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Topic: sVirgo Negative comments
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lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 10:11 AM
 
Well for instance, 3 people have asked me to leave their kindred alone
so I opened this topic to
answer sVirgoIgnore it, give no energy at all,
turn the other cheek
you can not change anyone and they will not change
until they want to this is the world we live in
and this is how we treat each other funny thing is, they asked me to leave them alone, and still came in OUR MAGIC ROOM
and made comments
so, don't expect much Lots of are still asleep Speak your Truth, waive your banner of honesty, and Good WILL for ALL IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 10:44 AM
I almost forgot sVirgo
I lost everything in mu email
due to a fatal disc quoto overloadso, I've lost you email address Love and Light to ALL IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 2853
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:07 PM
Lotus..you invited me remember? 
I came..I participated. You asked me to leave. I did as you asked. I would have stayed away...but I was attacked by MG. You were being reasonably polite..abeit cryptic..
But I could respect your wishes...and saw you felt threatened. So I left.
MG had no business attacking as I was NOT attacking you. Only asking valid questions.
Only asking questios which you declined to answer.....which is your right.
It was none of her business.
For you to condone her nasty mouth is not very nice.
Magus has his own issues with her which I feel by what I have seen...are justified. I do not wish to be involved in their fights. But if she attacks unjustly...well that is another issue. He has a right to defend and I
to stand behind him if I feel it is justified or needed. He an defend himself very well. So I usually stay out of his disputes with her and others. But only up to a point. MG was out of line. You know that.As for Kindred. That is a word used by folks who feel a family soul connection that is more personal and deep than the real but general/impersonal connection to the entire human race.
You may well deny it...but as a mother...don't you have a deeper PERSONAL connection with your biological children in this life/...than to all humanity? It is far more personal! Any mother knows that feeling...or should!
That is how it is to those of us who consider ourselves "KINDRED".
A deep PERSONAL connection that more often than not, transcends this lifetime.
These are PERSONAL connections of long endurance..love and loyalty.
Just remember..YOU invited me to your magic room. We were both reasonably civil to each other. MG had no business attacking me when no offense was intended by me. Even I would not defend a Kindred one if they were in the wrong. Again..being family/Kindred...does not mean letting someone take atvantage of another or to condone mean and nasty unprovoked behavior.
So...
Hope that made sense to you and this was not a ploy or invitation to get into a multi page discussion on these matters. You have said your piece..and I have said mine.
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 2853
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:12 PM
OOOPPSSS?????
By the way..it was not until I read this thread over that I realized that you were using the thread as a personal communications thread to someone.MY APOLOGIES FOR THAT!
It was an unintentional invasion of this thread...if indeed it was being used for a personal communication. But this is a public forum. I did not realize what you were doing. So..I will remove my post if you wish..but only with your permission as you do not like folks to change or delete posts.
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lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:12 PM
All I have to say
and I didn't read what you just wrote
is
you came back in after you said you would stay outIP: Logged |
lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:18 PM
I don't want to sound rude
but when you asked that I due the same for you and your kindred, and I know who they areI respected your reauest I will not reade anything that you have written
I respect you, and am staying out of your affairs aas I
asked you so, please respect me also... ...
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 2853
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:26 PM
Again..these forums are public. I DID leave and had no intention of posting on what you consider your personal blog thread.
You felt uneasy with my questions and asked me to leave. I DID.But then your friend attacked me. You and I were being reasonably civil. She was not justified in being so vile and nasty to me.
I was not attacking you and you know that!
YOU INVITED ME!
I VISITED!
I PARTICIPATED WITH A FEW QUESTIONS!
YOU DECLINED TO ANSWER SOME!
THAT IS YOUR RIGHT!
YOU ASKED ME TO LEAVE!
Even though it is a public forum..I LEFT!
I only came back..AFTER I was verbally abused!
I WILL NOT TAKE YOU UP ON AN INVITATION EVER AGAIN!
Makes me wonder now if you invited me to try to set a trap or something. You knew I do not agree with you but you invited me anyhow!
So were there other motives for asking me too go there or did you think I might like it there?
Just remember I came and I left as you asked me to do in both istances.
I will not be back. Not to post. So your friends and you can bad mouth all you want now.
But stop inviting folks if it is just a trick to stir up new trouble..and then an excuse to tell them to leave. 
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 2853
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 12:37 PM
Oh Lotus!   For crying out loud! I did not tell you to never read any posts here at LL.
That is your choice to do so or not.
Same for anyone!
And I am going to leave you alone here now.
