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MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2009 04:41 AM
i keep mentioning the cancer, but i don't think i actually ever put up a synastry chart for us. so any opinions in general are nice.i really feel like our synastry looks extremely boring actually... but we get along very well. you know - the whole being in love & silly stuff like that. :P i'm actually concerned about his leo moon and my scorpio moon. he needs a lot of emotional attention and while i'm constantly stroking his ego, there are days where i really just want to be alone and i genuinely am not in the mood to treat him like a God... hahaha, maybe we've settled into the marriage phase already? It has been awhile now... IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 39 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2009 02:18 PM
Quote:"he needs a lot of emotional attention and while i'm constantly stroking his ego, there are days where i really just want to be alone and i genuinely am not in the mood to treat him like a God" LOL!! So true! I can't see your charts. IP: Logged |
MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2009 09:52 PM
is it working now? for some reason, i could see them but i hosted them somewhere else.@GemGemGem LOL, I can go on for hours about how irritating his constant need for flirtation is... I mean - I love flirting with him, of course, but sometimes I feel it is so superficial. It sounds cold, but sometimes I just don't want to interact... on that level. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2009 11:19 PM
Hmmm, his sun and moon are in mutual reception (switched rulers). I've seen this before in people, but I didn't think it was really that positive as that sun/moon combo is deffo in need of more maitenance than most people. One would probably think the constant need to flirt with you is connected to his venus but I think it's connected to his *need* for his attention, therefore coming from his leo moon. I would honestly love to hook up with a guy who also had a gemini venus, I think it would be pretty awesome and I'm sure the shared suns is an added bonus too. I have to LOL though because situation between your moons is a situation I share with my sister who's gemini moon squares my virgo moon. She needs to talk to *someone*, anyone who happens to be around, while I have hermit-like tendencies. Because we're family members we learn to live with eachother. I don't have an exact idea how to deal with the same predicament of squared moons in a relationship, but I guess if the bond is there you'll learn to live with it as well. When did you guys meet? IP: Logged |
MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2009 11:57 PM
I suppose I'm a bit more worried about our Moons because we're both Cancer. Also, his Moon is in the 10th and mine in the 1st. We both have different ways with dealing with our emotions when we're down (he tries to boost his ego; I only eat ice cream and sleep for two days straight), but we are both empathetic towards each other's different moods. Right now, I'm abroad and he's back home in NY. The distance really hasn't bothered us since he's a workaholic and I'm constantly online thus available to speak to. I'm coming home in three months and it feels like I've only really been gone on business for two weeks. I can't wait to get back home and cuddle all day .We first met last January, but I actually was sort of dating his Aries best friend. The Aries and I had more of a friendly relationship, so we ended things and we're still friends. The Cancer and I started dating over the summer. Then I left for work here Korea in November and am coming back home in June. Long distance CAN work for a certain amount of time, although I think we both just got lucky with each other since we both have a lot of Gemini/9th house action going on. Overall, we have a very empathetic relationship and I'm so happy that I have him in my life. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 7 From: The Asylum, NC Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 17, 2009 05:27 PM
Hey, Two moons in June as the saying goes, right? I did experience great empathy with a cute cancer man last year too.....it's just too bad he was gay. *sobs* Well not really since I actually fell for someone else (who I suspect has alot of water), but meh....IP: Logged |
MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 17, 2009 08:49 PM
Every once in awhile, I forget about my Pisces Mars. I do like watery men, although Scorpio Venus/Mars and I usually end things with a long, melodramatic death, lol.Dating someone with the same Venus is liberating in a way. The empathy is comforting, but of course not everyone isn't always happy with the familiar. IP: Logged |