posted June 01, 2009 08:49 AM         

My venus is also in house 11th.
My sun in taurus not aspected taurus' ruler is venus.

posted June 01, 2009 09:11 AM         

Mars squares Neptune.

(greaaaaaatttt hahaha).

My house 7 is opened by Uranus.
Venus it's ruler is in house 11th (that's good) and forms a trine to Uranus and the Moon.

Venus opposes... Mars.

posted June 01, 2009 09:40 AM         

ruler of my 5th house is Neptune and Jupiter if i consider both, dunno though if Neptune is more important.

Jupiter is in 2nd in Capricorn, Neptune in 2nd in sagittarius.

ruler of my 7th is venus in 10th in Leo.

aspects in my natal:

ruler of 7th trine ruler of 5th(Jupiter).
ruler of 7th trine ruler of 5th(Neptune).
ruler of 7th sextile pluto.
ruler of 7th square Mars.
ruler of 5th con Neptune(ruler of 5th)

Her ruler of 7th is Jupiter, ruler of 5th is mercury. Mercury also rules her 1st house.

Jupiter is in 8th in Capricorn, Mercury is in 11 in Aries.

aspects in her natal:

ruler of 7th trine her sun and sextile her saturn

ruler of 5th con venus, oppose pluto and trine neptune.

My both 5th rulers in her 7th, my 7th ruler in her 4th.

synastry aspects:

My venus(7th) trine her jupiter(7th).

My venus(7th) trine her mercury(5th,and 1st).

My Neptune(5th) trine her mercury(5th, 1st).

my Neptune and Jupiter both oppose her moon.

Her Jupiter(7th) trine my ruler of 8th(mercury)

Her Mercury(1st,5th) opposes my ruler of 1st(pluto)

My Jupiter(5th) con her Neptune.

My Neptune(5th) trine her venus.

Her Jupiter(7th) inconjunct my Sun.

her Mercury(5th) inconjunct my Mars.

What do you think DD, any importance here or are there just too many trines and to few hard aspects to count these connections as significant enough.

posted June 02, 2009 03:34 PM         

I think venus an NN conjunction could create quite an attraction between two people. They would probably feel it as a great desire to be together, especially in a romantic relationship as the venus is involved. As NN is also a part of this aspect, this connection has a karmic feel to it, implying that these people knew eachother in previous lives aswell, as lovers perhaps. This is sorta a destined relationship, but i wouldn't say destined means staying together for life. Perhaps the need to be together again is so strong the couple decided to meet in this life to, and enjoy another loving relationship, being long or short. The NN/venus points to that i think. It could be also a learning experiance since the NN is involved, perhaps another opportunity to learn more from one another in this life too. That's how see these kind of aspects. I found something on the net aswell

"This is the combination for lovers. The North Node and Venus are both highly significant in relationship astrology indicating that this association was written in the stars. It is also likely that A and B are in love, desiring to form a close and romantic bond, rather than remain friends only. Passion, romantic love and an intense desire to relate are central to this relationship. Within moments of meeting A and B feel they have known each other for years. They enjoy each other's company, discovering pleasures in common. If circumstances dictate that their relationship can only be a friendship, they would be wise to tread very carefully. This is not an association to take lightly. It could easily take over A or B's lives. In some circumstances this combination of Venus and the North Node can indicate an association formed for artistic or creative projects."

About the IC/NN connection, well i think its again a soul connection. The IC representing all our inner drives and ambitions, our dreams to become someone special in this life, our desire to evolve. The IC are our yet unrealized aspirations, the MC on the otherhand represents our public image, the things we already achieved, in our career or life in general. The NN shows where we have to grow and how during this life. So a NN/IC connection definitely means that these two people would learn a lot from eachother. The inner most desires of teh IC person would definately have an effect on the NN person, perhaps the NN person has to help the IC person to achieve their goals.

posted June 02, 2009 04:43 PM         

I will list the other affinities when I have written them down cos on my mobile

posted June 02, 2009 04:58 PM         

However the NN/Sun/Moon/AC connections especially in my opinion are firstly an indicator of some important lessons that have to be learned. And as i said before this aspect can be very difficult and upleasant, beacause it can be present in a synastry of people that really are very different and uncompatible, almost on the that edge where they can't stand eachother. The NN connections however bind them together, they make them endure and i a way reinforce the relationship, because these people unconsciously try to learn from eachother, they insist in the relationship cuz they will sooner or later have to learn this lesson in order to move on.