If you had read these..you would see that I apologized for invading your thread here that I did not realize was meant to be a personal communication. I did not catch the sVirgo as a name until too late. I do not know this person. So apologies to sVirgo also.  And I was posting as you were.
I am leaving now.
Please do not attack me or my friends and urge you friends to behave also.
Thank You. IP: Logged |
sVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 489
From: Pa, US
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 30, 2005 10:10 PM
Hi lotusheartone!!
I didn't get the title of your topic.
Did I give any negative comments.
If I did, I am really sorry. I am just trying to resolve my personal problems only with the help of my friends around on linda-goodman.
I felt bad again today when the same person tried to feel jealous about my other side business of shares. He asks me every day how much I made. I keep on ignoring him but he doesnot stop.
So today I took excuse that I have stopped doing that business. Though I never wanted to speak lie but as he is not stopping and I didn't want to hurt him.
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lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 10:14 PM
No no no sweetie
you took it the wrong way
I was asked to avoid some people
that were here in your topic
was just giving my adviceyou've never said anything negative to me what-so-ever Love and Light to YOU IP: Logged |
sVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 489
From: Pa, US
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 30, 2005 10:17 PM
Thank you lotusheartone!!
Now I am relieved.
Okay now guide me how to stop this guy intervening in my personal matters like he was so curious all the day how much I made out of my share business.
The moment I tried to divert his attention from my business, then he picked the topic of my twin soul, which again bothers me.IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 10:25 PM
I'd simply ask him to leave you alone, give you some space, otherwise, and unfortunately you will have to go to your boss about it, because it's upsetting you and interfering with your work,
tell him to email you, if you feel like dealing with him that way, work is work.Love,
Stephanie IP: Logged |
sVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 489
From: Pa, US
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 30, 2005 10:31 PM
I can't go to boss as I made him my friend myself. But may be I can tell him that I need some space.IP: Logged |
lotusheartone
Knowflake Posts: 3069
From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 30, 2005 10:41 PM
I'm not saying
to not be his friendjust that this is work, and he should respect your wishes. IP: Logged |
angel_of_hope
Knowflake Posts: 891
From: Palmer, Alaska (the valley)
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted December 01, 2005 02:45 AM
Arrgghhh! I lost my post ... that hasnt happened in a while! phewy!okay ... so sVirgo ... this man definately sounds insecure and unhappy. Trying to bring you down and, well you know that saying right? Misery loves company!! so fitting ... Kinda reminds me of a saying my BF's father once told me, in which i try to live be to this day and that is ... "Never tell your friends/aquantinces your dreams, cause whether you know it or not, they are secretly wishing for you to fail" .. i derived at that thought for the comment "thirteen" made about revealing to much personal info to this person. Which i also believe is true. A while ago i was searching for a good company name for my in-laws and when i derived at the number 6 i felt it was perfect ... but then dear lotus heart informed me that 6 people can be taken advantage of by all the love they give. Which i realized was absolutly correct. (thanks steph  ) anyhwho - it only makes that saying my bf's father told me ring truer. So try your best to keep your personal life on the downlow, aside from work related matters. now, to get this man off your back. When he says ... "how much you made?" you reply with, enough to keep me happy!! When he says you have wrinkles ... tell him, either way you still love yourself and realize everyone grows old. When he makes comments about you being bankrupt, or whatnot ... simply reply ... "I can live with out money and still be happy living my life" .. make sure to have a smile on that face of yours ... if you reflect what they say to you, back to them, positively, they will eventually leave you alone and see that there is no way to make you their company. (misery loves company) I had an ex bf who was like this ... by doing what i described above i was able to get him to stop ... but polietly reflect it all back towards him. In my own opinion, ignoring only adds fuel to the fire and from what your said, doesnt seem to be working on this man. Whew! i hope i made sense there ... lol. I've had some of my sick loves medicine this evening .... jagermeister! lol. and of course loosing my well thought out post didnt help one bit - just meant i was rushed to type what was on my mind. btw - i dont think we have met before ... pleasure to meet you!! see ya round ... I'll check back in here when i am sober in the morning ... dont want to run my mouth too much .. lol have a good night/day ~ang IP: Logged |
sVirgo
Knowflake Posts: 489
From: Pa, US
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted December 01, 2005 09:19 AM
This is what difficult for me angel_of_hope what you mentioned
" if you reflect what they say to you, back to them, positively, they will eventually leave you alone and see that there is no way to make you their company. "
But I will try.
Even lotusheartone too told me long time ago that this person does not love himself and is unhappy. IP: Logged |
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