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mantoinette
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From: phila, usa
Registered: Oct 2007

posted November 09, 2007 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mantoinette     Edit/Delete Message
how can i win him back if i lost the potential frendhip.
been reading you guys replies on cancers please help me!!!!!
im a taurus & met a 42 yr old cancer man.we went 2 grab a bite on 1st day we met.he said he dont have girlfren, divorced n 2001, work 3 jobs monday-sat, get his 14 yo daughter sat-monday. he plays a sport and practices a few times a wk, and competes. he went back outta state. talked on phone over a month. wanted me 2 meet the daughter, i said i think he should take time 2 get 2 no me be 4 i meet her. we shared sum things over the phone, i went down there. was introduced 2 three folks, went to dinner at this really nice place. went 2 breakfast nex mornin. we chated on fone off and on. sum of the 1st talks he mentioned if you feelin sum one in the heart u make time. so 3 wks after i went 2 see him. there was opportunities he coulda seen me and didnt. i sent this long email. we talk about the email. and i went to see him a 2nd time. i dont think i over did it by takin sum food and 1 pot. i planned to cook. but we ate sumthin else. he said sumthing, he not use to this. i didnt get like he meant that in a bad way. well i left next day. he had a competition to go too, wanted me 2 send sum pics, i did while he was gone, a card, and we talk before he left. he tex me out the blu all good. i didnt no what he was referrring to. and i started thinkin 2 much. and text him theres no communication cuz he left me hanging to figure out what he was talkin about. i tex him do he see me as a frend with potential. rong ?. he said cant focus on strong frendship. then all my true feelins came out. i felt like i was fallin in luv and u been on my mind etc in all these tex msgs. i tex him days later was he upset wit me he said no. recently i tex him sumthin bout my mom, he came out the blu he still luv his daughter mom and hope my mom is ok. i replied like a frend. he cald me later we rapped about the text msg showdown and he said gotta go with the flo, and he said i be tellin him not to analyze. that was 10 days ago. i since text him how was he, sent him updated pic of me and left a nice msg. i dont know if now i scarde him or how to get my frend back. help!!! based on the last talk 10 days ago i got the feel we was still flowin but i dont no. during the course win we met i sent him 2 card congratulating about his competition and a b-day card to his daughter. heres my number. 267 230 6205. its my pager only. i hope i can have some people to talk to about this. easter standard time zone

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26taurus
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posted November 09, 2007 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 26taurus     Edit/Delete Message
"how can i win him back if i lost the potential frendhip."
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“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.”
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fayte.m
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posted November 09, 2007 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Please Read the advice I gave on men. I gave many links.
You cannot force a Cancerian man or push him too fast. He really means it when he says to "go with the flow".
He is saying please have patience and take things as they come, please do not push him.
That is not a rejection. If he was not interested he would avoid you like the plague!
And as I told you in Astrology, if he still loves the mother of his child....
you may have a very long wait.
Do not play any head games on him. No jealousy plays at all.
He is in my opinion not ready to get involved with anyone at this time.
Is he still married?
And if divorce, for how long?
Also did you check his synastry with you yet?


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ListensToTrees
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From: the capricious clouds, in the land formerly known as Albion
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posted November 09, 2007 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Phew. Maybe you could put some spaces between the sentences; might make it easier to read.

First of all, I understand what you must be going through. The chemistry of love is such an overwhelming thing, tipping our lives and all our emotions upside down!

I like 26T's quote.
True love goes deeper than the "in love" feeling we have when we first get with someone. Being "in love" is still important. But true love is more about what is best for both of you. Whether you can both give to each other what each of you needs. Not wanting to hurt each other in any way.

It's not all down to our zodiac signs. That only plays a part in the way we express ourselves. It is not who we really are inside- our higher consciousness. But if you know your exact time, date and place of births, the knowflakes in the Astrology forum could probably give you some deeper insight into the relationship. You can also get some free short reports done on the astro.com website.

"The planets incline, they do not compel".

Love has the power to overcome all odds, it can even eliminate karma".

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mantoinette
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From: phila, usa
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posted November 09, 2007 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mantoinette     Edit/Delete Message
fayte.m
hi fayte, got your message. im so glad i am meeting frends on here. its really helping me not to harass him and call him. since you mention something about jealous i have also sensed that maybe he made tht remark he still love his daughter mother out the blue. i responded by saying you will always luv her she gave you a child. if you still in love with her see if she feel the same. he made a call to me after that and we talked about the text msg show down situation that happened and thats when he was like gotta go with the flow. he didnt mention nuthing about that statement he made. im in philly eastern standard 267 230 6205 is my voicemail. im trying to talk to sum people over the fone to get thru this . i will call you guys back from my direct line but im just tryna be careful by not puttin gmy direct number on here. my yahoo is mantoinettelemail@yahoo.com. thanks for your help.

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ListensToTrees
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From: the capricious clouds, in the land formerly known as Albion
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posted November 09, 2007 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, good advice, fayte.

You can't force things. You can't rush things.

Love has to grow.
It takes a long time to really get to know a person.

If he is still in love with his wife, he needs to let go before he can start anew.

No-one deserves to come second best.

You deserve to come first.

Give the him some space. He might wake up one day and realize what he's missing. Then again, he might not.

It has to be his own decision.

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