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WinkAway
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posted January 15, 2010 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Winkin', Blinkin', and Nod

Winkin', Blinkin', and Nod, one night sailed off in a wooden shoe;
Sailed off on a river of crystal light into a sea of dew.
"Where are you going and what do you wish?" the old moon asked the three.
"We've come to fish for the herring fish that live in this beautiful sea.
Nets of silver and gold have we," said Winkin', Blinkin', and Nod.

The old moon laughed and sang a song as they rocked in the wooden shoe.
And the wind that sped them all night long ruffled the waves of dew.
Now the little stars are the herring fish that live in that beautiful sea;
"Cast your nets wherever you wish never afraid are we!"
So cried the stars to the fishermen three - Winkin', and Blinkin', and Nod.

So all night long their nets they threw to the stars in the twinkling foam.
'Til down from the skies came the wooden shoe bringing the fisherman home.
'Twas all so pretty a sail it seemed as if it could not be.
Some folks say 'twas a dream they dreamed of sailing that misty sea.
But I shall name you the fisherman three - Winkin', Blinkin', and Nod.

Now Winkin' and Blinkin' are two little eyes and Nod is a little head.
And the wooden shoe that sailed the skies is a wee one's trundle bed.
So close your eyes while mother sings of the wonderful sights that be.
And you shall see those beautiful things as you sail on the misty sea,
Where the old shoe rocked the fishermen three - Winkin', Blinkin', and Nod

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posted January 15, 2010 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, picture me with a mullet, and on my parents ratty couch in the basement.

I'm yelling.

"IT'S WINK'S WORLD, IT'S PARTY TIME, IT'S EXCELLENT, SHA-WING"

Yeah, how is that for YOUR first fan!!!

hahaha, my Aries Asc loves being first!!!

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posted January 15, 2010 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LMAO!! YEAY!! I HAVE A FAN!!

GW You're awesome

You know.. I didn't mean for that to sound snooty, but I guess it did. I just wanted to point out to AG that I'm the same as CrimsonChyld so he didn't think I was some newbie being too friendly lol.

I actually had Wayne's World in mind when I put that in tee hee. But also thought of that poem too...


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posted January 15, 2010 08:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NOPE, not snooty at all, I noticed it too when I read his page 1, finally!!

Well, now that you I know you are a Virgo/cancer, well I will just be stalking you. I shall appoint myself manager of your fan club, this way, I can screen all potentials admirers, to see if they are worthy.

OMG!

Did you see that, I wrote "worhty"

RE: Waynes' World ~ "We're not worthy, we're not worthy!!"

hahahahahahaha. This will be a fun thread.

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posted January 15, 2010 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL! You are awesome!

I am not worthy, I am not worthy... lol..

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posted January 30, 2010 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, Miss, do you have plans for this lovely Leo Moon? I think I might go outside and brave the frigid air to take a peek.

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posted February 01, 2010 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey gypsee.. I didn't really have any plans that night. But I was out driving and looked up and it was just beautiful.
I've been a tad under the weather, so I kind of hibernated this past weekend..

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posted February 01, 2010 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wondered what happened to you, you've been quiet. That isn't normal right? LOL.

I think everybody and their Aunt Sally is under the weather, the docs office is paaaaacked, and I need to go for my monthly blood draw thingy, but I keep putting it off, cause when I drive past, cars are spilling out of their parking lot, into the street. Uggg.

OH, MISTER GROUNDHOG, PLEASE BE GOOD TO US, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE.....

Anyway, I hope ya feel better soon! Or at least enjoy your hibernation with some good movies, and a nice snugglie blanket.

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posted February 02, 2010 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well as much as I like your version...
I'm working it off lol.
But feeling better.

I know what you mean about Dr's offices being packed. I've been to the Dr's more this past year than ever. I'm diabetic and have this big long hairy appointment tomorrow, so I get to have my blood sucked too.

And I've been quiet because it's been very busy here at work. I'm technically a "temp" as they haven't hired me on perm yet. They keep temp's on a long time. The guy sitting next to me just got hired and he was working temp for over a year. But yesterday they let go two out of the four temps I started with. So I'm a tad nervous about losing my job. The economy is just starting to affect Utah. We've managed to do pretty well, but it's getting tough.

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posted February 02, 2010 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OY! Just now effecting Utah? That's great. I mean, not great, but, the just now part is. Ohio is in the top five for unemployment and repo-ed homes. Stinks.
There "ain't no" jobs here.

