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Topic: What is love to you and how do feel/know when you are loved?
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sunshine9
Moderator Posts: 972
From: Beehive, MD
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 10:44 AM
  
LEXX: Sorry to hear you were unwell.. sounds painful. Are you doing better today? Hope you recover soon.  Lara: Sorry to hear about your miscarriage; take good care of yourself and hope you feel better soon! Excellent topic; fits with the Venus RX, cheshirekat! (Are things better for you at your new school these days?) My placements:
* Sun/Moon/Mars/Mercury in Capricorn
* Venus in Pisces Venus in Pisces: How I love: I love to take care of people; I find my heartstrings are tugged when someone needs me, and I lavish my attention on them. I would go to any extent just to be there for my loved ones, even to my detriment. I also feel loved when someone takes care of me when I'm or physically unwell or emotionally vulnerable. Mars in Capricorn: How I express love: I have a tendency to be extravagant with my loved ones, buying them the best that money can buy (that I can afford, lol) 
Sunshine
p.s. Venus has been totally dragging her feet these past two weeks - stationing - before going retrograde. I'm actually glad she's retrograde now for a month. I've been hearing of so many heartbreaks (and going through one myself), and I think this has the potential to make good things happen for the lovelorn. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted March 07, 2009 11:44 AM
Thanks PA, 1ruledbyRAM, Kamots and sunshine.. it's ok. I'm dealing with it.
In truth, i'm actually a bit relieved because l want this beautiful man and l to enjoy ourselves before we have a child. I think we will have one though... he rang me today and said "we can still try for one" which l thought was just so supportive and steadfast of him! I believe in perfect timing and being guided by the Universe so l can let go easily. I have already had a miscarriage before so l am kinda chilled out about it, even though secretly l would LOVE another child and l feel that this man is destined for me!  Love and light x IP: Logged |
Kamots
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From: Cascais, Portugal
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:05 PM
ONERULEDBYMARS, quote:
You are so right! It doesnt make sense at all. I have learned to walk away but there is always this momentary feeling of confusion. And then I just shake my head and chalk it up as another love lost.
Another soulmate bites the dust!
But I have to keep on movin...
I hear ya there. Broke up with my gf in mid January. Tough relationship. Tough ending. Our souls were connected even before we met. Bonded real well with her 8 year old kid too. Survivors don't have time to love. They just feed on what they need and survive, get a hold of what they require and move on if they don't find all they require. Her next guy got his shot the day after we split. It was my decision to separate, but I could never touch another woman so soon. It would break my heart to do so, cause she's the one I love, despite all the pain and incompatibility. I wish she hadn't dumped me from inside her heart so fast, like if things hadn't been special. I hope someday she gains the ability to Love. That's what we're here for, right? BTW, LOOKINGOUTFOR is the one with mercury Pisces. I have Sun, Mars and Venus in Pisces (12th house). My mercury is in aquarius trine pluto and sextile neptune. IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:09 PM
Thanks for the kinds words folks.
Still not up to par, weak, shaking and exhausted, fever up and down. Was up really high for two days. Lost 11 pounds from it all, so at least something good came of it.
Again my heartfelt thanks to you all.
Off to bed again....hopefully will be better soon.
Hugs!
Lexx------------------
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Kamots
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Cascais, Portugal
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:30 PM
Love your sig LEXX.Tell me your name when you post again. Prayer helps more than you can imagine  IP: Logged |
cheshirekat
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posted March 07, 2009 03:17 PM
I am going to totally sit down and read everyone's posts and respond to them tomorrow morning but right now Im in a hurry.IP: Logged |
Diandra23
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posted March 07, 2009 03:31 PM
LARAi am so sorry!i was thinking how strange it was i wasnt seeing you here in the past days...mow i know why!  But yes,you will conceive again! And look:this man is wonderful!!remember i said it was the 1stt time i was seeing you in love for the 1st time?And i dont even know you... Seems it is true:finally the Universe has brought you someone who is a good father and a good Soul:a loving man who wants to have kids with you and such in a hurry! Good luck. IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 10:30 PM
Kamots
Thank you for your heartfelt offer to pray for me.
Please do not do it.
I do not believe in traditional prayer.
Especially not any Christian variety.
I have seen prayers cause more harm than good.
Like for example, people pray for someone to be free of pain.
Then when the person dies they all cry. "why did they die?"
Well they prayed for the person to be out of pain. Their prayer was answered.
I also do not believe angels are good.
I have written elsewhere about my views on prayer and all so will not elaborate more here.
So...
Again thank you so much for your kind offer.
Feel free to wish me good luck.
