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songwriter
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posted March 18, 2009 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for songwriter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How is their love life like?

Do they have secret relationships?

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gorgeousbutterfly
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posted March 18, 2009 05:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
really good sex. lol. also a lot of people i've known have this placement and get married and the husband ends up having a lot more money then they did.

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posted March 18, 2009 06:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in the 8th conjuct Jupiter and Mercury in the 8th, Trine Ascendant, and square Pluto in the 10th. and when I love someone, they know about it. My love runs deeply for those who get close to my heart. I try to be honest with that person as much as I can but sometimes I have a hardtime keeping my promises but thats probably my Jupiter conjucting my Venus.

I don't have secret relationships, if I am with someone, it's just them because I don't like cheating. If I want to see other people, then I just tell the person because it's so much easier to be single and flirt then cheat in a relationship.

Also I have a hard time letting go of past loves because when it runs deep it takes a long time to get that person out of my system but I eventually do.

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posted March 18, 2009 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for songwriter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I ask "Do they have secret relationships?", "cheating" is not what I meant. Maybe I asked wrong.

When they're in a relationship, do they hide it from friends and family? Do they prefer to live it away from society? Are they too secretive about it? tightlipped?

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cheshirekat
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posted March 18, 2009 06:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, well for me that would be no. It's probably my Venus in Leo lol, I want to show the person I love to my family and friends.

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posted March 18, 2009 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for evander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a friend who has Virgo Venus Rx in 8th house. He also has his Leo Sun there. He hasn't had much luck with relationships, according to his own words (and me witnessing some of it ) he's come across alot of very frustrated people who've had a destructive influence on him despite the transformations within him they initiated. He's been involved in a Student Teacher relationship which was ofcourse secret but was not cheating in any way. Now he has been dating this girl for two years and she is only financially (in my opinion and from what i understand his) more powerful then him.

I tribute this relationship (with someone who is in every way inferior to him) to the fact that he was too hurt from this transforming partially secret experience.

Using equal house system, I have too Venus and Sun in 8th house. ONly my Venus is in scorpio and Sun is in sag. I am very prone to keeping my relationships secret although that is something I would usually tribute to my 12th house mars.

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posted March 18, 2009 07:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have leo sun, virgo venus retrograde too, i had many secret relationships too when i was younger, my father was very overbearing and wouldn't allow me to see a bf so i saw him secretly.

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posted March 18, 2009 08:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if someone has their venus in the 8th house, aren't they "magnetic" or something, since it rules scorpio??

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evander
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posted March 18, 2009 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for evander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio is a Venus in detriment. I've read somewhere that a key phrase for it is passionate feelings searching for indirect modes to be expressed.

Scorpionic preoccupation with sex brings out seductiveness.

I know alot of 8th house Venuses and Scorpio Venuses .. some of them are hardly attractive. Much like any astro placement it depends on other aspects to the VEnus and in general in the chart

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posted March 19, 2009 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for songwriter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about a Pisces Venus in the 8th house?

Do you know people who have this placement?

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posted March 19, 2009 06:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
butterfly~
I'm a virgo venus rx 8th house conj Virgo sun leo cusp with Mars in Scorpio 10th
I had the same expierience w/ my father. There are SO many things my parents will never know.
I have secret relationships all the time more so because of the excitement factor (Aries Moon)
and.. only a secret to a certain extent. We may go away where no one would know us and be free to just be.. (like bike week at Daytona)
But on the day to day it is not something I discuss with anyone.
It works for me.
Maybe that will change and maybe not. Saturn has been in the house for quite some time and everything seems really heavy.
The trick is to find someone else. I seem to attract secretive everything.

equal 8th house
Sun, Merc. Venus, Uranus and Pluto

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posted December 06, 2010 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for joyrjw     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In Whole Sign/Sidereal I have Venus in Sagittarius 8th house.

I believe in being faithful and loyal in my relationships and I love deeply,especially if I feel I can trust the person. I don't like secret relationships,I don't want to have to hide in public, I like to share my experiences with the one's I love... also I'm proud of who they are <3

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posted December 06, 2010 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
humm... I have Uranus in the 7th, if you use equal its in the 8th...

I love secret relationships, they are so exciting. (not with married men) just for what ever reason...

I like to keep my private life, private.. my friends dont know much about who I go out with... I just prefer to keep most of it to my self...
Believe it or not only one of my friends knows about Pisces... Even my BBF of 20 years doesn't know about him.. She just knows I went out with some guy before... She doesnt even know his name..

I see my friends as my family.. I wont just bring anyone around them.. So they wont know about a guy I go out with, unless its getting serious..

They do know about Gem, but only bc he's an ex and I was seeing him a long time ago, and they all remember him.. He's the type of person that will show up at where Im at... so no secrets with him... lol

o.. I do have Scoprio in the 8th... :P
My Lilith is in the 8th also..

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posted December 07, 2010 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarrofVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Scorpio in the 8th house.

Sometimes relationships are secretive. Usually they are just intense though. Deeply passionate, sexual, exciting, transforming, etc.

The 8th house rules not only sex but also death and inheritance through others. Relationships can take on an obsessive quality or "feel" life and death, or a person can actually benefit from the death of a partner (marry a wealthy spouse).

