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Topic: The future of the relationship?
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Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 08:00 AM
hi allI was palying with our charts and went to progress our relationship Charts. AS ASTROLOGY only shows the potencials,and not the "Future" Itself,what do these SHOW regarding the future Influences,when it comes to our relationship? What do you see? What are the most important we can look at,when analysing these type of Charts? P.COMPOSITE P.DAVIDSON I see some hard ones like Pluto in the 2nd cj Saturn:both kikx Venus Neptune is in the 4H:ilusions in Home and Familie´s issues? Jup and Uranus are in the 3rd:Comunication problems?Or difficulties regarding siblings ( possible unpredictability and erroneous behaviour) in Davidson:kiron is cj Venus cj Boda:wounding in love?again..kikx saturn/pluto/neptune.So needing readjustments in dreams/stabilization and intensity? P. MOON:is in the 7H so there will be focus on commitments.but skuares Neptune and NN. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 235 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:09 PM
The soul of the relationship (sun) in the first house of IDENTITY (identity of the relationship at that time?) in Libra, the sign of partnership and marriage. I'm sure you already saw that and I am just a beginner at this, but I thought I'd get the ball rolling. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:27 PM
Angles are on mutable signs - does this mean it lives off change or a bit instable?IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 01:44 PM
How far is it progressed, Diandra? I couldn't see. Moon in the 7th and NN in the 10th really got my attention. Something feels like it's about to become official or exclusive in the relationship. Has there been talk of stepping things up as far as commitment goes?IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 02:07 PM
progressed 1 year from now.... 2010IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 02:12 PM
Thanks, Lara. I need to find my glasses lolIP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 02:21 PM
my pleasureIP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 03:04 PM
im sory im gonna try to make it bigger. just a minute! IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 03:18 PM
Ok it is done.Thank you all for your comments! Why do I ask these?would you think.. I answer:We live for about 186 miles away from each other.We are together for about 2 years and 7 months now. We are together almost every weekend. But this is a time when we talked serious about GETTING really together ( as one going to live close to the other). Some weeks ago i posted about that:he was going to apply for a jobe here near and i was goint to apply also,and start life together in a new city.Starting the two from the fresh in a new place. Now he is going to buy an apart where he lives now:he says that way he can save much more money. So now we are at a limbo:we can have a better life here and he is going to buy...there..still saying that in the future he can sell it by a higher price and buy here. i guess this is where the instability appears. Mystic you caught up a nice one. Lara you might be right MyVirgoMask on Valentine´s Day he gave me a ring-but it´s a relationship ring,not a engaging one. We talk about the future yes,but still this distance has kept us discrete on talking about marriage. He has aqua moon afterall.The thing is that--he is cancer asc.
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Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 03:40 PM
This is the Draco Prog composite ( in terms of the "karmic relationship progressing with time..) IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 03:50 PM
I'm thinking some major changes are about to happen in this relationship and it's on the verge of turning into more. This is kind of the point right before it does, and it feels a little like a 'test'.IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 04:10 PM
Where do you see that MVM? I'm interested cos l have no idea how to read this chart! IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 04:17 PM
I dont know where you saw that either.next weekend im goint to have a serious conversation with him - i guess it will be when things are going to be discussed. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 06:10 PM
I have no idea, it's just a feeling I got. I'm not looking at aspects though I know I should. But basically the moon on the 4th, it's got to do with living together, the 10th house stellium feels like it's about 'where things stand officially', and the 7th house NN - where it goes. But the Jupiter and Uranus are in the 12th house, so they feel like 'wild cards'. 1st house Neptune....'how real is this and what are we going to do with it?' Neptune's kind of been the problem because things feel very beautiful but there's some kind of 'awakening' that is about to happen to turn things into a solid reality for the couple. Some kind of sacrifice needs to be made. Nothing bad though, doesn't look that way to me, really.Dunno if that makes sense. IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 06:25 PM