That would be nice.------------------
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oneruledbymars
Knowflake Posts: 1034
From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 10:46 PM
Kamots:
You wrote:
"I hear ya there. Broke up with my gf in mid January. Tough relationship. Tough ending. Our souls were connected even before we met. Bonded real well with her 8 year old kid too. Survivors don't have time to love. They just feed on what they need and survive, get a hold of what they require and move on if they don't find all they require. Her next guy got his shot the day after we split. It was my decision to separate, but I could never touch another woman so soon. It would break my heart to do so, cause she's the one I love, despite all the pain and incompatibility. I wish she hadn't dumped me from inside her heart so fast, like if things hadn't been special. I hope someday she gains the ability to Love. That's what we're here for, right?"You and i went through a very, very similiar soulmate relationship..I find that very interesting.... I had to walk away too, and he started dating someone immediately aftewards..But here is what you may have misread.
Just because she broke up with you doesnt meant that she dumped you from her heart. On a higher level/dimension your hearts are connected and always will be. She though is just not connected to that higher place where your emotions/Energies vibrate to the same frequency. And because she cannot connect, in the 3rd dimension it is manifest as "dumping"... but you must remember she has her own path to walk... and you two signed up to meet each other......whatever the outcome, things are as they should be for the higher purposes of your lifepaths.
Does that make any sense? IP: Logged |
Kamots
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Cascais, Portugal
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 11:08 PM
Lexx, I will respect your wish and pray for you no more my friend.However, I prayed for you many hours ago, shortly after writing my last post. But don't worry, it wasn't for your suffering to end nor for angels to protect you (I'm not sure they are trustworthy).
Just for God's love to warm your heart and give you a lot of affection, confort, courage, hope, strength (as well as for those who take care of you) and recovery. I just wished you well with all my heart, so whatever you believe in, don't worry. Love will never harm anyone
Keep sending news ok? IP: Logged |
Kamots
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: Cascais, Portugal
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 11:19 PM
Oneruledbymars,What you wrote makes a lot of sense and was a conforting thing for you to say to me, so thank you
I know it to be true, but as a 3rd dimensional lost and vulnerable human being, I still find it very painful... Splitting with someone you love, you gotta learn how to live without that person...
And add to that the ever fragile masculine ego Sorry you went through something similar... Guess it just means you're now closer to that one person who's looking out for you, that will love you back the right way and help you make this world a better place IP: Logged |
capnsag
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posted March 07, 2009 11:43 PM
I hope you don't mind if I jump into this thread! After 20 years since I divorced, I've finally found love again! I knew he was the 'right' one, because I felt at home and safe in his arms. He's not one I ever considered 'my type' either!! But he's amazing. All my defenses that worked so well before completely left me and I was raw and open and running purely on intuition that first weekend he flew out...For the first time I feel I can be completely and utterly myself. All parts, not just trying to show the 'good' side of me!I'm Cap sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Mars, Sag moon and Aqua rising. He has no trouble declaring complete and utter devotion and love and talking about the 'rest of our lives' - He's Aries Sun, stablized by a Taurus moon, Cap rising. His Venus is Aries, his Mars is Sag. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9742
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2009 12:03 AM
Kamots
I thank you for your kindness!
And talking to God is fine by me.
But not to angels or Jesus.
I am glad you understand it seems about angels.
I feel the one folks call Jesus was a great man but not someone to pray to.
So what you did was very lovely and caring and loving and not what I consider bad or misguided
prayer.
Thank You!
OK...update.
Still feeling quite yuccky, but better.
Fever has finally broke.
Not as dizzy, just very tired.
Was able to finally walk without as much pain and keep down food this evening.
And was able to get through the night without
having to awaken my beloved, who had not slept for over 24 hours before.
OK...
on that note...
it is off to bed.
Blessings and Love to you Kamots
Love
Lexx------------------
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oneruledbymars
Knowflake Posts: 1034
From: South Carolina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2009 01:35 AM
Kamots-
Ahh, you feel so sad.
Dont let that fragile ego fool you though. You are not as vulnerable and lost as you think you are.
Hang in there man!
