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Topic: The Butterfly Effect
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sesame
Moderator Posts: 660
From: Brisbane, QLD, Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 06, 2005 08:27 PM
 
Well, I have surprisingly similar experiences. I once lived with a Pisces and her family for a year, before moving out with her and a scorp friend for another year. I'm a gemini. Anyhow, the fish and I were so oposite, but I loved it as well. We were inserable but still completely individual. She ended up getting hipnotised by the scorp, and we split in a matter of days. It took a while to get over, and I thought there's no way I should get involved with another Pisces, we're just too different, and yet, I believe I have Neptune in my first house, so anyone else seems to never understand me. So, I ended up meeting another Pisces who I married. She is sooo different from the first one, but still has many of the qualities I loved. But that's my life. I can't say you should still chases scorps or anything, but I can understand their power too. In many ways, I think it's up to them, it they want to help or not, it's pretty much their ball court. I mean, not all scorps are after power, so you could very much meet an eagle (you probably met one), but then they can also change. Life changes. I hope I remain in love with my life for ever, but you never truly know. Everything is in the now. And then comes faith  Heaps of Love,
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purple_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 168
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 08, 2005 02:59 AM
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Originally posted by Tigerlily: Keep in mind: The Universe is perfect and everything in your life is unfolding perfectly, in the right time and sequence.
I have an insatiable curiosity that has seen me vacillate between wanting to know where on my path I sit, and kicking back to let my future unfold. quote:
Originally posted by Tigerlily: You'll find your true love when you stop seeking it. If your eyes are only on the quest for your Twin Soul you might miss out on a beautiful and magical love that could be awaiting you right now.
I dont think Im actively seeking anything or anybody. I dont really go out much because Im a single parent, have primary custody of my children, and I work full-time. Plus I live in a small rural town. You get sick of dancing with cows after a while, lol. quote:
Originally posted by Tigerlily: If you have a strong Neptune influence in your chart you might cling to an idealized vision of love that is unrealistic but nevertheless compelling. For those who will accept nothing less than your Twin Soul, check your charts and see how Neptune factors in. Once you open yourself up to true love and let go of unrealistic expectations you'll find something better than you've even imagined.
Would you call Neptune in Scorp (2nd house), conjunct Venus in Scorp(2nd house), conjunct Sun in Scorp (1st house), square Saturn in Aquarius (5th house), sextile Uranus in Virgo (12th house) a strong Neptune influence??? quote:
Originally posted by Tigerlily: I had given up completely and had resigned myself to being alone forever when I met my soulmate. Deep down I always knew it would happen that way but it was hard to stop seeking that idea of perfect love. I was alone my whole life but I'd always had this strong belief that I'd have a love that was truly special and rare. Hard years went by. Life forced me to give up on love completely by that point. I "knew" then that I was meant to be alone in this incarnation and I reconciled myself to that and began living life with no expectations. And it was then that my soulmate and I reunited. When I let go of the dream, that's when the dream came to me and became a reality. And the love I have now is bigger and better than I'd ever dreamed (and I had big dreams!).
I think Im at the same point of acceptance and reconciliation that you were prior to meeting your soul mate. Fate will bring me a mate, if it is meant to be. And, if its not, then thats okay too. I may be alone, but I am not lonely. quote:
Originally posted by sesame: Purple_scorp, you can click edit on any post to read the underlying code, even though you need to be moderator or above (or the initial poster) to edit it. It's funny that the urls need the code [ url ] (without spaces) but if you don't do it that way, the page does it for you, but then puts the entire url in the tags. Make sense?
By George shes got it. Thanks. quote:
Originally posted by purple_scorp: I dont know. If it is so simple, why havent we done it yet?Originally posted by sesame: Well, that's a question you need to ask yourself. What are you truly attracting? What are you desiring to experience? What are your expectations?
Well, at one point, I was attracting gnomes of the garden variety, which was really odd, seeing as I didnt have a garden, . In the past I have put out to the Universe exactly what I desired but he didnt materialise. So, thats when I thought that everything was meant to be as it was. quote:
Originally posted by purple_scorp: I've recently been giving a lot of thought to this. Can you grow to love somebody, or do you need the initial spark?Originally posted by sesame: Well, I personally think the main factor is communication (I'm a gemini)
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Sparks are completely subjective when you think about it
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Yes. There needs to be more, and maybe less. Less expectation? More flow? Best of luck to you.
If my heart is not in it at the start, then I would feel as though Im living a lie, or trying to have a relationship for the sake of it. Then, that to me would be a compromise. I would rather be alone than compromise my heart. quote:
Originally posted by steelrose: I must agree with you, Purple_scorp... I donīt think you can have just a magical relationship just with anyone just by opening up... Of course you can grow love for everybody, but that is not comparable with the right kind of spark...
Well, it has happened to me once, where somebody snuck up on me. They were there as a friend and I never would have contemplated anything more serious. Then, the more time I spent with him, the more I got to know his soul and I began to see him in a different light. I did not have a romantic relationship with him in the end, however, I can see how it could have happened. Unless, as Dean said, they have some annoying habit that just negates everything else. quote:
Originally posted by sesame: <snip> But that's my life. I can't say you should still chases scorps or anything, but I can understand their power too. In many ways, I think it's up to them, it they want to help or not, it's pretty much their ball court. I mean, not all scorps are after power, so you could very much meet an eagle (you probably met one), but then they can also change.
