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Topic: Have you ever refused to date a guy because of something you saw in his chart?
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Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 163
From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 12:30 PM
 
Here is my 2 cents on it.
I also want to point out stuff as both an astrologer and neurodiversity advocate.
I don't believe in using astrology to say "oh.....this is why he's a jerk" or other things
A lot of people tend to do that with Astrology. I actually got annoyed by somebody who messaged me, asking me to look at a friend's chart because he thought he had a narcissistic personality disorder. if that was my friend, he would be history!
I can give you a personal example
September 1999,
one time I was romantically involved with a New Zealander gal who was very seriously into Astrology and had an astrological class She actually volunteered my chart for classroom discussion. The astrologers there were voicing their concerns about escapist tendencies because they zeroed in on my t-square of Moon in Pisces in 6th square the opposition of retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th and Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd.
this lady even asked me if I drink, thinking that maybe I am an alcoholic
I told her that I don't drink nor do I use drugs, but both my parents had a history of that. I learned from their mistakes. I was motivated by their experiences not to be a drug addict nor an alcoholic. Especially my alcoholic grandfather who committed suicide.
these astrologers judged me by my chart. They certainly didn't consider that t-square could also be in synchronicity with my special education history as well as my neurodivergence of Dyslexia,Dyspraxia,ADHD which I didn't know about until 2003(I thought I was just stupid). 3rd house,Gemini involved indicate communication,mental processing issues,as well as issues involving early education
These people were judging by the typical stuff that they read in astrological books about Neptune "afflictions" Like I said before, many astrologers will think that a person has psychological problems,psychiatric disorders,or fantasy-prone when they look at hard Neptune aspects, but they don't even consider things like neurodivergence. my t-square is in synchronicity with my restricting myself from drugs and alcohol. .....especially with the Saturn-Neptune opposition.
Raymond
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evander
Knowflake Posts: 19
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 12:36 PM
well yes. i saw acancer sun. a serious no in my book. especially belonging to the generation with saturn neptune uranus in capricorn. badly afflicted sun does not make for a happy person in my book. and i already have enough misery on my own  IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
Knowflake Posts: 48
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 12:59 PM
** Venus in Aries...I can't say it's a red flag necessarily. I've dated a couple of males with this. They need to be kept on their toes,**" they need to be kept on their toes " 
oh really ?? .. why is that ?? .. venus in aries guys fall asleep at inappropriate times ??
and how to you propose to keep them on their toes MVM ?? .. on yer feet .. NOW !!!! .. toes ala pirouette pronto !! .. Dance .. NOW !!!
 ( just kiddin' about MVM .. not deliriously seriously today .. ) wonder what my past gf's would say to that one ..
me being venus in aries .. er square to uranus .. plus other hard aspects to my sun ruler .. one of these days .. some mad dictator will decide to eliminate folks based on their astro charts ..
mmmmmm .. actually i don't think that's totaly inconceivable .. given the potentials of the inhumane mind ..
past .. present and no doubt .. future IP: Logged |
amowls
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Falls Church, VA, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 01:07 PM
Ya'll need to stop being so prejudiced.My ex, who was such a sweetheart and almost TOO devoted to me had a Gemini Venus, Mars in Aries. He would not have in a million years cheated on me. Yeah, there's that one a**hole who ruins it for the rest of us, but not all Air people, and Venus hard aspect people are going to cheat on you and are incapable of loving someone. My mother, who has an Aqua Moon, dotes on me and has been married to my father for 20+ years. For the record, the biggest jerk off I've ever dated had a Virgo Moon and a Cap Venus. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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posted February 05, 2009 01:17 PM
this all reminds me of ~ AG's ~ first thread back on astro1 .. 
something about being astrologicaly biased ..IP: Logged |
WaterDog
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posted February 05, 2009 03:05 PM
I used to say there's no way a man's chart would affect whether I'd date him, but I've since changed my mind. Anyone with prominent Aquarian traits is NOT going to be for me.IP: Logged |
Taurus90
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posted February 05, 2009 05:47 PM
It is a bit unfair to be biased but it is just really a case of once bitten, twice shy for some. I just have an aversion to Aries now because nearly every guy who has flirted with me and who I have been involved was one. Ive just become a bit bored with being romantically involved with guys who have alot of Aries. Plus there have been terrible and unsatisfying experiences with them.IP: Logged |
WaterDog
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posted February 05, 2009 06:24 PM
Happy Dragon: I have a Venus in Aries, but am not commitment phobic or, you know, scared easily. I do find myself confuzzled at how I end up in short term relationships most of the time though- probably because if someone sucks, I see no point in continuing to be with them. >.>I have recently decided that I am too much woman for one man though and think I would do best with two...non aquarian boyfriends.  IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
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From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 06:44 PM
Amowls, Libra moons are excellent in relationships! It's the partnership sign LOL! As for the question at hand, I don't judge but I am very wary of Pisces, Aries, and some Virgo women (I know some really great Virgi women out there for the record).------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 247
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Registered: May 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 06:45 PM
Happy Dragon, I daresay you've unearthed my secret Venus in Aries weapon from my wardrobe  Of course, the guys I dated happened to ALSO have Mars in Aries too, soooo...yeah, they were a handful They fell in love easily, and got sidetracked after the initial chase...but this may've been more attributed to their Mars in Aries (I shouldn't talk though, I've got an Aries moon LOL )... I've got Moon oppose Uranus, and I always hear how 'Oooh, that's a cheating aspect'...blah blah blah, but I've never cheated on anyone in my life. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 07:21 PM
No but i've refused a dat with a man based on something l didn't see in his pants!I couldn't turn down a date cos of his chart. Both my parents have awful aspects in their charts and have been married for decades! IP: Logged |
alvarella777
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posted February 05, 2009 07:25 PM
No - I never refused a date because of something I saw in their natal chart. Maybe this is mostly due to the fact, that I seldom know in davance the birth date
of the person I am about to meet...;-)I must admit that I feel a natural, inborn repulsion with Pisces-people - it borders to "negative fascination" on my part. (My own N.N. is in Pisces - that's the weird thing! But I find Pisces-guys so ... draining, sorry.) I also cannot deny a certain ... skepticism concerning Gemini- and Aqua-folks ... That would make me think twice. Don't know why! Should they be Leo ... I would be quite sure that I might lose my heart quickly, though!;-) My Sun in Cancer / ASC in Scorpio / Moon in Sagittarius / Venus in Virgo / Mars in Cancer / Juno in Taurus / Eros in Capricorn IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted February 05, 2009 07:32 PM
What I see astrologically never replaces the feelings I get from someone. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 07:53 PM
**Happy Dragon, I daresay you've unearthed my secret Venus in Aries weapon from my wardrobe**
**Happy Dragon: I have a Venus in Aries, but am not commitment phobic or, you know, scared easily.**I think Venus in Aries likes a bit of a challenge
like .. having the 'gauntlet thrown down' .. as it were ..