I remember when the sunday classifieds had 5-6 pages of jobs. Now, they have half a page, and it's usually health care workers, or over the road truck drivers.

I don't think your job is in jeopardy, but you might wanna keep your hair "un-blue" just in case.

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posted February 02, 2010 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol..yeah I kind of changed my mind for now on the blue hair thing. I had my hair cut last week and they cut it VERY short, so I decided it wasn't quite what I had in mind. And once I'm feeling a little more secure about work, maybe I'll re visit the blue hair thing.

And as for work...I'm extremely nervous about being unemployed again. It was so stressful being out of work and wondering when they were going to come get my car lol. I haven't exactly been responsible with my money since I've had this job, but I think I'm going to concentrate more on my bills now lol.

And... don't get me wrong about Utah. We've been hit pretty hard too. I was out of work for quite awhile and just got this "temp" job in October. My ex and a good friend of mine have both been out of work for months. It just seems like it's getting worse lately.

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posted February 14, 2010 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What up buttacup?

Ok, so I discovered the best eyeliner on the face of the earth, seriously. They should hire me as spokeswoman or something.

It goes on like a dream, doesn't run, and stays on!!!! It's Maybeline Define-A-Line.

k, I must be bored, I'm discussing makeup on the net!! Yikes.

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posted February 15, 2010 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LMAO! Funny, I bought some eyeliner..I think it was Thursday last week. It's called Stiletto (if I spelled it right). I was all worried about it smudging since they all seem to do that with me.. this stuff is pretty good too. But I'll have to check out that one too :-D

Hey, I met someone this past weekend. He's a sweetheart. Only thing is he's 5'7 and I'm 6ft. I'm okay with it but not sure how he feels about it. His name is Kenny.. I'll have to put our charts up here to see if anyone has anything to say about it. He's a Saggy. He was talking about getting together next weekend so we'll see...

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posted February 15, 2010 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Congrats!!! Who cares about height! I mean, if it doesn't bother him and it doesn't bother you, it's all good.

A saggie, huh? Have you ever dated a Sag before?

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posted February 16, 2010 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope, never dated a Sag before.
But this week has been a sort of cleaning of the closet with relationships...very strange.
I ended a very unhealthy relationship just last night. From someone who has been using me emotionally, financially and physically. There was a time when I would have cried bullets over this man but not any more. I feel kind of sad because I really was hoping we could be good friends. Then on the other hand I feel a sense of release to be rid of this vampire of sorts. A Sag btw.

And I had someone who was my bf for awhile.. long story but he has some mental issues which became too much to accept and I knew it wouldn't become anything more than a good friendship. So I already broke up with him once and about three weeks ago he started dropping the "I love you" bomb on me again. So I had to again break up with him. And seeing as last night has this theme going, he called and left a message on my machine telling me to say goodbye to my son and daughter for him <ugh!!>. So I guess this means that's a no to the let's be friends question. <Cappy btw>

And the kicker is how on Friday night I met up with this new guy Kenny. Well sort of new. He took me out to dinner back in October and came by my house once and we talked and talked. We are probably meeting up again this weekend and he's a great guy.
<Sag btw>

I haven't had much sleep because of the drama with the other two guys.. needed a place to vent..

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posted February 16, 2010 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear about your Sag vampire, that is odd to me, that a Sag would act that way, must be something else in his chart. Actually it kinda horrifies me, cuz, I hope that nobody has ever thought of me in that light, now you have me wondering....

Cappies are serious, Hon, they are usually looking for the "one" most of their lives. When you say you only want to be friends, well, then you've just removed yourself from the list. But, I think you can be friends in time, let him lick his wounds awhile.

Tips on dating a SAG from a SAG ~
*be your funny, charming self, no froo froo girly-gushy-oh-my-hair-looks-so-bad kinda stuff.
(bling! light bulb) ACTUALLY, the best way to interest a Sag indenfinetly (or like 2 weeks which is forever to us, JUST KIDDING) is to act like you are just out with a friend. Totally. Whatever you would do/say with one of your girlfriends or guy friends, do that.
Be very unavailable, but not totally invisible. We like to chase, we sort of think of everything as a sporting event.

Ummm, lemme see....did I mention being funny? I think so, be funny, don't be a prude and cringe at our potty mouths, that makes us feel like we're out with Mom. ugg.
Be willing to exchange ideas on all sort of topics.
Just don't be boring, whatever you do, don't bore us, it's the kiss of death. I doubt you have to worry about this though, you are far from boring.
I hope you have a great time!!

