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Topic: Synastry = Meh. Composite = Meow! ????
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Love
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:11 PM
 
<<<my mum has none of these aspects with her husband
sun/sun
sun/moon
mercury/mercury>>>Really? Well on some level that makes me feel a little better. There's so much focus on these aspects in the sense that they are deemed necessary in order to have a serious relationship. But seeing as I have never had a relationship without them myself (until now it would seem), it's hard to challenge it. Very interesting Lara! DD ~ I personally always look at aspects to the NN's in synastry. I find that it's sometimes a very clear snapshot of what two people are learning together. And asteroids can be especially helpful in that regard when there are no planets aspecting the Nodes. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:14 PM
i wouldn't call venus/pluto conjunctions, trines or sextiles soulmates but i feel it does help in some manner. I feel like the opposition or square can make things a little difficult tho.
I take pluto and saturn in great consideration when looking at synastry because they are both karmic and very powerful.IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted January 17, 2009 03:27 PM
Love,I agree, the Nodes seem to be very important. Planets conjunct either node seem to be focal points. in the example of my parents my Dad`s Psyche conjuncts my Mum`s NN and he is really very sensitive towards her actions and reaction and general attitude. So much that it even bothers her sometimes. lol
Her Saturn on his SN is interesting, cause even thoug it is the SN she has a very Saturnian influence on him and is a great stabilizing and structuring factor.
Leapingmur,
I agree. I also take Saturn and Pluto into great consideration in synastry. But the orbs have to be tight, cause otherwise it tends to become generational aspects.
I also think that one Pluto aspect alone can not be a foolproof sign of twinsouls. That would be too easy.  IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:32 PM
LoveOn astrological paper they shouldn't have lasted a year let alone 33+ yrs!!! They will be together forever and when one dies the other will follow.
I don't EVER remember them even eating a single meal apart lol IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:32 PM
yes that would be to easy. for example when i see a venus conjunct pluto, and a venus trine pluto, that means more to me than just having the conjunction alone. also with mars and pluto. if those are in bad aspects my guard goes way up..i've experienced a few of those and they are not at all something to push aside.IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted January 17, 2009 03:35 PM
Lara,I think there is a lot of stuff that the "astrological papers" have not yet discovered. 
Leapinglemur,
I agree. Double whammy are very significant. I also think that maybe some people may react differently to certain aspects due to their natal charts. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:42 PM
totally!
i feel that people with harsher aspects in their own chart are willing and able to work harder in a relationship and not give up so easily but people with easier aspects want a relationship that is that easy and not so conflicty lol. however the key to this is that people with harsh natals need to know that they have issues and have some way of working them out which makes it easier to be with someone with a more harmonious natal. IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 03:52 PM
yup.Leaping is right. If i'm with a guy who has a nice and easy "boil in the bag" kinda chart it drives me nuts cos he seems to be so needy and 'there' all the time!
At least people with a few squares and oppositions push themselves and are actively independent. IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted January 17, 2009 04:02 PM
Yes, I definitely agree.I with my Venus-Pluto square just need some tense aspects involving Venus, Mars, Eros or Pluto.
The trines don`t really do anything for me. But give me a conjunction, opposition, or square, and I will be enthralled. lol IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 04:03 PM
Well, here's a dilemma to ponder: Sun square Mercury DW, and Mercury square Mercury BUT Sun parallel Mercury and both of the Mercury's mutually aspect....Moon trine Mercury, Uranus trine Mercury....yea or nay?IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted January 17, 2009 04:06 PM
MVM,actually I wouldn`t dare to give an answer only knowing about these aspects. What about Sun and MOon? Venus and Mars?
Sign placements? Houseplacements?
Ruler of hosues 1, 5, 7 and 8?
Asteroid aspects?
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leapinglemur14
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 04:10 PM
what does the parallel mean??? and how do you find this?IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 04:14 PM
yeah!Although.. sometimes conjunctions to my personal planets just give me more of 'me' when l wanna get away from 'me' and interract at another level so i'm not too keen on sun/moon/venus/mars conjunct mine... l prefer saturn conjuncts or pluto conjuncts cos they add spice and dynamic. Would you agree on this too DD and everyone else? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 17, 2009 04:16 PM
Ooooh, yeah it's complicated DD LOL...and I don't want to hijack the thread. Briefly: It's Virgo sun sextile Cancer moon
But Aries Moon square Cancer moon (ouch)
Leo Mars square Scorpio Venus
Venus sextile Venus
Sagittarius Venus trine Taurus Mars Dunno about asteroids. House placements look blah for him about me.
His Sun and Venus conjunct my NN at about 2 degrees.
Moon conjunct my IC at 0 degrees.
Jupiter conjunct my SN at 3 degrees I don't think it's having much of an impact on him as it is on me though, for obvious reasons  IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
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posted January 17, 2009 04:40 PM
Lara,yes, I think that is the case with conjunction, they confront you very much with yourself. Sometimes maybe more than you can bear. lol But it depends on the people involved; also I think it`s safe to say that conjunctions are always intense aspects, like a finger pointing to a certain spot, but how you deal with it, that could be a totally different matter. In my case I have a Stellium of Mars, Neptune, NN and some asteroids around my ASC, and I do like conjunctions pretty much.
But the ruler of my 7th house is in 1st house conjunct Sun - I guess I like to "reflect myself" in relationships.
MVM,
actually I would look at the natals first, if you are each other`s type, if there is common ground (similiar or complimentary aspects) and so on.
Also, I think you could use IQ`s rules, that would give you a pretty good hint,t oo. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2009 04:43 PM
yeah l agree.. for some it works but for me, with such an intense stellium anyone's planet right on it is like being in a combustion chamber 24/7. Might work with a firefighter though IP: Logged |
alma-noble
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posted January 17, 2009 07:49 PM
what can means if in synastryhis NN trine my Karma, Juno and Moon
my NN trine his Psyche and square his Karma My Karma oppose his Union which sqare my Cupid. But My Cupid sextile his Karma! We also have his juno conjunct my Sun and Jupiter and trine my Saturn now, in the composite Saturn square Sun, and trine the conjunction between Venus and Jupiter.
Karma conjunct Juno.
NN trine Moon and both sextile the Sun from different side.
Amor is wide conjunct Union (about 5 degrees) and are opposite Psyche. Please any insight? IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted January 21, 2009 02:11 AM
have you looked at the connections of your natal to your romantic composite? it seems a lot of people forget to do that in their haste of getting to the quick, but it bears influence, the aspects themselves, and sometimes the house placements as well. look to close conjunctions esp and don't forget your sun moon mp/nodes. also try this for your partner to the composite. where does the composite sun fall in either of your charts? are there close angle connections? a former partner of mine: our sun fell in my 7th, my sun moon mp conj composite sun, composite venus conj his sun, on and on, nice indeed. but then again it can depend on what you fall for...i'm a conjunction addict IP: Logged |
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