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ScorpioCentaur
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posted May 25, 2009 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Hi All,

For the first time in my life, I recently found myself in an abusive relationship, both emotionally and physically. The relationship just came to a head last week where I was physically attacked by him and basically held hostage in my own apartment.
Since he has been gone (and I have pressed charges)..I have done a lot of research on abusive relationships- i.e warning signs..personality types..pattern behaviour etc..but I was wondering If anyone had any experience or knew of any astrological warning signs..whether they be in the individuals' birth placements..or synastry aspects which can lead to abuse.
I think finding possible astrological correlations could bring me some solace and understanding as to why this has happened to me.
thanks ahead of time,
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posted May 25, 2009 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kismet*     Edit/Delete Message
Astrological placements set aside, lets hope that you can find meaning in this situation in your heart and will get away from that situation as soon as possible.

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posted May 25, 2009 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message

I am very sorry about the abusive relationship that you were in.

I was going to mention stuff astrologically.

after what Kismet told you, I decided not to.


I looked at the Libra myth post,and I saw your post.

you said the following:

"The two most importants libras in my life are my ex boyfriend..who was sun, moon, mercury venus in libra with a cancer mars, and my sister who is sun, venus and mars in libra with a scorpio moon and mercury.
My ex and I didn't last too long, cuz I tend to love the drama and a good fight every now and then..and he just would not do it. Sometimes I would even pick a fight just to create something interesting..and he would completely avoid the situation and usually apologize TO ME! I got so bored of the peace..that that was end of that. I need some burning fires!"


but

I would say straight up that you were much better off with your exboyfriend. Wanting drama and a good fight in a relationship is not healthy at all. It even fits with what Eckhart Tolle said about the issues with the ego and the painbody.


When you look for drama and a good fight and those burning fires, you're more likely to attract a man who takes that to the extreme.

I think that you have to work on having a better relationship with yourself before getting into another relationship with anybody else.


I don't think anybody that wants a healthy relationship wants drama and pick fights with their partner.


I certainly don't. I have Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio. I have Moon conjunct Mars and Venus square Mars. I don't want to get into fights nor any other arguments with the ones that I love. I am very attracted to passionate,assertive,feisty women. I don't mind a little aggressiveness from her..especially when it comes to intimacy. I find women that are pushy and pick fights to be a problem and can easily stress me.....especially with my Moon in Pisces in square Saturn-Neptune opposition as well as my Virgo Ascendant. I want a woman that I can be at peace with and get along with. I am not talking about perfect harmony though. I don't want a relationship with a lot of drama and issues. I have Sun trine Moon,and that indicates my potential for inner peace and serenity that can lead to a rewarding relationship.

Was he one of those bad boys that some gals go for......especially seen as hot and good in bed,especially with a big dick that appeals to the spicy side of women? Those aren't all what they are cracked up to be. A lot of women seem to fall for those guys and pass the nice,gentle,cooperative,mildmannered guys. I think a lot of women do prefer those Alpha Male types, and they get too much that they bargain for.


I read that the higher the level of testosterone in a male, the more aggressive and more promiscuous he could be.

that's just how hormones work.

if he had abusive past combined with that, he could end up being abusive and acting too testosterone-driven.


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posted May 25, 2009 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message
Geocosmic Valentine knows... she wrote to me once about this but I forget the aspect.

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ScorpioCentaur
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posted May 25, 2009 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Well, I think you guys maybe misunderstood my post about my libra ex...Obviously I'm not looking for abuse or to be abused..I also not looking for someone to constantly fight with either..I was just trying to say that every now and then I like my man to be able to stand up to me, cuz usually I have strong opinions and my own fiery personality..and be able to tell me that I'm full of crap when I am or to tell me that I'm being a brat. My libra ex would never do that. In order to avoid any confrontation..he always agreed even if I was wrong and I knew it. So boringgg. And I didn't routinely pick on him or cause fights on purpose..just sometimes months would go by without even so much as a heated debate so I was uninspired..
Though I do admit, I have a tendency towards the bad boy type..not sure why..so I seem to have gotten in this case at least exactly that..a bad man. Thank you for your wishes..I have gotten myself out of the situation...even though all his stuff is still at my place (he has yet to come pick it up accompanied by a police escort..) I do not wish to be with him anymore, and I can now see how unhealthy the relationship was..almost right from the start of it. For some reason..not sure how or why, I ignored my most valued gift- my scorpio sun/venus and pisces moon instincts about this man. But I can be sure it won't happen again..and if for some reason I find myself in that situation again, it will take no time to get myself out of it.

