....He wants to talk more often, think he misses me. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2296 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 26, 2014 08:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by SparklingSag: Well well, my ex contacted me tonight! Maybe he was dreaming of me tooo.....He wants to talk more often, think he misses me. Sparkling
Thats terrific! Why were you guys in different countries though? Because you two split up?IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 28, 2014 04:12 PM
He told me last night he misses me so much...it was a bit intense! shall I blame the planetary movements, so I told I him I felt the same and missed him too.But I was little short with him, couldn't handle the intensity.Not spoken today but I let him know I got to where I am safely as travelling for work. I shouldn't stress, maybe just needs time to think, Sparkling IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2296 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 28, 2014 09:53 PM
^ Take it one day at a time and it will work out the way its supposed to work out..  ------------------ " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 01, 2014 03:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: ^ Take it one day at a time and it will work out the way its supposed to work out.. 
Thank you I will try to relax and focus on the job I am doing this weekend.
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2296 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2014 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by SparklingSag: Thank you I will try to relax and focus on the job I am doing this weekend.
You're welcome ------------------ " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 01, 2014 02:58 PM
I messaged him today, but not much back. I think I am super sensitive.Maybe its all too much, I had a guy ask me out today (invited me to sit on his balcony!), on this work trip I am on. It is notorious for this kind of behaviour on trips...I am not interested. Better to focus on my job. Sparkling IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 01, 2014 04:32 PM
Ps, still think mercury is having it's effect. IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 09, 2014 04:53 AM
Gosh,the last turbulent week is done! yay,emotions feeling better. Have been dreaming but can't remember them...Sparkling IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1184 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 24, 2014 12:56 PM
Just an update, he confessed how much he misses me (all the time) and how he wishes he was here. It was super emotional and I said I missed him too, we were bit frustrated though and had disagreement. He has been quiet since  I dreamt about him again, Sparkling
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