posted September 04, 2009 06:31 AM         

lionseye - i bet you are a bad mamma jamma

i agree. no point in jealousy. mistrust or pss off...that we can get.

territorial - unbelievably so, but we can solve that with the "look" when infringed upon.. most leos have perfected the "look" by age 7. with "the look" we can take care of business without even saying a word, and back off is pretty much the best bet.

actually my first born leo child perfected "the look" by age 3.

posted September 04, 2009 09:01 AM         

You mentioned something in another thread that I thought I should bring up in this thread because it pertained to territory: You said that your exes are off limits to friends - I guess that is where my Aquarius rising and Saturn in the 8th comes in, I actually hooked up one of my exes with one of my friends! My ex and I had ended things amicably and remained friends but he used to call me so much that I was like "here is my friend's number..." now leave me alone! They were (pre-)engaged for a short time and joked that I would be the maid of honor and best woman!

posted September 04, 2009 09:05 AM         

i thought it was an unwritten woman law.

if they like my stuff they can have my old sweaters.

i in no way judge you for it, but when you have a best girlfriend you tend to discuss your relationships time to time. and even sex life from time to time. and no i dont want my girlfriends on my old boat with my ex husband listening to my old cd's.

they can all go jump in the lake.

posted September 04, 2009 09:08 AM         

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i dont fish in my friends old ponds.

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I don't do that either - I can't see myself dating any of my friends exes (shudders, eww) but she's an up for anything Sag, it wasn't a big deal to her.

ETA: Plus it was with my permission, I had control over this, not sure how I'd feel if they met up in a bar one night or something but since I was the matchmaker, hey, go for it! LOL

posted September 10, 2009 02:49 AM         

As for jealousy...not really there. Why would you stray? If you did, you're not the one for them.

but don't expect them to condone you hanging out with the opposite sex all the time either. They're not foolish...things happen...and a respectable person wouldn't make them wonder like that in the first place. You won't go far if you insist on having opposite sex freinds who you hang out with constantly. Especially if they come into the picture AFTER we're together. Yeah, no.

posted September 10, 2009 03:45 AM         

thanks lionseye! yup i think i'm really starting to comprehend now. it is, in a sense, almost the opposite of jealousy. because it's an energy that is full of confidence and esteem. both for self and others. jealousy infers weakness and a lack.

with my 'significant' 'other' this week i had a couple instances where i felt a jealous moment beginning and then immediately thought, 'holy sh*t, i really AM better than this.' and it was that simple. 'and furthermore, if you do not realize just how great i am, then you have got problems as i will not scramble for your affections.'

posted September 10, 2009 06:37 AM         

i think thats why its hard for leos and geminis to be together....geminis have tons of friends the opposite sex and generally don't see the danger in it until the line has been crossed. leo's see it coming. if you go out drinking with the girls from work, sooner or later ...crap happens......plus, we do not want our signifiacnt other discussing any relationship issues we might be having with anyone, let alone another woman.

whoa's story of the bully leo though....i guess some leo's have that....i had a leo boss that was a bully for 8 years...she was rediculus.... would throw her weight around, stomp, yell in the office, pawn her work off and head to st croix for 3 weeks at a time..she was very heavy too, and when i would hear her stomp down the hall, i would sing
(...i feel the earth ...move .....under my feet, i feel the sky tumbling down tumbeling down)
.....she hated me (literally) because i didnt respond to her when she acted like that, she would yell at me and act like she actually wanted to hit me and i would just look at her, like how rediculas you are...and that just made her madder. she had no class at all. when i quit and gave my notice, she actually told me to just leave now as i had plenty of vacation time i should just leave now. i put up with it for 8 years because it paid well, and i liked the job, she was the administrator, i was the director. your story reminded me that there are obnoxious leo's who bully thier way through life...

posted September 10, 2009 10:59 AM         

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When you say you love them, they actually believe you.

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Yes, exactly! Honesty is a big priority to us. Most Leos really respect it, even if it doesn't stroke our egos and we aren't so happy with the truth.