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posted February 16, 2010 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eskimono     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Winkaway - I had one of those weeks a few weeks back! Almost like a relationship clear out. I'm feeling optimistic that it was clearing the decks for better things to come - let's hope it's the same for you.

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posted February 16, 2010 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the tips Gypsee!

That Sag guy was just dead weight anyway. I helped this guy out a lot over the past couple of years with food, groceries, money, rides, etc... He was just using me, which I'm having a really hard time with because I've been stepped on quite a bit by men over the past couple of years.

And now that I'm cleaning of the closet for dead weight so called friends...along comes Kenny
But I feel so untrusting of men in general right now. I've heard of women being this way.. getting their sugar daddy kind of thing. I am SO not like that. And within the past 4 years I've seen 2 men who end up being married and the wives email me to tell me so, I've been scammed by a man from Nigeria (long story), at least 2 men thinking I'm some sort of money bags... and one honest man in the bunch but he ended up having mental issues. UGH!!

So yeah.. I decided to give men a break for awhile when Kenny came around.

So I guess this is "to be continued"

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posted February 16, 2010 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
(bling! light bulb) ACTUALLY, the best way to interest a Sag indenfinetly (or like 2 weeks which is forever to us, JUST KIDDING) is to act like you are just out with a friend. Totally. Whatever you would do/say with one of your girlfriends or guy friends, do that.
Be very unavailable, but not totally invisible. We like to chase, we sort of think of everything as a sporting event.

Ummm, lemme see....did I mention being funny? I think so, be funny, don't be a prude and cringe at our potty mouths, that makes us feel like we're out with Mom. ugg.
Be willing to exchange ideas on all sort of topics.
Just don't be boring, whatever you do, don't bore us, it's the kiss of death. I doubt you have to worry about this though, you are far from boring.


Sounds very much like how I can be, and it also sounds like why I got along with my Sag so well (nevermind that her Sun was on my Mercury). It was quite nice to be almost completely uncensored with her. She did seem to have trouble with my being unavailable from time to time.

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posted February 16, 2010 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, not to burst anyone's bubble or anything but I am an example of a a Sag who doesn't like potty mouths. In fact, I tend to get annoyed with the overuse of sh1t, fvck, etc.
Once or twice for added emphasis is OK. Every 2 sentences - not OK!

Oh, and don't make fun of absolutely everything 'cause it just shows a lack of depth.

Lack of grace upsets me but I am guilty of it sometimes as well, sooo...

At any rate - there are different types of Saggies out there. Careful not to get one like me - you make be startled by how un-Saggie we/I can be. LOL.

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posted February 16, 2010 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I'm a Virgo/Libra cusp and I am SO very not Virgo! Everything I've read about Virgo's says how tidy and neat we are...
So does the fact that I have a Saggy Moon and Cancer ASC factor much in there?

And I don't think ALL Saggy's are like this prick. He mooches on everyone including his own mother and whines about needing a job but he's too damn lazy to get off his ass and go look! Okay Wink...breathe!! LOL.

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posted February 16, 2010 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To be fair, Gypsee wasn't saying that Sags like potty mouths. She was saying that Sags sometimes have potty mouths. Virgos, I think, typically have worse potty mouths than Sags.

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So does the fact that I have a Saggy Moon and Cancer ASC factor much in there?

I'm sure it does, but you're not the first Virgo I've known to not enjoy the description of what it is to be a Virgo.

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posted February 16, 2010 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I wouldn't say that I actually have a potty mouth, as in, saying eff, and mf, and all that, what I mean is...hmmm...that no topic is really off limits. Sometimes that can be shocking to people who are used to NOT openly discussing every little nuance of life, like I am. I think the expression TMI, was invented about Saggies.

And, the reason why I love Virgo's and have dated quite a few is that they DO, as AG stated have a similiar sense of humour and are a bit on the naughty side, heavens knows where they ever got the reputation for being otherwise. My Mother has the worse potty mouth I've heard!! She is Virgo sun, Leo Asc and Sco Moon.

