posted July 12, 2009 07:42 AM         

For instance how would person A NN conjunct person B saturn be different to person A NN square person B saturn.

It seems to me that a relationship with many aspects to the nodes can be quite uncomfortable, yet being the NN person in many of these aspects I can't help but be drawn in. Its really quite draining. I'm wondering if the planet person has any idea that this is how he is making me feel, and if he is feeling any of it. We work closely together.

His sun conjunct my NN
His moon conjunct my NN
His mercury conjunct my NN
His neptune trine my NN
His pluto sextile my NN
His vertex opposite my NN

My sun square his NN
My saturn square his NN
My vertex sextile his NN

posted July 12, 2009 08:11 AM         

His sun conjunct my NN (3)
His moon conjunct my NN (0)
His mercury conjunct my NN (3)
His neptune trine my NN (4)
His pluto sextile my NN (2)
His vertex opposite my NN (2)

posted July 12, 2009 08:16 AM         

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Here's an article that might shed some light... http://www.zodiacal.com/articles/geisler/dragon.htm

A summary:

Their North Node conjunct your sun: This relationship is planted firmly in the future and encompasses all levels of your life. Dynamic and powerful irregardless of how long the relationship physically lasts. They remain with you, in some form, for a long time into the future. Their south node conjunct your sun: A dynamic partner from your past who can shed light on your inherent strengths.

Their north node conjunct your moon: They seep in and affect your emotional levels and subconscious. Anytime the north node connects it can bring far reaching longevity to the relationship. Irregardless your emotional and inner reaches are forever affected because of your meeting. You will never forget this person.
Their south node conjunct your moon: This feels incredibly familiar and either extremely safe and comforting or disconcerting. Can indicate a strong, emotional bond from your past.

A nodal tie to Mercury often initiates a conversational tie or a classroom introduction. Today's internet is definitely a Mercury contact and when an acquaintance is begun there, expect to see some Mercury activation. If the relationship develops and deepens and endures, look for the nodes to be at work.

Their north node conjunct your mercury: Empowers your dynamic thought processes, imagination and ability to communicate your future with others and with yourself. Usually remains at least a good friendship far into the future.
Their south node conjunct your mercury: Indicates a karmic friendship or sibling relationship in the past. Can restructure your view of your own past and creative processes.

When the north node falls on the Venus of one person, it shows benefit to both. When the south node falls on Venus, it shows the Venus person does a lot of giving. The node person has to work hard to match it, or the relationship gets lopsided quickly.

Their north node conjunct your Venus: Gears you towards love in some manner and can turn into a very long term union. Love will always be the most important facet of this friendship even if that remains unspoken. Good for channeling your artistic abilities as well.

Their south node conjunct your Venus: This was undoubtedly a lover in your past and will bring forward subconscious and soul based memories of that. If strong future ties occur it will help you understand what course the relationship will take this time. Often means you are learning about living thru different types of relationships with a beloved friend.

Their north node conjunct your mars: This is about relighting your drive and propulsion in terms of attaining your future. Tends to be a dynamic, motivating and driving relationship. If you've been apathetic or lazy about moving forward this should inspire you. not always an easy relationship but it empowers you in one way or the other.
Their south node conjunct your mars: This usually comes into play between old karmic friends and its about learning to reorganize and/or hold back on your inner drives. It's a controlling influence and therefore not necessarily a comfortable one.

Their Saturn falls on your north node gives you good advice and will be a help to you at some important time in your life. These are excellent contacts between you and someone who serves your needs-a nurse, a financial advisor, a lawyer, or the like.

Saturn to the south node is a practically unbreakable tie in this life. It shows some important lessons will be learned through the relationship and it will bring heavy obligation at some point.

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posted July 12, 2009 09:25 AM         

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I really don’t know what lessons I’m supposed to be learning. It really is spinning my brain out.

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It's like working it out - and then doing it - makes it all go away. Unfortunately, it never works that way. I know! I have the scars too. Sometimes it's best just to step back and let it unfold in it's own way - and just trust that it's all working out in your favour. That's my experience with these things.

You'll know what to do and what is right for you - whether socialising or not outside of work. Trust yourself - that you can handle this.

posted July 12, 2009 09:37 AM         

At first I thought I was lucky that this person is in my life. I felt happy and it was just good. I couldn't get enough of him around me. But now, I feel uncomfortable but I still need to be around him, but I know its not good for me so I try not to be. I feel like he holds alot back from me and I don't really think I trust him as such.

posted July 12, 2009 11:25 AM         

In his intro/guidelines to his Soul Mate calculator, IQ mentions that the calculator may be invalidated for people that close in age.

It's true that people very close in age share certain life experiences that may make their relationship more gluey...but if you're trying to understand that type of relationship, I suggest looking mostly at very tight, 0-1 degree aspects.

posted July 13, 2009 12:31 AM         

His NN trine my mars -- 8 mins
His NN trine my jupiter -- 1*
His NN opposite my Pluto -- 42 minutes

My NN opp his moon
My NN sextile his venus -- 22 mins

I guess a lot of these are generational, but we had a weird bondy type of relationship. We also fought a lot!

We have a lot of other contacts too, even with orbs reduced to 55%. A lot of pluto - 13 aspects with 55% orb. I am the pluto person, racking up nine of them, haha.