posted June 30, 2009 02:41 AM         

It's important that you also give your moon sign, and any conjunctions to your moon, or squares, or oppositions, or trines, etc....

I'd like to know not only your moon sign and house, but also, your moon's general condition within the framework of your natal chart. Or, if you want, just show your chart, and I'll take a run at describing your mom.

posted June 30, 2009 02:50 AM         

All planets are within 120 degrees of each other, except the Moon, which opposes the middle planet - Pluto. It really is the focus of my natal, and placed in house 3, depending on which house system you use.

posted June 30, 2009 02:54 AM         

Moon trine Venus, and Neptune, maybe you idolize her, or think she's the kindest most lovely person you know. Oppose Pluto, she may challenge you and make you feel like you need to change drastically in order to earn her love or approval...?

Pluto in the 3rd house oppose moon, you have very different communicating styles.

posted June 30, 2009 03:14 AM         

Felt good because I could talk with her about...almost anything. Same with my Gran.

Idolize? Yes, sometimes. If anyone tried to hit me or shout at me etc, she would get something like get a rolling pin/baseball bat and go try and hit the other person, obviously stopped along the way.

Yeah, she did attempt to change me, obviously didnt work. I guess controlling is more the word.

She is dead now. Very much the Pluto description

posted June 30, 2009 04:20 AM         

I have no memory of so much as one hug, if we were expected to give her a kiss goodbye she would turn her head and reel backwards. She has very little contact with any of her children these days.

posted June 30, 2009 05:03 AM         

It can also be seen in my Moon/BML/Pluto conjunction. Moon separating from Pluto, I find this significant, moving away from the damage of the past.

My Moon is Libra, hers is Aries. Different emotionally but my dad says we have the same fiery temperament. We both have Mars CNJ NN - I only have a window time of birth for her (given off a much older sister) but it is likely hers is also Square the Ascendant. It would make a lot of sense.

How do we get on? Put us in a room together for a couple of hours and we will argue, see above. But you will be waiting a long time if you are after some public criticism. She gave/gives grand/motherhood 100% effort so that would be unfair.

Just as I wrote that bit last bit I thought...Libra Moon.

posted June 30, 2009 05:09 AM         

My mom, to my opinion, is the best mother in the world. She is not perfect and she has made a lot of mistakes, but I respect her more and more each day. She did so much for me. She sacrificed so many things so that I could be happy, so that I can have a chance at life. She did not always make decisions that I liked, but all her decisions were based on the love she had for me.

posted June 30, 2009 11:16 AM         

MIDPOINTS:
oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint in 3'28 Virgo
semisquare Sun/Pluto - '05
semisquare Mars/Midheaven - '23
sesquiquadrate Venus/Ascendant - '33

ALIGNMENTS WITH FIXED STARS:
Alpha Pisces Australis,Fomalhaut in 3'28 Pisces

KUIPER BELT OBJECTS
trine Ixion in 5'25 Scorpio in 2nd
trine Quaoar in 2'22 Scorpio in 2nd
square Varuna in 3'01 Gemini Retrograde in 9th
sextile Sedna in 2'06 Taurus Retrograde in 8th

RIGHT ASCENSION (Equatorial Longitude)
semisquare Eris - '07

My mom had me at 17 years old, and so not a lot of age difference. A white woman had me by a black man who was out out of our lives when I was a year old. I had a love and hate relationship with my mom. She fed me,clothed,and all the other things that mom's do. She was very abusive both verbally and physically. She was very judgmental. She would cuss at me a lot and call me names. If I made mistakes or not do things right, she would call me things like dumb-ass". She was very impatient with me...especially in my special education years. As I got older into my teens, I would anger by getting "smart" with her.
She was married to a man 25 years older than her, and he was very controlling to both of us. I felt like even though she said that she got with him to take care of me when I was 3 years old, she put him over me. I kinda hated her for that. She finally broke up with him when I was 18.
If I ever spoke up for myself, I either got hit,cussed at, or called "selfish". As a teenager,I did questioned and challenged her authority. As far as I was concerned,I didn't feel like I should respect her if she didn't respect me.

In the navy, I sorta distanced myself from her, but sent her money when she asked me. She had history of drug/alcohol problems. It was at 25 years old, I realized that I was abused and that made me very resentful.

After her father's suicide, it kinda united me with her. I felt sorry for her loss. She never knew her mother just like I never knew my father,and she wasn't close to her stepmother who was only 13 years older than her. She was in 13 fosterhomes too. I experienced her as very emotionally unstable,moody,hypersensitive (to be fair,I do believe that part of it is her neurodivergence and the post-traumatic stress that she suffered when she was shot when she was 20,and I was 3. I with her at the time.). She had another child when she was 15 before she met my father,and he was put up for adoption. She didn't tell me the truth until I was 21 years old.

My mom has Diabetes and Hepatitis C now, and so I feel sorry for her. I even feel guilty. When I was growing up, I'd wish bad things would happen to her because of her abuse towards me. I try not resent her for the past. In March 2006, I forgave her for abusing me.

I don't hesitate to when she needs money. She knows that she can count on me. She has special needs,and so I help out. It sorta mirrors her having me as a special education needs child,and my needing special care/attention. That factored into her being smothering and overprotective that it was unbearable.

I love my mother,and she loves me.

but if there was deeply karmic relationship between a parent and child, I'd say that my mother and I have one.

posted June 30, 2009 09:38 PM         

My mother and I have a truly excellent relationship now, but during my adolescence I was really rebellious and did a lot of things that upset her. I left home at 19 and then moved around a lot. My restlessness really got to my mother, and she always interpreted my need to GO as lack of love for our tight knit family.

posted June 30, 2009 11:48 PM         

She's a Scorpio w/ Leo Moon.

She took me to a lot of places. But whatever I was doing she thought I ought to be doing the opposite. Why don't you go join the other kids. Stop that and go sit over there. Don't ask for anything when we go into the store. Whenever I was having fun, to see or hear her was my cue to stop.

She immigrated when I was ten years old. All her letters would end on a negative note...behave. At twenty-three she move to when I was staying with my father and his kids. Wanted to get an apartment, resisted. Three years later, I cut off I communication and moved away so I can live my life.

Generally, I remember her as being really mean and unsupportive to my real needs. As a Gemini this means communication, discourse, or just talking. I got a lot of "No" from her. Often she would flat out ignore me. Perhaps this is just my knowledge of Scorpios, but she love making me cry, often in front of company when I was feeling quite confident, and letting my Saggie moon do it's thing.

posted July 01, 2009 07:30 AM         

Moon opposes neptune on my ÝC from 3rd/4th cusp

Saturn and pluto trine moon from first.

Venus sextile from 12th

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