Wink, my ex, the Scorpio, has a Cancer Asc and a Saggie Moon, this must be what draws me to you. I seem to be drawn to alot of people who have sag and cancer in other places besides the Sun. So, I kinda know how you are in relationships. You are a very giving person. That is probably why you've had a bit of bad luck, plus your Virgo sun wants to be of service, to help out, and that has drawn those who are apt to take advantage to you. I'm sorry that this has happened to you. You seem like a genuinely nice person, who doesn't deserve that.

But, with your Saggie Moon, I think you will get along very well with Kenny. Sun to Moon is nice.

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posted February 23, 2010 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to put Slowpoke's post for me on here so I can save it!

WinkAway's 100 Favorable Dates

<------------------------- 1950's ------------------------->

<-------- 1951 -------->
Jul 26

<-------- 1952 -------->
Feb 07, 08, 09, 10

<-------- 1953 -------->
Nov 18

<-------- 1954 -------->
Jan 05, 06, 08

<-------- 1955 -------->
Dec 11, 12

<-------- 1959 -------->
May 18


<------------------------- 1960's ------------------------->

<-------- 1960 -------->
Jun 29, 30, 30
Jul 01, 02, 03, 04, 05
Nov 22, 23, 25
Dec 10

<-------- 1961 -------->
Aug 12, 13
Oct 01, 03, 04, 06, 07, 08, 11, 12, 13, 15, 16, 17
Nov 17, 17, 18, 19, 19, 20, 21, 22

<-------- 1962 -------->
Sep 15, 16, 17, 17, 18, 18, 20, 21

<-------- 1963 -------->
Jul 15, 16, 19

<-------- 1964 -------->
May 23
Aug 21, 23, 23, 26

<-------- 1965 -------->
Jan 20, 21

<-------- 1967 -------->
Aug 07, 08

<-------- 1969 -------->
Jan 12, 13, 13, 14, 17


<------------------------- 1970's ------------------------->

<-------- 1970 -------->
Feb 21, 22, 23
Sep 10

<-------- 1972 -------->
Nov 27, 28

<-------- 1973 -------->
Sep 16, 20, 20, 21
Oct 31

<-------- 1978 -------->
Feb 23

<-------- 1979 -------->
Oct 18


<------------------------- 1980's ------------------------->
<-------- 1980 -------->
Aug 17

<-------- 1982 -------->
Jul 27, 28

<-------- 1986 -------->
Jul 20, 21
Sep 08, 19, 20, 21, 22

<-------- 1989 -------->
Nov 16, 17, 18, 20, 21, 22

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Only these planets are used in the research.

S = Sun
M = Moon
NN = North Node
MY = Mercury
VE = Venus
MR = Mars
JP = Jupiter
SA = Saturn
UR = Uranus
NP = Neptune
P = Pluto

And when the time & place born is given:

MC = your Midheaven
Asc = your Ascendant


Problems In Finding People Through Their DOBs.

WinkAway, Use your list to build yourself a base of men and women friends. Some of these friends could become closer personal people. Many of them may have the potential to help carry your union into a broader life style. But locating them by way of their birthdays is a large problem. Some churches, sport organizations and, dating companies collect DOBs but may not allow public viewing to their list. Some work place employees may keep a "sunshine list" for celebrating working associates' DOB. If you are so incline, perhaps throwing some sort of astrological sign party, dance or, dinner could help. (Who says that the gathering must be at the time of that particular sign, give it during your best Solar Transit time.) If you submit an application for a dating service, perhaps you can try to request meeting some people who have specific birthdates on your list. I do not know of any astrology website chat line available for people to openly share their birthdates for the purpose of meeting people.


Review Your Aspects

Your dates have been selected based on their aspects only. If you would like to know which aspects are present in your dates, try and pull up a Synastry chart, from somewhere, and plug in Lincoln, Nebraska, USA, at 12 noon for the other person, don’t worry about the pie chart. Instead, just see if you can find the Synastry aspect table. The aspects may be in symbol form. There are both desirable and undesirable aspects accompanying your dates, we did not give them to you, we presented what we saw. Make note of the major aspects and then go to the following page on Linda Goodman’s website for brief information on some of those aspects. (If you want to plug in a different stateside place and time, that is fine too. The aspects will not change that much, as long as the date remains consistent.)

Aspects To Live For http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html

The best relationships have their share of problems, yours will be no different. The people associated with your list may help you have a happier, rounder and, more productive life style, try not to take them and your list for granted. You are truly fortunate, indeed, to have such a list, WinkAway!!

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posted February 23, 2010 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And GeocosmicValentine did this for me a couple of years ago...under a different username and I wanted to save it too so here goes...