I believe I am an old soul and an evolved scorp. I know of this power you speak of. I can be too intense for some people. I think this is why I seem to get along well with Aries (and my moon is in Aries too). I know I have waffled on a bit in this post and the thread has certainly departed from its original intention.I guess in summary, all I wanted to say was to everything there is a reason and a season. I dont want love, just for the sake of it. I want the real thing. Osho Zen says: When your love is not just a desire for the other, when your love is not only a need, when your love is a sharing, when your love is not that of a beggar but an emperor, when your love is not asking for something in return but is ready only to give to give for the sheer joy of giving then add meditation to it and the pure fragrance is released. with love
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steelrose
Knowflake Posts: 119
From: Spain
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 08, 2005 08:53 AM
YES, Purple_scorp, YES!!! Thatīs exactty what I think...I know, Dean... Not all scorps are the same. I didnīt mean that... Actually, I think Iīm waiting for a Scorpio... My Soul Mate was one... This recent relationship didnīt work because of other issues... It was all about priorities... I wasnīt so important for him after all... He just didnīt love me, end of story, not enough.
Thatīs what I mean, Iīd never put myself through that ordeal again... Sacrifice everything to try adapting to a lifestyle that kills me for someone who put everything else first. Iīd never fight for nothing more than true love. I paid too high a price for just a friend... Hmmm... I suppose the lesson does justify the price... But this thread started due to my other Scorp, my Twin... I always considered Scorps as the wisest of all... For them truth comes by intuition, they sense it... I wondered when I watch the film if he sensed something and wanted to spare me (or himself) from it... IP: Logged |
iAmThat
Knowflake Posts: 527
From: Edison, NJ, USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 09, 2005 12:51 AM
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life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 09, 2005 02:58 PM
Oh Steelrose, you moved me so much with your words and actually took my breath away. I have just posted something to Twin Flames, if you are interested in reading it about an experience I had. Thanks so much, you sound like a very wise prophet and your words really really helped me, love to you x x x x xIP: Logged |
steelrose
Knowflake Posts: 119
From: Spain
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 10, 2005 11:06 AM
Thank you, Sue...I did read your story in the other thread... Itīs amazing how so many people go through a similar experience around us... When that happened to me, I felt kind of special... Special in a dreadful way... Special enough to be denied the love of my life... or my whole existence... What an awful punishment...As I see, Iīm not the only one... This site is full of people with similar experiences... That gives me a dim light of hope... Reading about reincarnation opened my heart to another possibilty... Maybe I didnīt lose him after all, not for ever, maybe just for one or two lifetimes... Maybe this is just a test of endurance and if I do it right this time, I wonīt have to go through that again. Now and again, different ideas cross my mind... About why that had to happen... The only way to let go is understanding... And I desperately need to understand, as much as I can... Thatīs why I read so avidly other peopleīs experiences and I offer mine to anyone who wants to read it... Love to you as well... xxxxx 
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silvana
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: toronto
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 17, 2005 12:28 AM
I met someone who I thought was my soulmate 6 years ago. We were only together for a few short months, and he left suddenly and pretty mysteriously. I think of him fairly often still, and wonder constantly what he means to me, and why my heart still yearns to be near him. I probably will never see him again. I had some strange experiences where I felt we had known eachother in every lifetime. We took on different roles, sometimes I was male, other times female and we have always fought together for the same spiritual end. This came to me in a vision of sorts, and years later, part of me still feels it to be true. I am with another person now, someone who I love dearly. I wonder sometimes if I should be with anyone if my heart still has this hole in it that only he can fill. IP: Logged |
sesame
Moderator Posts: 660
From: Brisbane, QLD, Oz
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 17, 2005 08:04 PM
Well, yes, but as I keep saying, Life goes on. Everyone seems so melancholy about this, which is pretty understandable, but simultaneously creates your future. I mean, if you try to be hopefull that everything has a purpose then your lives should improve. You're not dead, your lives are just starting. Think of it like you're an infant out to find your first puppy-love crush. Don't get too deep into it because maybe you aren't ready. The puppy love feels so good and will most likely be with a complete equal. Soul mates might suffer complications where either soul is a different karmic phase than the other. The point is that life is about living regardless of others. You have your own life. Maybe the lesson lies within - I mean to learn more from yourself than your twin.Steelrose, I recommend "Relationship Signs" by Linda Goodman to understand further why things like this happen. It also has indicators that might state whether the person could be your soul mate, but the other factors could lead to why it couldn't happen this life, but then, this life aint over is it? It still could happen, but in the meantime, you can't hold your breath hey? Heaps of Love,
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purple_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 168
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 18, 2005 06:24 AM
Well I have to say, that my soul mate awakened some feelings in me, that I never knew existed. That's got to be good for future relationships. Even if the one with him fizzled. Maybe that was his purpose?purple_scorp IP: Logged |
steelrose
Knowflake Posts: 119
From: Spain
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 18, 2005 09:06 AM
Hi, Dean, nice to find you again... I wonder exactly what Silvana is wondering... Thatīs why I have been posting so often about this matter... Hmmm, I donīt know...Maybe you are right and while we canīt be together, possibly because we are at different stages in the race for enlightment, we better learn as much as we can from relationships to be ready to reunite as soon as we can... Silvana, are you stopping from being with your Twin for being with this man? No... What are you losing? You need to ask your heart if itīs OK to stay with him or not... Maybe you feel itīs wrong and not fair for him because you canīt give him as much asyou could because you donīt feel as much as you did... But maybe this kind of love is better for you in a different wayat this very moment in time... Iīm not saying we should go into any kind of relationship, that would be disastrous... But maybe in this lifetime, another person who is not our Twin is meant to be... Why should you be stuck and alone if your Twin is not ready for you? Plus the fact that maybe your Twin will come back still in this lifetime... Or maybe, you miscalculated and your real Twin is yet to appear because that person you thought was your Twin was just someone who would show you how deep your feelings can be in preparation for your Twin, like Purple_scorp said... I know how frustrating it is... To be shown something you canīt have... Iīm still struggling with that idea... Just try and be happy... Itīs all you can do...
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