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posted May 25, 2009 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
nobody said that you were looking for abuse nor to be abused.

I was just pointing out that wanting drama and picking a fight with a partner is unhealthy and fits with ego and painbody issues that attract relationship partners that are problematic.

in a healthy relationship that is not based on ego and painbody, people live in the present moment with the partner,not wanting a drama, but being at peace with themselves and with their partners. They don't want to pick fights the partner, but consider the partner's feelings in relationship and not just their own. Unconditional love is not about picking fights and wanting to get excitement. It's about being in presence and having peace in the relationship, accepting the partner for who they are and not wishing that they should be something else. If the person is interfering with your own peace and presence,then obviously he's not right for you.


There can be a law of attraction.

being a magnet for that type of stuff whether you want to or not.

the way to resolve that is work on any issues that you have in with yourself so you don't attract any more abusive people.


It's probably your Scorpio Sun that gets attracted to the bad boy type.....especially sexy,intense,and possibly dangerous men.....attracted men that are mysterious.

Sun and Mars are the female's animus planets

look to your Mars for the type of men that you are attracted to.

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posted May 25, 2009 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Oh and one more thing..I was wondering if anyone had an abusive relationship situation with someone who's pluto was conjunct the other persons sun and or venus...in any sign..or specifically in Scorpio which is my case with the ex.
Or is pluto in Scorpio in of itself an agressive/abusive placement for someone to have.
And umm.. possibly Leo prominent in the mans chart/ personal placements. My ex had 4 out of five of his personal planets in Leo..and my dad has strong Leo as well, he is abusive emotionally to my mom...and I have always suspected physically at times as well.

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posted May 25, 2009 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kismet*     Edit/Delete Message
When you say you want a man to stand up to you, and then you are posting about being abused, it's a little confusing. Almost like you are inviting it...

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posted May 25, 2009 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Glaucus,
My mars is in Sagittarius..so mars in a fire sign..do you think that explains a need for bad boys/drama?

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posted May 25, 2009 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
I re-edited my post.

Mars in Sagittarius seem to be attracted to adventurous,freedom loving men. That could fit the badboy too.....if you think of the wild,lusty,adventurous, centaurs descended from Ixionin mythology and not Chiron,the wise,healing,teaching centaur who was not connected to the centaurs but was. divine,being the son of Cronus, and so the half brother of Zeus.

you're better off with broadminded,philosophical men


would it be ok to look at your chart.

I suspect some strong Kuiper belt activity involving the composite as well as your natal.

kuiper belts as in transneptunians like Pluto.


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posted May 25, 2009 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message
Sounds like you need to spend some time figuring out who you are, never mind astrology. Hopefully you will take a good long look at your life and analyze things, before diving into another relationship (not saying you will).

I don't think your mars in sag explains anything. You simply need to work on becoming a better person. Once you feel better about yourself, you will attract better people, without all the BS drama. You get what you put out, astrology aside.

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posted May 25, 2009 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Kismet,

I think there is a huge distinction between wanting an assertive man, a strong, manly man... and wanting someone abusive and aggressive. I'm looking for someone confident who I can feel safe with, who can take care of me and things..and I dont think that has any anything to do with control, possession, power or dominance over me. I don't think these things automatically go together.
Isn't there and can't there be a happy medium between a spineless ultra sensitive pushover and a violent caveman?
And thats whats so strange about my relationship with this man..because 80% of the time..he was that happy medium..he could be very sensitive and caring..but then there was the other 20%
I agree that I have to look within my myself to solve some obvious unresolved issues and the reasons behind why this has happend.
I would love for you to look at my chart..I apologize but I've tried several times to paste the image in here, but can't seem to figure it out. Could you do that for me?

