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Topic: Death in the family age 23months
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MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 12:35 PM
My cousin's baby got out of the back door of her house and drowned in the pool on 10/23/02. At about 2:30 in the afternoon. I am writing this to find out why the numers are so strange? He was 23mo and 16 days old he died on the 23rd. He was born on 11/7/00He was only 15 days shy of is 2nd birthday. His address numbers are 3130=7 His phone numbers are 7020410=14=5 His name numbers are 2214351=18=9(first) 8124115=22=4(middle) 135475=47=11=2(last) And if any one can do a lexi??? the letters are:AAAABDEHILNNOPRRSTTY I just don't understand it?? IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 2641 From: Registered: Apr 2001
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posted October 24, 2002 12:51 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 16464 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000
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posted October 24, 2002 12:55 PM
------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Jaqueline Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Rio de Janeiro , Brazil Registered: Oct 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 01:08 PM
I'm so sorry Mary... IP: Logged |
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posted October 24, 2002 01:46 PM
I'm not a numerology expert but wanted to extend my sympathies. My heart goes out to everyone.------------------ hello today ..open your eyes ..the snow is falling just like leaves ..aquarian warriors rebuild the ship ..mr rainbow is gone ..hello my love ..here's to your heart ..unfold the lillies in the deep ..the season's over, the shores are sealed ..now ashen roses rain on the fields ..innocent dreamers, look what you've done ..now it's time for the phoenix to fly IP: Logged |
MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 03:15 PM
Thank you all for your sympathy.I just hoped that someone could tell me why??? I have read everything in my house and can not find an answer. I do have a request: Please send all of the positive energy that you can muster to my cousin, her name is Tammy. The police are questioning her story. I am outraged by this; but I do understand that they must do their job. It is all so heart breaking. I wish I could have seen this coming, I would have yelled, screamed, stood on my head or anything to prevent it. Thank you all so much, glad to know I have friends out there. Mary IP: Logged |
WoodlandGnome Knowflake Posts: 45 From: Registered: Oct 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:09 PM
Mary,I just wanted to express my sympathies. Tammy must be devastated. It's so sad, when a baby dies. And you do ask why, as it's hard to understand how this could possibly be part of some plan. Bless you all. IP: Logged |
shamrock227 Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Date and Place Variable, depending on my mood :) Registered: Oct 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:13 PM
Mary, I'm so sorry Tammy, hugs and warm loving light to you. My greatest sympathies and wishes that your heart heals quickly. Mary, lots of 5s and 7s. His name adds to 42 which is a fortunate number. There doesn't seem to be any clues in the numerology. I can't Lexi very well. Maybe one of the more talented knowflakes can do that. Maybe you are looking in the wrong place. Perhaps the answers you are looking for lie not with the little angel but with his parents.... IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:26 PM
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Jaqueline Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Rio de Janeiro , Brazil Registered: Oct 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:37 PM
MaryI am sending all Love and Light to you,Tammy and all your family... That's all I can do. Again,I'm so sorry. Jakie IP: Logged |
MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:40 PM
oops... sorry I, hit the submit button before I changed the smiley so pleaes ignore this..IP: Logged |
MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 04:41 PM
Shamrock thank you for that thought. I'm not thinking too clearly, of course. I will check that as soon as I can. You could be right, it could be in his parents karma or in their chart. I'll find the info on that. But where did you get 42? I had to edit the name(first) his Name is Bradley not Brad. It doesn't matter which way you total it the end result is 56 or 65. Brad totals 9 but the number I don't like is Bradley which totals 18To all thank you again for the feelings! Mary IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 3936 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 05:42 PM
`S and white lite to surround you and family. juniperbIP: Logged |
SnowWhite Knowflake Posts: 313 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 24, 2002 07:15 PM
I cannot imagine what your cousin is going through. I will add my positive thoughts and wishes to those above. IP: Logged |
shamrock227 Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Date and Place Variable, depending on my mood :) Registered: Oct 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 01:15 AM
Sorry about the miscalculation, Mary. I must have misread a number, and, well, math was never my strong suit I'm haven't mastered Lexigramming yet, but did you notice the "short stay" in his name? Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will send along all the positive energy I can gather to you and Bradley's parents. {{{{{hugs to you}}}}} IP: Logged |
stella polaris Knowflake Posts: 690 From: greece Registered: Aug 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 02:03 AM
Dear Mary, I couldn't sleep last night because I was thinking about this very sad death. A friend of mine lost her little child last year, and I know the suffering Tammy and your family goes through now and how this suffering will follow her for a very, very long time. Loosing your child I believe is the absolutly worst that can happen to you. I can understand that you want to find a reason, to find out why, and maybe you will get an answer, maybe not. But that doesn't change anything. I can imagine Tammy for always will blame herself for what happened. My friend is living with a heavy guilt because she didn't take her daughter to the doctor and didn't have her vaccinated - despite this vaccination is hardly ever given to a child and that the child had hardly any symptoms of the disease that took her life. And I picture your cousin and her husband blaming themselves and feeling this horrible guilt for not having prevented their son's death, in addition to have to live with the enormous sorrow of loosing a child. The thing is, whatever precautions you take in life, howeever much you try to protect yourself from tragedies, tragedies still happens. To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven. A time of war and a time of peace, A time to be born and a time to die, A time to love and a time to hate, A time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to keep silence and a time to speak, A time to weep and a time to laugh. I hope you can be a support for your cousin, she'll need all the sympathy and support she can have. Take care of her the best you can, Mary. Stella IP: Logged |
