posted February 08, 2009 03:35 PM           

his mars sign, his eros sign, his moon sign, the houses they are in, the planets in his 5th and 8th can be signs i think. the rulers of his 5th - what house/sign its in.

and what aspects they make.

you really can't just pin it down to 1 planet.

i think the moon sign is overlooked in this department.

posted February 09, 2009 02:21 PM           

Apart from the houses already mentioned and of course also mars, I wouldnt completly count out venus. Yes, it's our 'reltionship/love' planet and shows what we find beautiful, but isnt venus also supremely sensual and indicates what a man finds physically attractive in a woman?(moon relating more to her personality).

posted February 09, 2009 03:07 PM         

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Michael E. Brown, a professor of planetary astronomy at the California Institute of Technology who discovered the distant ball of ice and rock that he nicknamed Xena, chose the name Eris, after the goddess of discord and strife in Greek mythology.

"It is absolutely the perfect name," Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

"She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else's is wrong," Brown said. "It really is just perfect."
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/chronicle/archive/2006/09/15/MNGS8L67LJ1.DTL

Ideology,Diversity,Divergence,Equality,Sharing,Advocacy,Discord,Debating,Compromise,Agreeing to Disagree,Alternative Viewpoints, Seeing/or not seeing Eye to Eye.

Eris in Aries Retrograde in 8th oppose Uranus,trine Ceres,sextile Midheaven,sextile/trine Lunar Nodes,trine Jupiter,quincunx Ascendant,biquintile Mercury,parallel Pluto

posted February 09, 2009 03:09 PM           

And I think the Moon sign can point to that , too, to some extent..but mostly toward the personality or demeanor of a woman.

But, like others have said, you must look at the entire chart to get the full picture.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted February 10, 2009 11:36 AM         

I've always thought Aries and Aquarius go really well together in synastry aspects! I think there are some sign combos that seem to have an extra special affinity. I think Aries and Aqua, Pisces and Taurus, and Scorpio and Virgo seem to get along so harmoniously together.

posted February 10, 2009 02:25 PM           

seroiusly, i have no idea

signs and fetishes- oh i can tell about that someday

have to think sun signs plays a part
i have never dated a scorp or had a scorp ask me out, nor libra, no matter if there venus and mars was hidden on my body

posted February 10, 2009 03:05 PM           

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted February 10, 2009 03:10 PM           

my s.o. dc is cancer - how many sag and cancer couples? dunno guys. his last gf was aries and i am leo

not buying that theory

posted February 10, 2009 03:52 PM         

it just means that you're attracted to people with scorpio traits

as a male, I have Venus in Scorpio with Moon and Descendant in Pisces, and I am attracted to people with Scorpio and Pisces traits. That doesn't mean that I am just attracted to Scorpios and Pisces or people with strong planetary,angular emphasis on those signs.

it could be women that have Sun conjunct Pluto and Moon trine Neptune or Sun in 8th and Moon in 12th........or could be somebody with Moon square Pluto and Neptune conjunct Ascendant

the main thing is that I am attracted to women that are highly intense,highly sensitive with great emotional depth as well as metaphysically oriented,compassionate and interested in the healing arts as well wanting that deep soul connection. Of course, these traits are also me too. It's my chart,after all. These are traits in myself which can end up being projected onto the women that I am attracted to, and that's what Carl Jung called "anima"

my Moon square Neptune, Venus parallel Neptune

I am attracted to woman that are reserved,practical with my Moon square Saturn, Venus contraparallel Saturn

I am also attracted to women that are passionate,fiesty,and fiery with my Moon conjunct Mars,Venus square Mars

my attraction to metaphysically oriented,nonconformist women are strong reflected by

my Moon aspected by Kuiper Belt objects:
trine Quaoar - '49
trine Ixion - 2'15
square Varuna - '10
sextile Sedna - 1'05(Right Ascension - '39)
semisquare Eris with '08 (Right Ascension)

My Venus aspected by Kuiper Belt objects:
trine Orcus - '41
quincunx Chaos - '18
square Huya - 2'38
sextile Haumea - '53 (Right Ascension)
quincunx Eris - '09

I believe that Eris semisquare my Moon,sextile my Venus in my Right Ascension chart indicates my interracial attraction to women because of my strong love for diversity connected to my strong connections to diversity,being born to a black man and white girl. I am attracted to women that are tolerant of diversity (racial,ethnic,nationality,neurological,religious,etc).
If I see any hint of bigotry in a woman, I will be turned off big time.

I also want to reiterate that the kuiper belt objects have been recently discovered,and so there hasn't been much studies that involve looking at how these objects correlate with generations in our recent human existence. Therefore,nobody knows what the actual energies are like. Of course,many astrologers overlook the kuiper belt objects because of that reason. This makes perfect sense. I believe that people with strong kuiper belt energies are people whose natures are so complexed connected to their highly metaphysical,nonconformist,nonlinear natures that they can be very misunderstood by others and even themselves and things about them can be quite overlooked by others and themselves. Because these objects are far smaller than the planets, it makes sense that they could feel "small" in some way like they could feel inferior to others because of insecurity about not fitting in with society like the kuiper belt objects(Pluto is also included) don't fit in with planets because they have highly eccentric orbits and orbit well off the ecliptic unlike the planets.

That's one of the reasons that I believe kuiper belt energies are prominent in neurodivergent(atypical neurological processing) people. I have been attracted to neurodivergent females. The very first gal that I had a crush on was a girl that I knew when I was in special education in early childhood. She was a special education student and a neurodivergent like myself. She was also of mixed background with her being the daughter of a Japanese,Hawaiian,Italian man, and a French,Irish woman. Therefore,she was born from racial diversity like me. In high school, she told me that she wanted to be a special education teacher too,and so she wanted to work with neurodivergents. She fit my Saturn,Neptune,Scorpio stuff in that she drunk a lot as a teenager and was very sexually promiscuous,and hanged out with gang bangers. She was insecure too She fit all my Venus,Moon placement/aspects.

Interestingly, she was born on August 29th which is the same birthday as Autistic Dr. Temple Grandin, and so we're both born on the 29th day which I feel fits the traits of neurodivergents.

I also believe that my Moon and Venus in aspect to kuiper belt objects indicate that who I am attracted to is misunderstood by others to the point that I have been mistaken for being gay. It does indicate that I am attracted to women with high degree of complexity which reflects my own high degree of complexity.

I definitely believe that aspects to Moon and Venus would give more insight into the type of females that males are attracted to.

Raymond

posted February 10, 2009 04:11 PM           

but as best described, (dsc in aqua) i like aquarian traits. but the ruler of my dsc is in capricorn, i like some capricorn traits, but im very choosey about capricorn traits, i prefer it in friends or something rather than a love interest too much. (probably because my venus doesn't like him (saturn) much lol.)

i think this is reason why i am not interested in outright wierdo's. capi's apparently don't like wierdo's , i find wierdo's interesting, but not for a lover. i just like uniqueness to personalities, and how people are (and the way they dress, says venus libra who wanted to have her say).

posted February 10, 2009 04:26 PM           

I have sun conjunct mars in cancer
I have venus in taurus opposed to saturn, squaring jupiter, quincunx uranus, 135° neptune, 45° sun
I have DC Pisces

posted February 10, 2009 04:27 PM           

I have Moon Virgo, Venus Taurus

But earth women never seem to cross my way, except one with moon taurus and one with moon capricorn...