October 28th 1982
Montreal, Quebec
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posted May 25, 2009 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kismet*     Edit/Delete Message
Well I think there is validity in the fact that the traits you describe in both men are synonymous.

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posted May 25, 2009 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
ScorpioCentaur: I totally know how you feel regarding your Libra ex. I too like a guy who is assertive and can stand up to me. There is a big big difference between physical/emotional abuse and the ability to stand up to your partner. I also have a Sagittarius Mars.

Kismet, to accuse her of inviting abuse is like saying that women who wear short skirts are inviting rape.

It's so easy to blame the victim. It's easy to say "Well she did this wrong, so obviously she deserved it. I'm doing everything right, I'm NOT going to get abused/raped like this idiot over here."

This is the first time she has ever dated anyone like this. It's not a pattern (at least not yet), it's an anomaly.

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posted May 25, 2009 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for UranusinPisces     Edit/Delete Message
I have Mars in 3rd house and Scorpio and Mercury in Aries 7th house. I understand what you are saying. That's why I go for the intelligent, talkative (also have Juno in Gemini), and philosophizing type. I NEED to have someone who is mentally aggressive even if what they are saying is crap. I can't stand dumb guys. I love nerds and smarties! I need a good debate, it turns me on. I'm not saying I need arguments and I don't need someone who is highly physically aggressive. I can't stand people who have emotional problems and want to abuse.

I also can't stand cowards or lazy people. I am sympathetic of victims and people who are going through a tough time but someone who is naturally cowardly and has no back bone I will run from. I know I would just end up screaming at them about why they are so lazy, cowardly, stupid...and it would get nasty.

IMO I think that you need more mental stimulation and involvement. So my advice to you is to, like someone else said, figure out what you like and project that and/or go out and get it. And run from the freaks that wear a mask of energy and assertiveness over who they really are: insecure, cowardly, and emotionally and mentally disturbed.

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posted May 25, 2009 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kismet*     Edit/Delete Message
Nobody is blaming her, but I think when there is an issue in our lives, we should look at ourselves and wonder why it's happening to us. It's all about what kind of energy were are transmitting.

And if somebody abused me, particularly a straightforward take no **** man, I would not be trying to establish a relationship with a man who resembled those kinds of traits, no matter how small. Let alone trying to understand astrological placements. Understand?

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posted May 25, 2009 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
UranusinPisces,

It's interesting how you used the term emotionally disturbed..And it seems a lot of people make the assumption that someone who abuses is mentally disturbed or has anger issues, or somehow is unable to see the difference from right and wrong..But, since this has happened..the Sag student in me has emerged, and I have done a ton of research on the subject of abuse/abusive men, and I have come to learn that the abuser does not have any psychological disturbances or mental health issues. They do not simply "snap" or fly off the handle. These men believe that it is their right and place to dominate and control thier partner in a very clear and aware way. The tactics they use and the violent ways they chose to enforce those beliefs are completely sane. An example one book gave which in my case is so true, is that one woman explained how she was sure that her husband had anger management issues..and an inability to be able to control his anger..cuz when he was mad he would destroy anything is sight..He would throw things around..break stuff around the house and so on.. So the psychologist who wrote the book asked the woman if any of the things he ever threw and broke were any of his cherished things or if he ever cleaned up the messes after he "cooled" down.. And the response from the woman after she thought about it for a moment was- no...now that she thinks of it, they are never any of his things that he destroyed..and no..she always cleans up the mess..
And its so true..because of all the things that my ex has broken around here (and there are many)...all his things are completly intact...meanwhile, I have MY apartment trashed..broken cell phone..etc...
So this just shows that the things that these men do are deliberate, well thought out and acts that are much more calculated and aware than crazy and out of control.
They want to instill fear in order to have the power. Pretty straight forward.

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posted May 25, 2009 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message

Thanks for your birthdata

my hunch was right. you have strong hard kuiper belt energy involving the Sun.

I will post in a few hours.


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posted May 25, 2009 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for UranusinPisces     Edit/Delete Message
Well I think that some people try to understand everything in order to enlighten themselves and gain knowledge and therefore, GROW. Not just mentally but emotionally and spiritually. Information and knowledge is very important to some, more important than fleeing or ignoring. Think of the detective or Scorpio or Virgo energy. By analyzing one can purify and heal and deter oneself from going back there agian.

