posted June 15, 2009 02:13 AM              

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People should relise Virgos are the picky arse holes of the Zodiac by now, thats why some of us end up either miserable or very happy because we met someone who held up to are high standards..-_-;

Also there are no in betweens for Virgos, there is either very miserable Virgos or Happy Virgos..

Ok I am going to end this on a positive note, Virgos are very caring individuals..sometimes the pickiness and worry comes from caring way too much.

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posted June 15, 2009 02:20 AM            

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It's interesting how we Virgos tend to zoom in on a person's unattractive quality when we're ready to get over them. I've done the same thing too.
We're good at picking it apart when we need to move on. I kind of have to force myself to do the same thing if I really like/love someone because I always see them as perfect if I'm into them (my Neptune in the 7th house tends to do that ).. so eventually I have no choice in a way but to completely dismantle them lol

The whole foot thing reminds me of the movie 'Boomerang' LOL

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posted June 15, 2009 02:33 AM            

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I respectfully disagree, Cheshire.

We aren't picky I feel, and that is a problem.
We BECOME picky because we tend to NOT discriminate in the first place... and that's what gets us into trouble. We love unconditionally those who need us and those who need to be loved. When they bite the hand that feeds, we tend to pick them apart after they hurt us and treat us like crap.

So we overcompensate for not being picky at all... and end up looking like the pickiest ones in the zodiac wheel.
I don't know how well I relate to Virgos in general though, which just a sun there and nothing else.

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posted June 15, 2009 02:51 AM              

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We are capable of the most geniune compassion I agree

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posted June 15, 2009 02:53 AM            

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Our compassion screw us lol

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posted June 15, 2009 03:00 AM              

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Lol sometimes I've noticed while visiting my Aqua cousin and her Virgo husband(most compassionate caring man in her life) and today at the park she said "Marry a good husband but make sure he does not work at a daycare"

He loves kids so much and works with kids and as a Sag son but my Aqua cousin believes he has no time for his Sag sun..so yes our compassion screws us at times XD

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posted June 15, 2009 03:03 AM            

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Cheshire, that kind of sounds like an Aqua thing too.
My mom's an Aqua (double Aqua) and always took care of others, but when it came to immediate family she wasn't around... so I wonder.

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posted June 15, 2009 04:54 AM            

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I started a thread on this subject last year, it's ermm... somewhere.

I cant stand passive aggression, I don't deal well with passive aggressive people, I personally view them as cowards. Either have the balls to say something/act directly or keep quiet!!!!

Mars in Sag conjunct Cap Sun & Pluto square Sun will not allow me to even consider acting this way....

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posted June 15, 2009 07:58 AM            

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Just following from Cheshire & MVM's conversation about Virgo. From my observation, it is the Virgo that has such high expectations of themselves that they kind of pre-empt any negativity (or imperfection) on the part of someone else. So they're so focussed on themselves being imperfect that they compensate for that in their observations on everything else. Like - they're sense of imperfection in themselves colours their vision of everything.

I have Pluto and South Node in Virgo in 6th so I tend to regress into that pattern, especially when I'm anxious about something. It's like this uncomfortable auto pilot.

I find Aquarians to be deeply caring - enormously compassionate. Even with that sense of distance/detachment - on the whole, they care deeply about people and the world. That's how I've experienced Aquas.

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posted June 15, 2009 08:03 AM            

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What ticks me off about people?

Snobiness.

Astrologically, Aqua Moon in 11th. I see everyone as being equal. Maybe Pisces North Node in 12th. The ideal that we all live together peacefully and in equal worth and place. Uranus opposite Sun, Chiron & AC. Struggling with self-worth issues most of my life - it's a personal thing to want everyone to feel good about themselves.

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posted June 15, 2009 12:16 PM            

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Amowls, you seem hyper critical yourself and yet in absolute denial of it.

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That's the thing about hating criticalness, you get called out for being judgmental about it lol.

Idk, it just really rubs me the wrong way. My friends do it a lot (I have a lot of Virgo friends actually). And they do it in a way that's not just an observation or w/e, they do it in a "I'm better than them way." I used to participate and then I decided to make a conscious effort not to. I realized that most of what my friends said stemmed from insecurities within themselves, so instead of sending that energy outward, it's better to focus on yourself and fix whatever problems you have. I have one friend that will even yell "YOU'RE FAT! HAHA!" at a complete stranger. VOMIT. It's just rude.

I'm not trying to attack anyone. I'd take passive aggressiveness over outright nastiness any day. People like to pass off meanness as "brutal honesty" so they can get props for it, when reality none of it is really necessary, it's just a way for people to feel better about themselves.

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And that's a good example for what I said in this thread, here is a woman "A Taurus" mind you, gorgeous, tall, long black hair, beautiful face, I was dying over her ... That whole idea changed in a split of a second.

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that was hilarious, Virgoh! I think I need my own fetish to fall out of love quickly it is actually a very good idea!

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posted June 16, 2009 07:44 PM            

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i hate or really can't stand people who don't have an opinion. i mean an actual opinion. say yes or say no. i hate those who answer with a question or are vague or need to be the devil's advocate all the time.

i also can't stand rigid people. like they can't think outside of the box or can't do it a different way from what they're used to or their brains will explode.

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posted June 16, 2009 08:39 PM            

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I frequent/lurk on a male dominated forum sometimes and it just made me realize something else.....

I'm sick of guys who want others to overlook their own imperfections, but still expect all women to be supermodels. Double standards like that grates on my nerves....perhaps its my dual gemini venus or 7th house sun?

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posted June 16, 2009 08:52 PM            

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Male-dominated? You mean I been flirting wi blokes?

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posted June 16, 2009 08:55 PM            

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LOL, its a sports forum (futebol/soccer specifically) so about 98% of people who post there are.....not female.

*edit* Oh my bad, you thought I meant *this* forum. I apologize, was a gramatical mistake I made.

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posted June 16, 2009 08:58 PM              

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so in essence .. going by this and other similar thread subjects ..
what knowflakes hate or dislike ..

be .. other people ..

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** i hate or really can't stand people who don't have an opinion. **
then ..
** i also can't stand rigid people.**

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posted June 16, 2009 08:59 PM            

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OK. I was gonna say. They seem very female on here or just good actors if that was the case.

Yeah, I go on football forums. Very male atmosphere. Quite good at times. Funny too. especially if youre a woman and want to get into the male mindset. Like a bloke reading a womans magazine. Ive seen what you women read about!

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posted June 16, 2009 09:05 PM            

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I usually go there for football-related news and stuff but sometimes I end up wandering to their Miscellaneous section (the equivalent of LindalandCentral). I have to admit that it can be funny sometimes....I can't tell you how many times I've rolled over certain members comments and thread topics but at the same time, they remind me of why I'll always be single: I don't look like Tyra Banks, I rarely wear heals, I'm not a size 2, etc, etc.

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Yeah, I get annoyed with passive-aggressive people. I had a former friend who was a Sag Sun/Cancer Moon. I really had to walk on eggshells around her. One minute she would be cheerful, funny and snarky. The next minute she would be in tears, throwing books against the wall, and she wouldn't say what was wrong. I don't think she even knew. It was so draining to be around her, so I had to cut ties with her and move on.

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posted June 19, 2009 11:27 AM            

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The fact that close-minded people throws stones to people who does something differently, yet then open-minded people throws stones to others who just don't follow the trends. Why are we always throwing stones to each other.. whyyy..

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posted June 19, 2009 07:19 PM            

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Leaping we've established a while ago that you are a hottie allover

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