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Topic: When Libra criticizes....
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Fiery_Water
Knowflake Posts: 6
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Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 12:44 PM
 
I get so hurt.. I am a pisces..But how can you hear a man criticize something to do without ur wearing or ur weight, and then be expected to be oh so normal with him and not feel unattractive.... I feel like it almosts hurts their eye if sthg is out of proportion... It might sound like the most illogical thing in the world.... but I dunno anyone here so I am allowed to be illogical - and if I lie to my friends, I cant lie to myself But i dont want to go away with my friends this weekend because I cant forget how my libra friend cringed and frowned when I showed him my picture at school and said that I was so fat in an almost disgusted manner... IP: Logged |
starkiss1
Knowflake Posts: 135
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Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 12:57 PM
Hi, F_W, and you call him your friend? Where is your fire?!!  IP: Logged |
blue moon
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: U.K
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 01:01 PM
I think you are being quite reasonable. You aren't an aesthetic object, you are a person. Is he always like this?
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 174
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Registered: May 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 01:41 PM
What's his Venus sign?IP: Logged |
carl
Knowflake Posts: 196
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 01:56 PM
Hmm, the libras I have known are blunt and tell it like it is, but also LOVE to play devils advocate. Usually their opinion is harmless in the end, just a little blunt for some peoples tastes. I trust the libras I know to tell me the truth though.Just stating my experience. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 618
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 01:59 PM
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and said that I was so fat in an almost disgusted manner...
Mature Librans wouldn't say something as undiplomatic as this.IP: Logged |
DD
Knowflake Posts: 1362
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 02:59 PM
That`s neither straightforward nor honest, that is plainly rude and offensive imo.REally, if my friends would approach me in such a manner, I don`t know how long they would stay my friends. I need to feel completely at ease with my friends, and I couldn`t do that anymore. Having said that of course I also value honesty, but I prefer it in a caring and loving manner, not like you or I don`t fit a stereotype and seriously, how can a friend be "disgusted" about you, or anything you wear or how you look?
How much of a true friend is that? (but of course I expect very much from my friends, I admit=
Oh and of course you are going to go out this weekend, no matter if with your friends or on your own.
But noone should drag you down that much, and if you go oiut, you will see, that noone else will even notice or care.
BTW you did tell your Libra friend that he needs to polish his manners, didn`t you?
And that, if he doesn`t know how to say something constructive, he should the hell shut up? You did that, right?
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Plutonian Persona
Knowflake Posts: 100
From: Denver, CO, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 07:23 PM
You need to get away from this guy as soon as possible. Anyone who disrespects you by calling you fat is not worth your time or energy. You deserve much better.------------------
"The only way out is through" ---Robert Frost Pluto conjunct Sun & ASC
Pluto sextile Mars
Pluto square MC
1st house Scorpio Stellium: Moon, Venus, Uranus and Mercury. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 1171
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 07:37 PM
This isn't a Libra thing, this is an a--hole thing.Life is too short to be around people who put you down, and knowing that you are a Pisces also with fire, I am confident that many of the world's human beings (including some of those Libra aesthetes out there) will love you unconditionally AND like you and fill you with positive energy. Ditch that Libra. IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 121
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 02:05 AM
Criticalness (is there such a word?) is not a sun factor unless you're talking about someone with sun in Virgo. Yes we Virgos are naturally more critical than others, and the wise ones among us learn to keep our critical thoughts to ourselves, lest we want to be voted off the island called earth.  For other signs, look at Venus, Moon, Mercury placement and aspects. I know a man with Saturn square moon, and he is VERY critical of his wife, but very tolerant of other people. People with Saturn squaring my sun or moon or other personal planets tend to be very critical of me. IP: Logged |
Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 262
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Registered: May 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 06:17 AM
I thought it was Sags who were the blunt ones, though often innocently so. Anyway, I wouldn't call that Libran. Nor would I put up with it. IP: Logged |
Dee
Knowflake Posts: 276
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 01:12 PM
It sounds Like a control freak. Next thing he'll tell you is how lucky you are to have himIP: Logged |
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