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Topic: Chiron in relationships
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staborgi Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:49 AM
Does anyone have experience with Chiron in terms of synastry and/or composites? Or knowledge about this? IP: Logged |
neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 08:27 AM
staborgi,This old link from LL might be useful: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/002165.html I am very interested in Chiron in synastry and find that Magi Astrology has a lot of good information. Magi cite Chiron as having monumental importance for astrology because it is 'the "planet" that rules marriage, spouses, soulmates, and children born in marriage as well as karmic ties'. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 02:08 PM
first off ,i don't agree with magi about many of their chiron comments relating to relationships.and i don't think it rules marriage,spouse etc.i have never found in composite readings that chiron has any influence on marriages other than breaking them up.i once read on magi that they were using celebrity marriages to point out chirons effect in relationships.but get real,hollywood celebrities as a standard for marriages.you don't get to be a star of either sex by standing on your feet in hollywood.the sexual standards are so perverse there that i can't see the connection to "normal" peoples marriages. sorry for the tirade . but as to your question .... trines to chiron in composite does show the potential to heal emotional issues in relationships especially issues from past relationships. but square and oppositions to chiron are usually destructive because the show the infliction of emotional issues.depending on the planets involved,chiron shows where malicious and abusive criticism will arise. chiron square mars for instances shows that inspite of intimacy there will be actions that belittle attempts to emotionally bond.with mercury squares there will be a critical attitude that tries to beat down the others self esteem through cynical criticism.again chiron can have a healing affect but 90% of the time it inflicts emotional issues that need to be healed in the future. todd IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 02:21 PM
Thanks neptune, I've seen that thread but thought it was kind of brief and concentrated on the magi stuff which is personally not what I have experience with... And thank you Todd for your knowledge. Yeah I can't say I've seen these amazingly romantic relationships necessarily in Chiron contacts...I've got a strong Chiron in my natal and experience it as something more difficult so I'm skeptical. I read something brief by Liz Greene that talked about Chiron (at least in synastry) being something more of an expression of anger as connected with wounds...she described it like the way a wounded animal often responds to someone trying to help it- it lashes out, not really realizing you mean well. So yes, I'm interested in hearing people's ACTUAL experiences with Chiron in synastry and composites. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 02:24 PM
I am with Todd on this. Man...he reminds me of William for some reason. He was very insightful when it came to composite charts. He told it like it was. He didn't sugarcoat at all. I believe Magi Society cherry picks too much
They are not original either. For instance, their use of Magi Quads (midpoints in conjunction,opposition to midpoints) is straight out of the Hamburg School/Uranian Astrology. Chiron is one of 60 centaur objects in our solar system. More than 10 of them have names. One of them is Chariklo named after Chiron's wife, and it is largest of them all. There is another one called Okyrhoe,and that was named after the daughter of Chiron and Chariklo. Magi Society doesn't consider any of Chiron's fellow centaurs. They say that Sedna is the evil planet. That's ridiculous. Sedna was discovered in 2003 too. Why didn't they bother to use the other other transneptunian objects that were discovered before Sedna. Varuna,Ixion,and Quaoar were discovered before Sedna. Orcus was discovered around the same time as Sedna too. They have not mentioned the other dwarf planets, Eris,Makemake,and Haumea. It's hard to take the system seriously.
