posted January 19, 2009 02:40 PM         

I'm not going to say the aspect killed us - rather, we let it kill us. I think the aspects just point to potential good and bad. What you do with it is up to you (both) in the end.
Mars square Sun and Mercury - a lot of aggression and fighting. A LOT. Verbal abuse, and very nearly physical as well.

I don't believe the aspects predict what happens - I feel they just tell us what to be careful of (especially when they are that tight). It just meant that we had aggressive energy which needed a form of release, and also better communication skills. I was an advocate for both and he wasn't. So I made my decision and left.
Mars didn't have many nice aspects in our composite, so there was no other place to 'release' or channel that energy unfortunately (Mars square Venus by a large degree...hot at first, and then it just wasn't cooperating with Venus at all). Plus Mars can just be a troublemaker. But the nice thing is that Mars is obvious. You know when he's being a jerk. It's not like Neptune, or Saturn, insidiously deceptive at times, or hiding beneath the guise of 'security' and stability.

posted January 19, 2009 02:41 PM         

composite with 70% orb

posted January 19, 2009 03:05 PM         

Maybe I'm looking at it in reverse, though. Neptune in Scorpio in the 5th could be fairly sexually dreamy. Maybe Mars and Venus being in their separate signs squaring Neptune are disrupting the sensual Neptunian dating dream going on in the 5th.

Wait...I just noticed the house system changed from the first chart to the last one. Neptune's in the 4th in this last one.

posted January 19, 2009 03:12 PM         

I have 3 kids too and he has none so maybe the issue is that he will have a problem with it?

Did l do the 1st chart as equal and this one l just banged out without thinking? This one is placidus...

posted January 19, 2009 03:24 PM         

yes l agree... i'm guessing his AC though cos we don't def know it' cancer/leo cusp

so don't pay too much attention to Saturn/AC square - could well be off by a few degrees!

posted January 19, 2009 04:07 PM         

so i dont know whethers its strange or just mathematical certainity but patterns repeat in compste and davison

did you notice in both u have leo ascendant and moon in capricon in sixth house....
and neptune in 5th, starurn in 10th and uranus in 3rd....

were you both born v close together and do u guys have same ascendants?

any way, another v useful thing with davison is to comapre individual natal charts with it...and it wil show how each person is attched to and affected by the relationship

by very brief look at davison, i see that this relationship is somehow needed by both of you at a basic psychological level as venus is in second house, maybe both of you feel secure together, however sun conjuct uranus and uranus is ruler of 7th house....so there is some unpredicatbility or uniqueness about relationship

moon in capricon might mean in sixth that both of you try to control this relationship ,....i dont remember if it is close to desc.......(its i think around 10 degrees)

jupiter in 4th is v benevolent,,,you two can have a home which is full of warmth and forgiveness

posted January 19, 2009 05:07 PM         

davison planets:

posted January 19, 2009 05:12 PM         

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Go for it, Lara! He seems like he can keep up with you...or at least try to

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posted January 19, 2009 06:14 PM           

why dont you just try not to analise the charts for a time?At least before the relationship takes its course.

Sometimes it is bad for us when we look at astrology before we actually experience a relationship with someone.It can influence us in the wrong way:wether it is for better or worse.
One example:i just took the iniciative to look at me and Jonnhy when we were together for some time ( some months after meeting).

Glad i did it!imagine i would see right away our sun square mars in sinastry..i would have "run" if i had took the usual interpretation so seriously...

i consider us long term and not even a nigher tone of voice had ever happened between us.

posted January 19, 2009 07:40 PM         

I just looked at his progressed chart with natal chart and on the day we meet he has progressed venus conjunct exact his natal sun!! woo hoo. plus progressed mars on his natal venus.

posted January 20, 2009 02:37 AM         

I could not be happy with a chocolate box composite as it would give me no challenge or push for growth!

posted January 20, 2009 06:56 AM         

osiris/isis conjunct (1)
siva/kaali sextile (0)
psyche/karma/DC conjunct (2)
valentine/amor conjunct (3)
juno/mars conjunct (2)

posted January 21, 2009 01:12 PM         

Venus Square Neptune

The square of composite Venus and Neptune requires that the two of you be quite wary about the true nature of this relationship. If you are not careful and unless you evaluate yourselves thoroughly, you could experience great disappointment. With this particular Venus-Neptune aspect, you may believe that you have met the ideal of your life, especially in a romantic sense. The love of your life is here!

Neptune is the planet both of illusion and the ideal, and under its influence you are likely to find it very difficult to tell which is which. You must ascertain whether each of you is for real; that is, are you relating to each other or to some idealized fantasy? Is the spiritual element that you see in each other and in your relationship real or not?

You must examine this situation very closely, for you cannot afford to live in a fool's paradise. Your relationship may be either very good or very unreal, and you must find out which it is.

Mars Square Neptune

Mars square Neptune in the composite chart can be quite difficult. It indicates that your intentions and the way you interact weaken each other's effectiveness. Usually one of you acts in such a way as to confuse or delude the other, but also you may have a negative reinforcing effect on each other.

The only way to deal with this aspect is to stop playing ego games, which is easier said than done, because such games are usually played out unconsciously. Neither parnter is aware of what is going on.

In an extreme case you may be consciously deceitful toward each other. In a marriage, this might be done through infidelity; in a friendship, it might be actions that intentionally go against your friend's interests.

posted January 21, 2009 01:18 PM         

I always thought of neptune as spiritual rather than deceptive. Maybe neptune is deceptive until one is enlightened to it and then it becomes a spiritual aspect?