For example my mother and my brother have NN/Sun conjunction. Now they are like almost a condradiction when together. It wasn't always like that, but as my brother became older and really started to give a damn about school the tension between them grew and grew. Today they have a really difficult relationship. They fight over school all the time, and about other things as well. It sorta expanded itself this tension between them to other things as well. They disagree about everything, he doesn't obey her when he is told, he makes her mad and upset. At the same time she is constantly pressuring on him to do that and that and that...Their fights don't seem to end and they have really grown apart. Now there are some really nasty squares in their synastry, but the sun/NN con forces them to handle and solve them. I notice it all the time. From time to time things get better and it seems like they are resolving themselves but than everything shatters again. I think they really need to learn a lot from eachother. I would say that the sun/NN connection would be much more significant in a relationship that has many difficult aspects, as that would imply that there is a great lesson that has to be learned.

In another case i have a friend that i share NN/sun connection a conjunction. There is no attraction between us, but i always sense this need that i have to help her and to make her become more self aware and confident. Now she is really a freak . She is so afraid to express herself, nervous, has so little social or conversational skills. She has very little self confidance and she is shy too. Really sad cuz on top of that she is a control freak, and she has a great need to have her life under control but sadly she hasn't got a strong personality to control anything or anyone whats so ever. Now i remember since highschool everyone rejected her, she gets on everyones nerves, cuz she so nervous herself, always asks a ton of questions, she can never decide or she would just make you really bored if you would talk to her.
I'm not makeing this up its all true. I must admit i really don't like being in her company, for the same reasons, however i am the only one who would take time to talk to her and try to be supportive or try to help. We had so many talks about why she is like that and how she needs to be more relxed open, and a bit more daring and confident. It seems its not so difficult to talk to her if we talk about these things cuz i do most of the talknig . Anyway it seems that i did influenced her cuz she got attached to me and seeks guidence in me, so i guess I am here for her to teach her something and vise versa perhaps.

MY point here is that NN connections are very important but they would manifest themselves in many way, do not think of them as some romantic lovey dovey aspects. They are LIFE LESSONS aspects and tell us in what way people need to grow spiritualy and personaly. I think both my cases show exactly what i mean. When such NN connection is present in a longlasting relationship or marriage, it is definitely of some romantic nature, but that is mostly because all of the synastry aspects sorta blend together, and what we feel for someone else is most of the time a mixture of many emotions. NN aspects in a loving relationship also signify mutual growth, which will probably be carried out with the support of true love between both partners. Their common path of growth we'll be highlighted by their love for one another for the bigger part.

posted June 02, 2009 05:33 PM         

I also have a younger friend with whom i share a AC/NN connection. Since i don't know his exact birthtime, but its between midnight and half past midnight. Tha makes the aspect vary in orb. Nevertheless there is such great understanding between us, like we would known eachother for a long time. When i frst saw him when we met i knew immediately i know him from somewhere, he seemed so familiar, it was incredible. I think of him as a younger brother, and i'm really fond of him. We can talk about everything, we understand eachother completely, almost like we share the same mind.

posted June 02, 2009 06:02 PM         

My ex and I had so many NN conjunctions within 2 degree orbs to personal planets and he is the biggest lesson of my life. He is an ongoing lesson as he continues to make my life he'll, well he tries.

I wouldn't do a NN conjunct relationship again actually. This one almost killed me - literally.