posted May 17, 2009 09:24 AM            

But if your boring, you are interesting because your not like the others.

posted May 17, 2009 10:51 AM            

My entire 11th house is in Aquarius, it starts and ends in Aqua. Uranus is in my 9th house at 0 cap conjunct Mercury in Sag (conjunct GC).

I've been very lonely at times. These days I welcome company but I can live without it and not be bored. I isolate myself every once in a while. Gues I have a difficulty committing. But in spite of all these things I'm happy with my friends and with myself.

posted May 17, 2009 11:31 AM              

I don't drink, I don't party, I don't act wild and crazy, I am not overly flirtacious, I don't have sexual endevors, I am kinda shy yet (strange lol), I haven't been to a decent music concert since I was in the sixth grade.

Though I do like art, music, movies, and photography, I have a good (dark) sense of humor, and I am opened minded. ^//^

Most of the problem has to do with the way I raised, I felt I really didn't deserve to be here but I won't go into that right now..

posted May 17, 2009 12:00 PM            

I mean, if you have an interest in many things, typically you are an interesting person. You mentioned photography, movies, music and art. Plus a good sense of humor and open minded nature, that seems interesting, though it can be cliche too. It depends on the person.

But at its basis, non drinking/partying is not boring. Actually some people who do only that get quite tiresome after a while.

Although having a wild night.. That could be anything, a natural high with friends maybe. Maybe just having crazy/long discussions.

posted May 17, 2009 12:01 PM            

I don't drink, I don't party, I don't act wild and crazy, I am not overly flirtacious, I don't have sexual endevors, I am kinda shy yet (strange lol), I haven't been to a decent music concert since I was in the sixth grade."

I wouldn't say that you're boring. I am the same way in regards to not drinking,partying,acting wild/crazy,not flirtacious,nor having sexual endeavors as well as shyness. I am very shy. I am not much for going out.

"Though I do like art, music, movies, and photography, I have a good (dark) sense of humor, and I am opened minded. ^//^"

same here

"Most of the problem has to do with the way I raised, I felt I really didn't deserve to be here but I won't go into that right now.."

I think for me, it has to do with feelings of being inadequate including not being intelligent nor attractive. That's why I was diagnosed as having an avoidant personality disorder.

"Anyways Scorpio in the 11th house, Pluto could be in the 11th house if I change house systems, and my top three are dominated by Negative Feminant Signs (Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Rising). Also I have an 8th house stellium and five retrograde planets."

I have Cancer on the 11th house cusp.

my top three are dominated by negative feminine signs too (Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon, and Virgo Rising.

all of my planets are in the bottom half of my chart except for Saturn which is retrograde in Gemini in 9th conjunct the Midheaven and involved in t-square. Therefore,Saturn is not much being social.

I am seeing a shaman healer weekly for healing work to help me resolve my avoidant personality disorder issues, and so I will be to live my life purpose as a neurodiversity advocate,develop good friendships and relationships.

Reading Eckhart Tolle's A New Earth is helping me see things in a new light too. Watching The Secret has too.

posted May 17, 2009 12:05 PM            

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By a doctor?

posted May 17, 2009 12:09 PM            

I actually agreed with the diagnosis. Especially when I read her report, I felt that it described me to a T.
http://astynaz.myphotoalbum.com/view_photo.php?set_albumName=album01&id=LD_ADHD_ Assessment_005

however, I do feel that these labels are unnecessary because many neurodivergents tend to have these issues. The most important thing is that they have to understand themselves and work on their self esteem. Of course, getting help for their neurodivergent weaknesses is also big a part of it. So many neurodivergents compensate to cover up their difficulties,and they tend to be anxious and fearful of their difficulties being found out because they want to fit in. They don't want to be singled out as being different. They tend to not be comfortable in their own skin if they have a history of being ostracized for being different i.e. being placed in special education class and being called "retard" They really don't like words like "special"

I know all this personally.

so as a wounded healer, I want to use my experiences to help others.

Those are things that I help raise awareness of as a neurodiversity advocate.

my Eris-Chiron in 8th sextile Midheaven in Gemini.

a lot of the cookbook interpretations for certain aspects fit with neurodivergence.

posted May 17, 2009 12:15 PM            

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posted May 17, 2009 12:49 PM              

Though I shouldn't knock down party people, my more fiery friends are party goers and they are good hearted people.

It's just I get burned out at parties, I like to hang out instead of party. I don't like all the games in flirting and right now me dating is not a good idea.

All in all I really need to grow up and open up some more..

I like spiritual subjects to Glaucus, I have been finding spiritual persuits that relax my nerves, though you can not really find spiritual persuits in Kansas, a few but not many. As much as I would like to talk about spirituality and learn about it. I end up running into the Christian identity of spirit. I respect Christians and their beliefs but they seem to have trouble with my growing curiosity in other spiritual subjects, such as Astrology.

posted October 10, 2009 01:39 AM            

My husband has this placement. He is quite content with just working and coming home and watching TV and reading books, and he only wants to hang out with me and/or our son. He dislikes going to parties and I usually have to drag him there, even though once he gets there and starts interracting with people, he warms up and he really enjoys himself.

He had very few close friends, and they usually live far far away so that he only see them about once a year at that. He always tells me that he would be very happy living in an isolated place where he would hardly see anyone, and I don't believe he is lying.

posted October 10, 2009 10:33 AM            

I've 1 close friend, 68 years old (could be my dad). When we talk it never bores - he had not a particularly interesting, but for sure hard life - and the living force between us is the ability for approaching complex/tragedy of life on a social philosophical, psychological and sometimes even astrological level.
That's deep.
It's a rare thing to meet someone who has
a) time enough for good conversations
b) the capacity to approach life on all kinds of levels