Ignoring what happened is not going to make it go away and she seems ready to tackle it now so why not? Astrology can provide her with a medium to understand herself, what happened, the problem and the person that did this to her.

If we are ignorant of the past we run the risk of repeating it. If we spend too much time in the past, we lose the present and risk the future. If we only look to the future we lose the present, and repeat the past. And if we only live in/for the present we have no future and lose the past. What helps us connect the dots is contemplation, knowledge and understanding.

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posted May 25, 2009 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you UranisanPisces for understanding my astrological question regarding my situation...Obviously I have not singled out the reason as to why this has happend to me to astrology..but I am a firm believer in astrology and its influence on us in every way..and I'm just trying to figure out if or how it played a part in this and if I can figure that out, then maybe i will be able to detect and avoid it in the future..for me or somebody else.
Exactly.
Glaucus, I have never even heard of kuiper belt...what is it?

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posted May 25, 2009 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cheshire Kat     Edit/Delete Message
The thing is that astrology just cannot pinpoint abuse, depression, or suicide, sexual orientation..this is all human emotions and freewill.

If I felt the need to backhand someone I am just going to backhand them and people can sit all day trying to decipher my charts and transits as to why I backhand that person but their are several people in this world and my generation I share aspects and placements with..not exact but it's enough to know that it was just my (freewill) to backhand that person.

Not that I would backhand a person because I have some morals, regardless of how I was raised and the enviroment I was in. Which people believe that if I child is abuse they are more then likely to do the same to people..which in my case is not true, I absolutely hate abuse because it happened to me and people close to me..

That is my choice and my freewill at work.

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posted May 25, 2009 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
Kuiper belt objects are objects that orbit beyond Neptune. Therefore, they are transneptunians. In 1930, Pluto was the first one discovered. It wasn't until 1992, a 2nd one was discovered. The hundreds were discovered including large ones that ended with the discovery of the larger Eris which forced the astronomers to come up with a definition for a planet and ended up with the demotion of Pluto.

Information on the Kuiper Belt here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kuiper_belt

They orbit past Neptune, and so they are transneptunians. With Saturn being the planet of physical boundaries and Neptune being the dissolution of boundaries. Astrologically,the Kuiper belt objects could be seen as the subterranean depths whether it's the unconscious,underworld,or the "other side"

Because they have highly elliptical, eccentric orbits, they tend to orbit well off the ecliptic. They don't conform on the orbital path like the regular planets do. They tend to be in constellations that are not on the ecliptic.
Astrologically, they are nonconformists.


Philip Sedgwick refers to transneptunian objects as intensified evolutionary objects. Evolutionary suggests that emotional and spiritual crisis induced by the presence and passage of these bodies intends to enhance the insight, inspiration, creativity and consciousness of a person on Earth and through events on Earth containing these bodies in significant locations.
People with strong transneptunian energy could have intensified evolutionary lessons that can make or break them on their soul's path.

I am just looking at only kuiper belt/transneptunian aspects involving personal planets,luminaries,angles
conjunction,opposition,square - 3'00
square,semisquare - 1'00

I am also looking at the heliocentric nodes of Pluto,Eris,and Sedna
conjunction,opposition,square - 1'00

all objects have nodes which are just based on the orbital paths of an object in relation to another object.

aspects to the heliocentric node of an object is considered to more significant than an aspect to the object itself. heliocentric nodes pertain to matters involving the collective.


Right Ascension is the equatorial longitude coordinates that astronomers use to locate objects

Declination is the equatorial latitude coordinates that astronomers and some astrologers use to locate objects.

In Right Ascension:
Pluto in 1'06 Scorpio
conjunct Sun - 1'34
conjunct Venus - '21
(Expressing one's self in intense,transformative relationships ..possible trust issues connected to betrayal,trauma,abuse .....avoid jealousy,power issues in relationships.....matters involving death and rebirth)

South Pluto Node in 20'04 Capricorn
conjunct Ascendant - '33
(persona,relationships in connection to collective intensity,transformation, power matters)

ERIS
Orbital Period: 556.65 yr., has lunar companion, 4th brightest KBO (Pluto #1), 3000 km diameter? (Pluto is estimated at 2320 Km).