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posted December 07, 2010 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes, agreeing with STarr!
I have venus conj sun in sag/ 8th house.
When I am invested, it's like a live or die thing. I eat, sleep and dream that person.
When they aren't around or don't get in touch, it's like a slow, torturous death until they finally do contact me.
It's not easy.

And honestly yes, we do have secretive relationships for various reasons, but not always duplicitious, sometimes they are secretive because of extenuating circumstances.

I have never married rich, but I have had offers from those who had money and wished to date me, but something about that always turned me off.
I will inherit from my father, enough to live on comfortably, so in that scenario the 8th house stuff is right.

And, maybe not for everyone, but for me, relationships have to be so very intense from jump street to ever even make it very far. I don't do 'casual dating' or simulataneous dating. ( I have dated someone in person, and talked to another online, but I don't feel that is wrong b/c nothing 'happened' online, if you know what I mean. In other words, sexually I can only be with one person, and only them until we have to go our seperate ways, and still then, I never forget that connection and think of them often. So, they have to have make a huge impression.

Every ending seems like the end of the world, and every beginning seems like a total rebirth.
It's not easy, but I can say I wouldn't want it any other way.

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Ami Anne
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posted December 07, 2010 04:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You sure are an 8th house person,OUCH
I,only ,have Gem Sun, Gem Merc and Cancer moon there and that is quite enough for this kid

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The human heart is wicked above all things. Who can know it?

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posted December 07, 2010 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Herz_Aus_Stein     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the relationship has to be meaningful and deep, otherwise it's a no go.

i'm an extremely private person. i don't think 'secretive' is the word though.

mars, venus, saturn, pallas all in 8th house. howeverrrrrrrrr, mars conjunct saturn destroys everything in its path.

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Thell
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posted December 07, 2010 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What if, in synastry, a person's Venus falls in their partner's 8th house?

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posted December 07, 2010 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from sky view zone...

Venus in a partner’s eighth house:

When your Venus is in your romantic partner’s eighth house, you stimulate your partner’s romantic and sexual feelings. he or she loves you deeply. Sexual intimacy and a feeling of personal renewal attract you both. When your relationship partner’s Venus is in your eighth house, you will find your partner sexually alluring and a bit mysterious. A complex relationship can easily develop. You are very attracted to the energy and the experience of bonding deeply and intensely with him or her. You both will tend to do well in joint financial ventures

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posted December 07, 2010 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in the 8th house made me think of this quote by Bette Davis.

I'd marry again if I could find a man who had fifteen million and would sign over half of it to me before the marriage and guarantee he'd be dead within a year

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posted December 31, 2010 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oceaneyes9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 31, 2010 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Aquarius in the Eighth, and I've been told I'm a magnetic personality. Many of my lovers have told me that my energy intoxicates them. Sometimes, people ask to hold me just to absorb my energy. (This is probably qualified by my Sun in Aries, Moon in Pisces, and Cancer Ascendant.)

Much of my past is filled with flamboyant romance and clandestine affairs (not cheating, but private relationships that don't last long; or with lovers who everyone assumes are my friends and nothing more; relationships with people from all walks of life).

I am finally in a stable, healthy, all-consuming relationship. Finally. As in, I meet all his friends; he meets all mine. I talk about him to family; all his family members have heard of me. When I'm around other men and they start to flirt with me, I am quick to mention that I'm taken. I swear this man is my soulmate, but transiting Neptune on my natal Venus concerns me. (But transiting Chiron is also on my natal Venus...and my suspected soulmate has Ceres in Scorpio; my intuition tells me he's here to heal, not harm.)

I have always thought I had a definite Scorpio energy about me, but all I can see astrologically are my Eighth House Venus & my Pluto in Scorpio (retrograde). I've also got Lilith in the Twelfth, Mercury in Pisces, and a Pisces Midheaven.

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posted December 31, 2010 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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. . . I have a hard time letting go of past loves because when it runs deep it takes a long time to get that person out of my system . . .

I don't think I ever "let go" (such an ambiguous, multifaceted term...) of any of my past loves, but I can move on. Perhaps it's Aquarius coloring the Eighth House: I give it all I've got when it comes to maintaining or restoring a friendship after the sexual/romantic passion has run its course. This really only works when both the ex-lover and myself are in new relationships because...my affairs never truly end. Even when we both move on. There always remains a spark that could be rekindled at a later date.

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posted December 31, 2010 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
8th H venus people,do u ooze sexually? Have u been told that u r sexy,mysterious etc? Can't really label ur form of attractiveness?

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posted December 31, 2010 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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8th H venus people,do u ooze sexually? Have u been told that u r sexy,mysterious etc?

Oh yes. I had one ex-girlfriend tell me straight up, "You exude sex appeal."

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Can't really label ur form of attractiveness?

My sister loves me to death & we're best friends so I know she wasn't trying to be an ******* , but she once asked me something like, "What is it about you? I mean, you're cute and all, but the way people fall at your feet? It doesn't make sense."

Maybe I should tell her it's my Eighth House Venus. I've actually always thought it was the intense conflict of my Sun/Moon. Being (in general) an Aries on the outside and a Pisces on the inside makes for one hell of a woman.

This thread is really bringing out my arrogance. I'll probably slip on the ice when I walk outside.

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