posted March 18, 2009 05:27 PM           

i don't know why, but i can always spot a Piscean guy, before i even know they are. i just feel this weird pull towards them, i am fascinated by their appearance, their personality, their vibe. it's pretty strange.

posted March 18, 2009 05:35 PM           

You don't seem to be a loner to me. although there is nothing wrong with it. you are talking to us aren't you? and there is nothing wrong with being quiet sometimes. maybe you haven't found the right woman for you who accepts you unconditionally? someone who loves you wouldn't complain in my humble opinion :P i know how it feels though, as i am a loner myself but i am very social but sometimes i just like to be quiet and be left alone.

""you like being with nature or photography or rock climbing or diving or (add my many interests) because you don't like me enough".

it seems this lady had more problems then you do. that's not a nice thing to say! it sounds like she was trying to manipulate you and make you feel bad for having interests outside of herself, so thats not YOU, its her. :P

and we all have problems, nobody is perfect. its ok to not be perfect, any mate that complains is not for you.

and thank you for the compliment! :P

posted March 18, 2009 06:16 PM         

1. Your Sun/Mars conjunction squares Neptune (placed on your midheaven). Things in our midheaven are important to us and we admire them. Squares of transpersonals to personal planets are powerful indicators of attraction. Your masculine energy is "blocked" by neptune (and saturn). Neptunian energy will be a turn on, because you subconsciously want to resolve the neptunian issue around your masculine energies.

2. Your Venus and Pluto in Scorpio trine your Jupiter in Cancer. Therefore planets in Pisces (around 12º) will create a Water Grand Trine. That's big in terms of attraction.

You feel drawn to Pisces/Neptune because Pisces/Neptune "offers" you a chance to "complete" yourself. Subconsciously, that's what passion represents.

posted March 18, 2009 06:26 PM         

Thanks for the empathy. Maybe I do tend to attract women who want to possess me too much. They were Scorpios. I have Pluto in the 7th. My last relationship ended because I didn't feel ready to live with this woman. Too much time together made me feel drained.

Still, I'm gonna work on my relationship skills, cause many people, including my family, feel I'm not always there when they need me. And it makes me sad.

I agree with what you wrote on Pisces men an Ego. I've known lots of pisces who had huge egos and one of them, with Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury in Pisces is a psycopath. Actually, the best people I have known were people with difficult squares and oppositions to their personal planets. Inner conflict is necessary for one not feel omnipotent. A good Neptune aspect to Sun, ASC, moon or Venus can add lots of empathy to a harmonious person, making us feel "we are all one".

posted March 18, 2009 06:34 PM           

and now that you mention it, the Piscean men i'm attracted too always have been around the 12 degree mark, Sun-sign wise. i also do feel they own a quality or trait i don't possess, maybe that's where the fascination comes in.

the Piscean guy i've fallen for at the moment, has a Libra moon, which conjuncts my Sun and Mars within 1 degree. it's INSANE how i feel around him. quite scary, too.

posted March 19, 2009 02:46 PM           

So it's okay for me to fancy you now haha put up more photos!