they even act like they invented the 7th harmonic charts. The Magi 7 charts. Raymond
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neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 02:28 PM
Interesting tirade, Todd. Do you have any of your own personal experience of Chiron in synastry which you'd like to share? Chiron is very prominent in my chart and I am learning to work with the energies. Chiron has been known as the 'wounded healer', with obvious themes of wounding and healing. I feel strongly that (positive) Chiron linkages are required in relationships as they help healing to take place at a very deep soul level - transformational. And yes, they can wound too. No relationship is perfect, people carry with them wounds of all types. staborgi, I can highly recommend 'Chiron, Healing Body & Soul' by Martin Lass. I was eagerly searching quite a few years ago and was lucky enough to come across this book. IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 02:42 PM
neptune, thanks for the tip. Where is Chiron in your chart? Mine is conjunct my IC and opp. my Venus/Uranus/Neptune at my MC. I've still not learned enough about Chiron to understand its exact manifestations but I do FEEL it. I'm interested in someone who has a similarly placed Chiron in his chart, and thus our composite carries this prominent Chiron as well, so yeah I'm curious.IP: Logged |
neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:05 PM
You're welcome, staborgi, I think you'll find it insightful. It is conjunct my Moon, so very personalised. There's reference to the wounds manifesting through relationships with the opposition to Venus - being aware that our partner is a perfect mirror of everything we have yet to love about ourselves, the negatives and the positives. All this subsequently plays out in intimate relationships. What Chiron aspects show in your composite chart? IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1035 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:24 PM
What does Chiron square the Asc and trine Saturn mean in a composite? Oh, it also semi-sextiles True Node and Mars and sesquisquares Mercury. I'm clueless. 
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neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:31 PM
btw, staborgi, your Chiron conjunction to the IC hints at the ability to possibly pursue healing as a life path, for yourself and for others. IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:38 PM
glaucus, i appreaciate your insights to magi as i have also thought that they appropriate ancient concepts as their own.and okay you got me ,this is another incarnation.it is a long story but i have penchant for unnamed net authorities closing my email etc.. chiron square the ascendant would indicate that both people are very acute intellectually and possibily over analysis the relationship.the trine to chiron is favorable because it indictae these critical evaluations can be implemented into the relationship versus say chiron square saturn which would imply the critical nature would detract from the relationship if not destroy it.of course i give chiron co- rulership of capricorn and aquarius. the sesquiquadrate to mercury shows a relationship with a strong analytic/critical bend.this can lead to incessant bickering in a negative way.with this aspect it is necessary to be upfront at all times.any questions arising about the relationship should immediately be dealt with .i have found that chiron is very affirmative to "correct and accurate" analysis but if there are any contradictions,omissions or inconsistancies,then chiron becomes very short and critical.as long as the truth is served chiron seems to be beneficient but at the slightest,i mean slightest, incongruity in logic ,chiron becomes negative.with the sesquiquadrate between mercury and chiron, any arguments usually end up with no resolution ,only distance and silence between the two. the semisextiles are a bit harder to anticipate because they are aspects of consciousness ,by which i mean they are passive aspect but with application of will these aspects become functional.the semisextile can give one the resources associates with a conjunction.but with no intent the aspect does not seem to function on its own.the inconjunct and the semisextile ,in my experience, are the aspects most activated by focus of the will. so mars semisextile would imply ,in a positive manifestation,an inherent sensitivity to the partners emotional issues and actions to soothe any emotional afflictions. as to the true node,it's characteristics are variable from one person to another as there is a strong karmic factor so comments on the node should proceed only after a through analysis of the relationship ,and of both individuals separately.the afffects of the node vary so greatly from karma to karma that it is difficult to make generalizations about it. todd IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1035 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 03:51 PM
Thank you very much, Todd. IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 04:09 PM
