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Topic: Lack of Social Life
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Mannequin
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posted May 16, 2009 04:57 PM
  
what aspects or planetary positions show this?IP: Logged |
Coffee
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From: Leeds
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posted May 16, 2009 09:22 PM
Lack can be Capricorn and social life can be House 11.IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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posted May 16, 2009 09:43 PM
I tend to be solitary,reclusiveMoon in Pisces square Saturn-Neptune opposition ( with corresponding midpoint picture of Moon oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint) Moon is the ruler of my 11th house too Saturn contraparallel Venus-Mercury-Neptune Raymond IP: Logged |
T
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posted May 16, 2009 09:56 PM
Planets in the 4th, 8th, and or 12th perhaps?When I go out I can be very social and if I wanted a social life, I could have one, but my Sun's in the 4th and Moon's in the 8th, so I prefer or need a lot of alone time. Sometimes my Venus in Gem/5th house needs to get out though. Mostly I'm a homebody now. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted May 16, 2009 11:35 PM
I've also become somewhat reclusive lately, more so than usual. Transiting sun and mercury (my ruler) in the 12th. Natal sun and saturn in 12th, moon in 8th. When I go out I can be social too, but lately it just feels too frivolous or superficial, more than it ever did before. Basically I'm just interested in hanging out with friends I can talk about serious issues with. Metaphysical or spiritual issues. Not too many of those people around, so I'd rather be alone.  IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
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posted May 16, 2009 11:52 PM
yeah...I can relateI mainly want to have friends that are spiritually oriented,and I want a relationship partner that is spiritually oriented too. I feel out of place in bars and clubs as well as other mainstream social places. I'd rather meet friends from spiritual,metaphysical,and healing arts gatherings. Raymond IP: Logged |
Izo
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posted May 17, 2009 01:28 AM
Hmmmm... my 11H cusp is Sag, I should be a social butterfly but I'm not. Social interraction wears me down and I need time alone on a constant basis. People seek my company, but I tend to keep them at arm's length. I'm more confortable like that. Cap Asc. Saturn square that Cap Asc. Moon conj 12H cusp (though technically in the 11th, fits better in the 12th). IP: Logged |
T
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posted May 17, 2009 03:14 AM
Same here mercuranian. And these days it seems to take longer to recuperate from the bombardment of different energies; a lot of them draining. Going out once a month or every couple just about covers it for me.IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted May 17, 2009 03:34 AM
For sure T, I hear you on the energies. I just recently and quite suddenly quit my job (bartender), I just couldn't be in that environment anymore. I never really enjoyed it, but recently I was just DONE! Hopefully I find something different soon and don't have to go back to that sort of work. Yuck.IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted May 17, 2009 03:45 AM
mercuranian, maybe try a library? I enjoy going to work anticipating the peaceful atmosphere and good vibes. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted May 17, 2009 03:48 AM
That sounds sublime! IP: Logged |
T
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posted May 17, 2009 04:00 AM
mercuranian, i used to work in restaurants, i know! No more.I feel for the librarians at my city library. Mostly they babysit the after-school kids running around and starting trouble. There is a security guard on duty now. Bookstores are also nice places to go.  IP: Logged |
SpooL
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From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 17, 2009 07:20 AM
I second the notion of Capircorn Asc. making someone independent.I'm independent myself, but rather spend my time working towards something i'm rally interested in. I'm 50/50 when it comes to being social. Once I gain your trust I'm social, otherwise I stay on the sideline. I know how you guys feel about the job thing, I worked in a place that was exactly like the TV Show "The Office". I never could figure out those people. I never trusted any of them especially in an office setting politics happens. I'm sorta glad I'm not there anymore. It was full of Cancer Suns and Libras. Cancer Suns don't complain and Libras put them selves in a postion were its not about them anymore, but all about the workplace.
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carl
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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 17, 2009 07:42 AM
I lack a social life sometimes because I actively choose to be in solitude. When I want, I can be very very social and talk for hours with random people, as long as they are interesting. A boring person will kill my social instinct and cause me to retreat to my shell very quickly and they activate my introverted/recluse mannerisms.I like being social a lot and thrive when I need to, and I do feel the need every few days, but prefer to just chill and listen to music by myself. IP: Logged |
Mannequin
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posted May 17, 2009 07:58 AM
what makes a boring person and what makes an intersting person?IP: Logged |
carl
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posted May 17, 2009 08:27 AM
I think that is pretty obvious for the most part. yah, some subjective aspects. But some people are plain old boring, nothing to say. IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 17, 2009 08:28 AM
uh yeah thats a pretty subjective question what makes someone boring and interesting..lol.
ive met people who are known for being very interesting, and i find them very much the opposite.
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Mannequin
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posted May 17, 2009 08:33 AM
i think everyone is boring and interesting. you can't be one or the other.IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 17, 2009 08:34 AM
quote:
i think everyone is boring and interesting. you can't be one or the other.
why did you ask then? lol
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Mannequin
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posted May 17, 2009 08:35 AM
i just wanted people to define what they mean by boring and interesting.what went up your ass? IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 17, 2009 08:36 AM
Strange you found that offensive. 
Again, boring and interesting is subjective.IP: Logged |
Mannequin
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posted May 17, 2009 08:38 AM
you sound very cocky and full of it. i dislike people with those traits.IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 17, 2009 08:41 AM
Okay.  IP: Logged |
carl
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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
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posted May 17, 2009 08:45 AM
I like WS actually.Boring person to me is: nothing to them, and you get that sense that there isn't anything deep within either (not an issue of being shy). With some people you can tell. They just have nothing to say. Or all they talk about is the mundane stuff of life. ever. yawn. Interesting people, well, they lead interesting lifes and do things worth mentioning. stories, etc. They keep people hooked with their expressions, enthusiasm, etc. Granted, of course, interesting people can come off as boring if they are shy or having an off night, but with them, I can sense if there is something deep within many times. IP: Logged |
Writesomething
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posted May 17, 2009 08:49 AM
aw thanks carl  quote:
Interesting people, well, they lead interesting lifes and do things worth mentioning. stories, etc. They keep people hooked with their expressions, enthusiasm, etc. Granted, of course, interesting people can come off as boring if they are shy or having an off night, but with them, I can sense if there is something deep within many times.
i agree with this. these are my personal feelings on the subject. IP: Logged |
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