Some preliminary keywords for Eris follow:

Positive - liberation from addictions to success or status, clear priorities regarding matters of love and money, finally getting you can't take it with you and applying full resourcefulness in life, recognition of the potency of one's energy and life force, clear sense of the sacred marriages: spirit to body, self to Creator, between soulful companions, personal sense of emergence.

Negative - greed, workaholism, believe that you must take over for God, general sense of being forsaken, condemned or abandoned, lack of spiritual regard for life, superficial, status oriented.

Mundane: promises and vows (both kept and broken), elections and election fraud, intervention by higher powers (troubleshooters, authorities, deity or God), using chaos and disruption as a method of reorganization - i.e., dumping a closet onto the floor, then reorganizing, things that overturn, the scales of justice, battles, disputes, famine, fightings, lawlessness (attributed to her moon, Dysnomia), lies, manslayings, murders, oath, oblivion, quarrels - and the last word therein, sorrows and toil, contention, rivalry, loved the spilling of blood on the battlefield, the fifth day of the month, gluttony, gloating, the nurse of war, women wearing men’s uniforms (sports players, women in the military, astronauts)

Ceremonial: capitulation ceremonies, vows to create order from chaos, intent to right wrongdoing, abundance ceremonies

Lunar body contributing to keywords: Dysnomia.


Eris
Venus parallel Eris - '05
(love,relationships,values in connection to diversity matters,discord,controversy

South Eris Node in 5'44 Scorpio
conjunct Sun - '45
(Ego,self expression in connection to collective diversity matters,discord,controversy)

In Right Ascension:
Eris in 21'06 Aries
oppose Mercury - '42
square Ascendant - '01
(Ascendant squares Mercury-Eris opposition)
(Diversity matters,controversy,discord involving communications with others


SEDNA
Sedna - She is the first body to bear the mythology of the arctic's Inuit culture. Orbital Period: 11,013.05 yr.

Positive - a forgiving disposition, discernment, clarity of perception, recognition of free will and choice, responsible, conscious of consequence, far thinking, dharma-oriented, does the homework of life

Negative - victimization, abuse, being deceived, history of betrayal, bitterness, “gold digging” attitude in relationship, transfers blame to others, numbs out, goes unconscious

Mundane - blubber, products made from sea mammals, whaling, diving bells that go into the dark of the sea, emotional healing, forgiveness, sorrow, engagement, masks, flight of the birds

Ceremonial - cleansing in the sea, propitiation to the sea, sea creatures, use of sea creature talismans (walrus tusk carvings, scrimshaw), ceremony with masks of sea creatures, ceremonial masks in general

Sedna in 7'09 Taurus
oppose Sun - 2'11
(Ego,self expressions in connected to "not of this world", humane caretaking, victimization)


ORCUS
Orcus - A lord of the underworld. Orbital Period: 248.01 yr.

Positive: a person of one’s word, challenges broken promises, aligned with a spiritual creed, accountable for personal thought, word and deed

Negative: hypocritical, fault finding in the ways of others, blame assigning, ducks responsibility for word and actions, unable to keep promises

Mundane: contracts, oaths to organizations, religions or countries, creeds

Ceremonial: declaring faith, writing creeds, channeling the latest cosmic downloads and formatting it into doctrine

Orcus in 4'21 Leo
square Sun - '36
square Venus - 1'00
(Expressing one's self in intense,transformative relationships.....issues involving death and rebirth...the need to keep oaths and be aligned with a spiritual creed)


CHAOS
Chaos: Before all that is, creator of Gaia and Ouranous (Uranus). Orbital Period: 312.18

Positive - orderly in the face of confusion, goes with the flow, mellow and non-stressed

Negative - worked up, paranoid, projecting fears, assuming disaster is a step away

Mundane - fractal patterns and analysis, big bang theory, chaos theory,

Ceremonial - meditating upon de-materialization, cleansing and re-materializing, dismemberment (shamanic reconstruction)

Chaos in 5'52 Taurus R
oppose Sun - '54
(ego,self expression involved in chaos)


VARUNA
Varuna: Vedic deity of vast power, particularly the waters. Orbital Period: 284.65 yr.