pearly Knowflake Posts: 554 From: Neptune, Milky Way, Universe Registered: Jun 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 03:05 AM
Mary, much light and love to you, Tammy and the family. Bradley will come back into your lives in one way or another. Perhaps his higher self had something else to accomplish with you all. The reasons are never given for tragedies like this, and it hurts, I'm sorry for you... IP: Logged |
eternal Moderator Posts: 311 From: Coastal NC Registered: Jan 2001
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posted October 25, 2002 04:29 AM
Hi Mary, My love and light to your family. When a death occurrs, we always want or desire to know why?? Why?? Why did this seemingly senseless act have to happen??? Especially when it's a child. It's hard to imagine that this was chosen on some level by the child itself. It's almost hard to believe that, but if you think about it, that child is no different than you or I spiritually speaking. We may think that a child knows nothing when it comes into this world... but it knows all we know, it just hasn't reached a stage where he/she remembers a lot of it, so we as parents, siblings and such help the child remember certain things as it physically and emotionally grows into an adult. Sometimes we forget that we bring into this life what we left unfinished in the last or what we caused to happen in a past existance we endure in this one. It's that karmic wheel a rollin'. Death seems so FINAL... especially to a parent who may think they should be the first to go, to out-live their child. There is guilt and then there is grief. Sometimes grief can blind us, yet at the same time make us see, make us aware of the bigger picture. Too, what Shamrock said, a part of the parents karma is a thing to consider, because on that level before we decide to be who we're going to be or where we're going to live, we have a choice in who our parents are. And the parents we choose - more than likely there is karma to be worked through. Sometimes when we lose a child, that child comes back later... even as the same sex. Maybe the reason you are desiring to know about the numerolgical reasoning associated with Bradley's leaving, is because he is somehow communicating this to you. Perhaps by holding the numbers close to you, remembering them will help you and your family grieve OR they may hold a meaning to a mircale in the "future". 42 is his whole name number which = 6 7 is his single birth number/no compound # 18 is his secondary birth compound # 9 his secondary birth single # Just look up the meanings of the single numbers and compound numbers of his birth and name first. Perhaps this will help some, but right now only the child knows why he left "when" he did and why he left the way he did. One day others may know too, but only when they are ready, and when that happens that information will be available in one form or another. I've heard that sometimes hanging on to the ones we've lost keeps them from moving on, but I say grieving is necessary, it helps the healing of the heart's aching. A A A A B D E H I L N N O P R R S T T Y BRADLEY NOT ABLE TO STAY I, BRADLEY BY HER SIDE, BY HIS SIDE BRADLEY LOST? NO BRADLEY IS A STAR HE IS NOT LOST SHE PRAYS, HE PRAYS THAT BRADLEY IS IN NO PAIN THE STATE HE IS IN, HE IS IN NO PAIN There is more to his name, but this is what came to me at first glance. Again, my love and light to your family Mary. Tammy a.k.a eternal IP: Logged |
MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 09:12 AM
Hello to everyone, Thank you all so much for you support and understanding. I will forward all of this to his parents. maybe it will help them to heal as it is helping me. I think you are all correct in the fact that we may never understand WHY. Or know anything at all. But I still have this aching to know...Thank you again. Love and light to all of you, Mary
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stella polaris Knowflake Posts: 690 From: greece Registered: Aug 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 09:33 AM
Dear Mary, I presume the little boy's parents share your belief in these things? If not they might just feel hurt. You and I and everyone here might feel that the little boy chose to die or that it was time for him to go on, but I know when my friend was told this (not by me) about her daughter she felt it was the most cruel thing anyone could have said... IP: Logged |
MARY Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 10:52 AM
Stella, You may be rigth about that .... I don't know what my cousin should and should not be told right now. I did find the report from their local news paper....A toddler died Wednesday after his mother and a neighbor found him in a swimming pool at his 3130 Karen Drive residence in Morgan City. Two-year-old Brad Partain’s mother, Tammy Partain, was unable to locate him and called 911 to report him missing. Meanwhile, a neighbor heard the commotion and came over to help in the search. While still on the phone with emergency responders asking for help in locating the youngster, the child was found in an inoperable backyard swimming pool, according to Morgan City Police Chief Jim Christy. First-responders with the Morgan City Volunteer Fire Department were unsuccessful in their resuscitation efforts, Christy said. The child was pronounced dead at Teche Regional Medical Center in Morgan City, after transport by Acadian Ambulance Service Inc. Autopsy results are pending but Christy said no foul play is suspected. IP: Logged |
Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 1396 From: The Mists of Avalon Registered: Jan 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 11:48 AM
Mary - such a sad story! I will add your lexi request to my list. Light and to all of you. Hopeful IP: Logged |
Quinnie Knowflake Posts: 541 From: Belfast, Ireland Registered: Jul 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 12:34 PM
Mary. I am so sorry to hear about the sad news. My deepest sympathy.
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stella polaris Knowflake Posts: 690 From: greece Registered: Aug 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 01:54 PM
Dear Mary, it is difficult to know what to say and do when someone experiences a loss like this. I think the best thing you can do is just to show your cousin that you're there for her. Call, send a card, visit. Let her talk - when she feels like and about what she wants to. She's probably still in shock. Maybe you have some pictures of her son that you have taken? Or some other special memories about him for her to have? Some years ago, my husband lost his mother, father and brother within 15 months, especially the loss of his only brother was terribly hard. Short time after two of his best friends came up from southern Greece, I remember the three of them sitting all weekend playing cards or backgammon, they hardly talked and especially not about those who had just died. But to my husband this was still a tremendous support. But what I feel is wrong in a situation like this is to talk about the meaning of the little boy's death... To your cousin there probably isn't a meaning. It's just a terrible, terrible accident.IP: Logged |
Bernadette1216 Knowflake Posts: 504 From: Registered: Aug 2002
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posted October 25, 2002 03:47 PM
*hugs and love to you and your family Mary*IP: Logged |