neptune i work much more with composites than synastry so from personal experiences in my composites i have found the chiron square mercury can give opinions that may be the opposite but with an agreement on the means of analysis.again i have found that as long as analysis is coherent in the system presented,chiron is very accurate. but an contradiction in application of ideas is not tolerated.it is kind of like agreeing to disagree but with the difference that the means or technique of resolution of opposite opinions is agreed upon.not sure that makes sense but another similie is like to different opinions being the two sides of a coin and acknowledging that there is a mutual meeting point at the edge of the coin.LOL that probably just increased the head scratching. toddIP: Logged |
neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 04:23 PM
Todd,Yep, that makes sense. Chiron Sq. Mercury in composite could be a little frustrating and unstable in day-to-day interactions however! I feel that words could be used as a weapon against the other with this placement perhaps? Very difficult for self expression, but not impossible to overcome if two people are highly evolved, as you seem to be. Which house is your Chiron natally placed? IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 765 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 04:23 PM
Todd, can I ask your opinion about Chiron oppose Uranus in the composite please? Also, how different is this aspect in a composite of a love relationship and a composite of a family relationship? I'm curious coz I have this within some of my family composites, but I can't understand Chiron's nature well. >_<IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 05:27 PM
neptune yeas thatis true ,the words could become very destructive but in this composite there was a strong venus influence which seemed to keep the bitterness away when it when down hill. my placement is chiron in the ninth square mercury/sun in the sixth .hers was chiron in 12th square to mercury/jupiter in the fourth.it think it helped that in the composite, chiron was trine to jupiter and then there was a inordinate amount of time spent on helping each other try to understand abusive emotional issues.so we used the healing aspect of chiron a lot.hi comica this opposition of uranus and chiron turn up a lot in charts of people interested in astrology.i think this is due to uranus's rulership of astrology and with the mythology of chiron as he was taught many thing by apollo including astrology. it is difficult to separate the influences of chiron in this opposition,so i rely heavily on the aspect to this.if this pattern is not heavily aspected ,i don't refer to it too much.another factor is that this opposition tended to form and reform over a long period of time.i don't consider it a generations aspect like those between say neptune and pluto but i haven't applied statistics to find out if it is significant for astrologers or is just a function of the probabilty of the aspect occurring. but with the close identification to uranus that i place on chiron,this aspect shows a intense critcal dynamic and can also indicate a strong astral/psychic presence.in addition this can give "genius" level insights if the opposition leads to awareness rather than confrontation.then onm the negative side it can show up as very irrational ,argumentative perspectives.unceasingly critical and combative. todd IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 765 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 05:40 PM
Personally, I have Chiron conjunct MC, and forming 2 yods with Sun/Neptune/Pluto (Sun/Chiron sextile quincunx Pluto, and Pluto/Neptune sextile quincunx Chiron - Sun is square to Neptune). In the yods, the quincunx planet is opposed to the sextile planets' midpoints, and in these cases, I often feel that my excess Neptune/Pluto side (or the lack of it too?) would just cause more inner wounds to myself (imagine an artist drowning in her own deep emotional/idealism/transformational stuffs - that's me lol~). Also, my lack of confidence would also affect this, while I feel more healed whenever I feel more confident (Sun sextile Chiron). But well, I feel that the way to deal with these yods is to find the balance between the quincunx planet and the sextile planets (since again, the quincunx planet is opposed to the sextile ones' midpoints).But funny is, in the composite with my bf, the same patterns are repeated here (almost the same degrees too), yet with the Moon involved instead of the Sun. Also, Chiron is on the AC and conjunct North Node. Well, what can I say? Hurts due to feeling lack of care/understanding/compassion (Chiron quincunx Neptune/Pluto and Pluto quincunx Moon/Chiron). And this either triggers emotional insecurities (Moon square Neptune), or the emotional insecurities are the trigger of this. But then in the end, emotional healing (Chiron/Moon sextile). But well, even thought that was kinda hard, so far we have been improving. IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 765 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 05:53 PM
Thank you, Todd. ^_^ Hmm then I guess that on the positive side, it can show high mental connection, yet on the negative side critical/argumentative tone? Actually, Chiron gives me a feeling of Uranus/Saturn flavor, but I'm still not able to get its nature well.IP: Logged |