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MysticMelody
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 10, 2009 11:15 AM
"Her next guy got his shot the day after we split. It was my decision to separate, but I could never touch another woman so soon. It would break my heart to do so, cause she's the one I love, despite all the pain and incompatibility. I wish she hadn't dumped me from inside her heart so fast"
"She though is just not connected to that higher place where your emotions/Energies vibrate to the same frequency. And because she cannot connect, in the 3rd dimension it is manifest as "dumping"... but you must remember she has her own path to walk... and you two signed up to meet each other......whatever the outcome, things are as they should be for the higher purposes of your lifepaths. "  IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 10, 2009 09:09 PM
Lara, I am truly inspired by your pure, positive attitude to what has happened. You took something that most people would take negatively and fall into sadness over, and made it into something hopeful, and bright.I don't know how you do it, but I admire you so much for it! IP: Logged |
Marila1313
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posted March 10, 2009 10:00 PM
I already happened to have my venus retro moments. 3 guys that i had had romantic relations had just all of a sudden popped up in my life.....and all of these guys are i havent heard from on almost a year... :SIP: Logged |
Marila1313
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posted March 10, 2009 10:00 PM
I already happened to have my venus retro moments. 3 guys that i had had romantic relations had just all of a sudden popped up in my life.....and all of these guys are i havent heard from on almost a year... :SIP: Logged |
cheshirekat
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posted March 11, 2009 12:34 PM
Lara and Lexx-I am going to send all the love, huggles, and chocolate in the universe to both of you strong and inspiring women. Your posts/topics at LL, though I don't always respond are insightful for me to read and take much from them.Sunshine-School as been ok, I've been coming out of my shell but my main focus is on my high education after school..oh and theres just one guy at school who as a certain disdain for me. I made a topic about it in Lindaland Central..XD lol.. Also I love your description, Pisces influence knows how to pull my heart strings. To everyone- I read all of your responses and I can definately resonate with all of them. I've learned several things about love/soulmates/romantic connections and I've also incorporated some of these advices in my love life but first I must work on loving myself. That is the number one thing, you must love yourself in order to love others because I realise without self-love, you feel used and drained. Second, I need clarity. Sure love is blind at first but somewhere down the line there as to be some sort of clarity to love, you have to see the person you love for who they really are. For there to actually be a real connection. Third, I have to be able to tell this person anything under the sun. I have to be able to trust them and for them to feel like an age old friend. Fourth, I must be able to grow with this person because I am an ever growing person. Also I want to learn and explore with this person, for I am ever learning and exploring in my life and to be open to the possibilities. Fifth, have no exspectations of me. I am human and I make mistakes, I can never live up to a "dream girl" or fantasy but I can create and wield dreams and fantasy though. Sixth, Live, Laugh, Learn, and Let go.<3 I feel loved when someone can touch these six key points within me. I am not looking for a soulmate or a twinflame. I am looking for a life long friend to have adventures with and grow in time with. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted March 11, 2009 03:05 PM
oneruledbymars - your answer was perfect. beautiful, profound and mature. i am no expert at love, although I am getting married this spring, yes again. i think to me love and knowing you are loved is feeling safe, trust doesn't come easy for me, but my s.o., i trust him with my life. that is HUGE for me. i also beleive the agape love that we crave can not be found in another human being as they have faults and will disappiont. i think loving someone enough to accept their faults and flaws and know that although you want to pinch thier head off sometimes, it is still ok and neither is going anywhere is to me a bigdeal. like i said, i am no expert on love, or i would have figured it all out way before now, but i am getting closer, and loving myself with faults and flaws is definately the first step. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted March 11, 2009 03:07 PM
lara - i am truly sorry i hope you are recovering quickly
lexx- i will write soon, i think of you oftenorbm - two thumbs up girl IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted March 11, 2009 04:00 PM
Thanks GemGem. I have no choice... l want to just lie in bed all day and hide away but l have 3 kids and only me to look after them.I was depressed for a day or two and then thought "geez, it's not the end of the world, you can always try again!" The weirdest part is that your symptoms and emotions go from full on to nothing in a matter of hours leaving you feeling quite disorientated. Thank you Cheshire - oh i love chocolate! I love this thread - love is what makes the world go round. Sunshine, thanks l am recovering fast. It's amazing how quick the body recovers actually. The pain is gone although l am having the most horrific nightmares which is not such fun! IP: Logged |
dream believer
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posted March 14, 2009 08:29 PM
HIya Im having nightmares too.. had them all last week about murder, suicide you name it.. horendous, been a wreck at workvenus doing retro in my 7th, but I have been trying online dating, not met any in person yet but oddly enough one is standing right out above the rest.. makes my heart sing to hear from him and when I check messages its only 1 from him im interested in! I have had terrible past experiences because of love and wrong choices, but have had love too and gifts like my girls.. i agree you have to love yourself and thats what I know I have to work on (ven opp sat) Once I had to love not knowing how long it would last, it ended up 3 years and when it ended I though I would crumble.. but you can always find the love again if it is within yourself to believe you will Hope I will one day again  Libra sun
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LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9742
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2009 10:44 PM
sunshine_lion 
Take your time. I have not been messaging much of late either.------------------
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2009 10:54 PM
cheshirekat!You are precious!  I love chocolate but hugs definitely rule!
For you......     And a few more next post!
(yeah, I know I am being off topic, but I love hugs!)
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