i.e. if the seduction is too easy .. it takes away the thrill of conquest
and venus in aries .. maybe prone to 'Love at First Sight' as well ..
then again .. maybe that's a male's attitude .. i don't know :-))
although .. obviously i can't talk for all the arien venusians hereabouts my MC is also Aries .. and i know for sure what satisfies that placement :-) and despite whats said about venus-uranus .. seemingly ..
i've never cheated once commited ( polishes 'loyalty medal on chest' :-)))) IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 07:58 PM
** No but i've refused a date with a man based on something l didn't see in his pants!**
a female taurean with common sense
i take it you keep up with regular eye checks every two years or so ..
'n double check the guys who wear baggy pants ..
i mean y'never know what may be lurking under there ..or do the pants come off first .. prior to romantic dating ..
( actualy that way round makes common sense to me .. potentialy pleasurable short-cut to the nitty gritty relating 'work' ) IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:19 PM
hahaha so true HAPPY dragon! and my vision is 20/20 so that my aries VENUS can back it all up with that outfit you kindly posted! No, i'm afraid l never shred clothing prior to romance and l never cheat either However, l think a man's buttocks are very important for optimum performance, after all why have a bicycle when you can have a ducati
Don't ya just love taurean common sense? ! no short-changing surprises for me.. l wanna see what's in the bank first.... IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 247
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Registered: May 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:25 PM
Buttocks AND forearms....drool. My Taurus Mars and rising is mooing with pleasure at the thought ....I really need to graze IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:28 PM
buttocks are SO vital... like fat wheels on a car!
drooling with MVM  wimpy bums are such a turn off anyway, don't you think? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted February 05, 2009 08:30 PM
Yeah I don't like wimpy butt boys. I demand meat!!! I need to sink my teeth into them!IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:33 PM
LMAO (no pun intended)meaty butts and forearms... gosh. Actually l have seen the man with the guns butt lol
and it's well-built. Admittedly it was in jeans but that box is ticked! Nice hands make me drool too. short stubby fingers are a real turn off to me. hat about you MVM? IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:37 PM
Happy, do you have Leo AC then?
my mc is aries too.. btw, how does one get one's MC satisfied? IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:38 PM
** However, l think a man's buttocks are very important for optimum performance,
after all why have a bicycle when you can have a ducati **
 wanna see my old guzzi ? - i've even got a semi-naked version .. the bike .. not me ;-)
at least it never broke down like my mate's ducati that was forever breaking something ..
( he's a cancerian sun .. " if it works don't mess with it "
( or .. "I'm too afraid to look inside the engine" .. in case i find something wrong with it ;-))
i'm the opposite .. take it apart pronto .. " surley i can improve this thing " ..
or .. " mmm wonder how this works" .. and " if I go thru it .. then I know it's in good shape" ** No, i'm afraid l never shred clothing prior to romance**
well to tell a secret .. me neither ..
but sometimes the 'romance' can be awfuly short .. like an hour or so :-))
( i think in one case it was like 15 minutes :-)) IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 420
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:43 PM
LOL yeah l can relate to the "1 hour romance" but hey, one can get 1hr printing of holiday snaps these days so no point prolonging the agony!yup, l bet your guzzi is much more reliable.. and ticks the "meaty" box Lets put the ducati in the penis extension category then, shall we? lol IP: Logged |
Scorpocia
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posted February 05, 2009 08:44 PM
Definitely!I only date water and earth signs now, after quite a few not-so-pleasant encounters with fire and air signs. Of course.. when we get deeper than the surface, it gets a bit more tricky.. but everything else can be worked out in my opinion. As long as their sun and moon are either water or earth sign(s), then I'll give him a chance. Otherwise, no thanks. =) IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 05, 2009 08:51 PM
** Happy, do you have Leo AC then?**no .. it's Cancerian Asc for moi  **my mc is aries too.. btw, how does one get one's MC satisfied?** er .. maybe some other time .. sort of not for public consumption at present ..
don't mind via email though .. but they are long stories ..
and i've a ton and a half of email replies to catch up with ..
I may post the tales of daring-do someday .. but now .. for various reasons ..
is not the right time ..
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ** Lets put the ducati etc etc ** re motorcycles in general .. i be done with them these days :-) ..
couldn't be bothered with all the layers of clothes needed in this country ..
though still love to watch the racing ;-)) .. especially the vintage bikes ..
Vincent's and the like .. IP: Logged |
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