neptuneinfirst Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 05:56 PM
Todd,Interesting that you both had natal Chiron Square Mercury, it seems there was a need to understand and heal the other. Chiron trine Jupiter is a blessing, I am sure you both helped each other greatly. For some reason I feel you'd be a great teacher by the way, but with Chiron Square Sun in 6th, could this mean that you are going against your ability to heal others in the very choice of your career perhaps, i.e., inner self v outer expression are at odds? IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 25, 2009 06:54 PM
hi comica as i'vde said i give chiron corulership over capricorn/saturn and uranus/aquarius.so there is a strong saturn affinity.this co-rulership is what makes chiron difficult to understand as saturn and uranus are polar opposites yet chiron must tie them together.i feel this is why chiron can turn so negative when contradictions appear.the uranus influence gives the pursuit of truth ,if you will, and the saturn influence give a repressive,critical quality when contradiction appear.it seems like a rubber band stretched to accomodate two opposing dynamics.if clarity is lost it snaps back to the saturn qualities as saturn was the father of chiron just as chiron's orbit passes inside saturns orbit.neptune hmmm well i also have saturn in the 6th which i read about in a rosecrucian astrology book.it indicated that this position of saturn makes it very difficult to be a healer.and i wanted to be a MD from very early in life.though that has not transpired,i do have very strong psychic healing powers and have channeled a few "miraclous" session.but i don't pursue the healing and have only used these energies on a few people throughout my life.that is one "mystery "of chiron/saturn,these symbols do correlate to psychic healings but most often they are abusive rather than healing when their aspects are adverse. of course jupiter at midheaven exactly trine to the sun helps out a lot too todd IP: Logged |
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted September 26, 2009 06:02 PM
neptune yes, so far relationships have had that exact dynamic for me (the mirror aspect). And so far its made relationships very difficult for me...I also have Venus conjunct my Uranus, Saturn, and Neptune which prob adds to that but I think I need to attempt to resolve some of my Chiron issues in relationships...and I've been thinking more and more of teaching as a profession, something in the arts most likely poetry or some kind of writing which I guess goes along with that Chiron at the IC? The composite aspect I noticed right off is that Chiron in Gemini is opposite Venus and Uranus (which are in exact conjunction, a conjunction we both share natally in Sag, also opp our own natal Chirons) and Mars (which is about 7 degrees away from that Ven/Uranus conjunction). On top of that, that Chiron is exactly opposite the midpoint between the Venus/Uranus and Mars. Its also in a wide trine to the Moon and trine Jupiter as well (Moon and Jup are conjunct). Another question I had was in terms of synastry- what do you think a would a Venus/Chiron quincunx denote? thanks again for sharing your knowledge! IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25 Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Portugal Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 29, 2009 10:23 AM
hi Toddi dont know if you saw but on a thread of mine about SR you analysed our composite and so i thank your for that  would you help me on some kiron placements please? quiron is often analised by magi perspective when i try to google on it,so i would very much appreciatte your take on this: Composite C.Kiron on 0 Gem cj C. MC. C.Kiron trines merc/mars/sun and sextile Moon.Semisextiles NN and opose Uranus. i guess those are really good as almost no hard aspect is made.there is a deep healing in both of us since we came together. in my natal i have kiron in Gem 9Th,squaring my sun/Ve in 11h and opose jup/uran in 3rd and also Kiron kikx saturn.it only trines ASC and Merc. - would you say that i have a lot of wounds? also..what would you say about a relationshiop tht has Kiron in 12th : square sun/merc/ mc and kikx saturn/pluto and semiquare NN? thank you for your help on Quiron IP: Logged |
Buzzorific Knowflake Posts: 16 From: Tx, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 16, 2010 09:43 PM
I don't know about they synastry of Chiron, but I do know what it feels like to have Chiron conjunct the descendant and opposing Uranus nataly. From what I've been told, having Chrion on the descendant denotes some psychic ability. I do have some science of the flow of energies around me (see, feel and even smell them at times) but I wouldn't call it psychic. Just sensitive.As for Chiron opposing Uranus...I'm clueless. I guess I am very into astrology, but the more psychological part of the matter. (OT: for all the strange posts I made last year, I am truly sorry for them. I was in a lot of emotional/relationship pain and was EXCEEDINGLY inebriated.) IP: Logged |