Thanks for befriending me on MySpace, what a nice surprise, and I must comment that you did a great job socializing by sending me a message identifying yourself first. Don't underestimate courtesies like that, they are an EXTREMELY important part of being well socialized. I wish everyone would send a lovely note first introducing themselves, seriously. Well, let me get to the things that I noticed for you.

Your chart suggests that you grew up under a tremendous amount of developmental pressure and a lot of it had to do with your Dad. There is mother stuff, too, but I'll focus on Dad first. He was either passive, absent or tyrannical during your early home life; possibly a combination of all three. Which ever one it was, he was unable to give you the appropriate authoritative love. There’s also the suggestion that he may have been weak in some way, possibly substance abuse (I really don’t know) but it leads to another pattern suggesting that you may have had to nurture him or had to become the mother in your early home. This is the first pattern that directly affects your sense of self-worth leaving you with a low sense of self esteem. There's no way for me to confirm any of this without you confirming it so please bare with me. When we don't feel worthy we don't really put ourselves out there, we don't show ourselves off in order to show our availability for friendships or romantic relationships. Then there is one symbol that is placed in a spot that suggests that when you must put yourself out there, it may be in a very intense and eccentric manner, possibly over-doing it and this behavior may be specific to relationships, VERY CHARGED in terms of relationships of all kinds.

I'm not the kind of person who tells people that they are giving off bad vibes, but an eccentric presentation or intense way of relating to others could need modifying if you really recognize this in yourself, and possibly adding an aggression to how you relate to others. The chart suggests something very primitive, deep, secret and possibly controlling about your relating style. This suggestion is coupled with possible emotional complication and a high form of spirituality, you may really enjoy researching spiritual and religious issues. Also, forgive me, the chart suggests a POSSIBLE messiah complex that may be a result of you having an intense compulsion to give or nurture others. You may correct me if I’m wrong.

Please, I need to repeat this to you, I don't want to paint you with what I'm seeing, I could be way off the ball here so you will have to be the one to confirm if what I'm seeing is right or wrong.

The second pattern suggests that there was something aggressive about your Mom possibly making you nervous and irritable about relationships. I want to say that there was lots of bickering or arguing in reference to Mom, and maybe something HIGHLY ECCENTRIC. It could be anywhere from her just being overly nurturing or the extreme opposite, she may not have been available for nurturing because she may have wanted sooo much freedom, or she wasn't there in some way, also. Something about her presence or her behavior may be one of the causes of you wanting to isolate yourself, in an intense way. Something about her intensity, there's so much cerebral energy around her and you. I don't know what that is, you have to confirm again.

There are other patterns in your chart that echo this theme. I was going to ask you if you were a writer, but then I saw your MySpace occupation and I wish I hadn't because it confirmed it for me already, but I want to expand on that and say that you've actually "got game" in a powerful way as far as - either it's teaching in higher education or publishing, law, government, philosophy or philanthropy. And I want to add that you may be prominent in this arena in some way, shape or form. You are awesome with the details of your writing and communicating, you may be kind of argumentative or you love debate.

As far as sabotaging relationships, I'm not sure you should consider it a theory, you are just getting past a SUPER PRESSURIZED FOCUS on relationships of all kinds, although this issue with your friend is where you received most of the brunt of it.

I think the greatest part of that storm is over as far as the bad part that happened with your friend, and you're rebuilding. It was definitely a force of destruction to rebuild. This needed to happen for you to get to the point of asking these questions and wanting to learn the proper ways of relating and socializing. You are becoming a different person and you are gaining a whole new set of resources in your life.

Did you receive some type of reward recently, some really good recognition? It could be anything from finding money on the street or a large bonus, a hope, dream or wish come true?

Are you making plans to travel internationally or are you about to publish a book or something?

Last but not least, look into the Mom and Dad stuff, you may have been already, but they are usually the key to our socialization and relationship issues.

I also want to ask, what happened with Mom when you were 4 years old?

That's all I can do for now. I only ask that you confirm what I’ve written for right or wrong, it’s how I continue to learn and I understand that it may need some digestion so I won’t expect you to write back as soon as you read it. I also hope that it’s helpful in some manner if it is correct.

Take good care and I look forward to your response.

Geocosmic Valentine
Geocosmicvalentine@yahoo.com
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Okay it's been a couple of years since she did that for me and all I can say is WOW. She's awesome.

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