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From: az
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posted July 23, 2009 02:04 PM         

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open relationship??!
hell no.. she would probably kill him

humans are not monogamous but they think they are, or should be

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posted July 23, 2009 02:08 PM         

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True. Better to be honest about it than lie and cheat, though.

At least he's being honest with YOU (or it sounds like it anyway)....

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she would probably kill him

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With good reason (not literally, but)...he is really wronging, betraying, lying to, manipulating, and shaming her, which is enormously cruel and wrong just on human terms. If he doesn't care for her enough to be faithful and honest, or even just honest, he should let her go.

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From: az
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posted July 23, 2009 02:21 PM         

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totally with u on that one, Lucia.
i need to teach him basic concepts like respect and truth.
if he does that to women is bcs deep down he does it to himself first

i knew i would end up being his healer..
ah that chiron in his chart opposite my moon..

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posted July 23, 2009 03:06 PM         

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I guess that it's often so easy to simply generalize human behavior in the name of being "realistic", yet isn't it a bit pessimistic or even lazy (just finding generalizations as excuses)? ^_~; People can be monogamous or polygamous, it just depends on each person. Besides, there are scientific reasons behind monogamy too. The most obvious one is that the couple could raise their children better, with more resources (it's easier to raise the children together than alone). Also, if both sides doesn't have any more partners, they could center their attention/resources to their children only.

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