Positive - sovereign, competent, regulating without force, mastery of all tasks accepted

Negative - incompetent and blaming, laments losses, holds resentment

Mundane - appointments or elected positions, delegation of authority, promotions, demotions, court martial, public humiliation

Ceremonial - ceremonies to confirm positions, spiritual coronations, “induced” journeys as in shamanically led vision quests

Varuna in 17'53 Gemini
square Moon - '54
sesquiquadrate Venus - '27
(power,deep,intense driven justice,judgment involved in feelings and love,relationships

T-SQUARE OF Orcus in Leo square the opposition of Sun-Venus in Scorpio and Sedna-Chaos in Taurus
(intesified issues of the aforementioned configurations involving those objects)


Philip Sedgwick's keywords for transneptunians/kuiper objects here: http://www.philipsedgwick.com/


I also looked at your heliocentric planetary nodes too
you have strong planetary node activity
as I said before, an aspect to the heliocentric node of an object is more significant than an aspect to the object itself. It has to do with matters involving the collective.

Venus Nodes in 16'31 Gemini/Sagittarius
square Moon - '27
(emotional nature,nurturing in connection to collective relating,beauty,values......conflict involving relationships,values,and beauty is possible)

Mars Nodes in 19'25 Taurus/Scorpio
oppose Midheaven/conjunct Imum Coeli
(aim of life,career, social status,domestic environment,roots in connection to collective passion,assertiveness........aggression,violence,and anger could be major issues)

Mercury Nodes in 18'07 Taurus/Scorpio
oppose Midheaven/conjunct Imum Coeli
(aim of life,career,social status,domestic environment,roots in connection to collective intellect,communications,travel.......possible restlessness,highstrungness,scatteredness could be issues)


information on planetary nodes http://www.astrologycosmobiology.com.au/planetary_nodes.html
http://mysite.verizon.net/bonniehill/pages.aux/astrology/tobey/tobey.14.html


You can verify your Eris and Planetary nodes here http://www.megadelfi.com/~jonathan/pos/

Regular Chart: http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q112/Astynaz/ScorpioCentaurNatalChart.gif

Right Ascension Chart: http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q112/Astynaz/ScorpioCentaurRightAscensionNatalCh.gif

Transneptunian Natal Chart: http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q112/Astynaz/ScorpioCentaurKuiperBeltChart.gif

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posted May 26, 2009 07:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iQ     Edit/Delete Message
One look at the post and I was like "Here is another Pisces Mooner..."
Astrology can easily predict abuse.
What is your ex's natal info?

In Tobey's research, Scorpio women with Sun in the 10th house subconsciously tend to prefer a mildly abusive relationship with an alpha male type because it sexually triggers them.

Plenty of psychological issues in this chart.
Many red flags of emotional and general abuse.

1. Mars conj Neptune in 12th
2. 6th House True Node with Point 1
3. The Universal Abuse Attractor: Pisces Moon
4. Nessus sq CHAOS
5. Manic Depressive Red Flag: Cap Ascendant

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posted May 26, 2009 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
ScorpioCentaur;

You didn't say, and it's none of my business, but is there any substance abuse going on during his "episodes" or "outbursts?" I only ask because, it has been my experience in childhood, and in life, that substance abuse will magnify any episode of violence by like a million. There's a saying in the bar business, "just add alchohol...instant a**hole." It's pretty simplistic, I know, but the point being that those people usually had issues before and the substances just uninhibit them further to express them, plus provide an excuse after. "I don't remember, I was drunk." Don't fall into that trap if you can help it. They call them bad boys for a reason, cuz their not sitting at the library, sippin lemonade. You know? It is hard to break out of that mold. Some of us gals never do. We like our bad boys and that is the way it is. However, try and meet people in places other then clubs. Not saying that you did, but so many people do, and just from a bartenders perspective it is alot of drama. Sorry to ramble. I can tell you more, but don't like to post too much personal info. You can email me if you like, I think I can help.

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