posted January 01, 2017 05:28 AM            

So I met a guy last month, who has become a good friend. From another country. So we started chatting after meeting on culture exchange site. We exchanged numbers. We shared our past story. We both are scarred with bad childhood. Became closer!

We started sharing pictures. So when he shared two pictures. I seemed to have seen them? Like I recognised the photo as if I saw that pictures before and remembered the faces and everybody's expression. That guy has a lil' brother also. I seem to like him a lot. I don't even know him in reality but he seems so familiar to me. And strangely, this guy had his profile picture as his selfie with his lil' brother and that's what attracted me to say 'Hi'.

posted January 02, 2017 01:50 PM            

We've been under some very surreal past-life transits. Take Caution about 'who' you fall for at this time.... It could be COSTLY -- to your Heart, your emotions, your Time on earth.

Your Heart can lie to you, and you drop your walls and override your own good sense. This could lead you to take very very risky chances on something that proves to be only a lie and manipulation... of your Heart, AND your finances. Include your Time too--- because THAT is VERY Valuable.... the older you are.

I saw a tv news show the other day about a woman who lost 250,000 dollars giving money to someone overseas.... At first he asked for a little, then graduated to higher and higher sums required. She HAD to be BYPASSING her own Good Sense... When your Heart is Vulnerable you can make some horribly BAD decisions that ruin your life.

(Also! She had disregarded the rules of the company about NOT sending money. She lost her savings. She was a single post-midlife person. He basically 'took her life' in many more ways than just one.)

He was a LIAR.

The words 'I Love You' can be nothing more than a cheap manipulation and ploy for dollars. If money is in the equation, be EXTRA careful. *Stop-sticks!*

For me, in my life, I had a Good Head on my shoulders.... and because my heart was the vulnerable part of me, they (both supposed life-partners) pulled a 'guilt' string, I 'felt sorry for them', lowered my shields, then lost my OWN Good sense and mind.

Please don't quote that part.

Wait a while before you decide to go further.... I don't know your age or your transits are.... Just, Please, DO Be Careful about 'how deeply' you go.... This person might NOT be 'as' he appears (to you) to be. Could be an illusion you project, because you 'feel' you are ready. You can take that as a notation for yourself.... and know that you are in an attracting-phase right now?

Saw your other posting.... Soooo sorry you lost someone dear to you, your Grandmother, on December 2nd.
{{{sending you a warm hug-hold}}}

... That's just 'the wrong' time of year to have something sooo sad happen. You have lost someone especially close to your Heart....

And MAYBE that's a reason for you to TAKE extra-caution with this man... whom you say (in so many words) appears as 'family' to you. You MIGHT be 'in mourning' and projecting this upon the picture as a way to process grief at this time.

(Don't neglect what happens to you at your most base level. Grief... It can leave you off your guard and extra extra vulnerable to being used as prey.)

An Idea would be (for now) to treat this event as an opportunity to get to know yourself in a Deeper way???

Treat the scenario as though it were a dream sequence that you needed to process.

BE the man, be the son in the picture.... Let them dialog. WHAT do these represent to you, especially in light of an overriding want you have... that you have attracted this right now.

Imagine 'already having' WHAT sense and feeling that you want from the fulfilling of this...

Hold 'that' within your emotions and heart... try to skip the picture-imagination perhaps?

posted January 02, 2017 03:33 PM            

I'm going to stress the point I made about grief and grieving, and your reactions to this man while still in period of time of the recent loss of your Grandmother. (family)