It makes a lot of sense for me MyVirgoMaski just hope that things turn out like my heart would like to Be. Neptune plays big tricks yup. I guess that Draco can show the "hidden" energies..those which we feel but yet dont know where from.. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 06:33 PM
That's interesting, Diandra. I felt the Draco was easier to read (not just because its size was bigger hehehe) or relate to or something. At any rate, I think things are going to change for the better for you two IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 06:59 PM
Really?It is your intuition talking then. Let´s see what comes up. he is the 1st man i Loved in my life. romanticaly,i always wished him to be the one i´ll marry. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 07:07 PM
aww thats so cute Diandra and so romantic I really hope that everything goes well for you... he's a VERY lucky man! xx IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 07:10 PM
thank you Larabut im far more complicated than what i seem. i wonder myself many times if he thinks that - to be a lucky man by having me as his lover - he sure felt great to have been my 1St Serious relationship. you are far more experienced than me: Do you think that it is only when somebody feels that might lose the love of the other,that suddently KNOWS how PROFOUND the Love IS? What if you had to choose someday, between your dreams as an individual,and your relationship?How to know the right choice? IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 1374 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 07:19 PM
hmmm In my honest experience the guys always realised what they had AFTER they lost it! The mature and experienced man realises what he's found and never lets it go, so does the woman. I know what l have and l will work harder not to let it go than if l was younger, that is for sure.If l had to chose now between my dreams or my man? I would take my man and try to mould my dreams into our life. However, so people have dreams that they must make reality asap and that they must focus on and then they might be more likely to give it more commitment than a relationship. Who knows! Different strokes for different folks. IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 07, 2009 07:40 PM
okis.And do you think all is destined?Or that we can change our future´s? ive been reading the Secret,but seems that i am atraccting what i dont want,instead of what i want.. i saw my transits today and Pluto is approaching my IC..i guess that is why sometimes i feel huge changes are going to happen,and that frightens me a bit.. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 07, 2009 07:56 PM
Yeah, I agree with Lara - a lot of people don't know what they have until they've lost it. We tend to take for granted what comes easily, like love. But I don't think everyone does it. I've seen people who fight for love and know how lucky they are....so that gives me faith that someday hopefully I will have that too Diandra, if you're attracting what you don't want, then there's probably something you've been resisting that sometimes manifests. Remember the saying 'what you resist, persists'. Sometimes our fears smell us out and come after us so that we're forced to look at them. And sometimes they're not so scary or bad. I don't know....I think it's kind of like the dark night before the dawn. You're probably just airing out karmic stuff before the good stuff comes....making space for it! IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 08, 2009 09:37 AM
Yes,i have been resisting sth important.and that keeps coming back. although by the secret,they say exactly that-what we resist,persist-till now i couldnt let myself be free of that,and so maybe that is why it keeps haunting me. i must focus myself better,and exercise my Mind to my desires. he phoned me:he felt i was sad. he said that rumours in the Company are that the other company here in the north can be closed...not sure but they say it is the crisis. Really!!!this is exactly what i didnt wanted!!if this happens then it is sure he wont come live here... how can i stop this... IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 08, 2009 02:30 PM
These will be our transits in the day of the serious conversation:HIS MINE nOTE his Tr Moon cj IC and Tr Kiron cj his Moon.And Tr Pluto cj his Juno.
in mine Tr Lilith and Pluto cj IC,Karma cj Asc,Tr Kiron cj Lilith Nothing happens by chance really.
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Diandra23 unregistered
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posted March 17, 2009 02:28 PM
Today it has been a painfull day really.Aside from my doggy´s death,i had the conversation with J. I dont know if went good or wrong - he just told me that when the day of the decision arrives,he would do whatever seems best for us both. So Truth set me Free of sth i was resisting.i told him my feelings about sth. but only the Future will tell if it is in our Paths to be together or not. Kiss IP: Logged |